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I'll try to make this brief. I met her in 2005 got married in 2010 but everything i knew about her characters Changed after that... From nagging to making life very difficult for me to cope...

I tried to adjust and told myself "this is what it to be called a real man" then i was in the force mostly posted on night guard 6pm to 6am so when i got home i would try to relax when it's 7am my wife will tell me to leave the bed cos she wanted to rearrange the bed neatly so I'd stand but she wouldn't let me use the bed back claiming I'd rough it lol... After few minutes she'd tell me to get up from the chair in the sitting room that she wanted to sweep. Hehe i was like " i don enter one chance ohhh".

Sometimes if i got annoyed before i said one she'd already said four but one mistake i made was that i used to tell her that i can never ever beat my wife even for once. Sometimes she would even tell me that I was only scared of being beaten by a woman not that i didn't want to beat her, if I'm a man enough i should let us give it a trial lol.

I tried to do an inter state transfer just to be far away from cos after our first child things only get worse but then there was an embargo on transfer, i tried to be transferred to another local government but it wasn't successful. I took it as a shame on me to drive her out even with my little kid so i decided to travel out of the country after my visa came out i resigned but i felt guilty with the idea of leaving without informing her so I told her 2days to my departure though she was happy about it but insisted i must give her money to rent another house before i left, i pleaded with her to continue living there that later I'll send her money to rent another place but she said NO... I gave her the money, later to the market and buy foodstuffs that i knew could take them up to 2months at least, i also gave her what i could afford as "pocket money". It's not even up to 2weeks over i left that she started calling me that they were hungry and no money to buy food i was shocked "so i never escape?" I was annoyed "after you almost finished all my money back home?" hmmm "ok no problem use out of the money i gave u to rent another apartment" she said no she'd already given it to her friend to keep it.

She didn't even ask if got a job or not every time she called it'd be argument about money. I told her to go to my mum then to collect money but she refused saying my mum wasn't the one that came to marry her...

Later i stop to pick her calls and later changed my number but the more i tried to ignore her the more i missed her and my kid who i love to hear her voice always. I called her back after 2months, sent money to her(a big mistake) and that made her to demand more and more with hot pressure. I got tired of life didn't know what else to do and I've not been earning much work permit and co. Still under processing i decided to go do some casual works(labour work) the money i got 1st and 2nd day in the 3rd day luck ran against me and and i was arrested for working without permit i had the option to pay fine though but i couldn't afford the amount so i came back to Nigeria.

The most shocking things was that without informing her of what happened or my coming home she handed over a boxers " you're welcome this is what i bought for you" i asked how did she know i was coming she said she just feel like buying it. Later i told her what happened and how she was the cause but she wasn't remorseful rather she said i was lying against her and I've never seen anything this is just the beginning.

Backed in Nigeria no more work, things was hard but I'm not a lazy type but i refused to live with her but not willing to leave her. I decided to stay in another state, found something to do, got enough money years later and travelled out again but this time i didn't tell her anything up to a year now but i do send money. She sent a message through social media that she heard I'm living with a woman somewhere else so if i don't show up in 3months an end will come to our marriage.

I forgot to hard she works, has a shop. What should i do cos i can go home now and i love her and don't want to have 2nd wife in my record I've not even cheated just for once.

Sometimes I wonder why people divorce because of petty things, but now I know that its because either one of them is a fool(low IQ), or both of them are fools, but in your own case, you are not just a fool but a naturally wicked man. And also, you are very very heartless, in fact the adjective for your wickedness and heartlessness is not in the dictionary, the first thing you did was to bring this discussion here and allow people who already have bad marriages use their mouth to say rubbish. And you have the gut to say you love her? please what kind of love is that, let me tell you what you have for her----
The reason you don't want her to leave is because you want to always and continuously own her not because you love her.
About her Nags, to all those stupid men always accusing a woman for nagging, you need to kindly study psychology. because no human being nags without a reason, People that nag mostly are the type that cannot really communicate their feelings to others and such they nag because they are angry, not comfortable or something is disturbing them that they can't even interpret themselves. Stress is another major cause of Nagging, and the best solution is let the person understand what Nagging is and why she nags. Nagging is not a nice feeling at all, so please you must have either be the cause of her nag or something else us causing it that you are not paying attention to, that's why she transferred the aggression to you.
Please what sort of human being will abandon his wife and child for weeks not to talk of months? How can you dare travel without her knowledge? Even if your friend travel without your knowledge, you will feel bad about it not to talk of your wife.
Another thing people don't understand about money is that people who are emotionally disturbed spend money anyhow, maybe just to derive pleasure, it takes a very strong human being to be wise when emotionally disturbed especially when it has to do with someone they love, and the reason she's highly demanding from you is because she want to punish you in some ways, and that's the only way she could, she want to punish you for everything, for marrying her,making her go through pains etc. I don't think she will be able to forgive you because if I were the one, I can't ever forgive you. To the point that you changed your simcard, do you know the number of times she would have dialed that number of yours during those periods?
And you have the gut to blame her for your deportation? How is that her fault please? You were foolish enough to make the mistake of illegal work, but you couldn't blame yourself, you then shift all your blames to her. And please how much are you giving her that you are saying you are giving her money? With the situation of Nigeria today, take money to market and you will see how fast it will go and discover you haven't bought anything, The truth is that she is intentionally punishing you by demanding from you and not giving you rest of mind.

