Fizzymidasquil:
Please, any tips on where to book cheap flights? Lagos to London?

Use Google Flight to search: Cotonou to London.....Lome to London .....Accra to London.... Especially Cotonou and Accra....

Go via SEME border, passport stamped at all borders

IkeOnyia:
Umahi really failed Ebonyi people with his narrow minded leadership. Ebonyi is too poor to have a viable airport. Even private radio stations are non existent in the state due to acute poverty, but their dick measuring governor rushed to build airport because Willie Obiano built one in Anambra. Even after naming the airport after a prominent Anambra man, thinking it will attract Anambra billionaires to use the airport which is very far from Anambra state, it is still abandoned. Hopefully the present governor of Ebonyi will look more into human capital development of Ebonyi people and how to repatriate the millions of Abakaliki people doing menial jobs like house helps and hired farm workers all over the nooks and crany of Anambra state.

Ebonyi that I noticed are nice and very respectful Igbos.

I noticed the generational poverty in them which affects their mindset and behavior unknown to them.

Was once in their group( forgotten how I got in there...lol) and all they mention are nonsense eg why women should wash ( not with machine) their husbands clothes etc.... If my Delta people's forums are like this, I would have left since.

They seem not to be doing something right like the other Easterners.

One of the safest states in the East and house rent is CHEAP. Has lots of food crops that Cameroonians have eg Rice, Cabbage etc

Eriokanmi:
While mama oyelude, the first Miss Nigeria took advantage of this great opportunity and went to England to study Nursing, this woman returned to the village...deep!

This brings to mind the book of Ecclesiastes 9:11.

And I returned and saw under the sun, that the race isn't to the swift, neither the battle to the strong, nor yet bread to the wise, neither riches to men of understanding, nor favour to men of skills...but TIME and CHANCE happeneth to them all. Only the wise would understand that great bible verse.

U took this out of my heart.....Mama added money from the contest and went to London to study Nursing. One of my elderly friend then told me at that you don't really need visa and they went by ship and passport stamped on arrival.

Everyone will still die but at least one should make their life count.

Not only did village people pull her but she herself is village, even her friend has more faith than her. Sometimes Benue people just like farming, being unnecessarily around family and the likes.

Sometimes we need a bit of the opportunist mindset that Baba BAT has.... Also, some form of mental laziness.

Benue sef needs help, if she's looking at its government for help.

takimsipho:
So if am dating a girl who isn't a single mother, I should breakup with her and marry single mother abi? Since they are the best. Shey Michelle Obama na single mother? Beyonce is also single mother abi? You wanna gaslight everyone to think that single mothers are the best we could ever have, if they were so perfect why did their baby daddy leave in the first place. You call it African mentality, when white people are building careers before having kids. Even bad boys go for good girls, no amount of gaslighting will change our minds. Everything changed in the 2000s, as a kid growing up, no contraceptives or condoms, yet they were very few single mothers. If they talk about absentince before marry, you will wanna crucify us, but immediately you become baby mama, everybody should sympathize with you. As far as my prick is functional, then I will prefer to have my own kids.

Do anything that works for you.... Know that sometimes it is what people hate most in life that they see.....

This type of relationship is not for everyone.

A man can marry and tomorrow he is no more or divorces and his wife becomes single mum and another man marries her with the children, so taking care of the late man's children or the divorcees kids is bad?

That's why the whites are different. They will pick someone anywhere and raise like their kids.....

Alexlalax1:
For those of you spewing trash, better know that love is in the eyes of the beholder. I heard her saying she had a kid for him and that they've loved up for ten years. Stop belittling her cuz she's a woman. If it's me, I'll follow my heart and not what people are saying. Who gave you a say over my life?

Thanks, don't mind all these African reasoning.

Matthew Perry, who acted in Friends sitcom wished he had a single mum with child that he was dating and married.... He was too lonely despite being comfortable and resorted to more alcohol... Died at only 54yrs.

What about superstar rapper Eve who married single dad ( white)with 4 kids already and she is the only OUTSIDER( using Nairaland men's word)? Or Ashanti pregnant for single dad Nelly?

Sometimes marriages we bet will work out will not even work out at all: See Israel and his virgin wife..... What about Nairaland Virgin preacher, Jerome Starks that disvirgined his virgin and dumped her in the streets, maybe searching for another virgin in the North( lol).

Do what works for you( according to our Naija Comedians), don't listen to anybody.... Pray and go ahead.... Ask God too for money..... Lack of money causes a lot of stupid talks.

Sheer, wicked propaganda.... Why is everything about this government propaganda? The money for media hype can actually be used to better Nigeria and Nigerians.

