Romance › Re: Which Matter Dem Dey Settle For Una Side? by SeverusSnape(m): 11:16pm On May 28, 2020 |
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Romance › Re: Do We Really Still Have Women For Marriages Or Have Civilization Taken Hem Away? by SeverusSnape(m): 9:52pm On May 27, 2020 |
PoliticallyInco: We are all to note that the behaviour of people at any point in time is based on instinct and reason.
The way they reason is influenced greatly by the society and it's fabric at any particular period in time. Now the thing is this reasoning can be right or wrong depending on how you look at it.
What influences how people reason today? It is mainly Social media and the internet. We are being bombarded. Unfortunately we have not fully come to terms with the massive effect this is going to have. Just as the industrial revolution caused global change so has the internet.
a. With a click you are bombarded by every news;
b. With a clicl you are able to swipe right or left over hundreds of girls or men;
c. With a click you can see people flashing their false life style and false enjoyment intentionally posted to bring out jealousy and envy in people; d. With a click you hear and see get rich quick information. Get happy quick scenarios. People are looking for short cuts to happiness and wealth. And they are going to be doing all manner of things to have the best or better experiences of life and living.
The humans of today will continually be influenced by these. I recall when blackberry chat (bbm) became popular. We all complained about girls going on dates and chatting instead of being mindful about who they came to meet. Many ladies and even some guys typing under the table and laughing to their phones and messages received while their host/hostess is trying to have a conversation with them. Well now it is worse. And it will get worse unless we intrntionally decide to take back control of our lives.
People will keep lacking social skills. Men will keep trying to sleep with as many women as they can through instagram, twitter, tinder, etc. Women will keep realizing the men are just in it for the fun. Women to will keep going for whatever benefit they can quickly get. They will also keep various options open just incase the men decide to move on. And when you have many options you become less tolerrant and change options easily. Women will realize that men are more concerned about curves and arse and boobs. Women will realize the more artificial they are. The more curvaceous they are, the more they can influence men and easily get what they want from men. They will loose all sense of hard and smart work. They will feel entitled. They will become so useless intellectually and can only feed through their aesthetic value (curves, boob's, face and arse). If nature took these away from them, their brains will be dead. It won't be able to come up with ideas for them to achieve anything. They will believe that having curves is automatic ticket to a free meal.
Men will then turn around to believe that women are just there for the money and all have a price so the best thing is to make money and fame by all and any means necessary. Women will in return,follow and go after these men because afterall they are in it for what they can get. And the men themselves aren't stable either. So get in and get out.
Right now men are controlling women with their wealth and women are controlling men with sex.
Men will keep displaying idiocy on these social media platforms. Sending phone numbers not solicited for. Running around women and chasing them like their lives depended on it. Sending nudes to women and being whimps. Women will realize the men out there are sex addicts who will do anything just for sex.
These are the times we live in. It will never go back to how it used to be. It is where civilization has pushed us to. Things are happening faster. Relationships are starting quicker and ending faster. You and the OP have said it all. What more can one say?, Truly, times have changed. I've said it before, I'll say it again. The institution of marriage as we know it is going extinct. |
Celebrities › Re: Osita Iheme Pictured With Eddie Murphy by SeverusSnape(m): 8:44pm On May 27, 2020 |
abumeinben: Dolemite is my name....and......
Who can finish..? ... "And fucking up motherfuckers is my game". Nice movie. I love Eddie Murphy. |
Politics › Re: NASS Cuts Short Break For Reviewed 2020 Appropriation Bill by SeverusSnape(m): 8:58pm On May 26, 2020 |
LegislaTHIEVES...  |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Millions Of Locusts Attack India, Residential Areas Turning Sky Black (Photos) by SeverusSnape(m): 5:12pm On May 26, 2020 |
jefff455: how is Hogwarts and Dumbledore They are all great. Though Hogwarts is on lockdown now, The dark Lord and the death eaters are on rampage. |
Romance › Re: MEN ONLY: What Will You Do If Your Wife Starves You Emotionally ? by SeverusSnape(m): 4:24pm On May 26, 2020 |
I'll talk with her.
