Romance › Re: My Relationship Of 9 Months Just Crashed by sheeda995(f): 3:19pm On Dec 14, 2023 |
Autonomous01: Y is everyone not talking about d unnecessary comparisons? Not once not twice, Y did he left his “Supportive ex girlfriends”? After all they did for him….I personally can’t be with someone who compares me with others, if u want me to adjust, tell me and I will but not comparisons…Also bro is a jigolo, why is it dat it is only financial support he’s always getting from his so called supportive gals?? He’s a jigolo, there’s no two way about it. What are u getting from him other than financial gains? Does he have any impact in ur life aside dat?? So wat’s d fuss all about?? He clearly saw a better opportunity and tuned in, trust me if he sees a new catch dat’s more richer dan the current lady, he’ll still leave dis one for d new one…His needs are insatiable…. My advice, be a better version of urself, u’ll meet a better person soon, just be good NB; I’m not a feminist and I’ll never be…But Let’s call a spade a spade Because they are fools. Are you new to nairaland? Even if you say your boyfriend beats you when sleeping with no offense with pictures and video evidence, nairaland men will say you are the cause and you should be ashamed of yourself. Most of them are frustrated boys,broke and have no life |
Romance › Re: My Relationship Of 9 Months Just Crashed by sheeda995(f): 3:14pm On Dec 14, 2023 |
Prettygirl200: Am a human am aren't perfect, I can't be everything a man wants in a woman, I have my good and bad sides, I can't change but can adjust because I love and care for that person, tried to adjust to suit him that was when he told me I was pretending and acting up to love him which wasn't true. I was trying to adjust because I cared about him too even though am not as rich as those ladies supporting him financially. From your write up, your replies to stupd men on this forum,I can see you are very soft and dumb. How can you allow a lazy idiot to tell you you can't support him? Relationship is mutual benefit,how is he exactly benefiting you? He's an entitled fool, and I'm glad you left the idiot. Never allow a man to treat you like that. You are a queen, a rare gem, the only you on planet Earth, you are valuable. Never allow people or anyone to treat you like that. I will advise you build your self esteem |
Health › Re: Share Your Experience With An Incompetent Doctor. by sheeda995(f): 1:32pm On Dec 10, 2023 |
Philomath1212: Here in Nigeria, doctors and nurses have sent millions of souls to grave due to their quackery but it's a topic nobody wants to explore... Most deaths in Nigerian hospital is caused by doctors and nurses |
Romance › Re: My Wife Watches Cartoons More Than My Kids At 37 Help! - Man Laments by sheeda995(f): 1:16pm On Dec 10, 2023 |
Angrymode: I'm quite old and I watch cartoons more than all my kids. I don't know your wife but I love her already 😍 Ode.you slaves must copy your slave master at all cost. |
Politics › Re: Cost Of Living In Nigeria Is Cheaper Than UK Or US by sheeda995(f): 5:45pm On Dec 06, 2023 |
Kachidubem: There are jobless people too overseas
I'm talking of , do you know any graduate currently working in a company and earning 30k monthly
Even local government council , no one with uni degree earns 30k I have university degree and masters,all I earn is 30k npower salary that doesn't come at due times |
Politics › Re: Cost Of Living In Nigeria Is Cheaper Than UK Or US by sheeda995(f): 6:34pm On Dec 04, 2023 |
sinero: Mumu, I know many jobless oyinbo graduates too. Why do u think they get stipends sometimes as universal credit if all of them are employed Those getting stipends in oyinbo land are people that would have died in Nigeria or become theievs. They are mentally ill people, those with disabilities who cannot work,si gle mothers taking care of children,or those that newly gave birth who cant work,refugees who just came to a new country without permit,new immigrants, seniors (elderly people)people who doesn't like working etc. But in Nigeria it's able body,young vibrant people who are interested in working,energetic to work,that are unable to get jobs |
Politics › Re: Eko Row: Benin People ‘Owned’ Lagos, Awori Paid Royalties To Them - Erelu Abiola by sheeda995(f): 2:38am On Dec 04, 2023 |
