This is called mid marriage challenge, where one of the partners become unattractive and sex drives/Interest becomes zero as partner.
My advice, rent another small apartment far from the house and only go home weekends or once in a while. Explain to her. and enjoy bachelor life again. You will be surprised how the chemistry will be rekindled and the urge will be fired back. just imagine the boyfriend/ girlfriend kind of relationship back then. You both love each other but you need some space. That wife you have is a good wife and you both have invested good 10years together. Divorce is not an option just some space to find each other again. Nothing is out there my brother.

My advise to this family not to sale the house but should both get job that can meet with their needs and from the extra put aside should continue with the project. the project is an investment for old age when they can no longer work. and by then it will worth the hustles.

You could not even show picture of of the toilet......

Well spoken Mr President as we look forward having you for another four years to complete the good work this administration has started.Nextlevel