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Villa12:
The support system is definitely sustainable, if a brother can be feeding and paying the bills of his married sister with her family, then tell me what such a brother would do having advised the sister to leave for her sanity and peace? He will definitely set her up to be independent. He probably didn't set her up because of the irresponsible husband. He understood the irresponsible husband would definitely not let her grow with his addiction. It is common sense

As she takes your decision, just make sure you are checking on her shaa

Villa12:
she already had kids. She doesn't need to remarry since she's lucky to have a good support system. You can only bark but that wouldn't change anything. The man's family should look after their grown son with addiction. Shikena

She told you she don't need a man around her. Do you know if her libido in much intensive?

For how long is the support system going to be?

Is not to promise heaven and earth..

Is the support system sustainable?

EXOUSIAng:
This guy is a complete idiot
Someone who openly disobeyed Senate rules.
These opposition guys are just dumb

Gerrout,

Your buhari and tinubu that disobeyed court judgement on MNK case nko?

Tjra:
So unfortunate to see many Obidients excited about this man's death because he left Labour Party.

Y'all should know death is inevitable. No one is leaving this world alive.

Says who?

Criminal-minded set of mofo. They steal informations from your phone and use it against you.

Villa12:
@silibaba no get sense na. He's a dummy. Ignore him

Foolish in- ToTo



Femi way you dey find, na my friend oh
Jude way dey behind, na my pale too oh
Kennedy nko, na my friend oh
You go dey waka from ondo to uyo, sokoto
O ti so o o oi

So na true, say all the things way people dey talk about you
All of them you dey do true true
Na your conscience dey judge you
O fi owo e se ra e
Na true, say you dey do it like am too settle
You come dey do like say you too dey faithfull
Na your conscience dey judge you
O fi owo e se ra e

Villa12:
Op will leave. You can go kpai yourself. Give your sister to the man to marry free of charge.

and give your brother to the intending single mother.

Sapeleboy911:
I don't see Dstv going anywhere. Yes, they may lose customers, but a good majority will still stick with DSTV because, compared to data subscriptions, they are still the cheaper alternative, and so far, there are no strong competitors in the cable TV space for the time being.

DATV that like repeating one song 100X a day.

Xannadu:
DSTV has already gone the way of Kodak and Compaq but they just don't know it yet. There was a time when 2go seemed to be the happening online forum then, but where are they today?

Don't forget BLACKBERRY BB as well

Villa12:
in your tiny brain you think all guys play bet or gamble? No wonder you are advising op to remain in her marriage. I'm pretty sure you also believe all guys are into cyber fraud (yahoo yahoo) I really pity who dey meet you for advice honestly.

I SEE YOU HAVE A LARGER BRAIN IN QUOTE.

I MENTIONED BET9JA, E PAIN YOU.

if you must advise the lady to leave her matrimonial home, can you take her in? Forget the brother.

Scumbag

Villa12:
I don't even know how to play it. Say something else uncle

You never talk true. When you talk true I will ask if you don't get drunk.

Villa12:
You're free to accept your woman for sleeping around or being an Addict. Don't impose it on everyone else. Apart from his irresponsible addict, the wife family is the one bankrolling the family. You're not wiser than the brother advising his beloved sister to leave the marriage. If everyone reject you in life, the family you came from can never reject you. Blood is thicker than water. Leaving him wouldn't end the life of the man nor the life of the woman. She's leaving for peace and sanity. Separation and divorce ìs part of life and not a death sentences. Her siblings understand her much more better than you and i.

Okay, I hear.

Are you not addicted to bet9ja?

Villa12:
Super story

@op you will forever regret it in life if you failed to listen to your brother.

People like you will catch your wife pant down with another man and you will still beg her to stay.


Why am I even replying genZ like you?

NexLoaded:
Since you guys are advising her and the children to stay with a broke addict, may your girl child or your sister marry such a man. Only then would your understand that the brother is actually trying to help her.

To the op, if I am your brother and after giving you such instructions and you ignore them, you will NEVER call me again for any financial assistance. Carry your cross.

1. Did your mom abandoned your dad when he was broke? Go to your mom and ask her.

2. Go and ask obi Cubana why he can never do without his wife.

You are a noise maker. How much do you even have in you bank account? Cho cho cho cho if your sister refuse to listen to you, she should never call you again.