7lives: Bini people already said they ain't Yoruba, Yorubas' too don't want to have anything to do with them. Oyo Ile is situated in Katunga, modern day Niger state, go to Makera, and Jebba in Niger state, the people speak Yoruba fluently yet Yorubas' don't drag them They identify themselves with Yoruba up to Benin republic, Togo, Ghana, Sierra Leone, Gambia, up South America. Which stupid story are they telling up and down?, Bini colonize Lagos Island doesn't mean they didn't meet people there when they arrived. My own mother is also an indigine , a princess from Otto ruling house, she said their fathers came from Ife, the Obas Olotto, Eleko, Ojora all normally tie white wrapper. Oba of Benin no dey tie white wrapper o, na red him dey tie Only those connected to Ife are tieing white wrapper, make Binin people go look elsewhere for their lost relatives, Lagos and Bini are not related. I know Yoruba and Benin are related from Primary school. One of Oduduwa son abi grandson went to Benin. Stop telling rubbish story |
Politics › Re: Eko Row: Benin People ‘Owned’ Lagos, Awori Paid Royalties To Them - Erelu Abiola by sheeda995(f): 2:34am On Dec 04, 2023 |
Pakute: All these stories are trash. Nobody has denied Aworis were from Ife but the question is, when the Benin migrant came, were the natives not there?. I ask again, How did Yorubas chase benins away from Lagos?, why is Yoruba language and culture predominant in Lagos?, why are the Yoruba the land owners in Lagos?, why are they the ones selling land in Lagos?, How many benin have a family house in Lagos?. These are my questions i want benin people to answer, otherwise, everything na empty noise. i am looking for the historical account of how Yoruba chased Benin out of Lagos, pls, anyone with the document shotld send me a link. Use your brain. The forefatherz of Yoruba in Lagos today are Benin. How is that difficult to understand?is Tinubu not claiming Lagos? When you live in a place for 2000 years,you are now from that place. |
Politics › Re: Cost Of Living In Nigeria Is Cheaper Than UK Or US by sheeda995(f): 2:06am On Dec 04, 2023 |
Kachidubem: This post makes sense... but can I ask you a question... Do you have or know anyone who is a graduate that earns #30,000 monthly
Coz I don't know anyone who earns that amount monthly ... except secondary school cert holder maybe
Coz even level entry salary of most Govt agencies na from 150-180k UpTo 300k (NNPC) I know many graduates and masters holders not earning anything. I know many with Npower Jon earning 30k. Me myself,I earn 30k alawi, You are crazyyyy |
Politics › Re: 433 Foreign-Trained Doctors Fail MDCN Qualifying Exam by sheeda995(f): 5:07am On Nov 28, 2023 |
Lol,nonsense medical exam |
Politics › Re: Why Are The Endsars Activists And Youths Supporting Peter Obi And Not Sowore? by sheeda995(f): 8:16pm On Nov 22, 2023 |
Wiseandtrue: Sowore was bankrolled right from the beginning, he was used by APC to get into power
Immediately after, he was tossed aside
Sowore na anywhere belle face
So how can you compare him to an ex governor whose track record has remained unbeatable till date Unbeatable indeed. I can see how your family members are suffering under Unbeatable track record. Good luck |
Programming › Re: Need A Website Developer by sheeda995(op): 8:12pm On Nov 22, 2023 |
Would get back to everyone here. Thanks |
Programming › Re: Need A Website Developer by sheeda995(op): 6:38pm On Nov 19, 2023 |
XXLDICK: Yeah. Could be more, could be less. It depends on getting a full picture of what you want. Ok |
Programming › Re: Need A Website Developer by sheeda995(op): 11:17am On Nov 19, 2023 |
XXLDICK: I will create it for about 100k. Could be more ( I don't have full details of what you need.)
I am a full-stack developer and I use NextJs (a React meta-framework) primarily.
You can chat me up. 08053662673 Is it negotiable |
Programming › Re: Need A Website Developer by sheeda995(op): 5:17am On Nov 16, 2023 |
Ok |
Programming › Re: Need A Website Developer by sheeda995(op): 3:29pm On Nov 15, 2023 |
bassdow: it's obvious you wannt a Custom designed website, not one designed using a CMS e.g wordPress, joomla, etc. You stated you've got Logo and Content, but that ain't nearly enough to give a price quote.
Your use of the word "information Website" is kinda ambiguous as it could mean a lot of things even though I am certain it doesn't include realEstate or ecommerce.
An "information Website" could be a [product] catalogue or a simple business website of few pages.
An "information Website" could be static (just HTML, CSS, and maybe Javascript) or dynamic (include not just HTML, CSS, and Javascript BUT also lots of servserSide scripting such as PHP,Phyton, etc) and that also affects the fee.
Would have been much easier if you had just provided 1 or 2 examples of such "information Website" so it's easier for people to know if it's something they could handle at all.
Since you are interested in a price range, I would say anywhere from 50,000 naira exclusive of Domain name & Hosting.
