Nairaland General › Kindid Advice Need Please by shabyimulo(op): 1:18pm On Dec 13, 2018 |
Good day beautiful people. Please with due respect I write to seek your brotherly advice. Don't need to write much to summarize it... Was in love with a lady that we both wanted same thing (marriage) but unfortunately we can't be together cause of our genotype both (AS). She actually came to my house to meet my parents for us to talk as a family and decide what is good for both end which we all know before hand. Am really hurt with the genotype issues but what makes me perplexed was her attitude remorse was there but she became secretive with her phone and change her password I initially knew but never said anything. It's hurt me more to know that she already had a guy chatting, complimenting each other and most dail names in her contact. It's mature enough to tell her that I knew what she had been doing even though I know we can't be. Please urgent advice... True story... emotionally drained and mentally unstable now.... |
Romance › Re: I'm So So Confuse by shabyimulo(m): 9:48pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
LordDarius: bros, the fact is this we see each other all the times, cause we are in thesame lecture hall almost all the time at thesame time. So to avoid her go hard oo yea, it won't be easy but u have to try. Maybe wen u guys are in class always form busy to her that may help, cos as I said my own ehen no funny at al. |
Romance › Re: I'm So So Confuse by shabyimulo(m): 9:02pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
Bros, I xperience similar thing wey u dey xperience now. its won't be easy for u to free her but guy try am. Just pretend to act u no send her anymore and see. All the best. |
Romance › Re: Urgent Advice Needed Please by shabyimulo(op): 7:08pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
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Romance › Re: Urgent Advice Needed Please by shabyimulo(op): 7:07pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
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Romance › Re: Urgent Advice Needed Please by shabyimulo(op): 7:04pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
Mprex: lols. What is funny? i dont understand na is funny though but it happens how people u value so much tend to treat u bad |
Romance › Re: Urgent Advice Needed Please by shabyimulo(op): 4:41pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
Afrok: u're welcome bruh... Just give urself time. With time if U don't want her to exist in ur life again even as a friend, it'll definitely be so. Thank God u've known and read about friendzone, that's the zone where u'll have call credit and data plan but U won't neither be able to call nor browse . thanks Bru. Noted |
Romance › Re: Urgent Advice Needed Please by shabyimulo(op): 4:17pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
Afrok: Op U bleeped up big time... Why would U wanna date a girl that has a spiritual mother when U don't have a spiritual father? abeg wetin or who be spiritual mother sef? Don't U know that before spiritual children will date, their spiritual parents will have spiritual meetings in the spirit? .
Op put on ur sneakers and start jogging for ur life coz next one will be, she has a spiritual husband. But when will I fall in love sef even with someone who has a spiritual mother? thanks Afrok, her spiritual mother in christ not the other way round. Though I don't have spiritual father but I have Almighty Father that sees each tears that falls. She is just cooked this to push me away from her. But she keeps saying we could just be friends which I don't want to be in a friendzone with her. I trusted her but she make me a fool. I just thank her for every thing. I don't want to think of her but I often do but why?
I've learnt my lessons that any relationship that is excuses bond will never workout. |
Romance › Re: Urgent Advice Needed Please by shabyimulo(op): 3:16pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
FLAWLES: Spiritual mother? flawles thanks a lot, that is what she told me that her spiritual mother told her to be careful with me but I know maybe she might be lying or just giving me reason to reason with and accept my faith. But I blvd if I was the one she won't hurt me so bad. Still yet I do really feel for her but don't just know what to do. |
Romance › Re: Urgent Advice Needed Please by shabyimulo(op): 2:29pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
Segirl18: U r welcum... She knws best what she wanted to hv said yes to in d first place though.
But to keep calling her or not is seriously ur choice to make dearie. If u think each tym u cal her, u feel hurt thereafter....then u should wisen up ur decision bro, then if its d other way round, no probs.... #My thought tho# really appreciate ur thought. Though want to stop calling her but don't want her to feel maybe is because she dump me that make me do that. Am confuse right now |
Romance › Re: Urgent Advice Needed Please by shabyimulo(op): 2:04pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
Segirl18: Firstly, its Nlders nt Nairalites.. @ op, U caused it urself nw.... U r single and went on dating a lady who explained to u she already has a boyfriend... Why den did u cast all hopes on a relationship u urself knw wouldnt last(being used as a side guy). Wen there isn't scarcity of gurls.... Pls wake up and look 4 sumone out there who loves u cos she jex only gave u a flimsy excuse to throw u ou of her life. Like ma broda said, Life's too short to go on brooding on d story of a girl who doesnt luv u thanks segirl 18 the correction. She made me like but she dump me like craps. Though I do call her and say hi. Don't know whether to keep calling or not |
Romance › Re: Urgent Advice Needed Please by shabyimulo(op): 12:56pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
My problem now is that she make me to fall in love with her and now she is telling me super story. I did ask won't I be a lacunas to her relationship which she said no but now am just perplex |
Romance › Urgent Advice Needed Please by shabyimulo(op): 10:06am On Dec 29, 2014 |
Good day nairalites, compliment of the season to you all. Please need advice on these issue. There is this girl we came to know each other and get alone then we started visiting but she does most of the visiting but often at times she comes on notice then one day she asked me a question that since I have been coming to your place I ve never met a lady is it that you don't have or what? Which I told her the truth. I express myself to her but she told me that she has a date but the choice is mine to be with her or not but after that we started going out we kiss and hug a lot but few weeks later she started acting funny which I confronted her but to my greatest surprise I was told her spiritual mother told her to be careful with me but still yet I never give up on her trying to reason with me but then she told me that we CAN'T never be that now she can't double date. Please I love this girl. Please need candid advice. |
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Virgins indeed |
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sammieguze: hmmmmm.... lord pls help us |