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Pls, I need advise concerning my husband. Infidelity. Recently my husband went for a family friend's wedding at Ilesa , we were to attend together but I wasn't feeling fine that day. Because of my health he said he will make it back that day to lagos. He called me later that he won't be coming back that day that the place is bubbling, this was around past 5. On a good day I believe the party should have ended at that time. I told him no problem that he should take care of himself. When he came back the next day around 5pm he started telling me I am not a good wife that I should have set his food on the table. Meanwhile I called him in the morning around 9 to find out if he was already on his way so that I can start preparing something. He told me the bride's mom begged him to wait for breakfast so he is not sure when he will leave. By the time he will leave he never called to inform me. All these made me to call a member of the family that was at the party to ask if my hubby slept in their house as he claimed. The person told me he came with his cousin( that happens to be his partner in crime) and they only spent 30mins. Though that was not his first time of doing such things. Even if Lizard is having a party outside lagos, they will attend and spent 2 days. So many times I have sat him down to have discussions with him, he will cover it up based on the fact that I don't have evidence to show. The little I have I won't want to implicate those that inform me. Pls I need genuine advise as I don't really know what to do again to satisfy him. I am really fed up and the love is lost.

joel lala: But someone said that her husband allowed her to check his phone and she saw that he was about to hook up with his ex..doesnt that show that he doesnt care?

Actually, he forgot his phone where he was charging it. And I was like let me just go through it. Also, his ex is like a parasite. She wants to come back by all means, so she refused to marry someone else.

I am the last in my family. If I have the opportunity of coming to dis world again, I will still prefer to be last born. But, one if the disadantages to me is that I can't decisions my own. I don't enjoy my freedom etc.

It is advisable to stop checking your partner's fone, the last time I did that I saw what made me up to dis day not to trust my hubby. Infact, I saw a text he sent to a friend that he miss his ex p---y. So they both planned to hook up with them for the weekend.