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AutosRe: Over 250 000 cars for NIGERIA! Which car do YOU want to buy? by Silentnoise(m): 3:49pm On Apr 06, 2015
export1....I sent a mail to you which you are yet to respond..
AutosRe: IMPORT DUTY CHECK here by Silentnoise(m): 2:14pm On Mar 14, 2015
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PoliticsRe: T.Y. Danjuma Wants Dokubo-Asari, Tompolo, Others Arrested by Silentnoise(m): 12:16am On Jan 29, 2015
I can vouch that all these folks here screaming sai buhari and GEJ won't leave their house to come Vote...
PoliticsRe: Katsina College Releases Buhari’s WASC Results by Silentnoise(m): 6:49pm On Jan 21, 2015
Out of curiosity? Why is the 20 cancelled and 19 added.. Why do I have a feeling that result was just made.. Nigeria sha.. B4 anyone gets me wrong.. I'm not for either..
RomanceRe: Her Parents Rejected Him. by Silentnoise(op): 6:29pm On Jan 12, 2015
drnoel:
In a nigerian setting the ladies parent can only train the child if the father of the child is completely irresponsible. Since that is not the case here then I don't see it happening. When I saw the story it struck me like Deja vu cos I know someone it happened to in my set in uni. The guy was from north central and the girl was from igbo speaking parts of PH. The girls parents refused for more than 10 years. Their daughter refused anyone coming 4 her hand. She was not just a da but she was the only daughter. The girl met the guy in uni during her first degree she finished served and joined us in her second degree so she was not a child. By the way time we graduated was the 10 th year of their having to wait for her parents and as soon as we graduated she got pregnant 4 the guy. Everything went fast after then and they got married immediately.

See, when I took my wife to my parents. They called me on the side to question me and raised some questions about where her people come from. I just told em to first investigate her family and if they found something worrisome, I would listen to em. After the investigation they found nothing but still raised their problems cos they wanted me to marry from our place not just from our place but someone of their choosing. Someone they had hand picked.

I just told em and I quote "if u want to bring any person bring her. I will taste her and after am done. U can marry her since u want to marry from their family".

I continued and i quote "I don't see why u people are making issues cos she doesn't come from our place. If I leave here now and u pepole don't change ur minds. U will hear from ur friends that ur son got married and u will be asking urself how that happened".

I tell u. B4 I left they were all in favour and even begged me to allow them sponsor the wedding but I refused cos I knew it was a Greek gift.
Wow.. Interesting piece.. The dude is just here smiling... Guess you've inspired someone.. Thanks... It's really quite surprising this disease exist yet still in this age...Happiness should be the paramount factor especially when it comes to sensitive issues like this.. A house can be bought but not a home.... Happiness is priceless..
RomanceRe: Her Parents Rejected Him. by Silentnoise(op): 4:32pm On Jan 12, 2015
drnoel:
She should get pregnant 4 d guy. It will break her patents heart but if they decide to be stubborn then they should expect anything.
Thanks man.. Appreciated.... But it's a two way thing.. They might accept grudgingly and let them get married or they might not accept and let decide the dude does not train the child.. In other words.. The parents might decide to train the child themselves..
RomanceRe: Her Parents Rejected Him. by Silentnoise(op): 12:47pm On Jan 12, 2015
englishmart:
op don't lie. This might be your case
Wrong brother.. My best friend..
RomanceRe: Her Parents Rejected Him. by Silentnoise(op): 10:57am On Jan 12, 2015
Melahou:
my dear..if you have gotten to that point then you`ll understand better...
i presume you are not married yet
Lol.. I don't know about you bro, but I never give up in any situation without a fight.. David killed Goliath... That won't have happened if David never took a Bold step
RomanceRe: Her Parents Rejected Him. by Silentnoise(op): 10:15am On Jan 12, 2015
Melahou:
forget about the relationship and move on...
Lol.. Just like that.?do u give up that easily in life situations..? Change that mindset, it won't help u generally...
RomanceRe: Her Parents Rejected Him. by Silentnoise(op): 9:53am On Jan 12, 2015
MzPreshie:
Best way is to try convincing the mum. And what about the dad? Doesn't he have a say in this? As much as I wouldn't advice she leaves the one she loves, I also wouldn't advice she damns her mum. And has the mum met the guy? He might actually make her believe all Rivers guys aint the same.
The mum is the real issue here, women have this ability to convince.. You know that.. Her mum is yet to meet the guy that's the funny part and she holds grudges already.. Really disappointing
RomanceRe: Her Parents Rejected Him. by Silentnoise(op): 9:49am On Jan 12, 2015
mirexxx:
seek Gods face in prayers. and plead with d mom. if dey r meant 2 b God will touch d moms heart 2 let dem get married.




dey ain't in a hurry are dey?
Thanks.. They are not in a hurry... To be honest with u, it pains me so much how parents will live their lives and want to live the lives of their children.. Atleast they sent their children to school to be responsible adult and to be good decision takers and accept whatever string attached to it...Its quite unfortunate really that some parents don't believe in their children and the choices they make.. My parents always truste and respect my judgement no matter what it is..
RomanceRe: Her Parents Rejected Him. by Silentnoise(op): 9:31am On Jan 12, 2015
mirexxx:
all i can say is...love is a sanctuary,and anyone who comes in btw love is committing a sacrilege kiss



moms sha
So what's the way forward for this love birds..?
RomanceRe: Her Parents Rejected Him. by Silentnoise(op): 9:27am On Jan 12, 2015
spacyzuma:
What's with *most Nigerians* and tribe discrimination...

