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Technology MarketRe: Phone To Sell/buy by shaddi(m): 10:14pm On Jul 02, 2013
taymeesan: D black is sold...but I've got d white...do u hav anybody in ibadan dat culd pick it up 4 u?
Dammmnnn....I have got no one in that area....now its a matter of tust...coz I have the cash at hand now
Technology MarketRe: Very Clean & Cheap iphone & Bb Phones In Owerri & Enviroms by shaddi(m): 3:52pm On Jul 02, 2013
Intrested Bold 5 white...am in ph
Technology MarketRe: black bold5 for sale now in Owerri by shaddi(m): 3:49pm On Jul 02, 2013
What's the ba3 problem likehuh?
Technology MarketRe: Phone To Sell/buy by shaddi(m): 3:45pm On Jul 02, 2013
taymeesan: Clean UK used bold6 4 sale at 30k!...intrested buyers should call or text 08166602516
Am in ph...am so interested....how much...and how will the deal go down
Technology MarketRe: New Prices...blackberry Don Come Down 4 Prices Oooooo. Open Now by shaddi(m): 3:40pm On Jul 02, 2013
Am in ph....am intrested...how are we gonna deal it
Technology MarketRe: Brand New Super SEXY Bb Curve 7 For Dash @ 21K by shaddi(op): 3:46am On Jul 02, 2013
Still Available [color=#990000][/color]
Technology MarketRe: Brand New Super SEXY Bb Curve 7 For Dash @ 21K by shaddi(op): 6:42pm On Jul 01, 2013
kiss
Technology MarketBrand New Super SEXY Bb Curve 7 For Dash @ 21K by shaddi(op):
Super sexy 1 month old blue curve 7 going for 27k...perfectly working..sweet and portable...strong and durable...able and capable.....call 08066853107...I just wanna upgrade that's all

EducationRe: Is Kegite Club A Cult Or Fun Club. by shaddi(m): 4:55am On Jul 01, 2013
Palazo: [color=#990000][/color]Daiziz metaplastic,I'm I dat same I a brutal nonentity who wants to be transgbawe,trans-Ekulu,trans kpa kpa trans amadi(lol) but don't know how to go about it........i'm a student of national open university....walk minus stumble..07034258964
Kai kai kai!!!.....what a waste of MB and energy....smh
Technology MarketRe: Neatly Used 2 Months Old SAM. Galaxy Note 1 For Sale 50k(pics) in PORT-HARCOURT by shaddi(op): 6:01am On Jun 24, 2013
shocked
EducationRe: The 7 BEST Pieces Of Advice You’ll EVER Hear by shaddi(op): 7:09pm On Jun 23, 2013
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EducationRe: The 7 BEST Pieces Of Advice You’ll EVER Hear by shaddi(op): 11:07am On Jun 22, 2013
edu4all: On point, the 7th one got me thinking.
that's the most imprtant one...
EducationThe 7 BEST Pieces Of Advice You’ll EVER Hear by shaddi(op): 10:25am On Jun 22, 2013
You do not attract into your life what you want. You attract what you are.”

I am so entrenched in the land of advice you’d think my self-awareness would be on the level of Buddha. Sadly, that isn’t the case. But there are some quotes and things I have read or received that have really stuck with me. I call upon these ideas in times of anxiety or stress in my own life - or when trying to help friends and family through difficult times. Here are my absolute favorite pieces of advice!

1. Don’t take things personally (because SURPRISE … it isn’t all about you!)

This comes from Don Miguel Ruiz’ The Four Agreements. When someone isn’t friendly, it’s not because you did anything wrong (often times). If someone isn’t into you after that first date, it is not because there is anything wrong with you - the connection just isn’t there. If a friend flakes on you, don’t take it to the place of ‘I guess I am not that important.’ We internalize and assume so much (wrongly!) when we need to be telling ourselves that it’s not about us. Do not make her bad mood or his rudeness about you - because it is really about something that is going on inside of them. Spending lots of energy and worrying about these sorts of things is a waste of time.

2. Don’t give the thoughts that run through your mind too much power.

They are just thoughts and not necessarily an accurate reflection of a current situation. I got this from talking to Deepak Chopra recently (which was a total thrill for me!). I like to think of my brain as my own personal memory-based encyclopedia. It is a challenge to not let your fears and other negative thoughts have an impact on enjoying the present. We tell ourselves so much crap that just isn’t true! Whenever my thoughts turn anxious or negative, I imagine them being thrown into the trash — goodbye negative thought, I recognize that you have risen from my memory encyclopedia, but you can leave now.

