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Romance / Should I Cheat On My Boyfriend/girlfriend/partner? Here's The Answer by sinistrian(m): 8:04pm On Sep 24, 2019 |
Cheating is defined as not severing the connection after you've decided to jump. If you decide to cheat, you're a selfish, disrespectful coward and a piece of s**t. Now let me explain. Nobody ever cheats on their partner by mistake or in a moment of weakness. Cheating is a planned and deliberate act which indicates a basic lack of regard and disrespect for one's partner, or a sign that they have given up on the relationship but do not have the courage to speak and say they don't want it anymore. The process is the same for both men and women, and it always follows this sequence: a feeling of newness/excitement a declaration of interest and/or acknowledgement and acceptance of the other party's interest encouraging/instigating further advances of interest in less ambiguous terms setting up a time and location for clandestine intimacy ensuring that the time and location do not clash with the time/location they normally should be spending/sharing with their partner (this one is important) finally, covering up all items and documents that would provide evidence of the meeting. These steps can all occur within hours, or may happen over months. But they are never 'mistakes' or 'weaknesses'. They are always consciously planned. What hurts about cheating is not so much the sexual act or the emotional connections that have been formed. If it were, threesomes wouldn't be so appealing and open marriages/polygamy wouldn't work. The hurtful feeling comes more from the betrayal, the breach of understanding, and the deceit. It is the feeling of losing the specialness of the bond by introducing another individual into the picture without common consent. Dealing with this feeling is not even a matter of religion, faith, culture, age, maturity, or knowledge of risks/consequences. It is about one's state of mind. When one is tempted/feels the urge to go animal, we should ask Will this act give me fulfillment? Can I recreate it with this individual or any other as often as I want, or is it a one-time thing? Will I be happy with the way I feel about myself after I do it? Is it of a better quality than what I have/i'm getting at the moment? Will it improve my mental and emotional state during and after the act? Is it worth losing the other things I derive from my current partner? Does it feel like I'm in control of the act/feeling, rather than it controlling me? If the answers to these questions are all “yes”, then there is absolutely no reason to hold back. Please go with the person you are currently being drawn magnetically to. However, what you now need to do is to clearly and completely break off the relationship with your current partner. This should be before you let your animal feelings take over, or immediately after. By this time, you will have achieved your new level of fulfillment. No, you cannot be friends. And no, you won't have moments of regretful remorse. No, their actions didn’t push you into it. No, this is not a weakness you have. You decided to go after what would satisfy you, and given the same circumstances and unlimited resources, you would make the same decision over and over again. |
Autos / Re: Registered 2008 Corolla (on Hold For Now) by sinistrian(m): 5:02pm On Jul 05, 2019 |
Sale has been put on hold due to unresolved documentation issues. Please ignore this post for now. |
Autos / Re: Registered 2008 Corolla (on Hold For Now) by sinistrian(m): 9:56am On Jul 04, 2019 |
Bump |
Autos / Re: Registered 2008 Corolla (on Hold For Now) by sinistrian(m): 5:15pm On Jul 03, 2019 |
Available for inspection in VI on weekdays |
Autos / Re: Registered 2008 Corolla (on Hold For Now) by sinistrian(m): 4:43pm On Jul 03, 2019 |
First page of report. I can send the full PDF to you on request (too large to upload here)
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Autos / Re: Registered 2008 Corolla (on Hold For Now) by sinistrian(m): 4:41pm On Jul 03, 2019 |
More pics
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Autos / Re: Registered 2008 Corolla (on Hold For Now) by sinistrian(m): 4:37pm On Jul 03, 2019 |
Interior
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Autos / Re: Registered 2008 Corolla (on Hold For Now) by sinistrian(m): 4:32pm On Jul 03, 2019 |
