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JROY! has succeeded in confusing you all. There is no basis for comparison, at least not in this manner that all of you are going on. refer to my earlier post, can't all of you get it into your intelligent heads that badmouthing or abusing another's faith is tantamount to disbelieve in your own faith. Haba! Lets be sensible and throw the question back to JROY. Check out these questions and try to respond to them in your mind, Is Igbo the same as Yoruba?, Is Hausa the same as Fulani?, Is a Black man the same as a White man?, Are Africans the same as Europeans, Americans etc Jroy and everyone should know that We are who we are irrespective of Faith, creed, ethnic and the like, LIKE I STATED IN MY EARLIER POST, AS A GOOD CHRISTIAN, MUSLIM, ATHEIST (WHATEVER) WHAT MATTERS MOST IS HOW YOU RELATE TO YOUR FAITH/BELIEF WITH THE SOLE AIM OF DERIVING THE ALMIGHTY'S REWARDS AND THIS ALSO INCLUDES HOW YOU RELATE TO OTHER FAITHS OR BELIEFS AS THE CASE MAYBE.

@Jroy. What actually do you want to know, Do you want to compare the Christian God with the Muslim Allah? If not, then just as some have said To a Christian, his God is Jesus and to a Muslim, his God is Allah. And according to either beliefs, theirs is a more legitimate and true master. It will be mischievous of you to throw a general question to two divides of a faith and expect a straight-kind of an answer. To be a little helpful, your question should rightly have been directed to the Muslims thus: Is God the same as Allah in your faith? I am a Muslim and everyday whether in speech or thought I do pray and I often use the word God 'cos in actuality I am referring to Allah, now it all boils down to belief. I respect each and every faith and what their religious injunctions say but MY belief is in Allah, that my brothers and sisters does not mean yours is fake or bad. Ultimately, our prayers as good followers of our faiths (whatever they may be) is for that One True God to guide all humanity. This is a sensitive issue, be advised that is GOD you are talking about, would your God condone a follower of His to ridicule the faith of another? What kind of a God would He be then? Ask yourselves!!!

Thanx guys! It is actually much more complex than anyone of you can ever imagine but I have taken-in all your observations and suggestions. Some I will try nd sum, well, thanks nways!

This might sound cruel but its sincere. I have been in a committed and dedicated relationship with this attractive lady for the past 2 years now. Suddenly, just when we began to drift towards the ultimate, for no reason and I mean no reason at all, the feelings that I had and that endeared her to me just disappeared (i mean, I just blanked out). How do you tell someone you 've been with all these years that you no longer feel the way you used to and worse still, for no fault of theirs or for no reason at all. My head is spinning right now as I write this piece 'cos sincerely my life is in tatters at the moment, what to do?

Its unfortunate 'cos I usually just assume any hesitation from a girl is a sign of dis-interest. To me, playing hard to get is a sleazy way of saying I am hard but still cheap if you know your way or you can play your cards well despite your intentions towards me (whatever they may be).