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Okoh1:
let me birth my opinion here..

op, op, op..

read my lips..do not confess
your conscience is already too pricky enough to arouse his suspicion. .

You have gone through enough damage already judging from ur write..ur conscience has written u off..

you are not prepared for his reaction..his writing you off may trigger suicidal tendecies. MEN DONT FORGIVE CHEATING WIVES. NEVER!!

he may not send u packing..but my dear, hell will be a better aboard should u confess.

If are truely sorry as depicted in this write up, then forgive yourself and move on. You think you perfect ba? You think you are the only one without sin?

Maybe your ancestors are calling, he who the gods want to kill..

Please confess and compare the resultant end to what I have predicted here..

wish u luck

Ishilove:
Did you deliberately misinterprete my statement? The truth about what she should do is what I meant, Shaq!

Abeg don't piss me off this morning jare.

Good day

FromZeroToHero:
My wife loves sex so much. She likes to have it at least twice everyday. Sometimes she'll wake me up at midnight and start demanding for sex. I'm not comfortable with it. It makes me to loose sexual appetite. It's not as if i don't like sex, but i prefer it at most thrice a week. Please how do i handle her without hurting her feelings.

Ishilove:
She hasn't found peace because she hasn't forgiven herself. She sees herself as worthless and undeserving of mercy

Truth sometimes is subjective, like in this case.

Ishilove:
She has confessed to God and has never gone back to it. There is no point in damaging her marriage over what has happened in the past.

Do you know the terrible consequences that may follow? Will you advice your own sister to toe that line knowing the kind of husband she has?

Abeg leave matter. Wisdom is profitable

YelloweWest:
EXACTLY what I wanted to hear. Op is a good woman who did a stupid thing...

She was probably deceived.
She needs to move on
I don't see any reason why she should confess.

According to statistics her husband is probably cheating or has cheated or will cheat at some point.

People make mistakes..

Ishilove:
Confess and genuinely repent. She has already done that

realmindz:
Here comes the same ishilove that has been defending pastors in the name of blackmail....Your time Will soon come you double mouth

realmindz:
When I read and saw your religiosity, I knew it would be a pastor.
To all pastors, Mark my name, I Am realmindz, the day I catch any of you with any female that is my relative be it sister, cousin, or wife etc....Consider yourself gone....

Ishilove:
When the poster is battling with the marital storms that follows confession, I hope those advising her here to confess will open their homes to her.

Her husband's love may turn to hate and even if he says he has forgiven her, will he forget?

He is only human and will act like one.

1stoctober, be wise.

lonelydora:
No matter what.....don't confess to him. Once you do, he will send you packing. Someone like me can never forgive any woman who cheated on me. I am still trying to reconcile my friend with his wife because his she cheated 5 years ago and out of love or out of stupidity confessed to him. Some men don't tolerate this no matter the love he has for the wife.

Ishilove:
That's because it's between me and God.

Ishilove:
It's private

Ishilove:
I'm a living proof that God answers prayers.

Mimzyy:
Go back to bed.

Mimzyy:
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Mimzyy:
There's nothing lustful bout that look. Perverts!!

Ishilove:
Please please pleeeaaaase can we bring this custom to Nigeria??

sinaj:
Thank God his story ended well unlike so many others.

I wonder how his dad will be feeling now. He will be so filled with regret.

RadiantBae:
Education for your children isn't a choice! It's a necessity. You could've used him choosing not to sleep with her as an example but being a man you couldn't possibly consider that

If you can cook and run a house then I don't see your objections. Let her birth and breast feed the children.

are you married?

I have a sister with a high paying job who can't cook or clean to save her life! Her body is on fleek and her bank account is full... I'd like to introduce her to a man who can complete her

RadiantBae:
When did the kids belong to 1 parent? How does not cooking for him justify him not wanting education for their children? You'll are clutching on straws. Learn how to cook the same way your wives go to work. This isn't a battle of the sexs. Some women no longer want the traditional gender roles, they want to work and they want their husbands to share in the duties at home. Some women are happy being stay at home mums (not as many). Get with the changing times and equip your sons with skills that will work in the changing times. Or sit back and complain about the changes. Your choice.

sisisioge:
OP, you sound just like the slave-driver the supposed feminist were warning about. Your overzealous admonish of the writers is a giveaway of the self-interested male in you. The world has greatly changed from what it used to be. Gone are the days when women had no voice. The gender roles have gone beyond what we knew it to be...It's no longer simple to say who should do what.

Anyways, a woman old enough to leave her family to live with a man in matrimony or other arrangements should be wise enough to choose to be his cook, maid , flygirl etc or otherwise. An adult woman can choose to be married, unmarried, straight, bi-sexxual , hommmoseexual etc. There are several choices these days...There will be even more in a few years to come. The well-wishes, thread openers and counter thread openers can only advise, an adult would live according to his or her beliefs.


Whew! I know say you thrive on arguments Oga sir...I just say make I talk small go sleep ni o. May we all enjoy the coolness the rains brought with it tonight...

pocohantas:
You all can keep hovering here, waiting for any post that doesn't go down well with you to jump on... .
Stop whining, be more discerning...marry a good wife. The kind of wife that won't be influenced by some 'feminist' group. Sorry ehn...

pocohantas:
If a woman doesn't want to cook, marry the one that can cook na. After all, not every man can provide, men have been cheating on their wives...all personal. Did any one campaign against that?

You lack more comprehension skills dear. It's simple as, marry your kind of woman!!!

pocohantas:
I have read it and I maintain you all should get your emotions in check. Every disgruntled woman isn't a feminist.
Were they with a feminist badge I ask again?

Marry the kind of women you want, simple!!!

Better go and call those rapists, corrupt politicians, kidnappers... etc to order. They're worse menace.

pocohantas:
Some of you need to get your emotions in check.
A group of women gather for a campaign and you tag them feminist? Were they with a badge or you're so obsessed with feminism?

Why this issue of feminism gives you guys sleepless night is beyond me. Are you so insecure that you're constantly on the lookout for a woman to Lord over?
Marry the kind of woman you want, there are millions to billions of women in Nigeria, Africa...and the world. If you don't see your ideal woman in Nigeria, check Mozambique!

Everyday on front page, one rape news or the other, kidnap, murder...and your problem is that woman no gree cook? Nawa!

baby124:
Op, what is your point exactly. I don't understand the purpose of this essay. Or are you trying to say that a woman must die in the kitchen? Do you really understand the purpose of that campaign or is this an emotional outburst. Maybe they are rebelling against men like you who want fresh food everyday but cannot even boil water successfully.

LAFO: