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mamacajah:
Join me to praise God for The successful normal delivery of my daughter. After 11 years I held my baby girl in my arms and I just can't stop praising him for all he has done. Birth story coming later. I was 37wks 4 days.

esosa4real: That was quick, i would submit at ikeja office then. I hear there is sallah break tho on mon/tuesday, means i wud likely do an appointment for wednesday.
@vicjustice @silverb @justwise
Please yall, wanted your opinion or something, i was denied a Canada visa last 2 years because i applied late, and the passport wasnt stamped. Must i indicate that on this application because i planned to ignore it ooh considering how this people deny for flimsy excuses.

Also, do they really inquire from other embassies about status of an applicants visa history when there is no cause for it? Does the UKBA really do such enquires?
Thanks once again

esosa4real: Congrats oo, Happy for you........I am applying soon with a balance of N600k, hoping for same divine favour.
If I may ask, please how long did your visa processing take? Did u submit at ikeja or VI?

Also, i have finished the form, but do i have an option of paying offline?
Most importantly, did u submit original documents? and where they returned?

Pardon my many questions, na so novice matter dey be......lol

Vicjustice: Your marriage has saved you.

3sha4lyf: I'm thinking, just save urself the BP and let the delivery man do his job (don't get me wrong, I understand the anxiety; been there before ).

Perhaps the system has not been updated with your info. It happens, it's not abnormal. If by now it still reads same, Just don't worry urself; enjoy the weekend and if anxiety persists, just be at your gate from 8am on Tuesday and wait for the delivery man.

3sha4lyf: If I recall right, it takes 2-3 working days AFTER VFS receives the package.

Silverb: Hello guys, plz how long does UPS courier takes to deliver a package? my application status just showed. Processed application delivered to UPS on.

joxiri: @silverb
You applied on the 7th of july
And your visa is approved
You are rather very lucky oh that was very fast

justwise: Your visa is ready for collection, you can visit visa center on Monday to pick up your passport.

dayokanu: Get vasectomy

Ujujoan: The world is changing, and with it the church of God. Priests are no longer as disciplined as they used to be. I've long apportioned the blame to ETTZ . . . But that's aside . . .

The main issue here is your wife and her obvious lack of respect and trust for you. There must be a reason for this . . .

First of all, in the past (while you earned 8x more than she did) how open were you with her . . . . how generous were you . . . how involved was she in the family's finances

She'a clearly acting out of vengeance and for her to get the support of a priest, her anger might be well founded.

I've seen situations where men build houses in their names alone only to get their wives thrown out for a fresher, perkier bosom

Your wife is making a plan B and that to me is a bigger problem for you than you obviously realize . . . what happens after she has completed her safety net? Does she still plan to remain in the marriage

Form another point of view, what are the priest's intentions This Priest, for all we know, might have a stake in the building. Is he using your wife to make money for himself all the while making her believe it's for her own good? Women can be gullible you know?

This is what you need to you . . .

First of all, report the Priest to the Church . . . write a petition against him. They may not pursue it now or make anything out of it, but your petition is already before God and Man.

Secondly, let your family know what is going on . . . your parents and your wife's parents. Your wife needs to realize she's marrying you and not the priest.

Lastly, if the deeds of the house is in her name alone (and this is unusual), she needs to change it to both your names. That building needs to be registered as part of the family's property and not hers alone . .

Of course if you know your hands are clean, it won"t be difficult for you to do all 3 . . .

obisite: Done! Check

Rhythm: My mum brought me up to wash them while bathing, so maybe because of that, I see anyone who stores dirty panties as a dirty person. Even when I wanna soak, wash and sun dry all of them, I still wash each one after bathing, then on weekends, I soak the already washed ones, wash again and sun dry.

swag queen: My dear,in these past weeks,I've heard a lot from my in-laws which has made me think their minds are really twisted.

SIL calls to say I'll suffer if i leave her brother. I was quick to reject such rubbish from the pit of hell! That God is more merciful to men than women!
That my marriage is just four years and my husband can wake up and ask me to leave! That I'm not getting all the things I'm supposed to get as a married woman because my husband is still watching me to make sure I'll take care of his things when he's not here. (Watching me after two years of courtship and four years of marriage with two children) Unbelievable!

I've contacted my lecturer in school who wants to speak with the solicitor-general of my state for a place in the ministry of justice.

Your prayers are all i need.

Virgin Finder: She can leave temporarily/permanently but she must remain SINGLE for as long as the separation lasts or as long as he is alive.

That's what the Bible says.

Once a woman is married, she's forever married. Otherwise, she toys with hell fire.

The man may remarry but God will fight for her and reward her reverence for his word/law accordingly.

God's mill may be slow but it grinds exceedingly smooth.

Our God is a just God.

#NoApologies

babyosisi: This story is incomplete
If you are sincere please tell us what your sisters and mother did to piss this woman off
How was she received into the family initially
There is hurt somewhere and her attitude is a response to what she faced.
No woman,I repeat no woman comes into her matrimonial home to divide the man from his family,we come with a heart to take his people as ours but many of us quickly build a wall when we are faced with the most cruel reception
I have a friend now that wants nothing to do with her husband's family and I am trying to make her have a change of heart but when you listen to her chronicle the way they spoke about her and her family because the husband came from a wealthy home and she came from a struggling background, you cannot but sympathize.
Imagine your MIL telling you that marrying you rescued you and your family from poverty,who wouldn't want to stab the mama


You tell us your wife sees you as a prize she won in a battle that tells me something heavy went down and you are the only person she wants to deal with.
You have work to do

Nashville: Just take out his eyes and make him blind!