hit LIKE if you understood the essence of this thread!!!

arabianights:

EXACTLY WHAT CAUSED THE BREAK UP? IF ITS YOUR FAULT ACCEPT IT, IMPROVE ON YOUR SELF , FORGIVE YOUR SELF AND MOVE ON. aCCEPT THAT HE MIGHT 80% NEVER TURN BACK.

sweetie, i know its hard. and if its pretty recent, it might get harder still, but you have to

1. accept it. accept it. accept it.

2. talk about it. yep. you read right. discuss the break up with a more mature mind. you're not looking for blame, but release.

3. get busy!

...and you should stop blaming yourself for things you (should realise you) have no control over. forgive yourself. love yourself. the healing will take place and it will definitely take time.

one more thing: PRAY (if you want. if you (already) do. i promise it helps).

its obviously a general network error, was having similar issues last week. it will definitely clear up with time.

I'd advice you look for someone to talk to, like a father-figure, someone you can look up to and will advice you correctly. At 18 you know what's right and wrong, and this, this situation, is wrong.

Reporting your father to others won't help. Develop a thick skin and be determined to succeed against all odds. He will be the one to BEG your forgiveness when the time is right.

I do feel heartbroken for you. But take this as a phase. You definitely won't be under his care forever. Legally, you are an adult at age 18.

Some kain posts sha....

This is what I think;
1. U weren't hungry
2. She was just as tired as you were
3. This isn't the 1st time ur sleepin off while she was in d kitchen. (In other words, "Ur cup haf full for ds rubbish". Pls refer to point 1&2 above...
4. Talk to her in a non-defensive and accusatory manner. She will even apologise (if you do it right)
5. Don't do it again.

If you like, ask NL what we think if she doesn't wake u up to go to work in the morning....

I logged on to nairaland feeling blue......

Now am I literally 'dead' of lafter.....ahn ahn!!! Nairalanders...diariz godu ooooo

carefreewannabe:

Kaya, you have said something important in your post.
Weed helped you through hard times. This is one of the most important reasons people take drugs of all kinds. They need something to numb unpleasant feelings they are for some reason unable to cope with. Then the "help", the drug, becomes an addiction and every addiction destroys people sooner or later.
I don't judge you but I want you to know that life is more beautiful when you stay clear and more importantly healthy and fit.

OP, ur nt a bad boy (sumone already described wt dt is quite succintly) bt let me explain ur babe's fear.

Ur gonna get married, and u'll both be happy. She gets pregnant and unexpectedly falls into labour, then she calls you. U had stepped out for a smoke. Upon hearing her voice on the other end u jst knw ur too stoned to drive. Well, she forgives ds incident.

Ur crawling son stumbles upon a package, and as all kids do, he puts it in his mouth. No one knws hw he got it, bt its ther, in his hands and its too late b4 anyone notices...she won't forgive ds incident.

Yes its all in "our" minds. Rationalize it all u want, but, one thing is certain...

Guy, ur babe loves you. Period!

Hi everyone!
Am new to ds forum...and ds thread caught my eye....fantatic jb people!!! Can't wait to start wt my own pics...hehehe

MadCow1:

Cocoyams...

Use it to make Epkankukwo. . AN Akwa Ibom dish..

The dish is quite tideous to prepare though.

check with an Akwa ibomite for the recipe. Best dish involving cocoyams I have ever had.

Ekpangkukwo is my dad's fav dish. I cnt rmba wen last I made it bt I do rmba hw delicious it gets by the nxt day...
Here's a rough recipe. I hereby take up d challenge to make it ....soon.....pictures too
The only tedious part abt ds dish is grating the cocoyams, after that, ur delicious meal awaits!

You will need:
Cocoyams (N200 pile is fine)
Spinach aka Green leaf (2 bundles)
Red or cameroun pepper (ground)
Knorr cubes
Salt to taste
Palm oil (lots of it)
Smoked titus fish
Periwinkles (still in shell) small cup
Stock fish
Pomo (diced)
and any other condiments you'd like!



Pluck and rinse ur green thoroughly.

Peel and grate ur cocoyams to paste. Use d tiniest grate side available.

Grease the inside of a (medium-large) pot with palm oil.

Depending on the size of ur green, scoop a little of the cocoyam paste into the leaf and roll up the same way u wld a shawarma wrap. It should be barely peeking out from both ends, not be too much and must be rolled as tightly as possible.

Place the roll or 'ekpang' loose-side-down in ur pot and repeat till d paste is finished.

Shred ur remaining green leaves and put in the pot to cover d 'ekpang'. Add all your condiments and ingredients except the palm oil. Gently add water to cover the entire contents of d pot.

Cook on medium-low heat till the ekpang is thick. Test this with a knife. It should have changed in color all the way through. If not fully cooked, do add some more water poco-a-poco. DO NOT STIR.

When fully cooked through, cut the ekpang with a knife to reduce the size, then add your palm oil. Stir again to incorporate, this time witha wooden spatula.

Allow to cook for a few more minutes. You may turn up d heat a notch but the ekpangkukwo begins to burn pretty easily from here on, so watch it carefully.

And yes pls, serve hot or wait till the next day....even better!
(modified 7/1/2015)

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.....And ur being charged at 40k/sec from your bonus account.

Gdafternoon docs-in-da-house,
I haven't seen my period in 3months and tests have proven negative. Ds happened b4 frm february till april earlier ds year.
I lost a 6mo pregnancy last november and fully eager to try again.
Am aware I need to take sum tests during my mc for hormonal profiling....abeg hw I wan do am now?
Am almost 31 and been married 6yrs....!

Now this is a bad one;
I really luved ds guy bt weneva he upset me, I'd av ds overwhelming urge to give him a dirty slap....and then proceed to bawl my eyes out afterwards . This happened more than once, and I don't know if I was crying frm anger or d shame dt I did it, bt d cool guy wld forgive me over and over and over and over again...till I broke up wt him.
Yes I was bad. Bt now I av repented....