Contact on signature or 09020325050 | 08111805040 (Calls | whatsApp | TeleGram).
what some fear is when client starts mounting additional feature requests, yet unWilling to increase pay A website where we hv about us,what we do,our services,information about our business. And a payment gateway using stripe for instance where people can make payment securely.the website would hv several pages in pages. Once I found the right person we would sit down to discuss in details. I have everything about the website designed and can design it via photoshop for you to see. Truth is i hv started coding the website myself till I got burned out,was coding two website same time but I don't know Javascript. I'm well familiar with css and html. I was using the website to learn until I gave up and decided to hire someone |
Romance › Re: What Is Internalized Colonization by sheeda995(op): 1:53am On Nov 15, 2023 |
seguno2: Is it just the politicians/leaders who are doing this? Don’t ordinary Africans want to send their children abroad instead of EXPECTING the leaders to provide a better education system here? Don’t we Africans prefer ready made solutions instead of working hard for them?
Are our politicians not emerging from among us? Are we not the ones who allow them into power and keep them in power  I used leaders to mean "why we have massive problem". Me telling people that the problem is not just the leaders but the society. We are saying thesame thing |
Romance › Re: What Is Internalized Colonization by sheeda995(op): 1:50am On Nov 15, 2023 |
seguno2: Since you are angry AND you understand all these things, why are you not working on ENLIGHTENING everyone in your sphere of influence and beyond, to create a critical mass of people who have the same understanding as you  Building massive wealth for now. Once I'm done Building wealth I would bury myself in such activism. Give me 5years |
Romance › Re: What Is Internalized Colonization by sheeda995(op): 11:13pm On Nov 14, 2023 |
helinues: When you are being colonized internally mostly by your own people or leaders You are wrong. |
Romance › Re: What Is Internalized Colonization by sheeda995(op): 11:07pm On Nov 14, 2023 |
pansophist: Internalized colonialism is when the oppressed are oppressing others with the same yardstick they themselves suffer oppression.
For example, Black Americans oppress Africans because they are too black, therefore, seeing Africans through the discriminatory lenses of whites, to an extent that these negative stereotypes become incorporated into their cultural values.
This phenomenon is common among people from colonized countries. Internalized colonialism expresses itself in different ways such as colorism, prestige (in sociolinguistics), bleaching, inferiority complex, self-hate based on background/race, etc.
When a people, culture, or society is defeated, they tend to see their worth through the validations of their conquerors. The conquered want to eat like them (the conquerors), dress like them, speak like them, answer their names, live in their country, etc.
It's very visible in everyday life in Nigeria. You are right, this is not taught in school, and many in colonized countries don't even know that internalized colonialism is the fabric that makes up their culture to a large extent. Oh my goodness. I'm happy you answered this right. I wish I could give you a gift for this really. That's the major problem in Africa that no school is teaching. That's why politicians, leaders would send their children abroad instead of creating a better education system in their country,they prefer ready made,everything theirs would be seen as bad, everything of their colonizers would be seen as better |
Programming › Re: Need A Website Developer by sheeda995(op): 9:31pm On Nov 14, 2023 |
losprince: This is surely one of those overbearing and insatiable clients with very shallow pockets and a humongous air of self-importance.
From it's not an ecommerce site to people can fill form and payment. If people can make payment that means you're selling something, if you're selling something then it's an ecommerce site. You are dumb. This is why most of you are poor and wouldn't grow. So filling form is an e-commerce? Thank God I know how what I want, this is how I will be believing this nonsense? You also want to collect 1m,continue |
Programming › Re: Need A Website Developer by sheeda995(op): 9:28pm On Nov 14, 2023 |
LikeAking: U that know the difference, go and build ya stuff….
Ur problem is lack of humility.. You don’t know but u think you know.. A reason you will employ the wrong guys over and over.
Go and do research.. Firstly you came to my post and I didn't know your existence before. I was asking people willing to do it then you wrote an epistle that I never asked you. When did I say you should be interested. You shouldn't put your frustration on me as I'm not the reason your life is not what you want. What does this post has to do with humility? And why do I need to be humble to you?
You came to my post to tell me the reason as if I ever told you I asked someone to create a website for me before. Mind your business ogbeni, I'm not your mate
FYI : I am not interested in this ur gig. |
Programming › Re: Need A Website Developer by sheeda995(op): 3:04pm On Nov 14, 2023 |
LikeAking: The problem is from you guys, u don’t know how to pick quality devs.. You fall for the sweet mouthed ones and the ones with cloned YouTube projects..
What you want to build is a custom script and it a going to be expensive and take longer time..
Do you have the money?
Your front end will be built with a sever side generation frame work and any backend Lang can be used for the back end..
