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Jaykindude:
Two people coming together in a relationship is very interesting has it involves your strength and weaknesses coming together. While lovers mostly enjoy their strengths and points of attraction, they neglect the differences often.

These differences must however not be neglected so as to enjoy a blissful marriage. Here are ways to work on the differences between you and your partner before marriage.

* Know your differences
The first thing to do before working on the differences between you and your partner is to identify those differences. What are those things you don’t get along with in your partner? Know them one by one.

* Identify the differences you can work on
There are some weaknesses in your partner that you can’t work on or adjust no matter how you try. For example, if the person is a stammerer, you can’t change it. However, there are some habits you can work on like way of eating or certain reactions.

* Appreciate strengths
Before you approach the differences in your partner, first take a look at his or her strengths which are those things you really appreciate about that person. Don’t identify them alone but tell the person how much you love them in that particular area.

* Discuss the differences
Take out sometime, sit with your partner and discuss the attributes, character, habits that you wish him or her could improve on. Note however that you should not condemn the person but express yourself in love. Show the person you will love them to work on those aspects.

* Help your partner to adjust
After you have discussed the differences if they are what you can adjust, help the person to do so. For example, if your partner doesn’t know how to spend rightly, always check whenever you are together if he or she is spending too much and give a signal or ask about his or her savings.

In a relationship, it is important for partners to help each other become the best. When the differences are taken care of, there will be more understanding in the relationship and marital success is achievable.

http://www.dailyfamily.ng/work-differences-marriage/

Abeg how this take affect 'garri' price for market?

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'Afonja' with their negative mind as usual

MEET THE 14-YEAR-OLD BOY WHO STARTED SYRIA WAR, WHAT IPOB AND AREWA YOUTH SHOULD LEARN FROM HIM

You must have been hearing about Syria war, the war started in 2011 is has led to the death of about a Million people, brought Syria to its knee, allows Islamic state to take over part of the Country even made Ragga a city in Syria its Defacto headquarters.

 In 2011, what became known as the Arab Spring revolts toppled Tunisian President Zine El Abidine Ben Ali and Egyptian President Hosni Mubarak.

That March, peaceful protests erupted in Syria as well, after 15 boys were detained and tortured for having written graffiti in support of the Arab Spring. One of the boys, 13-year-old Hamza al-Khateeb, was killed after having been brutally tortured

   The Syrian government, led by President Bashar al-Assad responded to the protests by killing hundreds of demonstrators and imprisoning much more.

     In July 2011, defectors from the military announced the formation of the Free Syrian Army, a rebel group aiming to overthrow the government, and Syria began to slide into civil war. 

    More than 6 years after the first bullet was shot, the boom of guns continues, Bombs are been thrown, fighter jets are busy around the Country Iran and Russia are making brisk business, selling weapons to Syria Government, death becomes cheap, peace becomes elusive.

    Dailyfamily.ng investigation about Syria war shows this devastating effect, as at the time of this report:

4.9 Million people are living in hard to reach areas far from civilization

About 1 Million dead

More 1 Million wounded

700,000 trapped in besieged areas

6,3 million internally displaced

2,4 Million Children who are refugee

306,000 Children born as refugee

200,00 Children in besieged areas

Millions of refuge across the countries of the world

The Syrian civil war is the deadliest conflict the 21st century has witnessed so far.

Thousands of Bombs dropped over Syria.

   Could you believe that this war that has destroyed many lives, scattered  Families and destroyed normal live in Syria in the last Ten years was started by a 14-Year-old boy called
Mouawiya Syasneh, it was his  anti-Assad graffiti that lit the spark that led to the war that has affected the once beautiful Nation, that was once a Tourist destination to a stand still and a theatre of testing every new weapon by super powers

    Mouawiya Syasneh was just 14 when he sprayed anti-government slogans on his school wall in Deraa, Syria. It was February 2011, and he could never have imagined that such a minor act would spark a full-blown civil war.

