₦airaland Forum

Juliusmalema:
Sorry soludo...


Those marketing soludo should know that he is a bad market


That you are a professor doesn't guarantee good leadership

Academics is different from administration.


After all cross river state governor and his deputy are professors

Nye nye nye the ones with thw admin skill, what have they done?

BabaIbo:
Don't mind NPF o, it was years later that I asked myself, what is even our crime?

Is our act against the law?

It's against the law in the UK. Not sure about Nigeria.

abiiabby:
Good News!!!
Application Approved!!! Standard Application (CAT A) with no solicitor used.

Application submitted: 18th of June, 2021
Biometric: 24th June 2021, (Nigeria, Lagos, Ikeja)
TLS collection email: 23rd of July
Passport collection date: 26th of July, 2021

Congratulations.

Looking for a job in London, holla.

lusid:
but why do you ladies like tempting innocent men

God punish you. Tempting men. In fact he raped that young girl with his old and stupid wandering dick.

Priceless007:
Hello Nairalanders,

It's a long story, but I'll try to keep it short and to the vital points. Please endure the length.

There's a girl i met at a theological college in where I was studying to become a clergyman and also learning a skill under the civil engineering department of the college. She was my junior in the course, as I was a year away from graduating from my first course, while she was just a fresher. She was always having issues getting through her courses and projects and would always ask for my assistance since I was the course rep in that department. It was forbidden to have any intimate relationship with your course mate or anyone in the college for that matter, the penalty would be expulsion. But unfortunately for me, out of sheer lust and seduction on her part, and gross indiscipline and lack of self control on my part, I got intimate with her and we ended up committing fornication during one of our semester vacations. And it just happened once, of which out of deep regret and remorse I confessed the matter to the college Admin when the next semester resumed. We were panelled, after which I was suspended, while she was expelled.

During this time I was learning a skill sponsored by the college, of which I use to get paid some weekly stipend. After I was suspended I was also stopped from continuing my apprenticeship, because I was not to associate with any of the students or lecturers in the school while my suspension lasted. So I was without a job and without a source of income since I wasn't yet mastered on the skill. The condition that was given to me to resume my studies and apprenticeship was that I should go and get married before I could come back to college, so as not to be tempted to repeat my error. But I wasn't ready for marriage whether financially or any other wise for that matter. So while I was contemplating my next move, this girl came to me that she was pregnant, that she needed us to go and see her parents. I told her I had no money neither was I ready to father a child at this point in my life. I pleaded she should give me time to think about what next to do. Two weeks passed, and I called her to enquire about her welfare but her number wasn't reachable, I decided to go to her place, but I was told she had travelled a week ago to go see her family. A week later, I received a call from a woman telling me she was the girl's mother, that her daughter came home with a pregnancy, and she asked me if I was responsible for the pregnancy, I answered her in the affirmative. She then asked when I was coming to see her family. I told her I wasn't sure about coming to see them that I needed to speak to the girl first. She said okay, then later that day the girl called me, and I told her to come back for us to talk deliberate on the way forward. When she came she told me her parents (who are by the way divorced) will not accept her nor the pregnancy without me coming to see them for marriage arrangements.

I explained to her I wasn't ready for any such thing, that I have a calling to answer and a course to finish, that what happened between us was just a stupid and careless mistake that has been as a setback for me to achieve my goal, and that I was ready to overcome the trials and get back on track, and I explained to her that before then I had neither dated nor been intimate with anyone for over seven years, and so any kind of relationship or marriage was not even in my nearest future plans, and besides, I didn't even have a job, not to mention having enough money to embark on a marriage plan. She said she would never accept such excuse, that I should look for whatever means to make sure I come see her parents before her pregnancy becomes obvious. She also said that she needed money to move her belongings back to Imo state where her family resides. I agreed to raise some money for her. I went to do some menial jobs and raised some money, about ₦20k, which I gave to her and she traveled back to Owerri. From then on her parents kept calling and pressuring me to come and see them for marriage arrangements. I told them I was going to come, but just to introduce myself to them as the person responsible for their daughter's pregnancy not for any marriage arrangements. But they disagreed, that if I wasn't ready to come for marriage that I shouldn't bother coming. I pleaded with them to give me enough time to look for money to come and see them, but they instead started threatening me with court cases and arrests, at one time they brought the girl and some soldiers to my family house and harassed my family members including my mother.

