ogasharpsharp:
OP you know why I like you? Because your spirit man is strong, and it is this spirit man in you that is urging you to quit the relationship and run while you still can.

No matter how much I love a girl I can never drop up to 100k (even 50k, I don't give cash I rather spend) at once on her but you dropped a whopping 500k. Now, take a look at how the ladies on this thread are trying to trivialise that large sum of money, that's half a mil right there!

Trust me when I say most of them have never seen that amount of money in one go. Their account balance will testify. But they will tell you that "How much is even 500k sef?" Never encourage stùpidity in a woman because that is their default settings and it is your job as a man to correct that otherwise you bounce.

Investing money on a girl is like pouring water in a basket, it will never be enough. And these girls never have to make such sacrifices so they don't know what it takes and how it hurts when an agreement between two parties is reneged upon. Abi you no get family wey need half a mil? Abi you dey crase ni?

End the relationship as your spirit being is telling you, she will still do more as the relationship progresses, especially if she gets away with this criminal act of hers without any consequences. Yes, what she did is criminal but being a woman (synonym for stùpidity) she will try to shame and blame you for it (Baby you are not understanding, you don't really love me, etc).

A REAL man must always train his babe to know that for every transgression against him there will always be dire consequences otherwise see-finish will occur. Shalom!

PS - Never spend such money again on a woman unless she is your wife. They don't have sense!

How one man go make sense die for one most, boss if say them de order drink online I swear I for throw better wine for ur side. I'm glad to see there are men here, these stupid kids think #500,000k is #500 and most of them don't have up to #50k in their account and their annual salary is not up to that if at all they have started working which I doubt. They yap like bunch of gaggling iddiots that don't know the value of money. Too many kids here with their silly opinions.

She's not asking much, a man is suppose to know most of them but sing? Not all men are R. Kelly oo. I agree with others except singing.

One thing I love about america and Americans, watch how they will fix and tidy up everywhere in 2months time, these places will look different.

DWJOBScom:
The word here is support not carry all the bills.

The dude should show concern , get gifts , loan her some money when requested etc.

Such guys the moment they meet the lady they like they spend more than their salary self

Loan?! hahahahaha women no sabi wetin loan mean oo any loan wey bf give girlfriend to girls na gift/dash the money don go. Naija girls think once you're their bf you're their ATM.

Deltatoto:
how do you expect us to abandone this country na go abroad it’s not right that’s why I said if Atiku fails we replace him you want nigerians not to vote again?

and another 4 years gone? while waiting to vote for another four years that will, the thing is you can't win unless you're one of them. They have to vet you bro, Inec is theirs, is a gang thing. They present the people with choice to select, if you're in a desert and I'm the only one that can supply you water, I can get you water from tap or bottled water its my choice to give you whatever I went but the trick is me presenting the two as a choice making you think you are the one that decided to drink the one you want that is after I have decided and gave you the two options that I want you to drink from.

xtervaganza:
I don't know maybe they buried your plancenta in that house that you have to risk your life to live there.




If you can't bear the noise and madness why not just leave? You want to report them to efcc? Who told you the police and efcc don't know them already? Even in the USA all the drug dealers are known by the police. Each and every one of them



See eh, you can't just wake up and say you want to fxck with a street guy. Trust me, the street has its judgement mode and it's very brutal. If you don't want to die mysteriously and gruesomely you better comot for that house. If you report and it bounces back on you you're done.

LMAO bro you be madt man hahaha which one be say them bury him placenta for there?! hahahahahahahahaha

BlaqCoffee109
my dear just like someone said, minding ones business is Bae Bae Bae nowadays oo, one makes enemies when him no find wahala or vex person sef let alone when you go carry these boys matter for head.
its good to observe ones environment and know how to live, in winter one wears sweatshirt, gloves and more to survive in summer you wear light clothes to get air, in naija you mind your business because the president himself and all the politicians are all corrupt. I've been to places and I've seen things don't be surprised those boys might know Someone that knows someone that knows the EFCc chairman, street is ruling Nigeria as it is. Its just that most people don't know, do you know how many governors have Gboys working for them and helping them to pull the scam money?!?!? mtcheeew una never know as e be here if you all do you go just mind your business or comot this useless country. Many boys are untouchable or know an untouchable, the ones that are used as show off are ones that refused to pay up or have no Glord.