   Like other Syrians Mouawiya had suffered seriously because of the war, his home city has been ravaged by street fighting, shelling and barrel bombing. His family destroyed, The war has left scars that may never heal.

  He is now a young man, he has to stop schooling, he is fighting on the frontline for the Free Syrian Army, a rebel group leading the war against President Bashar al-Asad.

     Mouawiya admits that had he known what the consequences of his actions would be, he would never have taunted the country's president, or say or the hate speeches that encouraged youth to flock the street in protest, leading to riots, civil disobedience and later turned into a full-blown war that nobody seems to be winning.

   His life has been transformed by that adolescent prank. He has lost friends and relatives, including his father. And Syria has been changed forever, may be beyond repair.

   IPOB boys led by Nnamdi Kanu who are calling other Nigerians animals, Nigeria as Zoo, and Arewa youth who are issuing a threat and quit notice to Igbo can borrow a leave from this boy and the Syria war as a whole.

    Let stop all hate speeches on the street and all social media, let live together in harmony, we've been together for a long time to forget our history too soon.  Animals don't die in war, it's the Human lives that are wasted.

   One wise man said, in "peace time, Children bury their Parents, in war time, Parent bury their Children"  to me that is for somebody that has the privilege to be buried, in many wars the dead remain unburied as everybody tries to protect their lives. Progress does stop, economy and family life do grind to a halt.

     We call on the Federal Government to address the issue raised by agitators, let sit down and talk about our future and the future of our Children, we must not turn this Country to another Syria.


http://www.dailyfamily.ng/meet-14-year-old-boy-started-syria-war-ipob-arewa-youth-learn/

MALACHY247:
where is he 4rm?

He must be a Biafra.

Hmmm....relationship stuff these days tire me. Abeg who get Techno charger?

Signs to watch out for in a right relationship

Finding the right partner can be challenging. Once you start dating someone, you should ask yourself important questions to determine whether such person is right for you or not. You should think about whether your share common values and interests, how you communicate, how he/she makes you feel, and whether he/she treats you with respect. Once you determine your priorities and evaluate your relationship, set some time aside to have a conversation with him/her about your future together.

Every relationship has a cycle… In the beginning; you fall in love with your partner. You anticipate their calls, want their touch, want to around them day and nigh, gist with them and hang out together to chat some funs and like their idiosyncrasies.

Falling in love with someone wasn’t hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn’t have to go extra mile, engaged in some activities or do anything. That’s why it’s called “falling” in love.


People in love sometimes say, “I was swept of my feet.”Picture the expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU.

Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few months or years of being together, the hotness of the love faded away. It’s a natural cycle of EVERY relationship.
Many relationship only get hotter and stronger within two years which is referred as” come on the high hill” and after two years it will turn to”come off the high hill”, like diminishing return in ecommics.
Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse’s idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.
At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, “Am I with the right person?” And as you reflect on the exitment of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when relationships breakdown.

The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it’s learning to love the person you found. If you believe the characters of your partner is bad and you think your character is the best why can you influence him with your good characters in other to change him/ her.
People blame their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most common, many people cheat on their partner simply because their the relationship had come of the high hill while others turn it to work like chatting with ex on social network.But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship. It lies within it.
I’m not saying that you couldn’t fall in love with someone else. Why not, You could. And TEMPORARILY you will feel better. But you will soon be in the same situation if you did not first work on yourself before bringing any person to your world.

The key to succeeding in a Relationship is not finding the right person; it’s learning to love the Person you found. Sustaining love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort, and energy. and most importantly, it demands wisdom because wisdom is profitable to direct . You know what to do to keep the vehicle of the relationship moving at a jet speed.

Love is not a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner), Just as there are physical laws Of the universe such as lae of gravity, there are also laws for relationships. If you know how to apply these laws, the results are predictable.
Love is a “decision”. Not just a feeling.