Ask her sternly if she's still interested in the marriage. I'll tell her I'm not copacetic with her recent behavior and if no changes within three days to a week, Divorce straight!. No time.
The kids will be fine. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Millions Of Locusts Attack India, Residential Areas Turning Sky Black (Photos) by SeverusSnape(m): 4:02pm On May 26, 2020 |
Biblical plague. River Ganges will soon turn to blood. firstborns will soon start ...  |
Politics › Re: El-rufai Should Stop Deceiving Gullible Nigerians- Reno Omokiri by SeverusSnape(m): 3:35pm On May 26, 2020 |
hypocrite |
Celebrities › Re: “if You Have Mind Come And Break My Heart” –lady Share Picture With Her Soja Dad by SeverusSnape(m): 3:24pm On May 26, 2020 |
Rubbish |
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Celebrities › Re: Olamide's Tweet That Is Buzzing The Internet by SeverusSnape(m): 6:39pm On May 24, 2020 |
Shading Davido, He's obviously shading Davido. |
Politics › Re: Social Media War Between Ali Pantami And Abike Dabiri. by SeverusSnape(m): 6:35pm On May 24, 2020*. Modified: 6:50pm On May 24, 2020 |
Government of confused elements.
Buhari and his ministers always displaying highhandedness and lawlessness, Before you know it, Dabiri will be sacked and replaced with one Zainab or Aisha from you-know-where. After all, According to zombies, Only northerners are qualified to hold certain positions. |
TV/Movies › Re: Many American Movies Are Stupid! by SeverusSnape(m): 5:49pm On May 24, 2020 |
sacajawea: Im watching this film Aquaman and honestly speaking it is a Stupid Film. Smh it doesn't make much sense Lemme go and finish it, I'll be back... Truly, That movie is one of the worst super hero movie. |
Politics › Re: Communications Minister Sends Gunmen To Chase Abike Dabiri-erewa by SeverusSnape(m): 5:45pm On May 24, 2020 |
"Gunmen", Not police or soldiers.
Well, It doesn't matter. This administration is known for its lawlessness and totalitarianism. |
Health › Re: Bauchi Spends N4,500 On Each COVID-19 Patient's Meal Daily by SeverusSnape(m): 5:06pm On May 24, 2020 |
I want to become a COVID 19 patient too. hehehehehehehe  |
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Politics › Re: Kyari, Tijjani Yusuf, Others Still Listed As Buhari’s Aides by SeverusSnape(m): 9:28am On May 23, 2020 |
The administration of Zombies (dead people). |
Romance › Re: A Nigerian Feminists Wet Dream (PHOTOS!!!) by SeverusSnape(m): 7:36am On May 22, 2020 |
This guy just made my day. I always say this: Men, Know your worth. |
Romance › Re: My Experience That Made Me Believe In The Supernatural. by SeverusSnape(m): 7:32am On May 22, 2020 |
playapayaski: No! that would be me, lol.. Yea I don't think she's human, always heard she was demonic and a wicca before I started doing little research n read her lyrics.. Its pure abeg, I don't care, I get my peace whenever I listen to her music.. She's eccentric that's why people conjure all sort of rumors about her. She likes keeping to herself too. Indeed, her lyrics are pure. I'm happy to meet a fellow Enya fan, We have great taste for music.  |
Romance › Re: My Experience That Made Me Believe In The Supernatural. by SeverusSnape(m): 6:25am On May 22, 2020 |
playapayaski: I believe in the supernatural n spirituality but not religious.. Some things are unexplainable most times.. The feeling I get listening to Enya in the mornings is something else, sometimes I leave this world.. There's these joy and sadness unexplainable I'm the biggest fan of ENYA in Africa  There's something about that woman that i can't fathom. Some say she's not human.  |
Politics › Re: Yakassai: I Knew Buhari Can’t Fix Any Of Nigeria’s Problems by SeverusSnape(m): 4:09pm On May 19, 2020 |
