₦airaland Forum

A40:
No be say shoo bird and its not about cheap y'all SA girls are generous with the hoo-ha even more than Naija girls

Secondly Nigerian men are in high demand anywhere anytime. Our women are high maintenance and the average woman from another nationality is easily taken in by the financial lengths we go to woo a woman we desire. Usually the Nigerian man would "pour water on the ground" before proceeding to get anything from his woman. And unlike y'all we don't chronicle our spending like you guys do. Women chop our men and run all the time its no biggie but once a man does same it becomes a problem lol. Just being honest

You are right your women are very materialistic and high maintenance compared to other women so you guys are used to spending and flashing money. But do you guys scam Nigerian women? No you don't so why must you scam other women who genuinely have the heart to help you. Yes I would say majority of the ladies that follow you men are the hungry desperate types cos the working class type don't have the time for such leeches. However there are some good innocent ones who help you when you have nothing only for you men to scam them and use them. Anyways I don't blame you guys. Most of you do what you need to do to survive and if some women are not smart enough to stay away then so be their fate

Lol @ Nigerian men are in high demand

kinglekan:

No one asked if you did or not.

If you read the comment I was responding to then you would know why I said that. The guy said am looking for a Nigerian boyfriend and I responded that I don't even date Nigerian guys. Read before making unnecessary comments

GodMode:
Its SemuhleB again

Other African countries dislike Nigerians... Its only right that Nigerians respond the same way, but Nigerians don't and its really annoying...

KINGOFJAPAN:
I knew you would mention that..
Take what I say about your country seriously at your own peril..

I'm only being defensive when my country is bashed and kinda enjoy the e-wars ...

We're all like that..

I'll be crazy to believe all southie men are lazy or y'all are tongue clickers..

Wow so you do have a heart after all

dovezeeta:
Pls my beautiful Angel substitute the word "cheap" for "low self esteem" .don't say ur fellow woman is cheap,imagine some1 addressing ur sister that way. I can take gud care of u to prove a point that it's just not our women alone we treat better .

Okay I hear. You seem different too

KINGOFJAPAN:
just because it's your opinion that doesn't make it right...
so yes, opinions can be wrong..... having said that, you could just disregard what i said as an incorrect opinion, negating what i had to say.

So what about all the nasty stuff you love saying about South Africa? Is that an opinion too?

mployer:
You came here to hook a naija boyfriend?


You are welcome sweetie.

lol I don't need to go anywhere to hook a boyfriend. I have one already besides I don't date Nigerian men

slytubadth:
We are just sharing the brotherly love.

lol so sharing brotherly love means insults and hate speech etc? Wow I wonder how it will be like if you had to share hate

ronald4lif:
I haven't noticed what you're talking about and I'm an active user here. Perhaps, they're only being defensive when their country is lampooned first?

Seriously you have not noticed? There are so many instances that they will bring out or start stuff for no reason. There is one SA guy in particular that I will admit that most times he starts stuff for no reason but apart from him it's always been us defending ourselves

dovezeeta:
don't expect such foul language to come out frm a beautiful lady like u. I'm a Nigerian man. Our men respect our women in our country...evry no gud man was made so by a no gud woman hope u understand wot I mean

it's not foul language it's the truth. Those ladies are cheap and in every country you will find such women. Just stating what I have observed. I also said I believe that you guys treat your women better. I am talking about other women here

KINGOFJAPAN:
Oh you won't die if you stop generalizing and making up stereotypes..
You don't speak for sa women..
SA women will love and date who they wanna, not only cheap or hungry one's ..
A friend mine currently dates a southie, does that mean she's cheap??
Agreed "some" Nigerian men are a.ssholes, buh "not all"
Nigerian men are like that..

True not all are bad I am just yet to meet the good ones and unfortunately opinions are based on experience

sapiosexual1:
Excuse me, what part of Africa is Zimbabwe? North? Your knowledge of geography though

what has geography have to do with this. You said they are either south african or ghanian which I replied they are from Zimbabwe. I think it's you who needs a geography lesson rather

Can someone tell me why Nigerians are obsessed with these two countries. Every day there must be something about South Africa this or Ghana that. Even reading comments on topics that have nothing to do with these countries you will find some idiots blaming south Africa or some silly comment.

It's a new year. This obsession must stop. There are 53 African countries so give us a break already.

sapiosexual1:
The two girls sef, non -commercial whores. Their names and conversation tastes like SA/Ghanaians. Very typical.

fucking slowpoke I knew you would have to bring south Africa to this. BTW those ladies are from Zimbabwe.

A40:
Loool reverse ke? S.A girls are not hard at all! At all!!!!