That you have today doesn't mean you will have tommorrow. Is not a curse but fact. That useless husband you see today can even be you boss tommorrow.

Villa12:
you're dumb if you think her brother wouldn't love her far more and better than the addiction husband. You're more dumber if you think people hasn't raised other people's children successfully. You're even more dumbest if you think single mothers don't get accommodation.

Talkative, be still and have your peace.

Most landlords don't give out their properties for let to a single mother or divorced woman. Most of these single ladies will now claim that their husband reside outside the state while some will still claim their husband reside abroad. The landlord will still insist on video calls with the husband.

You better go and do your findings.

debbydams:
hummm

Don't let any person deceive you outta ur marriage ooo

This is the time your husband needs you the most. He is addicted to bet9ja which I guess but is because he wants to win and use the money to impress you and all of the family.

JackStephans:
SOLD

Goodluck to you

Badluck to the buyer

Villa12:
you're dumb if you think her brother wouldn't love her far more and better than the addiction husband. You're more dumber if you think people hasn't raised other people's children successfully. You're even more dumbest if you think single mothers don't get accommodation.

You are naive if you don't know that most landlords don't give house to single mother anymore.

A woman came on nairaland and gave you a half - baked information about what is going on in her home and you immediately draw to conclusion.

Have you heard the husband side of the story?

This makes you less than an kid.

genZ everywhere on nairaland.

Magicalsineros:
Stop saying nons.ense. if it were to be a woman doing this to her husband, would you have said the same thing?

A man who loves his wife wouldn't involve himself in a lifestyle that brings schame and disgrace to his family. What kind of husband can not pay for house rent, school fees and you still expect her to stay with him.
@op, listen very attentively to your big brother. He loves you more.
Addict hardly change. That's the truth

I have no argument with genZ like you.

What do you know about marriage?

Not to talk of fathering another man's child.

Talk is cheap.

Racoon:
Hehehe! Drugs running-East, Cyber Crimes - West!

Which one is better?

Savingrace678:
Hello nairalanders, pls I need matured mind on this.
I created this account to post this.

My marriage has been stressful and draining.
I have really suffered if not for the help of my elderest brother, we would have died by now.
My husband has been in addiction since we got married 5yrs ago. that has never allowed him to take care of us. In 5yr we married, he has changed More than 5 jobs all wasted effort. We have two twine children. A boy and a girl. 4urs.
His addiction has been the reason I never want to have another child ever since then.

Right now my husband's uncle, a father figured to him has invited him to come home to the village, so they can advise him and my elderest brother has asked me to pack my things and the children, as soon as my husband left for the village, he will relocate us and my husband will not have access to us again.
And he said, if I declined, he will take his hand off my matter. He has been the one taking care of our rent, school fees and upkeep as my husband's money goes to addiction.

My fear now is, my children are so used to their father and I'm afraid if they can cop without their father. Especially my son.
Secondly, I'm so scared that I don't know how I'm going to handle more brokness in my life
My life is so scattered right now.
And lastly, I don't want my brother to take off his hands off me. He's the only person helping me out with my mistake.

Nonsense and low thinker.

You think your brother can love you like your husband do?
You think your brother can father another man's children?
What is the addiction?


Single motherhood is never the best option. go and verify from Annie Macaulay and the likes.

Provided your husband is not beating or handling you rough, stay put.

Landlords have stop renting their properties out to single mother oo

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kareem1874:
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BreconHills:
This is not true.

A poor man will have to sell his/her belongings to buy or betterstill steal from the society.

ogododo:
https://dailytrust.com/naira-rally-puts-dollar-savers-at-risk-of-investment-losses/

Peter Obi could have said this whole epistle in one word.

An enemy

A banny

helinues:
Make una have some shame and condemn your brothers spoiling Nigeria's name everywhere dey go

Nothing terrible will happen to you if you condemn him

Let me take you down memory lane so you can Digest this

Counterigbolies:
y are u Igbos always attaching south south to your madness

Y not let south south do their thing their way?

Everyone knows u are Igbos so we cut u some slack if u speak for your fellow Igbo but who made u spokesman for south south?

Stop using ibos for igbos

Ibo is the person, igbo is the language.