So I later traveled to Benin city to go look for money. After one week of my arrival in Benin, I lost my phone and I couldn't retrieve my number. I lost connection with them until I got back to Uyo where I got her phone number from a friend of hers. At this time, I was told that they came to my house several times with police officers claiming I raped their daughter and impregnated her then absconded. At this, I established contact with the girl again and she told me that I should not bother her that she wasn't in the mood to talk to me, I kept calling her but she often ended up abusing me or we often times ended up in quarrels, so I left her alone for sometime.

Two weeks ago I related the matter to one of my distant uncles, who advised me to gather some money and go see her, I called her and told her I wanted to come and see her before she puts to bed, which is expected to be sometime next month (August). But she told me that she still stands by what her parents had said, if it's not for the marriage issue that I should not come, that I should rather send her the money I would use in coming so she can use it to buy the baby clothing and buy some hospital requirements before she puts to bed. I called her parents and they told me the same thing, and said if I don't come for the marriage agreement before she puts to bed, that after she's delivered of the baby I should forget ever coming, and should never mention that I have a child anywhere not to mention coming to claim it ever in the future. And that I should just forget about her and the child.

The issue now is this, I am a bit frustrated because I seem to have lost everything at the moment because of this issue; my calling, the skill I was learning is gone, I have no job aside the menial jobs I do at construction sites which isn't available regularly. Now the little I have saved so far, I am contemplating on whether to use the money to pay for my skills training and continue with it and start my life afresh and forget about her, the child, and her parents, or use the money to support her in her hospital requirements for her delivery. Because I don't want to be seen as abandoning her when she is in this condition, and I also don't want to give up on the child, though I'm not capable of taking care of the girl and the baby right now, and probably, I might end up getting married but not under my present circumstances. I know I've made a grave mistake and this is the consequences for not being true to myself and my calling, and I deeply regret it, and I've suffered for it in any way I can possibly imagine, but I also need to put my life back in order, because right now I'm so devastated that I'm contemplating terrible alternatives to survive the storm, I'm at a very critical moment of my life and I just feel like giving up on life altogether. Please I need your help and advice on this issue. Thanks.

PS. Please if anyone is willing to teach me any skill, I would be very grateful and willing to learn.

Lool at you, your school and the commenters on this thread. Shameless amd heartless people.

This is what feminism is fighting for; two of you f*cked and only the girl was expelled and you the man, was given a chance right your wrong. And then the patriarchal holders on the thread are here encouraging you to abandon the girl and the child.

God will punish all of you, you hear. Go on....useless people. A young girl was put in your care, you exploited her and got her expelled. F*uck you all. So pissed at this thread. Useless set of people. If anyone should be expelled, it's you.

And he even wants to be a man of God. Don't worry there is a spiritual cane waiting for you. The type of rotten and heartless clergymen that litter our society.

Drama queen.

abiiabby:
Thanks for your response, my timeline is similar to yours so I got concerned, I applied on 24th June but thankfully I got an email this evening for pick up...just hoping for the weekend to go by quickly...hehe

It will be a postive news. Congratulations.

Googledrive12:
PLEASE HELP :
I booked for my tb test at the IOM and the only available date is from September 10 2021 , I intend applying by the end of this month . But with this TB date I am just confused, we are expecting a baby in August and I want to be there for my child. , please is there any alternative, or how can I go about this situation . I never knew the TB test takes long , the person a friend booked hers in Feb and got a date in thesame week. Please anyone with useful info should please help. Is it possible I do the test somewhere else ? Justwise, Lexusgs430 and other please help me respond to this .

My husband just walked in and did his TB in Abuja.

If you can donit quick and explain in your cover letter that you really want to witness your child's birth in August, they will hurry up with your application if your documents are complete.

abiiabby:
Congratulations!!! Please can you shade more light. Where did you apply? was it standard or priority? and was it spousal visa?

Thank you.

Applied in Abuja.
Standard. They've stopped doing priority for spouse visa.
Spouse visa.

Siberry:
The application we made on 25th June is already ready for collection. Hey God please let's this be a positive news. Will go tommorrow for collection.

Thank God. My husband just collected his. Visa granted.

Submitted on 25th June.
No call, no email from UK immigration.

The application we made on 25th June is already ready for collection. Hey God please let's this be a positive news. Will go tommorrow for collection.

NwaEzefuNaMba:
Good for you man.
Left your motherland where no one will racially abuse you for missing a penalty that even Lionel Messi missed in final to play for England. the sad reality is that you continue to receive racial abuse from England fans till you are forgotten (maybe when you stop playing football)

No one would abuse him him in Nigeria, looks like you forgot about Aiyebayin amd Ighalo so quick. They were abused and their families threatened. This is not only western woeld issue but world wide.

stefanimay:
@justwise please can you answer me...

