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Jobs/VacanciesRe: Npower Ng: Announcement by Selfhood: 11:03am On Dec 02, 2016
NPower has taken over.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: What Does Competitive Salary Mean? by Selfhood: 11:02am On Dec 02, 2016
Already answered...
PropertiesRe: Thread Removed by Selfhood: 10:22am On Dec 02, 2016
Great read. Should we be scared?...
It's well o.
PoliticsRe: Lagos State Becomes The 5th Largest Economy In Africa by Selfhood:
Lagos would soon become inhabitable for average folks.
#Increase in tax to meet up with infrastructure.
# Sprawling high end buildings.
# Ostentatious life of the rich folks thereby making things more expensive.
# Increase in property rent.
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Is Going For NYSC, Should I Trust Her(photo) by Selfhood: 7:36am On Nov 25, 2016
ButterFrost212:
now this is what I want to hear, there are still some that won't cheat, they'd keep themselves and all. And the op's girlfriend could be one of them, so why not show him the bright side, instead of generalizing and saying every single girl would eventually cheat?
Cute.
Trust your night was fine.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Longly Waited For Ipnx Limited Interview Invite by Selfhood: 3:39am On Nov 25, 2016
Congrats... Hope for the best.
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Is Going For NYSC, Should I Trust Her(photo) by Selfhood:
The most painful thing is that majority of these girls won't even use condom.
Painful and confusing stuff for me.
But man must protect himself.

In my whole life I have slept with around 30 girls... Seemingly good girls and like only three of them insisted on protection. Most of them dont even ask... Once that mood sets in and their brain is not thinking anymore... The pussyyy throbbing then anything goes.

Spread and enter. Who can attest to this.

NYSC... Chai. I fear it. So many engaged and girls in serious relationship during my days. The one that their bf came to check on them nko while the girls neighbour is the one topping the thing... Even topping it at the back yard while the bf that came was in the room.

I was with one... She had a fiancee... I had come before she started saying oh no I did not want to do this.
I'm like you knew when it started na.

At the end of the day, not all girls are like this. In my same set, there were a lot of girls that kept themselves... Chastity... Kudos to those girls.

Girls, it is doable. All the best and guys... Don't put your mind there. Like someone said, keep an open mind.
NYSCRe: Call Up Letter Out. Where Are You Posted? by Selfhood: 7:36am On Nov 21, 2016
Congratulations guys.
Service is fun.
Make the most if it.
Did mine 2010 in Jigawa and still miss it.
All the best.
RomanceRe: Romancelanders hate this guy so muxh by Selfhood: 11:49pm On Nov 20, 2016
Airforce1 is not bad at..
Have no hated on him.
RomanceRe: What Is Bad About Your Female Friend Calling U Dear by Selfhood: 11:41pm On Nov 20, 2016
I personally don't like the "dear" word.
Christianity EtcRe: Indeed! This Is The Last Time. The Breakdown Of Luke 21:25-27 by Selfhood: 11:00am On Nov 20, 2016
Has this thread now turn to Obama and Trump thread.
RomanceRe: She Said I Blew Her Brains When I Did This by Selfhood: 11:49am On Nov 19, 2016
StupidYorubaFool:
oboy you don experience am first hand...
that's exactly what she did...
she pressed my head with both hands and forced in like she wanted burying me in an I almost suffocated..

but my question is, do they achieve orgassm just by this single act alone without penetration??
help still a novice and I'll be getting married soon
But sometimes your moniker makes me want to stay away from you.
What does it imply?. I bet you have a reason for giving yourself such a name.
RomanceRe: She Said I Blew Her Brains When I Did This by Selfhood: 10:19am On Nov 19, 2016
What I find very amusing is the way they would hold your head with both hands and press it so hard in between their laps you may want to suffocate.

Like please, is there a hole my head can enter down there.
RomanceRe: Swallowing Or Spitting? by Selfhood:
I have never cum through BJ's. Never.
Even the best of head givers have tried it but no.
Painful stuff.
I can go on and on hitting it hard and fast and twisting my hips to make sure the hole is thoroughly excited and her pusssys happy.

Only thing that makes me come easily is "Yes" ... "Faster" ... "Thank you" ... " Come inside moans" and the eyes twisting, throat seizing sounds.
RomanceRe: Curiosity Got Me by Selfhood: 4:17am On Nov 19, 2016
Op no mind them.
You have only asked a civil question.
Ignore the militant answers.

Your answer: Nairaland is not Facebook. It's a forum where people share there opinions on matters. However, because people have tendencies to be silly and they know it's not right to be silly they tend to hide their identities.

