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Odkboy23:
Linkin park ft kiiara heavy...that's my jam

Never heard this before.

LP still holding it down I see.

Back To The House That Love Built. Tito and Tarantula.

I love this song. Sound track of Desperado.

Flawlessglow. Good morning. I see you viewing.

Afterdark Tito and Tarantula.

calliope:
The Jezebels - easy to love

Really. What genre do they sing?

Mimzyy:
Lolz. I dunno who.

Hint: The guilty party. They always use guest mode to view. Reminds me one castrated albino. Each time he gets a beating, he logs out and use guest mode.

auntysimbiat:
Damn

Yea. Mega damn.

Mimzyy:
Interesting..

Very interesting. I'm waiting for the lady to provide proof of the guy asking her out. LOL.

Hope I don't wait in vain though.

MODIFIED: There's a guest viewing. Guess who it is?

oksmart1992:
I didn't ask her.... Let her provide the screen shots

calm down young man. Relax and let her provide the screenshot were you asked her out.

It's that simple. No need to fret. Since you know your conscience is clear, just be cool and continue calling her out.

Flawlessglow. Over to you. The ball is in your court. Provide the screenshot let's see for ourselves. But still even if he was asking you out, it's still no reason for you to give him fake products.

You could have at least refund half of the cash instead of all this nonsense charade. That's how it's basically done.

Kai! Some people are really stupid_ sha.

ephi321:
That statement says nothing.
In any case, i've made my point. Whatever is expected of women, must be expected of men. One party (male) cannot be free to frolick and put the other at risk while the female is beaten over the head with guilt.

Then again, it all boils down to the individual.

ephi321:
nope my opinion is it should be for both, but you and I know the Nigerian society typically would only expect that to apply to the women.

The society dictates what it wants and will, those who deviate from societal norms are deviants, simple.

ephi321:
As long as all you've typed applied to everyone, both male and female, no wahala. There is no debate about it.

I'm sure you thought it only apply to men, abi.

ephi321:
Does that apply to the men as well? Cos I can see someone cc 1stoctober the lady who opened a thread yesterday.

When married men cheat, you don't see them debating whether or not to tell their wives, or having a bothered conscience.

Rules and standards should apply to both genders. Full stop.

I believe the message is crystal for everyone to read and heed to its warning.

Remember the word conscience is the OP. Never forget. The Married men who cheat on their wives don't get pricked by their conscience.

So, it's a thing of conscience, if you cheat and your conscience prick you, then go ahead and confess. If not, keep on pricking.

Deicide:
Why do women feel so safe exposing their unclothedness to their pastor is it psychological?

You wonder who they're suppose to confess to, their husband or their pastor.

Many women make the mistake of thinking their pastor is god and supersede their husband.

Some will never listen.

TonyeBarcanista:
Ambode is working

So did Oga Jona.

icehot:
Good one, thanks.

You're welcome.

At 28, I believe a man should have left the confines of his parents abode. However, if the means isn't there, he should sit his ass back down and concentrate on how to move out.

Squatting with friends is sometimes not advisable cos many are just assholes who want to control you or see/believe they're better than you just because you're squatting with them.

YelloweWest:
Really??
Be honest.
Talk true make devil shame...

Even if ur statement is true, do u know any other?

The fact remains that almost all Nigerian men will cheat at some point.

Your dad might be amongst the extremely rear 2% at best.

and what about your dad, did he cheat on your mum? What about that of your cousins, relative and others, do they cheat on their wives?

Society has its way of celebrating that which is bad and ignoring that which is good. That's why you think most married men cheat.

YelloweWest:
Look around... show me one Nigerian man married for 40years (basically a life time) without cheating.

My father.

ednut1:
When u keep over throwing govts and allowing terror to grow, when u keep sending drones to kill innocent pple wetin u expect. Isis is holding sway in places like syria, libya, iraq, Afghanistan etc. All thanks to d usa nd its allies. Fuked up world mehn. Fuk d terrorist, fuk d war mongers too. RIP to d dead and wounded

Nothing, absolutely nothing justify the killing of innocent people.

YelloweWest:
98% of Nigerian men cheat at some point during their marriages.
Fact.

And how did you arrive at this? Care to share the method used?

LeanonGOD:
2Chronicles 7:14 If my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then I will FORGIVE their sin and HEAL their land. Salvation is God's GRACE.

Oh spare me that mumble jumble. God's grace when someone's mind is eating her up? Perish the thought.

No wonder peeps like hardmirror always have a field day shaming peeps like you when you use biblical reference(s) to justify suffering.

pressplay411:
I see your point regarding him getting violent, people especially the very religious can be quite unpredictable. But that's where her timing and the presentation comes in. I still think the parents should only be involved after the fact. But either way, it requires tact.

I couldn't agree more, sir. I greet you.

Ishilove:
You just wan find my mouth but I won't give you that satisfaction.

Fvck off and stay fvcked off!

Believe me when I tell you I was fucked_ thoroughly this morning and I came off pretty well. So no need to reiterate it again.

Ishilove:
You're a douche bag.

You disagree with me on her line of action and that makes a devious Christian, right? You even shared the post of that person realmindz calling his female relatives names, not I.

Abeg don't quote me again. Seriously I don't want to quarrel with you on the pages on Nairaland.

Don't fvcking quote me again, Shaqfu.

Na today you know?

I disagree with you because you are supporting what is false. When you bring the face of one who is just, sound and morally upright.

And yeah, I quoted you, so?

pressplay411:
bad idea involving the parents yet.
let him be first privy to the secret in the family and they can deal with it and decide it stays and dies between them both.
if shit hits the fan, and he decides to throw her out, or emotionally tortures her that's when the parents can come in.
My 2 cents.

I understand your point. But involving the parents might ease him up a bit. His reaction is what I'm after.

LeanonGOD:
It seems you would love to see her marriage crashed just because of a stupid mistake. May God heal your heart.

So her marriage is what is at stake here? Not her salvation or her peace of mind?

How nice.