My question is:
1. I've seen the vaf4a form online and I'll have to print it ..please how do I submit it with my other docs(do I take all my docs and submit on the day of my biometrics)...its confusing because I thought it'll be like the visit visa where you apply and submit online.

2. How do I get the undertaking form

3.also on the vaf4a form on the screenshot I attached,is that where ill list the docs ill be submitting?

4. Does my sponsor need reference letter from his bank in the UK

5. Does my sponsor need leter from his boss..(although he has his employment letter).


Please nobody is answering my questions, I need help..I want to know if I'm going about this the wrong way..abeg

Do they still print out these? I thought everything has been condensed to one application online?

Reelee:
Hello Fam,

I need some help pls.

I want to an elderly family friend to apply for a spousal visa. I have just gone through the site, and one of the requirements is writing and passing IELTS.

At this point we got stuck, cos that might be difficult to achieve. He has an OND and a BSC, and is above 60. The spouse is UK citizen.

What other document can be submitted as a substitute for IELTS test/result?

If you have an answer to this, pls let me know.

Thanks

If he has a BSC, then apply for NARIC certificate.

olumanja:
I think it should be fine. I used my naric certificate and degree certificate and I got my visa.

Great! Thanks.

olumanja:
I used my NARIC letter

Heee I don die oo. Pls I saw on google that you must include the letter from school saying the degree was taught in English. Is this true? If this is true, let me write to UKVI now, we had the letter but the checklist didn't mention it's compulsory.

We included only the Naric certificate and the degree certificate.

vaticanboy:
on this note, can IELTS general be use for spouse visa? Someone help please

I saw that you can use the one with UKVI on it. It must have a UKVI reference.
Although my partners IELTS has it the UKVI ref, but we decided to use NARIC.

Oneguy03:
It's 1872 in pounds.
The dollar equivalent is around 2700 USD

Okay it went down to over 1900 pounds. May be it's because of the rate.

Please not sure why they are charging me 2,746.44 USD for NHS surcharge?

Oneguy03:
You will upload everything yourself to the website or opt for paid upload and TLS will assist you to upload

I thought iHS fee is below 2K USD? Why are they charging me 2746 USD?

Go and study anything in computing please.

Oneguy03:
You will upload everything yourself to the website or opt for paid upload and TLS will assist you to upload

Thank you

Oneguy03:
Visa Approved!!
Type: Spouse Visa, CAT A
Standard/priority: Standard
Bio: Apr 19th
Passport collection email: June 7th
Total WD: 38
Best of luck to everyone still awaiting their decision.

Hello, does the sponsor need to send original documents to UKVI or we will just upload everything on the website?

MamaEEE:
Kiss ur application fee good bye if u mk that mistake... NARIC, IELTS life skill or B1 is what you need...
A FRIEND'S APPLICATION WAS REFUSED ON THIS GROUND

I have seen two that got theirs accepted with IELTS for UKVI academic.

Probably your friend's own is just IELTS academic ( IELTS for UKVI academic) is different from IELTS Academic) please ask if hers have UKVI number?

monchat:
It will be accepted.

Thank you very much for your responses.

olumanja:
IELTS life skill is recommended for spouse visa, I think it is requesting for naric letter because he added his degree certificate

Thank you. That means IELTS UKVI academic that he wrote will not be accepted?

olumanja:
Online application submitted:- 04 March 2021.
Biometric date:- 08 March 2021.
Email enquiry:- Reply said application is awaiting decision 15 April 2021.
Additional document requested:- 11 May 2021, document sent the same day.
Collection mail:- 20 May 2021.
Visa Approved!!!!

Please what type of IELTS did you write?

monchat:
congrats

.

Hey guys, plesse what type of IELTS is used for spouse visa application. I thought it was IElts UKVI, now I'm seeing IELTS life skill. Are they the same?

Also, my partner added he has degree certificate but he's not going to use it for proof of English because he has IELTS, but NARIC letter is still part of the document they said he should provide. Is this compulsory?

Sibtygarr:
reach me on zero-eight-1-seven-two-8-3-three-zero-7-three on whatsapp

Sent you an email. Couldn't find you o Watsap

Hello house,

Please I'm looking for a Python expert who will help me with an assignment.

It's about Adder, NOR, NOT amd AND gates.

If you can do it, please send me a message, let's discuss in details and how much you will charge.

Please this is urgent.

Kindmanship:
Ask the bank to send the statements to your home address then have someone scanned them for you and send them to you.

Thanks