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Romance / Re: Top 5 Signs That He Sees No Future With You by Shawntops(m): 12:26pm On Sep 29, 2016
Romance / Top 5 Signs That He Sees No Future With You by Shawntops(m): 12:24pm On Sep 29, 2016
Where is your relationship headed? Is he taking things as serious as you are taking it? This article will help you answer that question.

If things were always normal, every person we want to be with will want to be with us, too.
Unfortunately, that's not usually the case. We all know now, that some people are in a relationship with people that are not in a relationship with them. [Lol, right?]

Well, you might be in that kind of relationship, too, who knows?
There are signs to look out for if one needs to be sure of where they stand on their lover’s priority list.
Here are five of them:

1. He never makes concrete plans

If he doesn't see a future with you, he won't treat you like there's a future. Period.
This might make him sound like a heartless dick, and that's not always the case. Sometimes this behaviour can be unconscious. But that doesn't mean you should put up with it.

2. He doesn't call you his girlfriend
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If a guy finds it hard to introduce you to people as his girlfriend, you better know It isn't labels he has a problem with, it's you.
Forget all that talk about not wanting to go public with the affair just yet. Any guy that’s looking to go the mile with you will not find it hard to introduce you as his lover, especially to people that matter in his life.
You’re going to be with him for the long haul, right? So what’s the point of hiding it now?
A guy that sees no future with you will most likely not take you home to meet his parents
He won't introduce you to his family
If a guy sees no future with you, what’s the point of introducing you to his parents? Why should he go through the clumsiness of introducing someone to his family with whom he has no real intention of going the distance?
He only wants to see you when there’s a chance of getting laid
This is not to say that a guy that desires to have sex with you will not be interested in a future with you.
The point, on the other hand, is that, if a guy sees a future with you, he'll jump at the opportunity to be with you, whether he’ll get some ‘sugar’ or not.
He might not be willing to see you unless there's a chance if him getting sex.

3.He never talks about the future
A guy that does not see a future with you will surely have some difficulty talking about it.
I mean, why talk about something that’s not even there?
And you, being all lovey-dovey, decides to ask, all you’ll discover is that as far as he is concerned, there isn't one.
However, it is advised that you ask if he isn’t forthcoming about what the future holds for you both. Don’t be scared of making him uncomfortable.
Romance / Re: 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by Shawntops(m): 8:43pm On Jun 13, 2016
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Romance / 7 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship by Shawntops(m): 8:39pm On Jun 13, 2016
It happens.People fall out of love and become disinterested. But how do you tell when your boyfriend isn't into you anymore or isn't taking the relationship seriously?


You could just ask, but he may pretend everything's okay and you won't get a real answer.So if you suspect your boyfriend has been experiencing a change of heart in your relationship, here are some signs that may just confirm it.


Seven Signs That Show Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship:
1.He Doesn't Involve You In His Life

You aren't invited to family events or to hang out with his friends.He keeps his life very personal and quiet, and you're always guessing whether that's his nature.That's not his nature, he tired of your relationship and he's trying to keep you off little by little.

2.He Talks About Other Girls

If he's looking at or talking about other girls, he doesn't have eyes for you and that's an obvious sign of disinterest.He's actually finding other ladies more attractive than you were.

3.Doesn't Ask For Details

He doesn't ask you about your day, and even if he does, he sounds disinterested and doesn't ask for more.He's just going through the motions but wants the conversation to be over before it's even started..*lol*lmao*.

4.He Makes You Feel Like You Can't Say Anything Right

Is your boyfriend constantly picking fights with you and misinterpreting everything you say? Do you feel like you're running around in circles and defending yourself even when you're being nice? Unless, you're spending in code, there's a bigger problem and it has nothing to do with you.
5. He Constantly Say "Sorry" For The Same Thing

Sorry is just a word unless there's a real effort made to not make the same mistake again.He says sorry when he cheats, sorry when he slaps you, sorry when you caught him with another lady..He will start singing you the song "Sorry" by Justin Bieber.

6.It's All About Sex

Having sex is not a means of keeping a relationship interesting.It's good to cuddle, but when the only compliments are about your body and all of your time together feels like a means to an end...Sister! Sorry! It's not Love, but Lust.

7.He Remember Nothing About You

You have full conversations that he cannot recollect.He heard you mention your April birthday five times but sill swears you were born in June.If the only thing he remembers is your address and his favourite bra-and-panty set, there's a problem with your relationship.


NOTE:
Knowing more about your relationship is important.If you're seeing these signs or part of it in him, you need to settle things out or you'd rather called it a Quit..


http://shawntops..com.ng/2016/06/7-signs-your-boyfriend-is-not-serious.html

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Politics / 'my Government Is Like No Other,' President Says by Shawntops(m): 6:17pm On May 07, 2016
In his words at the signing of the 2016 budget, the president said, "Permit me to say that this government is also like none other."
Nigeria President, Muhammed Buhari has boasted about his government saying it's like no other government in the history of the Nation.
While noting that Nigeria is experiencing probably the toughest economic times in its history, Buhari acknowledged the sacrifice and resilience of Nigerians whose confidence of a great future remains his strength.
In his words at the signing of the 2016 budget, the president said, "Permit me to say that this government is also like none other."
Continuing, he said, 'We are absolutely.....
Read more:https://shawntops..com.ng/2016/05/my-government-is-like-no-other.html
Politics / Okonjo-iweala Ex-minister Says Jonathan Created 10000 Jobs by Shawntops(m): 6:09pm On May 07, 2016
Ex-minister of Finance, Dr. Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala has said that ex-President Goodluck Jonathan's administration created 10,000.
According to Daily Post, Okonjo-Iweala made this revelation while speaking at a forum of Finance Ministers across the world.
She further said the over 10,000 jobs were created through a special entrepreneurship programme for Nigerian women.
“We developed a program for women entrepreneurs. A World Bank team supported us, and again we achieved spectacular
results. We used a portion of the budget to incentivize young entrepreneurs, 40 and younger, who would register their businesses, get peer learning and mentoring, and a grant if they won a business planning competition.
“In the first round, only 17 percent of the applicants were women. But more than 50 percent of......
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Politics / Buhari President Signs 2016 Budget by Shawntops(m): 7:16pm On May 06, 2016
Buhari signed the budget today, May 6, 2016, after weeks of back and forth between the Presidency and the National Assembly.


President Muhammadu Buhari has signed the 2016 budget into law.
Buhari signed the budget today, May 6, 2016, after weeks of back and forth between the Presidency and the National Assembly.
The budget signing was witnessed by Vice President, Yemi Osinbajo, Senate President, Bukola Saraki, House Of Representatives Speaker, Yakubu Dogara, Minister of Finance,Kemi Adeosun, Minister of Budget, Udo Udoma and Chairman of the Senate Committee on Appropriation, Danjuma Goje and his counterpart in the House Of Reps, Abdulmumuni Jibrin.

It had been earlier reported that the president would assent to the budget today after receiving the corrected and ready-to-sign version on Thursday, May 5.
“All things being equal, the President will on Friday assent the 2016 Budget. The two committees have finished their work and a clean copy is now with the Presidency,” a source told The Nation.
“There are high chances that the budget will be signed tomorrow (today). In fact, I can tell you that the chances are up to 70 percent, because all the necessary things have been done and the president is already in possession.... Read more:https://shawntops..com.ng/2016/05/buhari-president-signs-2016-budget.html

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