Yes, we live in the Jet Age (or whatever way to describe this era of scientific advance) but humans always find ways to discriminate and segregate themselves. Be it by race, skin colour, gender, tribe, nation, religious belief, intellect, sexual preference, financial status, etc.
You are tight, it is everywhere but I've noticed it more with the Ibos, sometimes their Daughters get pregnant hoping that will settle things... Sometimes it does, other times, it doesn't..
RomanceRe: Her Parents Rejected Him. by Silentnoise(op): 9:23am On Jan 12, 2015
spacyzuma:
Life is rarely fair.

The marriage is between the man and the woman. Not their families. If they really want to be together, they should marry and learn to keep a safe distance from oppeosing relatives. Those relatives are not the one to build a marriage.

It's a tough choice, and not everyone can ignore family and do what they really want. But hey, life is rarely fair.
Thanks bro, really appreciated..
RomanceRe: Her Parents Rejected Him. by Silentnoise(op): 9:18am On Jan 12, 2015
According to her, her mum doesn't yet.. But what's with Ibos and tribe discrimination..? We are in the jet Age...
RomanceHer Parents Rejected Him. by Silentnoise(op): 9:07am On Jan 12, 2015
I have a female friend who hails from Nnewi in Anambra State.. She is dating a guy she loves and who loves her back in every word of it,.. The guy proposed to her and she accepted. On seeing how serious he is, she mentioned him to her mum who inquired Where's from.. That was where things went sour.. The guy in question is from Kalabari in Rivers state.. The mum said Over her dead body will her first Daughter get married to someone from Rivers State.. Her sisters are in support of this guy but her aunties have one voice with her mum.. They both love themselves so much but are @ cross road with this development.... How can they be Victorious in this situations...? Over to you, house..
CelebritiesRe: Wizkid's Babymama Now Dating Femi Falana's Son by Silentnoise(m): 6:54am On Dec 31, 2014
pretydiva:
Dey luk cute 2geda. Buh her nose tho lipsrsealed
Her nose though? Are u kidding me... undecided... Let's play a game.. You go look yourself in the mirror and tell me how different your nose is?
CrimeRe: Suspected Suicide Bomber Burnt Alive By Mob In Gombe (PIC) by Silentnoise(m): 6:50pm On Nov 18, 2014
Jungle justice is easy.. I wish the services of a Modsith can be used
Nairaland GeneralRe: Laws Of Attraction-the Sand Fly by Silentnoise(op): 9:01am On Nov 13, 2014
Ploy:
Everybody is afraid of Hiv/aids, they won't be attracted to people they don't trust.

By the way, what is sand fly?
Lol.. Funny you... That still leaves the puzzle unraveled
Nairaland GeneralLaws Of Attraction-the Sand Fly by Silentnoise(op): 5:06am On Nov 13, 2014
I don't know if it's just me but I've been asking this question for ages and I've never been provided with a reasonable answer.. The Sand fly is a magnificent creature that feeds on its host by injecting its saliva to the skin to allow easy passage of the blood... Interesting isn't it..? They are so small that they look like a well cut strand of hair.. There wings are practically invisible due to their miniature state..
Now to the question.. I've observed that the Sand fly is attracted to some people and it's not to others.. I watch my Fiancé complaining each day about been bitten by one and I just take a big laugh telling her they're attracted to her just like I am to her.. I've never been bitten by one or maybe I'm losing my sense of touch to feel their bite.. I've seen people complain about been bitten by these blood thirsty vampires and others don't.., so what likely could be the reason behind these attraction.. Thanks and looking forward to your responses..
EducationRe: Nigerian Words You Thought Were English by Silentnoise(m): 11:13pm On Oct 13, 2014
barackohandso:
What about 'kukuma' ?
Kukuma could mean any of the below pending on the usage
1. Quickly
2. Just
3. Try and
RomanceRe: Guys,how Was Your First Wooing Like?,share Your Experience by Silentnoise(m): 3:36pm On Oct 05, 2014
Tallesty1:
cheesycheesy:DAll the aforementioned are iron.

Boot is not.
What happens to a pro player who does not practise?
CrimeRe: I Was Molested Last Night By Two Ladies by Silentnoise(m): 5:26am On Oct 05, 2014
Buoyantic:
cry weird as it may sound,I was raped in turn by two runs girl at a club somewhere in Lagos.right now am passing through emotional trauma.lord help me
Got one word for you.. "Samadora"
RomanceRe: Guys,how Was Your First Wooing Like?,share Your Experience by Silentnoise(m): 4:58am On Oct 05, 2014
Tallesty1:
Worn boots can't do any of them effectively.
What happens when a saw, gate, knife,generator, the list goes on and on.... is left unused for ages without servicing, their abilities becomes below par..In plain Language, your defeat will be worse than Australia's 31-0 Bashing of America Samoa..Word
RomanceRe: Her Boyfriend Is Too Possessive. by Silentnoise(m): 7:13am On Sep 13, 2014
oemmanuel: Please, House, i need advice for a friend who is involved in a relationship. Her bf does not want her to have any male friend, and that is changing her person to become hostile. She has tried to change things but all to nothing. She is really terrified. And need advice urgently. Please, help me to help her. Thanks.
Insecurity on the guy's part is the main cause of it...She should talk to her bf's bestie about it and let him be the one to counsel the guy in concern..It will go a long way...,if no change, she should take hike
RomanceRe: What Qualities Can A Man Possess To Attract Women? by Silentnoise(m): 9:31am On Sep 12, 2014
Onifari: What realy attracts a man to women?
Just like you're attracted by the physique of a woman, I think they are attracted MOSTLY by the weight of your pocket..

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