Remember this always, Decision Determine Destiny. The decision you take toward your marital life will determine the destination of the such matrimonial home: God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go.

http://www.dailyfamily.ng/signs-to-watch-out-for-in-a-right-relationship/

He attended St. Gregory’s College, Lagos before moving overseas for the continuation of his studies. He studied Computer Science, Multimedia in Saint Paul, Metropolitan State University.

Ade is a young entrepreneur, a technologist, and a designer. He has lectured all over the world on digital new media, technology, and business at various institutions and conferences.

Adeolu is an award winner who has won himself several awards like the IBM Gerstner Award for client excellence following a computer worm in 2003.

He did his traditional wedding ceremony with his fiancée Oyinda Adenuga on Thursday, 6th July 2o17 and they are set to wed on Saturday 8th July 2017 at Banana Island Lagos.



http://www.dailyfamily.ng/meet-adeolu-abayomi-olufeko-husband-oyinda-adenugas-daughter/

Abeg make I go eat my Ghana jollof rice before it disappears and someone will come here and link it with EVANS


Anyway, I dey gbadun these guys from www.dailyfamily.ng

The Redeemed Christian Church of God is organizing a befitting burial for Pastor Olu Obanure who was until his death on 2nd May 2017 ,the Deputy General Overseer of RCCG and he was also Pastor-in-charge of RCCG, (West Coast). Farewell To RCCG Pastor Adeboye’s Assistant -Olu Obanure

“Pastor Olu Obanure was appointed the assistant general overseer in charge of Establishment during the 64th Annual Convention of the Mission in August 2016.

“He had served the Mission in such various capacities as the special assistant to the general overseer (Admin/Personnel) pastor-in-charge of West Coast with base in Accra Ghana and as the provincial pastor, Northern Province 5 with headquarters in Abuja.

“The Kogi-state born man of God had a Master’s Degree in Communications and Language Arts from the University of Ibadan. He is survived by his wife and children.” Farewell To RCCG Pastor Adeboye’s Assistant -Olu Obanure

The Redeemed Christian Church Of God has lined up the following burial rites for the departed God’s general:

Thursday 29th June 2017-Wake-keep

Venue: Youth Center , Redemption Camp

Time: 4-6pm

Friday 30th –Funeral Service

Venue:RCCG,National Hqtrs,Ebute Metta-Lagos

Time:10am

Friday 30th -Interment

Vault & Gardens, Ikoyi

http://www.dailyfamily.ng/farewell-rccg-pastor-adeboyes-assistant-olu-obanure/

The billionaire kidnapper, Chukwudemeje George Onwuamadike alias Evans, who is currently in detention of operatives of the Inspector General of Police’s Intelligence Response Team (IRT), says he regrets all his actions.

He said all his precautions failed because his time was up. He added, “I lived a simple life although I had money.

My neighbors thought that I was a businessman. On the day I was arrested, I had this strange feeling.

So I decided to stay indoors. I regret all my actions. As you can see I am reading my Bible, particularly the book of Lamentation. I don’t know what faith holds in stock for me with Lagos State’s laws on kidnapping.”

http://www.dailyfamily.ng/i-regret-all-my-actions-as-you-can-see-i-am-reading-my-bible-evans/

Abeg make I go drink CARROT juice first.....

“My fear is for her not to be raped.” – father of Kidnapped victim says

A 19-year-old daughter of All Progressives Congress, APC, candidate for councillorship of Odi Olowo Local council development area, Mr Bode Adeosun has been kidnapped. The victim who is simply identified as Bukola was Kidnapped on Tuesday night, just som four days to her 20th birthday.

According to Vanguard’s report, it was gathered that the victim went on her errand for her mother with her younger sister, Biodun. While her younger sister went to collect the item from a trader, Bukola waited outside. But anxiety set in after the younger sister came out of the apartment, only to discover that Biodun is nowhere to be found. Vanguard reported that while Bukola was waiting for her younger sister, a Black Toyota pulled up to her and ordered her to enter the car, pointing a gun at her. They later sped off.

