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Fantazy:
Hadn’t been you were not a gold digger, you wouldn’t have collected those things from him knowing fully well that you cannot be with him no matter what. But you kept collecting and you think karma is not real. Dey play

well at first you would be willing to try and see if with time it would work out but it didn’t

dalass:
Some of you should understand that some guys though not all, don't want to take NO for an answer. If you tell them no a million times, they still believe that somehow their persistence will make you change your mind.... This is a very annoying attitude. If you don't collect things, some just dump it at your door step like it's for you and they don't want it back, do whatever you want.

Physical things are important too... Some have body/ mouth odour , maybe ugly and short like this guy. The guy prolly wants his offsprings to have better chance in life by marrying a tall and fine lady but na Dem dey get strong genes and theri kids will look short and ugly like their dad... It is well.

Besides, a lady can't possibly say yes to all suitors. Even birds and other species have specs, e.g lionesses who follow the strongest etc

OP, prayerfully choose your future partner. The guy fit look handsome self when money and care hit him well

funny you

Little21:
Why are you yelling on my mention?
Think whatever you want none of my business.
I said how long has it been? It's not like it's the girl that fall in love, it was the man for Bleep sake. So if she doesn't love/like him at first no p.
She may with time, or when someone says they like you do you automatically like the person back? It grows with how the person treat you. But if she doesn't feel anything for him at all, she should let him know so he can look for his wife elsewhere.

And whose wife is cheating on who? At least try too read thorough before jumping on my mention.

That’s the expression of trying to put up with someone, you would think with time , so you keep being with the person till your realize you can’t do it

Animegirl:
So, there's a man who wants me to be his wife. Honestly, he possesses the qualities of a good husband, but I can't deny that I don't find him attractive. Despite my efforts, I can't seem to develop feelings for him. Seeing his face makes me angry, even though he treats me well and spends generously. His height and face are a deal-breaker for me. If I accept his proposal, I know it will cause pain, but no matter how rude I've been, he won't let go. I'm considering running away from my community altogether. I don't want him to know my parents; otherwise, I'm done.

my dear don't go for what you don't like, no matter what , make sure anyman you date or give your body to is a man you like, money and care is important but he should be someone you like. I don't take this for granted.

There was a man who wanted to marry me also , very single , very generous and rich tho he had matured kids cause he's an advanced man, many women would be so happy to have him considering how rich he was but i didn't just find him attractive , i tried my best but i just couldn't have sex with this man , he literally feed me, gave me weekly allowance and other things I needed, i tried but i just couldn't . Now we don't talk like we use to but I'm so happy I made that decision upon all the pressure inside me. Don't force yourself

Geminita1:
A response to a post I saw on instagram yesterday.

It's good to be positive and love yourself quite alright but know when to stand back when your chunky limbs are reaching for the delusion line.

For starters, men all over the world are attracted to a similar build in Women-which is the ever youthful Slim built. Some like theirs flavourless(no curves), others flavourful or very flavourful. As long as the base remains slim.

Almost all men including African men are attracted to slim women. Don't cross the delulu line yet.

Men are first attracted to youth in a woman even before her beauty. Since slim is mostly a youthful attribute, it's no wonder men price this figure the most among other figures. The extreme opposite of slim is "unyouthful" hence, less appealing to the male gaze.

Thick and chubby women are too much to take in for the average male. They are just a bit extra no matter how pretty she is. But a pretty petite girl is an instant male magnet. Na dem dey tire.

I've had some pretty friends let themselves go because some big mouths online kept priding themselves as meat eaters and not bone eaters. Too much of that kind of needless takes online to maliciously bully slim women can make a beautiful unsuspecting girl gradually let herself go to appear "acceptable"

There are men who love big women but they are in the minority and very loud about it online(because they are few?). The average Joe isn't checking for the aunty that looks like the aunty.

So if you are a girl or lady that enjoys male attention, don't be fooled by the internet. Reality is a different ball game. Happy new year in ady! 😘

Na your spec you call that's if youre even a man ,

OMG you're not even a man? Lol

You're living in inferiority complex for your shape.

Who go love you go love you, some slim women are still very single , some are married to stupid men but shame no let them cumut. Many chubby women are happy , married , married to good men. Eniola badmus has done her surgery for about two years , one would have thought she should be married by now , lol.

While they are women as big as she was married and happy.