So solution to your problem
1. Pray to God to forgive you
2. Beg her and beg her friends, beg her family members, tell her everything how you do not know she's in pain, how you thought she was the one punishing you, send those that can help you talk to her for her to forgive you because I am sure the hatred she has for you cannot be measured because it weight is just too much. And the only reason she is still staying with you is because of the money you are sending her and I am sure that as she is, she has already made up her mind that men are useless and no need to have husband
3. Ask her to tell you all her problems, the one you caused and the one you did not cause, and help her provide solution to them
4. Be her friend for now, always ask about her progress in life, discuss with her your future plans, carry her along in all other plans you have
5.. Give her time to forgive you, she can't just switch like that, it may take months, you will have to continuously do her good for month to convince her you have changed for the better
6. Beg her to pity you and tell her about the works you do, how hard it is, promise you will always be there for her and Beg her to be there for you too.
7. Even if you guys later divorce, at least the hatred she has for you that is eating her up would be eased, or you don't know that when one is in such condition, it would affect her interpersonal relationship with others too, that's is why in Nigeria, there's no sector one goes that one will meet 75% nice people, most of them are harsh, especially hospital workers, lecturers, Non teaching academic staffs etc. So please do us the favor of that.

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BurningBlade:
LOL. From the emboldened, it is clear you're the one who is a fool. Now whose fault is it your phone was switched off? Whose fault is it you can't communicate with your class mates? Madam, you're a disgrace to everything that is education. You should withdraw from school and take a job as a motor park tout because such a job suits you very well.

I can't imagine how stupid you are, so its my fault I wasn't given hostel accommodation, and its my fault that when Ghana is celebrating 10years of uninterrupted power supply, Nigeria cannot celebrate a day uninterrupted power supply. I was only trying to tell you that sometimes, students cannot help coming late to class and that at that particular day, I got to school before the time scheduled for the lecture but your IQ is too low to understand that. Anyone can be late to anywhere, some circumstances could cause it, and not because the student is unserious
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The problem we have in this country is because of some old people with wicked mentalities. Imagine some people applauding this inhuman, uncivilized act? That shows that some blacks are animals. And for those who are saying its because students these days are children? I don't think they know what they are saying. Please for those who think this act is not human, and its animalistic, kindly help by copying and sharing, let this circulate till everyone knows this stupid lecturer. That's all we can do for now

BurningBlade:
Madam is it you who celebrate nonsense! Don't you have a course rep or class rep or something like that? Isn't he or she the one who is suppose to update you and look for venue for your classes for you?

You're shown with your sentimental posts that you indeed don't have an aorta of how to do about your daily business. But I'm not surprised because from the nonsense you vomitted, you're among the reason why nigerian universities produce sub standard graduates.

To think you don't even know venues are usually allocated for lectures by department time table officers show you don't even know what you're doing in school in the first place.

The truth is you talk like a fool,my phone was switched off because there wasn't light, so couldn't call anyone prior the lecture, the rest that I met there called some but they couldn't pick because picking of calls is forbidden in class. See maybe its been years you pass out from universities, Time table is useless, no one follows that, class hold anywhere anytime

ebenholer:
Yea very true they don't do that in Australia but down there students have in-built discipline in them. They are always responsible to their learning.

You are stupid with all respect

EmmanuelCena:
Lol You talk like you haven't passed through a 'Nigerian University'
Clap for yourself! You will fail the course, and courses of those loyal to him! If you see 3rd class, nah by God's grace!

You are right Sir

poseidon12:
Why would you reduce a student's mark because they came late to class? Your score should depend on how you perform in exams, quizzes and home work. Undergrads are adults and should be treated as such.

