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Just tell us she quited over mental health issue

luminouz:
I see stories like yours and wonder why men have become so weak. I only allow a woman to disrespect me once. I always let them know there will be consequences. They know and what I can do if they fûck up. That fear factor translates to a man who knows his worth and won't tolerate nonsense and women love that shiit.

Your wife packed out and you took her back in was your first mistake. Everything went downhill from there.

The only think black men have are egos...smelly egos bigger than their future..Na this kind type go marry oyinbo, Caucasian and the likes dey do yes sir yes sir for white woman..
Respect kill you there

luminouz:
Your sister is a side chick to a married woman and you are happy?

Werey ni e sha

Did they curse your sister not to be productive or is she dead, blind or dumb not to stand alone and make money for herself?

You are not a man..you are shameless...

Oloriburuku, and who told you that she's not making money for herself, them tell u say the job wey person get for this present economy dey enough to survive, not to talk of feeding 3 extra mouths..
Onyioshi onyiberibe, so u think say because you don rush to condemn my sis now, I go rush to go fight am say make she leave the man, werey , I tell you say she no fit leave the man, she no fit leave her helper, if you want die make you die quick now [right][/right] .
Oloshi

luminouz:
Jesus!!!

😂😂😂😂👋..see reasoning Tori olorun. This one just sold out his sister for advanced prostitution and is proud of it!!!

You, the married man are the reason why simps disgust me.

Everyone cannot appeal to you.
Live with that reality werey

emmaodet:
Hmmmmmmm....
You sister gladly divorced her struggling hubby to happily become a side chick to another married man.
Hmmmmm.... Now the hubby is lazy because things changed for him.
I get am before no be property ..... Means he was doing well before things changed.
May God help men out there

Yes..You want make she leave her helper?
She no follow the man wife drag position..
Her husband na her helper and she no fit leave am.
Na only once in 6 months then dey see but him dey take care of her and the useless guy's children wella..
If you were in such vulnerable state you will do same.
I can't write all about their lives here, but I'm happy she ditched his silly, lazy, waiting for a miracle , always chanting God will do it smelly ass....

1stDoggystyle:
Life is a mirror but that mirror is centered on perspectives. Men hardly want to talk about the wives that left.

She stayed when there was money to spend and "flashy to live". Then when I got out of job and was struggling, I kept coming home and saw her always thinking with her fist under her chin.

She'd start unnecessary fights and arguments: all those gimmicks. But I had so much worries that bothers me so I just take a long walk or sit outside.

One evening, I came back and saw my house empty. My set of chairs gone, my TV gone. Haa my generator too! Naa that one pain me pass cuz I have had it before I even met her.

One of my neighbours, called me to ask if we were moving out. I told him iam just getting home and surprised my house is empty.
Well, she left the camp gas and one student bed which I had bought since 2013.

My neighbour, an old man told me She and her mum and one young lady came to pack the things. While I was out trying to get things working, she was there packing my property to her newly rented home. She left with my child. I wonder what she and her mother's plans were.

These are parts we men don't get to talk about despite the pain and deep seated psychological rejection it brings. I reported her to my fam and they asked me not to call her. One day, she called me and I didn't want to pick but I felt like some magnetic wave pulled me to pick the call. It was my son that spoke "daddy hello, we don't have food and my school fees is not yet paid". I told him what his mother had done and all I have been doing. That day I sent some money to them.

Later on, one of my friends told me they saw where she lives. What do I want to go and do there?
Initially I was very angry that she left with my property and all that; I was hell bent on locating her but as time went on, I just kept laughing... Why do women do all these things?

So why are you getting emotional about this?
Life is transactional.
The earlier you understood this , the better for you.
Don't take this to heart.
Just keep doing your best to support your son .
Everything will fall in place..
Btw, I supported my elder sister to leave her lazy, struggling, I don't care attitude hubby,cos no be understanding, pity and miracle she go chop..
She's gladly a side chick to a married man and she's very happy with him than being with the useless man she used to be with ..
Before you come for me, just know say, I get am before no be property....
If you like call me and my sister ashawo, that one no be insult eh, find better insult give me then I'll reply you

BlindAngel:
My wife has been the one holding me back, she's not ready to let go. I told her that she should at least get some dignity, someone doesn't want you but you're forcing yourself on him. That most women in her shoes would have walkes away without blinking an eye, due to the constant humiliation and disrespect, but still she isn't in anyway ready to let go.