Life na grace

lonikit:
Please help me, I met her two years back and honestly, I love her. I couldn't marry her all this while because of the economic prob in the country. She just secured a local government job but I have not secured a job yet. Though she has a jealousy issue, which I am managing. Recently I met a lady just 20 years. Though we are not dating yet but I am sure we feel something strong for each other. My main gf has been quarreling with me for a while now thinking I am dating the other lady. Now,, I am thinking of marrying her and start life while the economic struggle continues but someone told me that she will have issue with getting pregnant and child bearing due to her age. I am confused because I honestly need atleast a child. I know anything can happen in life but I wish to have children. Delay in this may cause problem in our home if I marry her. Please I beg you my people what is the probability of conceiving at 37 Help a bro to make a life time decision.

women in their late 40s dey concieve and birth healthy babies talk of 37 years , my mum gave birth to my baby brother at that age

justified007:
May Nigeria succeed by God's grace

leave God out of this, Nigerians and Nigerian government need to work hard for a better nation

Jokers now they are looking for another compensation

Happy New Year everyone

No not yet, it's either a billionaire Or nothing

it’s cheap and accessible , why not. they just need to stop tribalism on the app

Are you sure this isn’t why you’re single ?

honestly i don’t know

Pelumisamuel:
that is bad

why do you think so

MasterShifu010:
Na wa O!…. How do they even chose these girls mbok , are you telling me that this girl is the most beautiful girl In the whole universe ?, no way !!!, absolutely no way !!!…..is it because she’s light skinned ?, I can slightly agree if you tell me she’s one of the most beautiful girls in anambra , but the universe ?, have you’ll met girls from other planets and galaxies ?.

it’s just a show , with voters and criteria, it’s not as literal as the name of the pageant

marriage with less stress is the goal, a matured man who knows how to treat a woman

XAUBulls:
Interesting insights.

Do you watch soft or hardcore porn?
Second, as a female, where you ever a reader of intense romance novels before gravitating to porn?

I read years back that about 70 percent of ladies have watched some level of porn in their lives. Some females are mentally and visually wired to have a keen sense of imagination though.

i think everyone has watched it , men and women, but people derived joy from it and some see no need for it.

Really happy i didn’t , good old days

Grade 1 stereotyping. I doubt u have lived in an igbo community b4, u will jam stinginess in full force, watever u listed can be found in any tribe in abundance, and bad traits and good ones plenty 4 igbo land. If u are fantasizing abt igbo guys just say so and stop stereotyping. Just go ahead and quench ur taste.

i look back at this my thread and just laugh, until i lived around them i learnt a lot . Lol

if it’s too lovey dovi i never trust it

Tinubu won the election . i hope this thought us a good lesson .

marriage has no value to me, no matter how awww it looks.

Liliantalks:
still havnt stoped, tho i enjoy sex better now than i use to because i have had a better sex partner, but then i still enjoy the experience with pornography. worse thing is i don’t ever want to change, like i don’t ever want to stop, previously i had the impression that i needed to stop , but now i don’t care anymore, it makes me happy and satisfacted, doesn’t break my heart and very reliable, so why not?

live your life. no one really cares

I’m sure Labour Party supporters are done with their fairytale land

I have to agree. I believe someone in asaba will understand you more better and faster than far owerri.

The paper narratives is a hogwash.

lol makes zero sense , but feel free to think whatever, it’s your thinking spirit

Fatherofdragons:
It's good that they are coming out now to denounce anything igbo in them so as to not get confused when u see someone with the name ameachi amadi but he is not igbo.

Stop bearing our names so as to know who is who Biko.

our names !! You’ll very irritating, Igbo is a language , just like English , which one is our names? Lol Anioma has nothing to do with Igbo. Hope you getting use to it by now

Ihuomadinihu:
Can't believe people are still faced with identity crises in 2015!
Well,if you don't want to be under the igbo ethnic group,please drop my ancestors Language,Dialect, Name, Culture and Tradition. Completely get rid of anything that reminds you of Igbo including the term Anioma, maybe the world will then listen to you.

sadly people in Anioma region knoWs this already , and this identity crisis is caused by you lots trying to force it down people’s throats

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These our Igbo brothers that desperately want to deny their Igboness eh...

Okay I am Okwelle, I am no more Igbo

Anioma or Ikwerre or Ikah you are all Igbo

its a shame you allow outsiders to deceive you and call you south south

come back to the fold and lets all join hands to make The East Great again

and op you are a bas.tar.d

he’s a bastard for saying the truth, do you need to force rubbish down people’s throats, get a life

My man have knelt anc begged me before

deeva2:
Hope u are aware that names like chidi, okoro, emeka etc dominates both local and international list of drug traffickers..

Find the fact because u argue..

fact full everywhere lol