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Creamish:
I was a victim 10years ago.. Today I can laugh about it..back then, the account officer that convinced me made a wise decision to run and never be seen again after it crashed...

Joavid:
am sorry but I couldn't help but quote you because I remember you vividly from babyosisi thread about marriage . and I also remember EfemenaXY taking her time to give you one of the most amazing advice I have ever come across on this Forum.

Madam, why are you still in that marriage? cos am touched. never been this touched by a story before.

ehimeayeni:
My dear, i beging to wonder why some girls hate their mother in laws and forbid them to visit their matimonial home after marriage not knowing that they too would be mother in law one day.... Only those who wear the shoes knows where it pinches most

mostyg:
What is this stereotype about Geology?

Is Geology that hard a course?

mostyg:
What is this stereotype about Geology?

Is Geology that hard a course?

ipreach:
I will forgive her as she did to me and then advice her and help her cut off everything that will lead to repetition of such again.

Oladat:
From experience,it is very difficult to forgive.I have a cheating wife,I caught her not quite four weeks ago.For me that is the end of the marriage,but because of family pressure,we are still living together.We've been married for 7 years,we are blessed with 2 lovely boys,and of course,I enjoyed it while it lasted.the most painful part of it is that I trusted her so much so that I never suspected her of cheating.Now,I've started seeing someone else(something I haven't done in 7 years),and she knows it.My intention is to frustrate her out of my home.

ipreach:
I have confession to make.....





i cheated on my wife last week with a colleague in the office

Ginaz:
dear lord, please I still dont know what I will do with a cheating husband despite thinking about it. I could pray to you but let my prayers not be for an unrepentant man. please dont give me one! I don't think I will be able to pray and at the same time keep calm.

I cannot honor a man who cannot honor our matrimonial bed, our vow and my body.
he might just wake up and next thing he's dead.

cionon:
Thank you. Url words were warming enough. Actually I made the decision to take a walk but then i just needed to ask questions if opening up was wrong so that I will know how to handle future marriage. After all i am in experienced in marital journey. It takes a mature man to correct me where i av said or done bad.

stanogb:
How long does it last ? and how much?

adeoye201:
Bros take heart, ur village people still dey on ur mata

justmenoni:
Lies lies..her village in ijebu then Kogi!!

Ur sister in law was attending the burial party of her friends dadyand u are attending that of madam k's aunt

ITbomb:
No need to go, she said she's pregnant

Miami11:
She was 14 when her parents gave her out to a man 31 years older than her to settle a debt.

TheArchangel:
Let me teach you how to do it babe.
My tips (these are what has worked for me; results will vary; ask him; etc.):

Be enthusiastic. If you're acting like you'd rather be doing something else, he's going to catch on.
Drink some water ahead of time so that there will be more spit in your mouth.
Use the extra spit as lube to also incorporate a hand. Try to find a rhythm with this. Move both your mouth and hand at the same time.
Suck on the head/lick it while using your hand on the shaft.
If he keeps his eyes open, make a little eye contact.
Play with yourself a little bit.
Take him as deep as you can, but don't make yourself uncomfortable doing it.
Pay attention to each part: head, shaft (top side, underside, and both sides), and balls. I've been told to not suck on the balls themselves as much, but more the skin. This may not be true for your guy and he may not even want ball play, so ask him.
Again, be enthusiastic.



Hmmmmmmmmmmm. Professor
Coming back......

treese:
Wow I just saw ur post. At least my hubby still have sex with me. Tho I have observed he doesn't really like kissing anymore except I force him to. But at least I can say our sec life is good. Cos I put my all into it and mk myself look like the best. But ur story is way more pathetic than mine. I haven't caught him cheating yet even tho.its just the signs that are there. His love for his mom too is like 80%. And I dare not look thru his phones. Its his taboo. So tell me how are you coping? How long have u both bin married and how are u able to mk urself happy still leaving with him. Cos I for one actually assured myself that the day I catch him cheating am gonna leave with my kids. I may not be able to endure it, but I prefer my happiness than anything else. Even the bible says it's only infidelity that should come btw you and your husband. Cause I might not have the strength to cope. Even tho I know if I leave today he will not come begging. So wats d point. Abeg life is too short to be unhappy.

freshvine:
You mean I should held the washing water like a senior househelp waiting for him to finish gobbling his meals.

You don't get it. Serving me break fast on bed is qd uite romantic for a wife but dehumanizing me with archaic fantasy of his is another kettle of fish entirely.

EfemenaXY:
Been wondering where you've been.

Sorry to hear you were ill. Hope you're better now? Good to know things have started picking up for you. Small baby steps - and you WILL get there eventually. Well done.

Sounds like you need a small, portable generator though. How much does one cost, Shiningmama? And secondly, do you have a separate bank account for your business? One which no-one else but you has access to?
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EfemenaXY:
You could try to sound just that little bit more enthusiastic, you know. No one's going to do this for you so better be a bit more upbeat about this.

Bashing your hubby (which I wouldn't do), is all to easy and wouldn't get you where you need to be. Or is there something else you'd rather be doing??

EfemenaXY:
^^ Okay. Sounds like you'll have to "push the boat out" on this.

What I mean, is that you'll have to go out and get the customers yourself. Make them come to you. You'll also have to device a Marketing Strategy that works well for you.

I know come Christmas, things will definitely pick up, but you can't wait till then. Have you approached the heads / principals of any of the Nursery / Primary / Secondary schools near you, to see if they can give you a contract to sew their pupils/students' uniforms? You may have to go through someone who "knows" them. It doesn't matter if you start off with a low number - say 10. The important thing is that you'll need to be really, really, persistent. Don't stop at just one or two schools. Go for as many as you can. It's kind of like applying for a job. The more CVs you send out to potential employers (or clients in your case), the better your chances of getting something.

Do the same thing for churches in your area. Quite a lot of them have choirs in uniform. Take your kids with you. Carry your baby on your back and go speak to your pastor's wife. Level with her woman-to-woman to see if she can help, or knows anyone who can. Adopt the same approach towards restaurant / business owners who employ cooks, waiters, drivers, or any other kind of staff in uniforms.

Then you've got weddings/naming ceremonies/burials where people dress in similar clothing or uniforms. Try and get in there too.

Now is the time for you to build relationships, but you have to go out there. Are you able to print out a couple of business cards to hand out to people? It doesn't have to be much. Maybe 100 to start off with. Even if you get just a couple of positive responses, it'll be a good start. Just make sure you do your very best with the work given to you, and do it on time. Nothing annoys a client more, if you delay on your deadline. Speed and Quality, Shiningmama.

Let me know what you think of my ideas, and if these are "do-able" for you.

Good Morning.


Thanks once again, i've informed my church members about my new business.. announcement was even made concerning it..even though we have enough tailors in my church, our women leader is a tailor.
I will visit some school as advised.