Confirming the kidnap of his daughter, the politician stated that he was informed about news of Bukola’s kidnap by his wife. He said: “While expecting her return, I received a call at about 1.39a.m. The caller told me that my daughter was in their custody. He said I would hear from them again and hung up before I could say anything. “That was when I knew that my daughter had been kidnapped. Since then the APC candidate said he have not I have not heard from them. I do not know what my daughter is going through where she is. My fear is for her not to be raped.”

The Lagos State Police Public Relations Officer, Mr Olarinde Famous-Cole, when contacted said that the victim was reported to have been missing to the Police. He further said investigations is ongoing.

http://www.dailyfamily.ng/fear-not-raped-father-kidnapped-victim-says/

Hmmm........Abeg who get Nokia 3310 charger? Make I take charge my phone to visit the site

There are different types of couples in marriage and this can be best described based on their level of intimacy in marriage.

Below are four types of couples in marriage, have a careful study on these and identify where you belong and make amendment where necessary.

1. Fight Mates. These are couples that see themselves as enemies. They have fought so much to the extent that they are now separated from each other but not legally divorced. Anytime they come together for any reason, they continue their strife and bickering.

2. Cell Mates. These couples live together as if they are sharing the same cell. There is no joy, love or friendship. They are full of bitterness for each other, fond of reporting each other to every Tom, Dick and Harry. They keep malice, fight bitterly, full of hatred, vengeance, offences, attack and counter attack, solo life, domestic strike actions, etc.

3. House Mates. Couples in plastic marriages end up as house mates. No friendship, affection, attention, oneness and togetherness. Though they are not enemies, they find it difficult to spend time together. They hardly communicate or talk deeply. They can’t play together or crack jokes. They just exist together as traditional husband and wife, performing their “duties”. They are in a marriage relationship but not in matrimonial fellowship.

4. Soul Mates. These are couples in intimate marriage. They love each other, forgive, interact and relate positively. They are friends and lovers. They accept and celebrate each other, leading to a peaceful and joyful marriage.

To build an uncommon intimacy, you must not be fight mates, cell mates or house mates only soul mates can experience a joyful marriage that will and glorify God.


http://www.dailyfamily.ng/4-types-couples-marriage-hope-not-no-2/

Adenike Akindude

There are different ways to make a relationship work.No relationship works on its own.Parties involved must come together and make concerted efforts and sacrifice towards the success of the relationship.In trying to make a union work,both sides must contribute,it is not a one man show.To help your relationship work,here are 13 ways you should consider thoroughly:



1. Accept conflict as normal.
Disagreements happen. Except in cases beyond repair, so don’t throw away a relationship because you’ve hit a rough patch. Trust and commitment deepen as you travel through storms together.

2.Break Communication boundaries.
Many relationships die from silence than violence. For your relationship to stand the test of time you both must communicate more with each other no matter the distance between you two.

3. Never pay evil for evil.
Whenever your relationship is suffering from a bad behavior from the other person, why not find out what the cause is instead of doing wrong all in the name of repaying bad deeds. Two wrongs don’t make a right.

4. Learn to say ‘thank you’
in a relationship, it is very important for both parties to learn how to be appreciative when either of them does something good.

5. Use the word “we”
When communicating in a relationship, the pronoun “we” must be used when discussing. This brings the connection between the two together

6. Say “I love you” with your actions.
Perform little acts of kindness for your partner that let them know you love them. Don’t just say you love with your mouth but let your action speak more about how you really feel.

7. Always remember birthdays
Nothing hurts more like forgetting the birthday of the one you say you love. Always keep a record of this special day as this will help you celebrate your partner well on his day.

8. Keep the playfulness alive.
We all love to play, regardless of our age. Do the following: have fun together; do something ridiculous together, and just let go. In addition, the next time that your partner says something that bothers you, try responding with a joke instead of getting defensive.

9. Give gifts
Love is giving. When in a relationship, learn how to give gifts to your partner no matter how small. This reminds the person how much you love and cherish them. This should not be done by guys alone but both lovers.

