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Nice one to him

You guys will kill someone one day with grammar

1Sharon:
Before you suspended the relationship did you ask her if it was true

But I told you that she later confessed everything without knowing that I was aware of her predicament.
She was like trying to explain to me not to feel bad that she married the second man. That I don't deserve her.

Maybe I will share our chats with you. She said her parents are aware.
It was a long story.

What actually is Chelsea's problem

1Sharon:
Lol.

Everything made me to suspend relationship and Japa. Hopefully my visa will be out in 2 months time.
I don't have strength for Nigerian girls

1Sharon:
Now you're saying changing mouth and saying she confessed, what are the facts that her sister told you to confirm the absent womb story?

This thing happened in 2020, I don't have strength to go into details. I would have asked you to chat me up on Whatsapp for you to see for yourself. I would have shown you any information you want

It's 1:1 already

1Sharon:
And you really believed her sister? Didn't it occur to you that she may have been jealous of her own sister's relationship with you and just wanted to embarrassed her

You guys are too damn gullible and love to circulate stupid unfounded stories.

The summary is that she was right because the sister later confessed to me after her marriage failed in 6 months and asked for forgiveness without knowing that I was aware

1Sharon:
Why would she tell you that?

I have been very nice to her and she can watch me enter one chance.
That's has been my secret. Be nice to people .
She told me many things and adviced me to back out

Dshocker:
Why would her sister go to such extent to stab her sister?

Has problem is spiritual and has a solution.

When someone is nice to you for a very long time, I don't think you will watch the person fall into bad thing when you can prevent it

Dshocker:
How did you find out she has no womb?

Her younger sister told me in confidence and even backed it up with facts. The annoying thing is that her father is a Bishop in one these big churches and she is very active with church activities. She was used by some yahoo boys. You will never suspect her of runs.
I quietly withdrew and left the mumu man to his fate to marry a walking corpse.

1Sharon:
A whole womb missing. How did you discover this.

Her younger sister told me in secret and even backed it up with facts

Nawa oo

I really love yaradua. Some people started naming their kids after him when he started ruling

whippersnapper:
Why do i feel EFCC is the most corrupt agency in Nigeria. You can always have your way around once you just grease their palm

You are not far from the truth

It's just a case of being in the wrong place at the wrong time

Hope Chelsea will not kill his career

Kooldon:
Truth. I can't agree less cos the rate of fibroid surgeries among unmarried young woman around us is alarming compared to decades ago.

I am even scared of marriage, I might end up paying someone to allow me pregnant her while she goes her way

To me it depends on the girl's lifestyle. Someone I wanted to marry was just 24 and has no womb. When I discovered, I quietly backed out. At that time a man was dragging her with me and went ahead to marry her. My friends were surprised that I didn't resist. I told everyone that the marriage won't last. In less than 6 months the man divorced her after discovering

Very bad for but still believing God

Turbulence is a normal thing, it's left for the pilot to avoid it or fly through it

phemmyflexxy:
If only the opportunity avails itself.....
Can a bed ridden impotent man cheat

I can't cheat no matter what because of my decision

It depends on what makes him go broke. If he was going after women and it affected his finance, I will even advice the wife to sell anything sellable and leave

Anyone that cheats wants to cheat, there is no reason for cheating

MasterJayJay:
THE TRUTH ABOUT TITHE.

Introduction: If your pastors say giving the needy, widows, orphans 10% of your income is not tithe, that you must pay it to him, then you are attending a business centre, not a church.

Malachi is the favourite book most pastors use to preach tithe. And it is very obvious, they use it because it contains a curse for those who don't pay it. Therefore, it is the 'best' verse used to brainwash Christians.

If you want to preach tithing, preach all verses related to it. Most of these men of God know the other verses but the only one they preach to their audience is Malachi. The sheep they are leading are even lazy to read their own bibles to see the truth for themselves. Note that quarter of truth is no truth, truth must be whole. Don’t add, don't remove.

Tithing is an Old Testament concept, just like circumcision and animal sacrifice. Things Christians were meant to abide to have validations from New testament after death and resurrection of Jesus Christ. There is nowhere tithe was clearly instructed in the New Testament after the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ.

The New Testament focuses on giving without compulsion. 2 Corinthians 9:7 captured it very well “Each one must give as he has decided in his heart, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver".

If you believe in tithing, then you should see other verses of the bible to know how it was applied thousands of years ago. Tithes were not for gentiles, it was for the Jews. Tithes were for the Levites, descendants of Levi. How many of your Pastors that preach Malachi to you are descendants of Levi?

There is a particular portion of the bible most pastors will never preach to you, and that can be found in Deut 14.22-29. Tithe was instructed to be given to the strangers, orphans, widows etc. How many pastors can boldly tell their members to give their tithes to widows and those in need? In same old testament, they were instructed to eat their tithes. How many pastors can tell you to eat your own tithe?

Conclusion, if you want to pay tithe, that's your choice. But don't use outdated and obsolete verses like the one found in Malachi to threaten people. Are some verses outdated? Animal sacrifices were allowed in the Old Testament. After Jesus Christ paid for our sins, it made animal sacrifices to be outdated, and that includes tithes too.

Giving is good, but should never be under compulsion in the name of tithe.

Nice one

turmacs:
What an excuse to be a failure.
I spit on your bald head..

turmacs

People have taste. I can't use my money to build anyhow house all in the name of being called house owner

I don't think op lives in Nigeria. Building a house is a capital project and should not be expected from a young guy