3. Be grateful every day for all that you have.

This has been written about so much but I firmly believe that starting each day thinking about what you are thankful for sets a positive tone for your experience. Gratitude is so powerful to one’s spirit - studies actually show that the act of practicing gratitude affects your health and happiness in hugely positive ways. It’s pretty simple to just jot down a list of what you are grateful for, right?

4. Be what you want to attract.

I have to say I have heard this point made by several incredibly smart people. We interviewed Dr. Wayne Dyer about attracting romance into your life - and his response was, “Whatever it is that you want from a relationship, I would say, ‘Be that.’ If what you are looking for in a relationship with another person is an exquisite sense of love, then be that. You do not attract into your life what you want. You attract what you are.” His other point was to stop thinking of a relationship  in terms of what someone will do for you and give you - but what you have to offer and how you can be a positive force in their life.

5. Accept that people are operating at their own level of consciousness.

I can’t remember exactly where I heard this, but it always helps me when I find myself judging another’s behavior, or bewildered at decisions being made. All I can change (and control!) is my own level of awareness, right? And be grateful about the fact that I think about living consciously!

6. Give everyone you encounter a gift (this can be a compliment, a silent prayer, or something like that).

I love this - from Deepak Chopra’s Seven Spiritual Laws of Success. It forces me to think positively throughout the day. It takes away the temptation to sometimes judge another, and replaces that thought with something good. It just makes me feel better.

7. The most important decision you will make in life is who to marry.

This sentiment is from our own CEO, Dr. Neil Clark Warren. Boy, was he right on. I see evidence of poor marital partner choices all around me — and it can have a catastrophic impact on your finances, your mental well-being, your children, and your options. This extends to relationships as well, not just marriage. Make sure to get involved with someone who has good character, and take time to see what someone is about. Do not rush into a relationship! You can’t really know someone after a month or two.
Technology MarketRe: Got A Used Note 2 For Sale? by shaddi(m): 7:04am On Jun 20, 2013
I have note 1
Technology MarketRe: Neatly Used 2 Months Old SAM. Galaxy Note 1 For Sale 50k(pics) in PORT-HARCOURT by shaddi(op): 6:30am On Jun 18, 2013
grin
Technology MarketNeatly Used 2 Months Old SAM. Galaxy Note 1 For Sale 50k(pics) in PORT-HARCOURT by shaddi(op):
I bought it Brand new..just need to upgrade..I have reciept with the complete box with extra Skin....call 08066853107

Technology Market:neatly Used 2 Months Old Port-harcourt:samsung Galaxy Note 1 For Sale 50k(pics) by shaddi(op): 7:27pm On Jun 16, 2013
I bought it Brand new..just need to upgrade..I have reciept with the complete box with extra Skin....call 08066853107

FoodRe: Governor Rochas Roasting Corn By The Roadside (Picture) by shaddi(m): 12:57am On Jun 15, 2013
This guy like show ehhhhh.....#He should consider being in The showbiz.....huh
Dating And Meet-up ZoneSimple Steps To Make A WOMAN And MAN Happy(updated) by shaddi(op): 3:20pm On Jun 14, 2013
HOW TO MAKE A MAN HAPPY
1. Feed him
2. Sleep with him
3. Leave him with peace
4. Don't check his phone (Msgs)
5. Don't bother him with his movements
So whats so hard about that?