Bring back 1999-2015 type of LONG TERM trades where the market moves 2-3 times in a year for real investing and 'harvest'.

Now it is once in 2.5yrs.

Until I see the pledge APC made to Nigeria on the exchange rate which they used to deceitfully seize power b4 I begin to take them seriously. Now, ordinary food stuff is out of the reach of many families. Until we start telling ourselves the truth b4 Nigeria will progress.

I remember SLAWOMIR speaking the gospel truth since but APC paid agents will shout him down.

We are NOT ready yet for this type of discussion.

Nothing new here.

Anyone marrying into that family especially non natives must check well if they can cope with it's long term ties with the dark world.

Their father that was supposed to train his daughter as promised as a Ballet dancer in Russia/ East Europe later decided she become a Priestess later 'no more' for her despite being one of the richest musicians Nigeria ever had.

Even in death, the death still took family member not really rooted in Christ married then to one guy.

May God help us all.

sageb:


Back then it was 4k around that Baleke and culvert road axis.
It's been a long time I visited Agbor.
@Sharone21 Do you know the present cost for a single room in Agbor?

Search for Agbor Connect on Facebook. Check for previous similar question post or ask so they get a house for him. Do due diligence.

I'm more of a Yoruba girl( Lol).

Hi. Anyone using dabafinance for stocks and reviews

essentialone:
The user interface of Afrinvest is not cool at all when compared with Meristem. But I still prefer their portal and services than that of Meristem.

Meristem has no issues. Even God forbid anything happens, family doesn't need to inform them, just to email them and ask that the shares are sold and money is sent to your account( especially the one being usually used).

Talking from at least 7 yrs with them after leaving good, old Options Security( hasn't really digitalised).

They even have WhatsApp contact, weekly updates and analysis which they send to one's email....

Apel Asset too is doing a good job( doubles as Registrar).

Bongadu:
I impregnated my ex girlfriend when I was young and relocated because at time I was young and stupid, I gave her money for abortion but she disagreed on removing it , so I had no choice but to flee as I was irresponsible and poor
My ex girlfriend put to bed months after I left and raised the child living with her parents
I relocated back last year December , I'm trying to get back with my daughter but my ex won't let me be near me even I want to take responsibility and care for my daughter
She's getting me frustrated, I'm thinking of suing her for not letting me be a presence in my daughter's life

Truth is that u want only the child and NOT her mum and the mum has from far sensed your usual selfishness. She might even have a new man in her life and wouldn't want a persona non grata to come disrupt her relationship or work- life balance in the name of wanting to see your child. U claim to love the child but if u really loved her, u wouldn't have ran away and gradually have given her a proper home/ family with Daddy and Mummy.

The way u wanted both dead is how they already see u: DEAD.

DONT allow any hungry, baby Lawyer deceive u.... Even if u win in court, who go dey allow u come visit the girl or take her to a place to meet u? Even fiery Lawyer Festus K had to forget about custody battles when he divorced his wife.

By now, I guess the mum would have made the child to bear her family's name on her birth certificate.

Candid advice: Just see how u can be sending money to them- no talk say only for your daughter because it will worsen the hurt, be wise. Better still, wait till she is 18 yrs and IF she chooses to come KNOW u( NOT necessarily for u to be part of her life), then be glad.

Thank God Nairaland men no fight about this and most agreed including Zonefree that doesn't believe in gifting a woman.

advanceDNA:

That's the thing about them.... Relationships should be about love and companionship between a man and woman.... But for single mothers it's a complicated love triangle that the survival is dependent on the happiness of the child alone...

It's no longer unconditional ...it's transactional
U are just an available means to an end when dating a single mother...it's almost always not love for them ..it's always a coping/survival mechanism ....

U are the child's father when they need money and u are spoiling the child...wait till when u discipline the child...u will be reminded that the child isn't yours

This kind of relationship or marriage is NOT for SELFISH and IMMATURE persons like you..... When will you fully understand YOURSELF.

Cantonese:



Now I know that you are not even from Delta state.
Nothing to talk about anymore.

Enjoy the rest of your day.

Lol..... Igbo man expecting me to say what he wants to hear: itchy ears ...

That is why MNK is milking you guys with his constant scamming lies so you people will feel Biafra project is making progress( lol).

Sha no add ANIOMA and SS to whatever meeting una dey always discuss 'nonsense, failed take over of lands' outside the 5 Eastern States. Bye

Cantonese:


Which language is Anioma? Is it Isoko, Urhobo or Itsekiri?