Thanks sir, attendance has nothing to do with scores, they fail to know the importance and reasons for test and exams

free2ryhme:
Missing a class can make u fail is a lie from the pit of hell

No be only be student even those abroad dey do five jobs to see themselves and they didnot fail

And the issue of poverty, a lecturer one time told me to kneel infront of the class I walked out live and direct and I still graduate. It is not about poverty when children behave like children in the university they will be treated like children

But if na to Bleep aristotles and smoke igbo and shisha una dey show una sef.

Make una face una warrant nobody will fight for you and besides when their parents where bribing heaven and earth to get into the university una no complain

you don't know what you are saying, even without missing a class, a lecturer can make one fail, about the poverty ish, that's the truth. But for students to fight for themselves, its not easy, I know a guy that protested, because of that,he was dismissed from the school, another president that proved he's an activist, he hasn't graduate till now since the last 5years he's meant to graduate. Some would be delayed for many years. If you won't fight for students, then kindly don't discourage others who are willing to. I would fight for students with whatever means once I have the power. This human treatment is just too much

Opsydgenius:
I'm a Final Year student of English and I know Prof. Daramola VERY WELL. Agreed, he's not the everyday lecturer because he's different. The 'flogging' is not what people think, look at the pic and you'll see the girl is even laughing. Leave it or take it, Prof. D is one of the most inspiring persons I've met. He goes extra mile for his students.

In the last 3 years, he has not missed a class. If you also think he's a sadist, you may be right because no one has gotten A in his course in recent years, but when you sit in a Daramola exam you'll know why. I think he's tagged a sadist because he won't give 'free' marks.

Akokites should also endeavour to not always blow things out of proportion.

you are stupid brother, is it right for no one to get A in a lecturers course? It just show that the lecturer has been so inefficient that he couldn't teach students well enough for them to have A in his course. I think you have low IQ, let me tell you what test is about, test is an instrument used to know how much the students have learnt from a course content, and there's something called normal distribution, which the curve says, no matter the test, some should have an A,Some B, C, D like that, but because he's a professor of nonsense, he's too dumb to know that. please so far a lecturer can not teach enough for students to have A in his course in recent Yeats, then he is a failure himself, because he has failed to teach them well,so please stop celebrating him. He should be condemned for that

BurningBlade:
Flogging the student is wrong! But still, why should a student come late to class.

The best thing to do in this case is to stop them from entering his class, not to flog them.

Why should a student come late to class? That is the most stupid question I have heard in ages. But still I will answer you
I am in UI, post graduate, a lecture was scheduled for 8:00, I got to the faculty 5minute before 8:00, but just because there is no venue, we use different places, I first went to check the exercise physiology lab if they were there, because that was where we used the last class, then someone described somewhere, by the time I walked round the faculty I was already 15minutes past 8, so with that I got late to the class. Another day, I got late to class was the faculty declared free lecture day, so we thought lecture is not gonna hold,the lecture was supposed to hold at 8:00, the woman did not come, and me wasn't feeling fine,went back home, later the woman called around 9:15, that lecture would be 9:30,I was already home, my house is far from the school because the school did not give me hostel, I rushed to the class,but still I got there late, 15minutes to 10, and the woman didn't allow me to enter. And for all the two classes that I missed, 5marks deducted from CA.Nigerian universities are nonsense

free2ryhme:
Which of the older generation? Obasanjo own or fashola own?

Oga what stopping the girl from leaving or forgetting the class? Dem force her neter to chop the cane?

An older student will just leave and collect notes later afterall missing one class wot make you fail exam

missing a class can make someone fail, I don't think you know what you are saying. The main reason people cannot voice out is poverty, everyone is afraid because the school fees was paid with their parents last money, imagine that kind of a person should fail. I am young during undergraduate, I know all my rights,but still couldn't voice out, now during postgraduate, they treat us like animals, still I can't do anything because I know parent only want to hear positive things. But am very sure I will become an activist one day, and voice out so many things

maisauki:
Some students deserve being beaten even been served wit punishment.
D way youths of today behave you'l justl be very sori for them...

I don't abuse on social platform, but I am forced by your words. You are crazy and incorrigible, your type of people are the reasons Nigeria is not moving forward. Even beating small children is forbidden, not to talk of adult

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Its possible but it depends on how generous the School is and the offer available. I guess you would probably have to be there physically to stand a better chance.

That means you are suggesting its better not to change department,?