Maks27:
She’s a girl I love very much but our relationship hasn’t gone real far . She told me this of recent with evidence for me to know it’s real and true
What do I do?
She said I shouldn’t hurt her that things will go well for me
I need advice from Matured Nairalanders on this matter


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as far your hands are clean she can’t do anything to you, leave the relationship now, don’t wait till you got your hands dirty

PoliteActivist:


*Politeness*
Some people on this thread must be sponsored by Yul. I don't see how any normal person can be reasoning the way they are

sponsored by yul indeed, so you think everyone in nigeria supports senselessness , are you sponsored by may?

PoliteActivist:


*Politeness*
Are you being funny sir? Please tell us the "logical sense" in announcing that the HAPPIEST year of his life is the year his 1st wife's son died, if "he loved him as much if not more than she did"! Please regale us. We are waiting to hear the "logical sense" behind that announcement!

madam go through the thread . thank you

1kejamasseuse:
Oh she should follow the clowns and be dancing and doing childish things? When men mount ready to take over what yul cowardly left to carry someone's run away wife hohohoho .... Men mount! She will bring another man into that house ... U.a get luck no he eveil spirit like me una jam hohohoho

make she return bride price, go the men wey wan mount her. bring another man inside yul house wey dey stay ? lol , una too funny. your evil spirit na learner! relax

obonujoker:


He cheated on his wife.

Moreover they have not been living together for like 2 years now.

Know this and know peace... Nothing can ever beat First love

yes they are officially separated, she should return the bride price and drop his name. cheating no start today. not like i support cheating , but not enough reason for the unnecessary insults by strangers , that still trying to figure out their own lives.

obonujoker:


Just Austin has a lot of social media soldiers

Ndi maynation, keep deceiving her!! while judy continues having the man the so much craves for

obonujoker:


Yul was cheating on his wife with Judy using movie scenes as cover up.

Moreover not only Rita supports May, almost all the Edochies support May.

May has never reciprocated the disrespect Yul dishes out to her online.... She's always silent.

Why is Yul afraid of May silence?? Because he betrayed her and he knows... So he can't have peace

Afraid of what silence? is that stoping him from making money or living his life , the entire edochies are who ? how many do you know ?

you don’t know the situation of their marriage , this kind of betrayal did not start with her, it’s eaither she leaves the marriage, or find a way to cope with the situation as the first wife.

Kobojunkie:
What the heck?

yes anything?

obonujoker:


What exactly is she doing?? She has never said anything at all?? Why is her silence bothering you people so much?

Her silence is manipulation!! the resent one was, “God i will never cease to praise you, Let thy will be done” may nation in chia , may nation in action, he has married another woman move on and let him face his own karma. not all these social media attack and defense

obonujoker:


How can a wicked man he happy?? Does it work?

what makes him a wicked man ? that he married another wife, na today e start? it even started before you were born. it’s simple , get a divorce and leave or be the first wife. nobody use rope tie you for there. and that does not mean he should not be happy because he’s no longer with you , isn’t that witch craft . both of you are allowed to find happiness

obonujoker:


Did Rita Edochie husband go to sleep with a married woman with 3 Children.

Don't support evil

judy wasn’t married when he met judy, she was single , both were preciously married, and so?

Rita edochie has no respect for her husband and behaves anyhow. that’s why she’s not even proud of the man. that’s why she’s supporting all may us doing. i’m not supporting evil , i don’t support rubbish to please people, i do my own analysis .

lordnkem000:

They are both free to live their lives as they want, to be happy and so I don't know why you guys think yul must do things to please MAY or her fans. He's free to post whatever makes him happy and so she shouldn't be urging her ignorant fans to be bullying yul abeg. It's disgusting

Now see this for exact, there is now may nation! tell me if these people are normal ? this Rita edochie, na so she dey treat her husband anyhow, don’t mind her. troublesome people. i honestly believe if yul edochie dies they will prefer it , than him being happy with judy, and he has literally left his mansion for her an still taking care of them.

PoliteActivist:




*Politeness*
There is an expression "beyond the pale". Posting that the year your wife lost her beloved son is the happiest of your life is one of them. Yes, we are all free to say whatever we want but how many people do you see post that the year a loved one died was the happiest of their lives? Infact it is ultimate declaration of war and his wife and kids ought do all they can to make his life miserable.
You folks ought stop supporting what's simply wrong because one day, God forbid, it might happen to you!

please how many people do you see or know in this world, women have seen worse, at it stands there is a case already in court for their divorce , everybody won’t do things the same way , what ever he said doesn’t mean he’s happy the boy died , he’s the father and that’s his first son , he loved him as much if not more as she did. this emotional rigoround is too unrealistic. sorry to say but you’re not making any logical sense than trying to use emotions to state your point.

Nonexisting1:
Yul may be handling the situation like a bomboy but you see that May, she has a very bitter soul. One look at her in all their videos, you'll easily notice what I'm saying here. She is the insatiable type with very hardened victim mentality. Only God knows the kind of Shege she was giving Yul that made him consider upgrading his sidechick to a second wife. Men don't usually do that with clear eye. Bad wife has always been the reason most of the times.

Don’t mind the liars second wife is always juju. she should go in peace and end it.

Kobojunkie:
I don't follow any of them, nor do I really care much for their tales, but even I find something wrong with a man declaring the year his child died a "best year". How many minutes did he spend in the "best year" mourning the child?

oh wasnt you



must he complain like you? if he tells you his problems can you solve them? nothing wrong with what he said . and his reaction is expected because it’s getting to a normal trend to insult him. what he’s doing is not new, she’s not the first to have such emotional stress in africa. if she wants to go let her go biko. not all these in the fence stuff she’s doing

Kobojunkie:
Huh?

you haven’t answered i mean .