By the way, maybe you do not know that even the Ukwuanis and Agbor, who are your people, call you IGBO.

Your neighbor, who do not even want to hear your name, are those you share your immediate boundaries with in Delta state.

For your information Creamypie, Anioma is becoming the 6th Igbo state, with Onitsha as the capital.

Just as we have Isoko, ITSEKIRIS, Urhobo tribes same way we have Ika, NDOKWANI, Olukumi, Enuani etc tribes.

Same way people call AkwaCross people Igbos, Benue people etc Igbos'.
Just as those who are not Hausas/ Fulanis in the North explain themselves, so we too.

Oga, I laugh...., The people to decide if we need ANIOMA state( of course, we don't need one) are the Kings( Custodian of ANIOMA culture), Elders, Youths and generally the aboriginals NOT the Migrants aka Indigenous IGBOS aka Tenants aka Land grabbers. Infact perish that thought as it is DOA.

Say na people that have traditional worship like Ogun, Orisha, olokun etc ( generally called Osanobua)na you dey call Igbo people? Anyway, Igbos don't even know if they have DNA with Igala people or Israel and make the worst history Teachers.

Make una leave Bini land alone dodo.

Cantonese:


Sorry Creamypie, you are not an Igbo person unfortunately, so you are not qualified to talk about what you know absolutely nothing about please. You have absolutely no idea of what you talk about.

All I can advise you is to ask people who know it, to tell you about it.

Igbo shouldn't comment on ANIOMA naw.....We ANIOMAS with Isokos, Urhobos, ITSEKIRIS are BROTHERS from SAME SOURCE...Igbos' are our friendly NEIGHBORS, don't get it twisted.

Creamypie is CORRECT.

mastermaestro:
Very easy to spot irresponsible men. This internet loafer thinks being a man is just about possessing a penis. Bloody sissy! Take care of your in-laws as much as you can.

For your information, there are many men who care for nobody but themselves, yet poverty lives with them.

Thank you my husband.

Oversabi kills the sweetness of marriage..... Haven't we seen inlaws who go the extreme for their son inlaws eg selling their properties to raise business capital for them or to add to it?

Anyway, everyone knows how to handle things, anybody that likes listen to all nonsense from media.

This reminded me of a book I read some years back, where the writer spoke about female angels.

The writer highlighted that they could be fighters, messengers and guardian angels.

Their being females didn't reduce their effectiveness even though Spirits do not actually have gender.

Even in the physical: we have males and females but in the Spiritual, we are one.

These companies should try make Abeokuta home too.

VULCAN:
There are people who are articulate but lack critical thinking abilities.

There are people that can string words together but cannot build an intellectually sound argument.

You are one of such people.

Reading your contributions can actually reduce ones IQ if done consistently.

Let me speak plainly, you are dumb.

You focused on Okonjo and ignored Mo for two obvious reasons.

1.She is Igbo and (2) she remains the most influential former minister Nigeria has ever had, she is a reminder to your ilk of the great strides the PDP govt made.

Meanwhile, no former APC minister can call the leader of common Estonia whereas Okonjo can speak directly to the President of the United States.

You and your party are mediocres.

Jackass

She is Igbo by MARRIAGE.

We ANIOMAS are Binis..... Few of us are Igalas & Yoruba.

How can someone be paid with tax payers money and still not serve the people up to the common man?... Increasing land document fees and putting draconian laws which doesn't favor ordinary people.

Anyway, Nigeria has been left to dogs

Hope they won't manufacture those big, non portable meters that will be costing N83,000 minimum?

Cost of meters in other countries:
Cotonou ( With Manufacturing base in Ouidah): 10,000-20000frs( Single phase)

Cameroon: 4000-8000frs( Single phase)

Portable, movable to another residence if moving, easily installed by any Electrician.

Polaris bank is a coded fraudulent bank.

U can open savings account with them for which they will acknowledge as being okay at the moment however when u want to withdraw what u deposited, kasala, they will write NO DEBIT that u should go and update your documents and they must come confirm your house address physically.... Till then, na u Sabi with your money.

Not the best for those in diaspora or those who will still be in diaspora.

When u ask several people, different woe tales about this bank ( very local) forming modern bank.... Banking with them usually end in tears. Their % yield per year is a bit attractive but if u love peace of mind: NO NEAR AM OOO.

On this issue of HORMONAL IMBALANCE cos some are shouting it, do u know a lot of married women have it, especially those who married early and use pills, injects etc to prevent pregnancies? This is because you are most likely constantly living with a MAN and not that u are single to dictate the pace of sex.

