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Alexxien:
Lol....Go read all ubunja post, every single thing. Digest it. I understand where you are coming from; for real. I too was raised indoor and an extremely shy person, so shy that I can’t even walk properly in front of a lady not to talk of starting a conversation with her.....I still struggle with the former but for the later, I am something else entirely....Anytime I come across a lady today be it physically or digitally she probably felt we have know each other for decades....Women are open book, talking to them is very fun, you just have to be confidence, naughty, funny. Don’t talk like the way 99% of all other guys would have talked. Meaning; don’t say the things that comes natural to you, say the opposite. It hard but do it with time you will get better.

You see the above advise you were given, that you should be manly and gentle please don’t follow it rather be rude, be naughty but do it in a friendly kind of funny way...Honestly, talking to a woman is an Art, some get it and some just do not. You don’t need money to sweep a lady off her feet, you just need words...been good at turning words into fantasy!!! If you can do this right, ladies will always end up addicted to you.

Now; as a nigga I would advise you to zero your mind from chasing women, chase money and focus your attention on how to make it and multiply it. A great painter will always come along and paint her superior imaginative pictures that will sweep her off her feet. Women are gullible creatures they will always screw you up, you can’t satisfy them...but trust me if you chase the Dollar and you get it... it will never betray you!!!!!! Good luck brother.

Thanks a lot mehn

Mariangeles:
Well, on a norm, talking/chatting with a lady isn't and should not be complicated/difficult.
Just like how we're (kind of) having a conversation now.
Disrespect should not be tolerated though(as long as you don't disrespect).

No be physically I go first meet who I wan follow talk online?

okoroemeka:
use any guise to get her contact and talk to her on WhatsApp,etc,you will feel more comfortable and confident,the era of talking to girls physically iand proclaiming your love is gradually coming to an end

Everything isn't about knacking

imagrg:
If you are not broke, your money speaks for you. They spread their legs fast if you have ready cash to spend on them. If on the contrary, my friend, if you like use all the logic in the books, nothing for you oh!

Most of us didn't have freedom to even mingle with our cousins when we were young. If you're caught talking to a girl those times in secondary school you won't know the teacher that has reported you to your parents. Mehn! My kids will be better

Mariangeles:
Na wah o! Your case strong o.
You no get sisters, them no still allow you mingle with people.

Don't tell me you went to an all boys secondary school?
Don't you have female cousins?

Nah. I don't have a sister. If I had a sister it'd have been easier

Mariangeles:
Start by approaching them and being approachable too.
Start/engage in conversations with them that is not necessarily about dating/relationship.

Do you have sisters? Do they have friends?

How do I make friends with ladies when I got none

Mariangeles:
Start by being friends with ladies to loosen you up first.
Ladies are not only for dating and relationships.

You've said it all. No freedom, No girls. E dey affect me gan

Mariangeles:
How did you grow up?
Were you not allowed outdoors too often?
Did you not have female friends while growing up? 'Cause I cannot understand why a guy can have these problems.

Start by being friends with them. To boost your confidence.

I don't grab

yuping:
moment matters alot and smiles can be deceiving.

All these redpillers under here are not helping. Please a girl should reply me

I know Nairaland is mostly full of clowns & some people will ridicule my post but please someone should explain to me on how to approach a girl & start a conversation. Tell me how to start, what to talk about, What to do e.t.c

I need a girlfriend. If you're interested. Hit me up @: kestar73@gmail.com. We'd have fun, Go on dates e.t.c. I don't want olosho please. Must not be above 22