HOW TO MAKE A WOMAN HAPPY
It's really not too difficult but.... To make
a woman happy, a man only needs to be:
1. a friend
2. a companion
3. a lover
4. a brother
5. a father
6. a master
7. a chef
8. an electrician
9. a plumber
10. a mechanic
11. a carpenter
12. a decorator
13. a stylist
14. a sexologist
15. a gynecologist
16. a psychologist
17. a pest exterminator
18. a psychiatrist
19. a healer
20. a good listener
21. an organizer
22. a good father
23. very clean
24. sympathetic
25. athletic
26. warm
27. attentive
28. gallant
29. intelligent
30. funny
31. creative
32. tender
33. strong
34. understanding
35. tolerant
36. prudent
37. ambitious
38. capable
39. courageous
40. determined
41. true
42. dependable
43. passionate
WITHOUT FORGETTING TO:
44. give her compliments regularly
45. Go shopping with her 46. be honest
47. be very rich
48. not stress her out
49. not look at other girls
AND AT THE SAME TIME, YOU MUST
ALSO:
50. give her lots of attention
51. give her lots of time, especially time
for herself
52. give her lots of space, never worrying
about where she goes.
BUT MOST OF ALL IT IS VERY
IMPORTANT
53. never forget
*birthdays
*anniversaries
*valentine
*arrangements she makes.
wats ur take on this guys....huh??.
PhonesRe: 'black Berry' For 'android' Phone......isn't That Stupid? by shaddi(op): 11:50am On Jun 14, 2013
BlackBerry will remain an enterprise favorite and remain
popular in corporate-liable situations (where the company
provides handset to users). The reliability, physical keyboard
(which many still prefer) of the mainstream BlackBerry
products, and the server-side capabilities will remain
features of this line for some time, and we assume that the
folks at Research in Motion will continue to upgrade their
offerings. Many consumers like the BlackBerry as well, even
if the products do lack the flash (pun intended in Apple's
case!) and coolness of the competition.
PhonesRe: 'black Berry' For 'android' Phone......isn't That Stupid? by shaddi(op): 11:24am On Jun 14, 2013
mr.drizzy:
hahaha lwkmd..maybe hes hungry oh
sometimes Hunger brings out the Hard truth in us...*eating*
PhonesRe: 'black Berry' For 'android' Phone......isn't That Stupid? by shaddi(op): 5:54pm On Jun 13, 2013
The platform...
9jadelta: B4 i educate you, what are you comparing here? The platforms or the phones?
PhonesRe: 'black Berry' For 'android' Phone......isn't That Stupid? by shaddi(op): 12:36pm On Jun 13, 2013
huh...maybe both of them....cos I just can't see what's so special about the android stuff....believe me
Phones'black Berry' For 'android' Phone......isn't That Stupid? by shaddi(op): 10:11am On Jun 13, 2013
......What's so special about 'Android'
PhonesUrgent Solution Needed...asap!!!! by shaddi(op): 8:52pm On May 23, 2013
My phone(bb curve 7)has no option for 2g only..its just 2g&3g in the netwoek options and the 3g is really draining my ba3..I heard I have to down grade the O.S before it can show the selection of 2g,2g&3g,3g...please any one with solution would be really apreciated
Technology MarketRe: **PHONE SWAP CENTRE**SWAP IT NOW!!! pin:265DA560 or 08033923897 by shaddi(m): 10:02pm On May 18, 2013
Direct london used Curve 4 swap with Curve 7 or any good device..In Portharcourt
Technology MarketRe: **PHONE SWAP CENTRE**SWAP IT NOW!!! pin:265DA560 or 08033923897 by shaddi(m): 3:55am On May 18, 2013
latiephwald: Wanna swap am iPad 1 wifi only 32gb loaded with lots of applications and games for a working perfect and clean bold 2 or 4 or curve 4. If interested 08024407788 straight swap.
Am intrested....were u located....am in ph
Phone/Internet MarketRe: Uk Used Blackberry Available And Affordable For Sale At Aba & Ph. (Sold out) by shaddi(m): 5:41pm On May 17, 2013
Mr Kanayo...I wuld be in aba on sunday....if its not reaady I can still wait....coz am really missing a phone
Technology MarketRe: cheap!!..Direct London Used Bb CURVE 4 For Sale In Port Harcourt_25k by shaddi(op): 6:10am On May 17, 2013
kiss
Technology MarketRe: cheap!!..Direct London Used Bb CURVE 4 For Sale In Port Harcourt_25k by shaddi(op): 6:23pm On May 16, 2013
cheesy
Technology MarketRe: **PHONE SWAP CENTRE**SWAP IT NOW!!! pin:265DA560 or 08033923897 by shaddi(m): 4:49am On May 16, 2013
Obinnio: I have curve 6
It can't rock dat fone sucks.....
Technology MarketRe: Fresh New Curve 4 For a Curve 7(pics)...who Is Up For SWAP! In Port-harcourt by shaddi(op): 7:48pm On May 15, 2013
grin

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