Thats not a one answer fits all response but I hope it makes sense a little.
RomanceRe: Date Gone Sour by Selfhood: 4:12am On Nov 19, 2016
Op is just catching fun jare. Give him a break.
Don't mind the girl and the girl shouldn't mind you either.
If she has the right to change her mind before getting to your house then you have the right to withhold the suya.
RomanceRe: My Boyfriend Is Going Crazy!!!.... Please Help... by Selfhood: 2:47am On Nov 19, 2016
Jesus!
I though he was going mad because of weed.
Op, all the best with your situation.
RomanceRe: Why Do You Always Want A Guy To Beg You For Sex Before You Accept? by Selfhood: 12:35am On Nov 19, 2016
talktonase:
They dont want you to see them as cheap olosho!
Simple.
RomanceRe: What Does She Mean By These Words by Selfhood:
Lol guys calm down.
What she said is simple.
Common.
What she is trying to say is that you guys should talk.
It is only after the discussion that you can successfully know what's up.
RomanceRe: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She Is Dating? by Selfhood: 12:26am On Nov 19, 2016
Mimzyy:
Except you guys are in a 'no sex' relationship then this is hypocrisy. I mean he bleeps you whenever you guys want but you Wana ration the number of times you cook for him just 'cos he hasn't paid your bride price? Talk about double standards. Pftttt.

PS: A man knows who his heart belongs to, if you like do monkey flips on his d!ck and fry his chicken on diamond oil, if it's not you then it's not you. Ce que sera sera.
For me, in my opinion, this is the only person that has made sense on this thread. If you don't understand her point then I give up.

I dislike hypocrisy.
RomanceRe: Guys, If A Lady Says These During Sex Then You Are Good On Bed by Selfhood: 9:06am On Nov 18, 2016
Raine80:
Once in the past and I would not call it a trend.But I am open minded about such things. Well you can refuse to think about it but it's going to happen anyway. I have sent the thoughts to your heard already.
Hi, My names is Selfhood.
You sound very expressive, openminded and straightforward.
I don't usually like to miss the opportunity of knowing someone who is totally "sovereign" like me.
You based in Lagos?
RomanceRe: How Does Knacking A White Girl Feels Like by Selfhood: 9:00am On Nov 18, 2016
Jesus!!!.
I sha know that Nigerian girls are stiff, stressful, uncooperative.

The transport money they ask after a date is what baffles me more.

For the whites, they are expressive. Love an expressive lady.
CelebritiesRe: P'square Celebrates 35th birthday today by Selfhood: 8:33am On Nov 18, 2016
Congrats guys.
Bank alert.
RomanceRe: Guys, If A Lady Says These During Sex Then You Are Good On Bed by Selfhood: 9:40pm On Nov 17, 2016
LorDBolton:
Bruv I no go lie u, i've never been in a relationship. Only recently did I quit meaningless sex/fwb package sef.

I could tell u some personal tips from what I've observed but e go long.

Anyway everything on earth (living n inanimate) is subject to law of diminishing returns that's just d way it is.

Sex is such a dull subject people fail to understand its a 'personal' craving(same with love) thus cannot always be mutually desired thus @ least 5 times out of 10 the other partner is doing it out of obligation not desire.

Honestly SEX barely cracks the top 5 most important things to do when laying the foundation for a healthy, long lasting loving relationship (imo)

I'll quote u 2mao to break down my opinion on "the so termed ingredients "for a successful relationship
I will def be waiting for the quote. Brilliant stuff. Likey.
FamilyRe: John Edobor, Man Accused Of Breaking Wife's Legs Tells His Side Of The Story by Selfhood: 8:54pm On Nov 17, 2016
andyanders:
Very good evidence herein. Zenit should recall this man because no man can take this. If investigators can be sent to those offices she has worked to determine the kind of a lady that Ivie is, then they can be able to establish her pilfering character as stated by her husband that led to her been dismissed from those offices she worked for.

Also, her husband equally stated names of people she owed money that has been calling for her should be interviewed to determine what actually transpired between her and those customers of hers.
They dont need to go to this extent. Wdyt?.
If they are fast to dismiss based on the fact that they cannot stand domestic violence.
Then they should be able to take him back to show their stand for and towards integrity.
RomanceRe: Is Your Significant Other Entitled To Your Social Media Passwords by Selfhood:
Hmmmm...
It depends on so many factors.
But so many factors so to speak makes things more complicated.
So for me, since you asked for personal opinions, because of the kind of person I am, I may not be able to release my passwords to my gf or wife.

Im marriage for example, you guys might love each other but wifey might just be a very jealous type when you chat with your siblings, family, etc.
Sometimes because of the nature of judgement of some women, business conversation should not actually be exposed to them...
Sometimes, earnings text messages should also be private. Depends on a lot of things sha.

I may not be completely right.
FamilyRe: John Edobor, Man Accused Of Breaking Wife's Legs Tells His Side Of The Story by Selfhood:
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RomanceRe: Guys, If A Lady Says These During Sex Then You Are Good On Bed by Selfhood: 7:48pm On Nov 17, 2016
LorDBolton:
Ingredient? Sorry I don't understand d Q bro
LordBolton, you said this: "Relationships become chores eventually ... no matter how the knacking be EVENTUALLY it'll fade"

So I am asking what the ingredient to a successful relationship is.

Thanks in advance bro.
RomanceRe: Girl Gets Caught Cheating When Clever BF Spots Unusual Object In Her Sexts (pix) by Selfhood: 7:05pm On Nov 17, 2016
Wow!!!. That was very investigative.
I think the guy has actually been suspecting the babe.
Rare to actually find a loyal partner nowadays.
Goes both ways.
Wish to see the ladies response.

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