She told me that she's ready for me to return the bride price but we'd still be together, which I plainly rejected.

Yen yen yen, bla bla bla , ..
She's the one holding you down my foot...
If you're ready to leave her, you'll have done that without batting an eyelid.
Animals like you only love dehumanising other humans like yourself.
Just tell us you enjoy the supplies you're getting from her, bloody narcissist.

madridguy:
Habibatu Mogaji.

I don't think so

I think it should be for show and prestige, however below is what Meta told me ..

Love her ..
She comes frequently to Tiktok.
I do love her kind and jovial spirit..

DaddyCoool:
Not bad actually. Hedged your bet.
I'm now confused wether to put you among the winners or losers!😅

Kamala Harris will win, but I want TRUMP TO WIN...

When you embrace embrace nihilism, you'll know life means nothing ..
We all are creating something meaningful from the meaningless nature of life, still we all still experience void and emptiness in us..
Rest well sir sha.

How does one stay afloat with so much weight on them?
Omo na to throw in the towel and stay under water o, but I hope you don't drown.
Wishing you a speedy recovery process dear.
Btw, When you are self aware and practice Nihilism , you go know say nothing dey life and just take every day as it comes...

Natbrowny:
That child got a bad start on earth. Extremely SAD

So sad, would have been better if he /she were not born...

May God have mercy upon us..

helinues:
Olofo lo n binu ologo

But sometimes, Ologo na ma nbinu olofo.....

Cos kilode ti an rin Nile, tinu bi elesin

HitSong:
THEY WERE TERRORISTS

AFTER KILLING INNOCENT CHILDREN AND WOMEN IN GAZA AND ESCAPED, THEY TAUGHT THEY COULD DO THE SAME IN RUSSIA.

May their souls rest in hell.

Lol

Afonja44:
Always seeking trouble, drama, fights is a sign of depression. Depressed people use these things to distract their minds from the problems weighing them down.

Upon profound reflection, life appears devoid of inherent meaning.
It seems we're all acting out predetermined roles, searching for purpose in an inherently purposeless existence.
Even depression becomes an unavoidable narrative that some must endure

Car lots sounds like Harlort

Chai , see disgrace.

zoedew:
Ongoing war in Ukraine. Some say all is fair in war. Grim!

Ohhhhh...Didn't know Some U.S soldiers are in Ukraine to support the Ukrainians..
May their souls rest in peace.

For what reason were they killed?

Na wa ooo.
Oya add me 0 70 66 80 06 06

An eye for the whole body, pick your struggles with sense.

Passionnn:
Except your business is a side hustle, it's best you run it yourself. In these Y! Boys era, every one is a potential maga for the boys.
You are even lucky this one was collecting it but by bit.
One man lost about 1.6 million naira to his pos operator. The owner, a building contractor was transfered 1 million naira by his client to purchase building materials. When he got to his kiosk later that evening the boy was not there. The boy left the POS machine on the desk. While going thru, he discovered that all the money was gone! Zero account balance. 1.6 million. All gone. All attempt to trace the criminal has been futile.
This happened about 3 months ago.
I guess the best option for you is to fire the petty thief. Get a girl to work for you. Anyone you wish to employ must present a guarantor.

They should keep being on his trail, he will surely be found....
Sooner or later 1.6 million naira go finish and he go show face back to the area .
Is it not 100,000 in 16 places again......?

Ogbenutan.

SAMBARRY:
You see those gen zs with mental health issues, narcissism, anger issues, entitlement issues and are very lousy, you better keep them as far away from you as possible before they destroy you.

A word is enough for the wise

What if you were born during the gen Z's era, should people stay far away from you too?
Btw I'm a millennial, not a gen Z.

Hmmmm.
Ogbenutan.

I agree