Many women bear the brunt of family planning more than men even causing obesitythat could be harmful to her health( increased BMI), that is why some men especially abroad, go for vasectomy but not many African men would do this to help their wives..... Some cancers are traceable to this too.... Reason why women need to welcome detox programs more to keep their system and body working well..... Men don't know that the female reproductive system is complex and sometimes 'mere' stress can prevent one from taking in.... That is why you care well for your wives.

Some men just like bashing women at the slightest opportunity. Thank God the Op said that she is a virgin.

Nothing is impossible with the right knowledge, gynecologist, prayers especially when you start early.

Juliearth:







You are right, ma'am. What savings option can you recommend?

Wema bank but visit or email ( alat) them, don't do their app savings to get more yield.

Palmpay.... Fair money( Has facial identification though).

We have other good banks BUT not for savings to get yields.

Women still don't listen.

Be in a relationship/ marriage with a man u love that LOVES u more. If the head of the home is not passionate about u, u seem to just be wasting your time in his life/ house unless God intervenes.

Even women that some men claim they love, the men will still prefer to take a bullet for his OWN family members or kids but NOT for you even when u give birth almost dying per child.

caye:



The techniques for destroying the Black American family by the pink supremacists was in the following steps:-

- entice the women and encourage them to be on welfare/ government assistance ( a noble act if it came from pure intentions)


- use social workers ( white) to brainwash the women , that if they found a man in the house, you lost government assistance


- the black women then decided to drive out the men away, so as not to lose government assistance

- some black men became shortsighted, and didn't know that a game was being played by the pink supremacists, so they started making babies with numerous women

- black women were brainwashed by media, that they were " strong and don't need a man"; a demonic brainwash, which made black American women to look up to white America as their new daddies


- black men were now systematically forced into lower paying jobs, while white / pink men were always being promoted. If you as a black man wanted to get loan to open a business, MAY GOD HELP YOU, as the banks would almost make you cross the red.sea like the hebrews, in terms of conditionalities for getting a loan.


- drug ( crack cocaine) was flooded into the black community by late 60s and early 70s


- crazy politicians like Joe Biden and Bill Clinton then helped pass into laws , criminalising even small amounts of crack cocaine ( WHILE BEING LENIENT ON REAL COCAINE ; USED BY THE WHITE UPPER CLASS AND ELITES).


-mass incarceration of black men
- destruction of black music , especially hip-hop tuned to gangster hip-hop, which was being promoted by the music executives. Classic black music like soul , reggae, jazz were systematically downgraded.



THE REST, AS THEY SAY, IS HISTORY.


N.B:- AS usual, I will tag the following worshippers of pink supremacy and brainwashers on nairaland:-

cc:- Olaadegbu , righteousness2, righteousness89, and some hidden others.


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About your 'NB' ( lol)..... A white sent this to me so not all whites or white Americans are bad or hate blacks.

The said woman in this story is just practicing 3some with her partners in a house. This has advantages and disadvantages ( lol)

Some advantages are: Save cost of rent or mortgage, Save cost of living, not easy seeing a woman to agree on this type of arrangement, so this one is enjoyment till death do them part, if one man goes off the earth life continues for the woman..... I guess this woman should be a sex maniac because even with one man a normal woman can be tired of sex not to talk of 2 horses.

Disadvantages: All the woman's holes are subject to wear and tear/ anal cancer...Some form of disapproval from certain people.... Dont know if she will be bearing both names of the men( lol).... With one man a woman can worry to death on infidelity how much more 2 handsome men especially on some days she can't service them.....

She try Sha.

Juliearth:






Good option. However, those who do not want to tow this path should simply have an alternative account. This account should be frozen (no Internet banking or USSD banking should be enabled). With this setup, one can only withdraw money from his or her account via the counter. Assuming any fraudulent withdrawal is meted on this account, the owner can sue the bank with his or her full chest knowing fully well that it is an inside job.


I have seen people vouch for piggyvest, but I am not a fan....

I do not personally like any account I open to be inaccessible to family members if anything happens to one.

If I go by this your statement, it means family has to 1st go report demise at bank( even if via email) and go through ALL rigorous paths to get the money with LETTER OF ADMINISTRATION. It is enough for them to be sad, not good adding more burden to them. It is better they eat the money than for bank to use the excuse of nobody coming forth to claim the money due to some bureaucracies.

That is why I tread with caution banks with facial identifications that are apps, u don't put too much for too long there, because if anything happens, u can't get the money at the bank till the facial identification is done.... So, a family member with resemblance to the person has to do it or a twin.

