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Most of the points are raw fact though

ifyeky:
I'm Wizzy from Akwa Ibom, 27 years, working and dark in complexion, 5ft7" tall. I need a girl of 18-26years for a relationship that can lead to marriage. she must be intelligent, pretty, speaks well and a student or working. call me on 07061515444

Wow, first time seeing this from someone from my side, all I do see are those lagos based, well op best of luck, if you were to be 30 and above would have given it a try.

Blackfire:
@op shugga, i ve a proposal for u, if in 6-8 months i radiate this qualities from my QUALITIES... And prove to u and your hurting heart that I exist... Will u marry me.
Give me a reply and lets start... But if i found out u are vague, shallow, a chronic liar , am out.
I call NL to witness this moment

Okay, I'm in how do we start?

Good morning to you!

Elevation:
What's the Hmmmmm for, I want you to listen to a song.

Which

Hmmmmm...reminds me of that Celine dion song when the wrong one loves you right


Lalasticlala help move this ministry go fp biko

player007:
There aren't Extinct but just rare to find. Same goes for for the women also.
Most times the ladies fall in the wrong hands because they are looking for already made men.
For every lady that turns bad, there is a guy behind it and the same goes for guys.
Sometimes sef staying faithful doesn't guarantee a stable relationship.
There is this friend of mine who dated a lady for 8 years, and he was faithful alltru was even planning to propose. Only to find her in bed with is Best friend.

Hmmmmm...life generally isn't fair!

Elevation:
They still exist, you can't just see or get to know them with only ur external eyes, you'll need inner sensing and revelation. Tell God what you need and be faithful He'll do it.

Hmmmmm

djkaycee001:
It depends what you call or Understand as Happiness pls
If I may digress a bit to make a point pls
Many of us get hooked or married for different
Reasons which happiness in it, is a working in
Progress
We are all looking for happily ever after
But it takes a lot of patience and understanding
Firstly, u have to know urself and explore urself
To the mass with that capability to change when
That time and chance comes for it..
For Example
U know urself and what u want and need in a Re-
Lationship or Courtship
That does not guarantee ur friend having the mind
As yours, he might have ur needs and not wants..
U have to understand that we are all special and
Different in our various ways..
Just like it goes that it different ingredient that make
Up a sweet soup, same applies to tea, supplements
To the Body..
So count in our day to day life
Which Woman holds a lot of...
U shape what u want from a Man and how u want
To be treated. Same goes for both sexes friends
Happiness is just a arms length away
Nobody! Nobody!! Wants to be victimized
We are Human-being not animal that are obedient
To their owners..
A Woman is a Comforter, helper and care-taker to
Man or Nature at large so act as one..
Let us Men see you for what you are.! but not Virtue that are down casting pls..
Men are different today becos Woman made us so
Which goes to say that there is no man that's not
Born by a Woman...
So Woman know thy self and find Happiness..

Thanks for the detailed explanation, will consider it.

ITbomb:
Mostly because they tell the ladies reality and not what the lady wants to hear. And they sucks at chatting

Those two you listed still don't portray them bored to me. Personally I like it when someone be it man or woman tell it like it is, talking about chat I dislike people that use that means as the only form of communication, what ever happens to calls?

A beautiful morning to you!

ITbomb:
Perfect description of a very boring man.
This kind of man often times is friendzoned by ladies

Really

Well I don't seem to agree with you. People that fall under such description can't be a bore except they got zero sense of humour

cutieme:
why I no go vex?na u send dem into extinction self?

Abeg I wan sleep

justmag:
what makes you feel I said u were?

You mustn't comment when you have nothing reasonable to say!

freakthingz:
You sure say u get all of those qualities. If u are being truthful then you are quite a rare commodity

Keeping up with the lies is the hardest of them all and I so hate stress so I prefer to be sincere and safe myself from the stress

justmag:
You need divine wisdom to find this man. And you have to ready for the man as well. You can't be messed up and asking for a clean man. It doesn't go together.

What makes you feel I'm messed up?

In my post I never mentioned a perfect man nor near perfection, we all are imperfect but I can't seem to deal with people that go extreme in their imperfect act, they seem to care less about how others feel that to me is torture!

A man will drink to stupor and stinks of alcohol all the time but expect nothing of such from his woman.

Cheat like his life depends on a kitten but his woman dares not respond to hi from another man.

All cos he's the one to pay the dowry not the other way round, I just can't deal, might remain single for life if I can't find real happiness in the opposite sex!

DeRay98:
I exist but lots of women think our type is boring or weak. My ex- thought I am weak hence she tried to manipulate me into a fight with my closest elder sister in order to isolate me. I sensed it and advised her but she is hell bent executiing plans. Eventually, the trouble that she caused engulfed her and she walked out. It's almost 2 yrs now.
So, you see why many change their attitude towards women or even their wives.

You don't have to judge every other women by your ex character, about the weakness part, have actually met a man with those attributes but he couldn't command respect and such to me isn't cool for a man. As a man you're meant to be the head!

jmoore:
I am still alive.

Therefore, your research has been debunked!!!!!!!!

With the likes of your comments here I strongly disagree you're!

MEGGATRON:
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I doubt cos I'm not extinct, maybe the male version of such are extinct

Please I'll appreciate an open view, those sending pm already I'm not here for side talks this is a faceless forum feel free to express your views if truly you got good motives

freakthingz:
heehnn but babe i'm right here now but come are there any women with these qualities

Yes I'm one that's why I'm looking for my kind

I mean that sexually active man that will stay true and faithful to one woman.

Intelligent, cool headed, presentable, responsible and command respect, neat and focused. Most importantly have the fear of God in him not just going religious.

Drinks moderately, doesn't batter women but strive to talked through every issue. Have deep genuine love for his family (especially his immediate family).

Aitee1:
The set I hate most are the one minute men who can't even do the do yet they cheat

Busted!!!

streetzdreamz:
you free to puke out ur intestines,finger her you say?aint dating a wild lady,some ladies still retain their decency even on bed,now stay off ma mention.

There you get it wrong, first off to fingerrr a lady doesn't make her wild, thought you were about preaching to me about no sex before marriage, you got to stimulate her before the do and one of the ways is to fingerrr her

About staying off your mention sorry you can't stop me except you deactivate

streetzdreamz:
Life and its silly pranks,you just don't get the best you deserve from it,wasting 5years of a lady u don't plan to marry is cruel,more reason I tell folks around me I don't believe in marriage,the guy obviously ain't worthy of u,move on with your life,yea it hurts like hell if u really in love,but u won't remember any of the pains when ur ideal man pops out,patience they say is a virtue.

Your dp, a bit disgusting to me

How do you get to fingerrr her

Seen, next!