No disrespect but you people are some of the easiest to bed.

None Taken because you are right. The SA girls that love Nigerian men are the cheap desperate whores and the Zimbabwean girls that a lot of you mistaken for South African women.

KINGOFJAPAN:
I've always wondered why this one is always bitter about naija men... Every naija men bashing thread she always dey dey present...But I know why now ..
Aunty it's not our fault that one of our brothers saw you for what you are (a hoe), used you and then dumped your sorry ass..
Ps nobody cares if naija men turn you off,you don't matter.. Who cares about what a hoe feels?

I am not bitter about Nigerian men. I just don't like what they do. Unfortunately I have had some friends who have been involved with such men and same stories and not just only with south african women but many other women as well. Sorry if I hurt your feelings but you guys are not hotcakes like you think you are. Most times the type of ladies that go for you here in SA are the cheap and desperate ones hence why you guys like to say SA ladies are cheap because it's only those kind of cheap money hungry ladies that you attract not forgetting Zimbabwean ladies. Some of you can't tell difference and then you think they are South African ladies

MrsChima:
Depending on who raised some Nigeeian men, they do take card of their wives and children. However, many Nigerian men both domestic and foreign seems to be taking places of Black American men. They are becoming baby daddies, depending on a woman for survival, and not head leaders. It is sad and disgusting.

so true . There are few and far between. Lol @ taking the place of black american men

MrsChima:
Fact! You are so right!

gunpoint:
Mehn.....
God almighty bless you cos the truth has just set you free so. This poor Kenyan bich doesnt know the difference between Nigerian men and IPOB men ni oh!
IPOB men and women, given poor Nigerians a bad name since 1653!!!

You are a slowpoke. The only people that can tell the tribes apart in Nigeria is Nigerians. The rest of the world whether ibo,yoruba etc we all see collectively as a Nigerian. We don't differentiate and honestly I don't think people care which tribe you are from as a Nigerian. We see you the same

stagger:
Frustrated chic. I was in an international youth conference last year and you need to see how these Kenyan girls were running after our Naija guys during the cocktail.

Naija guys no dey carry last at all. And no matter what the girl in question says or thinks, Naija guys will always catch the attention of girls from other African countries. It is known that Nigerian men know how to take care of women and have swag. That has always been the attraction.

I am yet to hear this. Maybe it's just limited to Nigeria only cos in SA I hear and see the reversed. These men are the most useless people have ever come across. The ladies feed them, clothe them, ask for money from there, stay rent free at their houses. They do fokol but fk every loose thing they find like rabbits. Seriously I have never been so turned of by such men. So pathetic

OohLalah:
I have to share this with South African girls! Brilliant summary of Nigeria man.

lol we already know this. It's just some girls are too stupid and never learn!

Naughtysite:
But Davido can prove that his baby mama smokes weed.

Nah doctors report finally

I think they are both birds of the same feathers. He smokes weed and she smokes weed. Maybe she started smoking weed before she knew she was pregnant, it can have an effect. Secondly he could be lying against her. Some people become better people once they give birth so if she is a good mother I don't think her past or bad decisions should be used against her. Irrespective her child is still her child and he has no right taking her baby away. No right at all. At the rate they are going they may end up losing the child because he is also too irresponsible to be taking care of a baby as well.

I feel so sorry for the baby. What kind of father puts all his dirty laundry for all to see online. Even if he hates the baby's mother. She is still the baby's mother and for the sake of the baby you would think he would have at least had some respect for that.

I also blame the girl. Some money hungry hoes think Celebrities and money are the be all and end all now see the consequences.

The fact that he acts like 21 is some innocent 10 year old with no brains. If he was old and mature enough to have sex. He should have been old and mature enough to use protection or face the consequences.

90love, I am sorry to be the bearer or bad news or be negative but from what you have said it's quite obvious your husband does not love you.

I saw from your profile that you are not Nigerian. Did your husband have his papers before marrying you? I dunno why but I get the feeling that he may have just married you for papers and now has no more use for you. I think leaving him would even be more beneficial to him as he can now do what he wants to do.

A man who loves his wife will not behave like this. Please try and concentrate on your health and your baby.

This should be a lesson to you and all ladies. When a man shows you himself the first time, believe him. You can't change a man, he can only change when he wants to change. In marriage you need to consider a lot of things not just the I am in love aspect. Anyways good luck with everything

all4naija:
You are correct on that, hun.Most of them look starved though.

Ethiopians and Eritreans are prettier than Somalis. You foreheads are on another level though but have seen some pretty ladies though.

Eritrea

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