In ECOBANK, you have to first install app( not too easy doing) to be able to use USSD code or it's web service effectively..... Zero benefit in other African countries.... But with it's ATM card, one can get money from other bankseg Kuda bank, Palmpay or even Quikteller.

Anyway, the worst bank is Polaris bank.

Hi again,
First — about blacks in the USA. Sorry I seemed to assume that you knew USA history — but most Americans don’t know how American blacks began to degenerate. Thomas Sowell, an old black man who is a genius PhD in economics and still active, has described how after the horrors of slavery, most blacks aspired to fulfill the same American dream as other ethnicities. But even back then, I forgot exactly who - one of the famous black spokesmen - said that there will always be a group of blacks (or any minority, in fact) who makes a living out of black victimhood. Nowadays this is happening most among women. I don’t know if second wave feminism happened at same time in Nigeria, or happened at all, as it happened in USA. When I was in high school (late sixties) there were almost no female doctors or lawyers. I even remember in grade school feeling that kids whose mothers worked were from problem families (often true cause at that time only reason a mother would work was if the father was a drunk or a fool or couldn’t hold a job.) The high schools all had dress codes that said girls had to wear dresses or skirts of a certain length. Since my parents had treated me like a favorite son - with high expectations — and since I preferred boys toys to dolls, I became a feminist as soon as I heard about it. We girls all decided to wear pants to school on the same day and boom - we changed the dress code that same year. More and more women were encouraged to study law and medicine so that today there are more women lawyers and doctors than males (but the men still choose the toughest jobs and the women choose jobs that allow them to also spend more time with their kids.) So, basically,all the goals of sixties feminism were achieved within just several years. So I was amazed when I got back to USA and Madonna and other women were whining like spoiled babies about how unfair the world is to women!!!!
Sowell describes how during a certain decade after slavery, more black young men were married and working than white young men. Blacks were making great progress in the USA until racist Lyndon Johnson became president after Kennedy was assassinated. He is still known for passing the Civil Rights Act in 1964, which made racial discrimination illegal. I just looked this up a few months ago because I mistakenly thought that welfare was part of the Civil Rights Act. Welfare is the informal word for government assistance to poor families — but only poor women and children. Johnson knew that the family was what gave American blacks strength (and the communists knew that they had to abolish the family before communism could take over - they’ve already destroyed the family in USA, but the family is everything in Brazil so I know that no commie president who stole last election will change that. As is natural for such a huge nation , Brazilians don’t realize that the strength of family and church here and through most of Latin America is something that North America and Europe have already lost - especially in the cities. Anyway, Lyndon Johnson destroyed the black family by taking the men out of any black family that needed government help! That’s where all the baby daddy stuff come from. Men would visit their families and end up having several women because if they lived with one woman and their kids that disqualified them from receiving welfare benefits. Worse, the benefits increased with each new baby so some of the worst (and probably least intelligent) mothers kept popping out more babies just to get more governmemt money. My suspicion is that when Johnson pushed for the Civil Rights Act he already had plans to take the men out of poor black and white families. He was a smart and nasty man and I hate to hear him still given credit for the Civil Rights Act. It was a good law but Johnson used it for the bad reason of making it easier for him to destroy poor black families later because someone who had given blacks legal protection against discrimination was assumed to only want to help blacks in the USA, right? But it was the opposite and I wish the schools taught this so American kids would learn how black families and black culture became so negative. That it’s nothing natural to black people but a result of a few white racists.

*From a friend*

Thank God.

RIP to the other hostages killed.

advanceDNA:


Now submissiveness is vice versa..lol....u change bible when it's convinient for you.....so providing should be vice versa too.??..no need for one gender to be claiming because shes a woman she's not supposed to do anything but contribute vagina.....

See if ur man is rich..no wahala...don't help him...don't give him anything..don't be kind to support him....put all ur pressure and family pressure on him...he probably won't feel it..but he may not respect u...

But when u have a man that's not all that rich yet u expect him to do it all...just because u are a woman and he's a man......that's just plain insensitive...

men expect that women should realize times have changed....gone are the days where everyone have land from their family to plant crops and provide....even wives help work the farm in those days ..
Now the money making system has changed...money is hard to make.... yet many of u will go to school just like ur man yet be putting pressure on him to do everything for you, ur kids, inlaws.......

Childbearing too is hard..... Times have changed indeed but i have never seen any man volunteer to help women give birth as we help them make the money..... I know that even if the wife has issues in bringing forth kids, u won't help pay a surrogate for this but rather force things or get another woman.
Some men on Nairaland say they prefer dogs to women but they don't get the benefits of a woman in a dog.