10. Pay surprise visits
Paying your partner a surprise visit goes far in strengthening your relationship. You can try to say hello once in a while at work.

11. Laugh together
It seems funny or simple but it strengthens the bond of partners if they find something funny and laugh about it. Situations that seems tough receives ease when we laugh over them.

12. Celebrate each other’s, Parents
W hen the need arises, remember to celebrate the parents of your partner on their birthdays or any other anniversary. It goes a long way to show how you regard and respect them.

13. Avoid embarrassing your partner in public
Try as much as possible not to embarrass your partner in public, not even in the presence of his or her family. Wait till both of you are alone to discuss whatever issues you have.

http://www.dailyfamily.ng/13-ways-make-relationship-work/

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HOUSE BOYS HELP REMOVE EFCC OPERATIVES FROM SEPTIC TANK IN BADEH’S FARM


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There was drama at the farm of former Chief Of Defence Staff (CDS). When the EFFC went to search the place, Operatives of the anti-corruption agency were alleged to have stuck in the septic tank and were brought out by Badeh’s house boys HOUSE BOYS HELP REMOVE EFCC OPERATIVES FROM SEPTIC TANK IN BADEH’S FARM

During the raid on the farm in Kugwuru village, Karu, Nasarawa state. It was understood that EFCC operatives, after a tip-off, went into the former CDS’ room, upturned everything including the ceiling of the farmhouse and headed for an underground septic tank in search of money they claimed he had kept there.

It was during that process that operatives got stuck in the septic tank but were rescued by the former CDS’ domestic staff.



http://www.dailyfamily.ng/house-boys-help-remove-efcc-operatives-septic-tank-badehs-farm/

9 Things You Must Know Before You Marry Ijesha Lady

-By Bisi Oludare(Yeye Lujesha 1)



If you are planning to get married and you have been searching your whole life without success, then search no more as you have the best lover in Ijesha girl. If there is any tribe you must strive to marry from as a guy, then a lady from the Ijesha speaking part of Nigeria will suit you well. They have loads of wonderful attributes that make them pass for an unbeatable wife material, an excellent mother and a great daughter-in-law.

You can read below some of those great attributes they possess.

#1 They Are Respectful
If you are looking for a lady that will honour and reverence you, then Ijesha lady is your sure bet. Because of the way they were brought up, they naturally show respect to people and they don’t take their husbands and husband’s family members for granted. You can be sure to have your food served with respect, just as the King that you are.

#2 They Are Hard With Money
You cannot owe them; money is one thing Ijesha lady will not joke with. Though, your money as the husband maybe for the whole family as ‘our’ money, but her money is ‘my’ money. You cannot owe her, so, if you want your relationship to flow well and you want to continue enjoying peace, whenever you borrow money from her, pay back as at when due.

#3 Pounded Yam Becomes Your Favourite Food
You will eat pounded yam as often as you want to, it is a common belief that pounded yam is the food for the noble and people with class. She gets to serve you pounded yam not poundo yam or machine-made pounded yam but the real yam pounded with a mortar and pestle. Pounded yam is a food she grew up with, ate it morning, afternoon and night, and so pounding for you whenever you want it will not be a problem.

#4 They Are Not Extravagant
Marrying Ijesha lady will make you achieve much in a short period of time what took your mates years to get. She is naturally prudent and can help you manage your little resources to achieve great things.

#5 They Don’t Joke With Their Family
Just as she respects you and your family members, she expects you to reciprocate that act of kindness. She doesn’t joke with her family and as much as you respect them, she values you.

#6 They Hate Polygamy
If you want to enjoy Ijesha lady to the fullest, don’t play with marrying another wife. Don’t even dare to joke about it. They hate sharing their husband with another woman



#7 They Hate Divorce
Ijesha ladies are faithful and dependable wives so they don’t want to hear about divorce at all. One of the reasons you see them carry out their responsibilities well

#8 They Are Stubborn
Ijesha ladies are stubborn and you cannot win them in an argument. They will not allow you to finish before giving it to you. It will not be wrong to say there is no tribe that is as stubborn as Ijesha ladies.