If not handled by a professional, it’s will become a disaster and you will loose all ya money..
I will suggest u stick with word press things..
1 million Naira ( < $1000) max is the least amount you will spend …
Just a tip: Most of the work for this kind of App will be on the front end and less on the backend.. Did I say I want an app,you don't even know the difference between a website and mobile app |
Programming › Re: Need A Website Developer by sheeda995(op): 3:02pm On Nov 14, 2023 |
simplesol: What type of site do you want to build? Please be specific with more details, so as to understand the functionality and to also deliver to you an excellent job An information website. A website where people can go read information and fill forms,make payments |
Programming › Re: Need A Website Developer by sheeda995(op): 6:23am On Nov 14, 2023 |
simplesol: Alright. What type of business are you into? If you outsource, this is not for you. I need the ability for people to match |
Programming › Re: Need A Website Developer by sheeda995(op): 6:06am On Nov 14, 2023 |
simplesol: Goodmorning.
Goodmorning, 1. What type of website do you want to build i.e the niche? 2.Do you have content you'll prefer to use or i should provide? 3. Do you have your logo or i should design one for you?
Price range 60k-80k
You can reach me here : 0.80.33.05.05.77 We hv logo We hv contents I want a proper website,not e commerce more of information website and where people can connect with one another |
Programming › Need A Website Developer by sheeda995(op): 5:30am On Nov 14, 2023*. Modified: 3:05pm On Nov 14, 2023 |
I need a serious Programmer/web designer for a project.
Please drop ur price range and any other information you need and let's communicate here before we go private.
I do not like WordPress, I need proper html css Javascript
Please this is not for you if you are unserious, do not reply text and do not pick calls. If you are going to dissappear and come back after 2days to tell me an emotional story,I won't be interested in working with you. If you will outsource this,it's not for you
We hv logo We hv contents I want a proper website,not e commerce more of information website and where people can connect with one another
These traits are very common with us Nigerians and it screams non professionalism. After writing here that people should explain themselves,some are still sending me email requests. I will connect with you here first before wasting my time to connect with you anywhere else and you start misbehaving |
Romance › Re: What Is Internalized Colonization by sheeda995(op): 1:48pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
victory36:
what exactly prompted this assertion at this time of the day? You seem annoyed Of course I am. I am angry with the fact that an average Nigerian is still dumb in 2023. I'm angry you guys do not understand the social determinants of health,you guys do not understand what privileges are. You do not know that wealth beget wealth, you do not know that the reason girls have turned into prostitution is because of the high poverty rate in Nigeria and its a means of survival. I'm angry because you didn't know if the woman could study medicine,its not because she's hardworking,it's because she has the opportunity which millions of Nigerians will never have even if they work hard 24hours a day. She rose to whatever she rose to because you guys live in a society that the rich will continue to be rich and get to high positions whereby the poor will only do stuffs that will make them a laughing stock. I'm angry because of the quarter education the government give you in Nigeria,that only make the poor worship the rich and dumb to think the rich got their wealth out of hardwork. As at right now, there's no hardwork that can bring a Nigerian out of poverty. To even pass Waec,you need good teachers, you need good schools which only the rich can afford. I'm angry because nothing can be done about this,I can only watch you guys and wish you give yourself education instead of being rich people's asslickers |
Romance › What Is Internalized Colonization by sheeda995(op): 2:28am On Nov 11, 2023*. Modified: 11:13pm On Nov 14, 2023 |
Anyone know what this is?
These are the things to be taught in school but nah,they teach students garbage and expect the country to be great
An average educated African is nothing but an illiterate
This should be taught in primary school
Now if Nigeria wants to teach this,it would be taught in English in the most impossible way to understand. Then students would be forced to memorize it to pass exams. Then it will end up being a total waste |
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Politics › Re: Aderonke Kale Is Dead! Nigeria’s First Female Major-General Dies At 84 by sheeda995(f): 10:52pm On Nov 10, 2023 |
It's funny when they say someone's death is a painful loss to Nigeria because in truth the result of their work that we see today in Nigeria is nothing to write home about. What exactly did we lose whether they are alive or dead?Absolutely no loss |
Family › Re: My Husband Hasn't Touched Me For More Than A Year by sheeda995(f): 12:48pm On Nov 09, 2023 |
Alooone: Yes. I do...my family is my backbone Why are you bringing your issues to nairaland toxic men. All they do is bring down women and blame you,no matter how obvious that your husband is an absolute idi**ot. My advice is download tinder and look for love somewhere else,not Nigerians as from this post I can tell they are still primitive and judge to mental illness patients. Loose weight,look good and leave the slowpoke |