Deltatoto:
everyone must be ready to vote we will keep voting until we get it right.now everyone is saying Atiku if we put him and he doesn’t perform we will change him after 4yrs.no one should be guaranteed 2 terms.let me tell y one of the thgs I did back then in campus I was collecting money from the hawkers and those little shops inside the campus I made a lot of money until sug caught me.i was lucky d sug dean is my town man so he came in.i had to survive in sch

LMAO hahahahhahahaha another one that kills me, voting?! your voters card is just another identity card bro. Who? name one good politician that wants to come and fix this nation? Atiku?!!! if I hear, even if there is a good man that wants to fix it he won't get the chance to, you can't be an angel and win in the midst of millions of devils where the devils decides who wins LOL you guys really don't learn at all, can a dog stop barking and start roaring ? chai Any sane mofo should get out if this hellhole if you don't want your kids to experience naija (if you no get bar) you guys expect things to change?! OK, goodluck lol. You guys think say chance de?! or a politician fit help this country. Make I no talk the one wey fit put light where I de jooor.

BlaqCoffee109:
... everything boil down to materialism. Money money money and who got it more inspite of source... that's all folks care for. We all must stand up for what's right and damn that which is questionable regardless of popularity.

Years ago I was thinking same but now hahahahahaha you and who? where you want start? when people talk about future of Nigeria I laugh so fuckiing hard. Naija is fvcked and will take maybe 60-100 years before anything can be done with the way things are. its best to get the fvck out because if you try to fix it you will pour sand into bad people garri and they will ensure your life is messed up with the help of the police, soldiers, efxx or whatnot. My uncle tried to fix some things he got warned and thought it was a joke I told him how it is here and he went on he almost lost his life if not for some street connect and intervention by the time he understood his It is here he flew back and remained there. Here is mind your biz if you love your life oo. I know people that were killed for same stuff, they were unlucky no one to guide or save them. Naija rough, boys eyes no de red again na black e be nowadays.

yomi007k:


If they are men of underworld and are left to grow in mental and physical strength, don't you think you or I can be the next target?

Let's be logical, if they want to smoke and make noise they can go to a public bar or club and not make the life of their tenants a living hell.

In a sane country you're so right but bro this is in NIGERIA, can't you understand that. Naija is not a country its a jungle where anything goes, corruption is in every part of the forces, soldiers, EFCc, police, road safety and all. The best is for one to mind their business in this country oo unless you have excess millions and connection to jam wahala and sometimes for street your money or connect fit no save you as men don cast you at the moment. People are angry nowadays ooo.

troublemakea:


you dont know how it is here or what i face here so dont tell me to mind my business if that's how you live your life well everyone aint like you'd is

even if I dont get advice here I would try figuring out a way of reporting them myself

Are you a family man? you better respect yourself than put yourself in danger. those boys will know that its you finally because when the get to EFCC and pay them and come back and the snitch at EFCc will point you and you will be their target. let me ask you this what will you do to someone that you consider an enemy that wants to ruin your life?! as for me I will take your life period, don't mess with people nowadays, becareful or if you have a child self you might endanger him or her better respect yourself, here is Nigeria and not America. Have yiu sat down to think of what they can do to you if things go south? are they cultists? why did your landlord chill? maybe the have given him some money and he told them no mind you say make them do anything they want #200k can make a landlord do that. Maybe you have never been thought a lesson on minding your own business in Naija. I hate this country wella but i love it sha, ppl with money get away with anything in naija, if you want to start fighting crime start with your president and the rest. These gboys no de laugh oo.

on the other hand report them, go to twitter or go to the nearest police station and ask for EFCc connect or something, I wish I will be able to hear or know about their revenge when they come for you 6 guys! 6guys?!? they have friends, brothers and more that will revenge for them even if in fact report them. One thing I'm sure of is that they will fvck you up. Why is it hard for people to mind their own business, if you don like what they're doing move out fast or go build your own house.