Slynation: And where are the lies here...?? With this statement, some factions of nairalanders (I mean the ones living in denial) will automatically tag Yakassai an IPOB member.... But those with sense knew governance ain't a rocket science, one cannot give what he doesn't have.... You cannot expect change from someone ruling with a Nepa bill certificate, Just go to Abakiliki today and see massive transformation from a Governor with vision.. helinues will say so, Just wait  . |
Politics › Re: Yakassai: I Knew Buhari Can’t Fix Any Of Nigeria’s Problems by SeverusSnape(m): 4:05pm On May 19, 2020 |
Babatunde40: Nairaland BMC Branch: This guy is an Ipobian Cc: helinues seunmsg Tanko Yakassai is an IPOB miscreant. |
Romance › Re: Be Honest Will You Eat This Cake by SeverusSnape(m): 11:56am On May 19, 2020 |
I will eat the head first. Na this kind cake our amiable lala go like. |
Romance › Re: [b]Update: How I Discovered My Girlfriend Has Been Cheating[/b] by SeverusSnape(m): 11:41pm On May 18, 2020 |
That's good. please don't even think of taking her back. |
Politics › Re: Boko Haram Currently Attacking Dapchi, Yobe Community by SeverusSnape(m): 8:39pm On May 18, 2020 |
hmmm |
Politics › Re: BREAKING: Boko Haram Currently Attacking Yobe Community by SeverusSnape(m): 8:38pm On May 18, 2020 |
Where's the new sheriff??
But i thought by now, since buhari the general is in power, boko haram will be a thing of history. oh, I forgot, Bubu the mumu once said "An attack on boko haram is an attack on the north", bubu is an incompetent terrorist sympathizer. |
Christianity Etc › Re: American Priest Sprays Holy Water From Squirt Gun To Maintain Social Distancing by SeverusSnape(m): 8:37pm On May 18, 2020 |
LOVEGINO: if na Naija now, dem go sharply increase d price of d toy gun from 300 naira to 5k  bros no be lie  |
Pets › Re: Nairalander Kills Snake In Front Of Home by SeverusSnape(m): 8:27pm On May 18, 2020 |
wonderful. This specie is called 'Lagos spitting cobra'. You heard it from me first.  |
Christianity Etc › Re: American Priest Sprays Holy Water From Squirt Gun To Maintain Social Distancing by SeverusSnape(m): 8:21pm On May 18, 2020 |
 I don't know why i find this funny. Toy water guns we used those years to shoot ourselves. |
Politics › Re: Buhari Meets Top Critic TY Danjuma In Aso Rock by SeverusSnape(m): 6:59pm On May 18, 2020 |
seunmsg: He should tell us how he murdered Ironsi and Fajuyi in cold blood. Yes o. The miscreant man went to see the dullard presidiot.  |
Politics › Re: Buhari Meets Top Critic TY Danjuma In Aso Rock by SeverusSnape(m): 5:29pm On May 18, 2020 |
He said, “In Yorubaland, everybody seems to have lost their voice, scared. And people appear not to care about what is happening. If I tell you what I know is happening in Nigeria today, you will no longer sleep. If you want details, I will give it to you privately." T. Y. Danjuma is an IPOB miscreant. |
Celebrities › Re: Seun Should Do Something About Hate On This Forum by SeverusSnape(m): 10:21am On May 18, 2020 |
Firstnebo: Sometimes you will not be minding the fact there are different tribes in Nigeria until you come to Nairaland and see the heat of hate spewed here.
What?!!!
Take the case of Ade Coker of the Rant Head Quarter as an example.
The way they turned the story here into deep hate, heating and burning, you would think the Rant group is actually burning with all tribes against Igbos and Igbos against all tribes.
Then I said let me go and check. The first ten posts I saw under the verified handle of Ms Ade Coker is mostly from Yorubas. All the postings were either apologizing on behalf of Ade Coker, or even encouraging her to apologize.
So you would think Yorubas are on there fuming with hate, but that's not what you find. What I found there is beautiful hearts of love.
I plead Seun would find a way to mitigate hate on this forum.
I believe it is his social responsibility. They were apologizing because they are using their real names. Here on Nairaland, It's a faceless forum, So one can hide behind it to say all sorts of thing. Those apologizing on Coker's behalf might even be on nairaland insulting igbos, So you see... |