Kobojunkie:
I don't follow any of them, nor do I really care much for their tales, but even I find something wrong with a man declaring the year his child died a "best year". How many minutes did he spend in the "best year" mourning the child?

i asked you some questions and you hasn’t answered

faxana:


You're defending somebody who posted a dancing video with his second wife a week after his son's death?
Oh my God!

sorry that’s a lie, i follow him online and he deleted all his posts for more than 2 months after his son’s death. if you saw anything of such on social media , it was from social media castigators using it to trend. that’s the drags we are talking about

adontcare:
which matter? Have u ever seen or heard may say anything about yul and his Judy? She only reacted the first time yul brought the news openly. Since then , she kept mute about her feelings. At least u people should feel her pain. But no, it must be her fault that the crown on her head makes her bleed.

every other person is her supporter except few of us that are speaking against this nonsensical drags on yul by the public,, her silence doesn’t automatically make her the victim

adontcare:
Yeye post

lol not to me, we need to discuss this matter

faxana:


Mechionu gi!

Yul is the one setting himself up for drags.
He said 2023 was his best year (despite the fact that his son died in 2023, how would your child die and you still say it's the best year for you? Are you a psychopath?)

People dragged him like generator for saying such a thing. His wife now posted that 2023 was her worst year and people sympathised with her and dragged Yul more. When Yul saw what was happening, he was angry and started posting about her breast surgery, so that they will drag her too.

Very childish and narcissistic man.

my dear i don’t see anything in what he wrote, y’all expect him to list his challenges for you to see. please stop it i hate when people look for ways to justify what doesn’t make sense. because he posted that , then she posted this is her worst year to continue the drags and social media people start the insults because she’s obviously using psychology to manipulate the public for him to be dragged. are you him? must he complain like you? if he tells you his problems can you solve them? nothing wrong with what he said . and his reaction is expected because it’s getting to a normal trend to insult him. what he’s doing is not new, she’s not the first to have such emotional stress in africa. if she wants to go let her go biko. not all these in the fence stuff she’s doing

Tochj:
Children who don't know anything about marriage are the ones hyping her on social media
you know social media is a leveler
Even those not qualified to talk about marriage is talking
A good woman should not be happy seeing her husband being insulted
Now even her daughter is shedding her father and she don't do anything.
look at Chioma Davido
She once shunned people trying to insult her husband.

and she thinks they have her best interest at heart more than the father of her kids, thats enough to tell me there is something we don't know, definitely she doesn't love the man. It's getting too much and people can't still see it

Truth be told , i’m tired

jattopeter:
Funny like if you had anything to do with him , you will come out and tell us. Pls tell us another story joh.

she wanted an advise on a topic and i gave her, it’s not about you seeing it, you can pretend you didn’t see it and move on with your life

Kloenboi:


Hmm!
I just hope you don't regret rejecting the man later.

It's always good you seek God's direction first before this your taste of the kind of man you want

marriage is not a criteria in life , my happiness comes first and marriage is not a sure means of happiness. If I were a liability I won't have left him but I did cause I can take care of my self

Little21:
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And she is kinda realizing she can't do it so it's best she back out now.
It's marriage we are talking about here not some bf and gf stuffs.
You can't possibly be with someone you feel nothing about. It won't work out.
Am pretty sure if Op was a "man" and said he can't marry this girl that loves him so much but he feels nothing about her.

They are gonna be like "no way you are spending your life with her", "it better you stop it now and look for someone that you love" and so on. But because it was a lady they go about bashing her.
Bunch of hypocrite!

i’m telling you!! life of a woman

Animegirl:
So, there's a man who wants me to be his wife. Honestly, he possesses the qualities of a good husband, but I can't deny that I don't find him attractive. Despite my efforts, I can't seem to develop feelings for him. Seeing his face makes me angry, even though he treats me well and spends generously. His height and face are a deal-breaker for me. If I accept his proposal, I know it will cause pain, but no matter how rude I've been, he won't let go. I'm considering running away from my community altogether. I don't want him to know my parents; otherwise, I'm done.

Don’t mind these people, if you give it a try and it doesn’t work out , after giving yourself to him, my dear you will hate yourself and your self esteem will crumble, no one here can grantee you the possibility of it working . So put yourself first

Ashawoman82:
so y did u lead him on in the first place.

we’ll i had genuine intentions to give it a try but Couldnt do it

Emma1Oj:
This is one of the reason why most guys find is easy and attractive to use you ungrateful things for ritual.

You don't like someone and you were busy consuming his resources.. if that man lay curses on you it will be so effective without mercy. Even has the gut to type here.

He isn’t a broke man like you my dear, by now he has made x100 of what he spent on me.

Fantazy:


Hadn’t been you were not a gold digger, you wouldn’t have collected those things from him knowing fully well that you cannot be with him no matter what. But you kept collecting and you think karma is not real. Dey play

well at first you would be willing to try and see if with time it would work out but it didn’t

dalass:


Some of you should understand that some guys though not all, don't want to take NO for an answer. If you tell them no a million times, they still believe that somehow their persistence will make you change your mind.... This is a very annoying attitude. If you don't collect things, some just dump it at your door step like it's for you and they don't want it back, do whatever you want.

Physical things are important too... Some have body/ mouth odour , maybe ugly and short like this guy. The guy prolly wants his offsprings to have better chance in life by marrying a tall and fine lady but na Dem dey get strong genes and theri kids will look short and ugly like their dad... It is well.

Besides, a lady can't possibly say yes to all suitors. Even birds and other species have specs, e.g lionesses who follow the strongest etc

OP, prayerfully choose your future partner. The guy fit look handsome self when money and care hit him well

funny you