#9 They Are Hardworking
Looking for a lady that will fully support you and won’t allow you to cater for the family alone, then Ijesha lady will pass for this. They are very hardworking and hate idleness.

http://www.dailyfamily.ng/9-things-must-know-marry-ijesha-lady/

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The major part of the roof of the gymnasium hall belonging to National Institute For Sports at the National Stadium Surulere-Lagos has been blown off by a heavy wind during rainfall recently.





The gymnasium hall which used to be a beehive of sporting activities is now a shadow of itself.

According to an eyewitness, the rooftop has been like that for about two months since the roof was blown off and it has been leaking for the past five years without any effort from the management to repair the affected portion until the wind penetrated through those points to cause a serious damage to a larger portion of the roof.

All sporting activities like basketball, table tennis and volleyball that took place in the gymnasium hall were greatly affected as the youths and the students of National institute for sports that used the place for practical training were loitering about the compound at a time they should be training.Many of them complained bitterly about the negligence of such an important facility.

An eye witness who prefers to be anonymous lamented bitterly that it is the sporting activities in that place that keeps the youths busy and now that the gymnasium hall is in a dilapidated condition, many of them engaged in smoking and drinking alcohol.

A stitch in time saves nine, so goes the popular adage. Due to negligence on the part of the government and the management of the stadium facilities for the past two months, the open roof is now affecting the floor of the hall which was made of wood.Whenever rainfall, the wood will be soaked with water which has destroyed its smooth edges which were designed for indoor sporting activities.

Also read this: Boy repeatedly raped to death by a tea seller
The repair to be carried out now is not only the roof, the floor also requires work.

With this trend in the management of our stadium facilities, how will Nigerian Athletes bring honour to this nation at the Olympics or has gold medal become a forbidden fruit to us as a nation?

Who would be the whistleblower to blow this into FG ears?

Below are some of the pictures taken by our reporter:

http://www.dailyfamily.ng/thunderstorm-blown-off-roof-national-stadium/

Please I want to buy a phone, which one would you advise me to buy out of Itel s31 and Itel 1556 plus and why?

If you discover that your wife/husband to be has been cheating on you just two weeks to your wedding what would you do?

People’s opinion: As a guy can you marry someone older than you with 5 years or as a lady can you marry someone younger by the same margin?

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5 COMMON MISUNDERSTANDINGS THAT WILL RUIN ANY MARRIAGE

we need to examine common misunderstandings that will ruin any relationship, marriage most especially.
1) MODE OF WORSHIP: If couples do not agree on the area of religion it can easily destroy their marriage. Even when they are in the same religion, they still need to agree on the mode of worship without which they may face a turbulent life together

2) FINANCIAL MISUNDERSTANDING
Money is another major area where couples must agree. Money tend to be emotional in nature, it’s part of our daily life, so we can’t pretend about it. It can lead to serious trouble in family life.
Couples must learn about the four M’s of money and agree on them if they want to avoid constant misunderstanding.These four M’s of Money are:
— Making of money :They should discuss on how to make more money, who should work and for how long, They Should also discuss if the wife should work or be a stay at home mother and what kind of work is permitted in the home etc
— Managing of money: They should also talk about how to manage money. This involves: budgeting,savings,giving and spending.
— Mastering of Money: It involves been financially intelligent, getting to know how to manage money better, visions,developments,goals and projects.
— Maximizing of money: This involves making your money work for you,investing money,growing money,starting a business etc. couples should discus about these and get to control their money.

3) PARENTING STYLE: Parenting styles can also be a major issue in a relationship, it involves matters of Child discipline,Child rearing,Child training,indulgence etc http://www.dailyfamily.ng/5-common-misunderstandings-will-ruin-marriage/