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olasaad:
My brother married at the age of 26, this year will be 15 years of living together with his wife without any issues.

Read my post again and understand my point. No one cares if your brother married at 18. People have married at a more younger age and still remain married. The point is not the few exceptions. I don't enjoy arguing baselessly. Enjoy your weekend

olasaad:
So what do you want them to be doing in another post on the front page, four 17 years old boy gang rape a 16 year old girl.

They're not mature yet and definitely not ready for all that marriage is about. Most at that age range are still in the developmental stages. The ones you mentioned are still kids they don't have anything to offer than their usual stupidity wrapped in juvenile delinquency, what has that got to do with my post? A man is only a man when he's responsible enough to face and handle life's challenges and keep his humor at a defined balance. Balance is key here and doesn't necessarily mean he has to be a Bill Gates or Elon musk. He just needs to be responsible enough to appreciate a good woman, tend to his business/ work, responsible enough to stay healthy, physically and mentally. Responsible enough to know life is more than games and bed hopping to name a few. Most men in Nigeria below 30 do not fall into such categories. They start picking up themselves around 30+ and it's even better because by then they would have learned from their mistakes of the carefree lifestyle and would start putting their acts together. But some still think they're kids after 30+ and continue swimming in things they should have left behind. But in all the day a man starts to put his act together is the day he becomes a man and not by having the strongest or biggest dick or flashy cars or money. The more experienced and mature a man is mentally the better. A man is as old as he feels and a woman is as old as she looks.

Either he's too timid, unlucky with relationship or could be for religious reasons. All the same good for him but I can't date a virgin man. I will now be teaching him the basics. Not me, especially those who have finished themselves with masturbating and will now be empty barrels in the bedroom, God forbid 😂

Lmao as much as I find this very amusing the truth is that men do not have any biological clock whatsoever. So the list is even false. 18 - 29 yo should not be in that list. Men are ready and mature for real commitment and marriage from 32 and above. Any guy below 30 and married takes grace of God to sustain that union except for a very few. So long as a man is strong and healthy and can still provide and protect in all ramifications even if he's 60+ he's still young but I have noticed a lot of both genders on this Forum are biased and filled with hate for one another so everything is a competition or clap back from a previous thread of gender bashing. The few times I spend here shows obviously that this place is too toxic and will contaminate those who spend too much time here.

Great information but the only clause is getting that land through the right means. A lot of these agencies are fraudulent but all the same great info

Afonjacrusder:
Then leave her already! Go and hustle to become a better person. Who knows you might end up grateful that you left her.

Very simple. Most guys are their own problems. I don't know what he wants before he knows the right thing to do

Miravik900:
Have been so down financially recently and this girl that has been on my side for like 9 months now and I thought was different has started showing me her true colors


We agreed on the meeting but she didn't show up when I asked her the reason she didn't reply
Now she is asking me for money cuz I wanted sex and she knows I don't have

I thought the advantage of having a girlfriend over patronizing hookups is during the bad days you can still get sex

I'm thinking of calling of the relationship base on this act of hers


Please let me hear your thoughts

She is not your girlfriend if she wants you to pay before she gets intimate with you. At the bold - Relationship is more than just sex although I get your point. Well, now you know where you stand with her. What you do with the revelation is all up to you and not the people here.

I love good weed smokers not cigarette smokers. That's for loosers with useless dot dicks

chaloskyx:
first of all THERE is no GOD!!! this is a mere fictional character meant to keep Nigerians in check and taking matters into their hands when they are looting money they dont remember God when the kill innocent Nigerians they dont remember God but when they want to validate bad gorvernance and their terrible leadership they call on God as being by their side what kind of God is that? one who supports bad leaders abi make una continue fooling yourselves

You are not making any sense?