More pics
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Autos / Re: Registered 2008 Corolla (on Hold For Now) by sinistrian(m): 4:30pm On Jul 03, 2019 |
Please see first set of pics here
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Autos / Registered 2008 Corolla (on Hold For Now) by sinistrian(m): 3:30pm On Jul 03, 2019 |
Vehicle make: 2008 Toyota Corolla CE VIN: 2T1BR32E58C936660 Reason for sale - Relocating Model year - 2008 (manufactured late 2007) Exterior colour: Blue Fuel - Petrol Engine - I4 Air conditioning - factory fitted Steering - power All airbags - intact Seats - cloth, beige colour Gear transmission - automatic Windows - automatic Rims - Alloy (I changed them from steel) Price - N/A Location: Victoria Island, Kofo Abayomi (weekdays) UPDATE: Sale has been put on hold. There are issues with the original documents which need to be resolved |
Car Talk / Re: Can One Retain Plate Number After Selling Car? by sinistrian(m): 8:32am On Jun 14, 2019 |
drpossibilities:Did they issue a new proof-of-ownership certificate to you for the new vehicle? |
Autos / Re: SOLD....Tin-can Cleared 2006 Toyota Corolla S Black by sinistrian(m): 8:18am On May 24, 2019 |
Is your number available on whatsapp? I'd like to discuss this car |
Satellite TV Technology / Re: Solar Energy, A Complement To FTA by sinistrian(m): 7:06pm On Jun 23, 2018 |
mukhcech:You can get this easily from konga.com 1 Like |
Satellite TV Technology / Re: Solar Energy, A Complement To FTA by sinistrian(m): 1:45am On May 27, 2018 |
Who has up to four used (not abused please) 12V 200AH AGM batteries for sale, all of the same manufacturer? I want to put together a 48V bank for experiments ... |
Satellite TV Technology / Re: Solar Energy, A Complement To FTA by sinistrian(m): 9:04am On May 24, 2018 |
NiyiOmoIyunade: Stories like this comfort me whenever I look at the MorningStar TS MPPT 60 controller I bought and ask myself if it was really worth spending so much for an MPPT controller. |
Satellite TV Technology / Re: Solar Energy, A Complement To FTA by sinistrian(m): 11:57pm On May 20, 2018 |
pranil: Could you explain your comment above, a bit more? |
Satellite TV Technology / Re: Solar Energy, A Complement To FTA by sinistrian(m): 6:40pm On May 20, 2018 |
davodyguy:Inverter suddenly started drawing excessive current from batteries, with no load connected. I've sent you an email. |
Satellite TV Technology / Re: Solar Energy, A Complement To FTA by sinistrian(m): 6:12pm On May 20, 2018 |
davodyguy:Davodyguy please where can I fix a faulty gennextech inverter? |
Satellite TV Technology / Re: Solar Energy, A Complement To FTA by sinistrian(m): 12:08pm On May 19, 2018 |
Yes, my suspicion is that there's a short/fault somewhere inside the inverter. I've disconnected it from the house now. Time to go and look for petrol 4 Likes |
Satellite TV Technology / Re: Solar Energy, A Complement To FTA by sinistrian(m): 11:31am On May 19, 2018 |
My concern is that a house load of 400W max is tripping a 63A breaker via the inverter. And this is a 48V system! If I put the 100A breaker in, it means I am giving a 2.4kva nverter the go-ahead to pull 4800 watts from the battery! 1 Like |
Satellite TV Technology / Re: Solar Energy, A Complement To FTA by sinistrian(m): 11:25pm On May 18, 2018 |
It's a DC breaker rated 25ADC. And it trips immediately I switch the inverter on. I just replaced it with a higher amperage DC breaker (63ADC) just now and the same thing happened. Which tells me the inverter is trying to pull an insanely large amount of current for a 48V system at startup. This never happened before - my max current draw (even with fridge surge) has always been about 15ADC. Now, with zero load, the inverter wants to pull more than 63ADC? |
Satellite TV Technology / Re: Solar Energy, A Complement To FTA by sinistrian(m): 10:00pm On May 18, 2018 |
Hello guys, I noticed this afternoon that the battery supply circuit breaker keeps tripping off when the inverter is switched on - even when there is no load connected to the inverter output. What could cause this? |
Satellite TV Technology / Re: Solar Energy, A Complement To FTA by sinistrian(m): 9:37am On May 17, 2018 |
kiekie1:How long does it stay in bulk charge? These pics are definitely the result of overcharging. |
Satellite TV Technology / Re: Solar Energy, A Complement To FTA by sinistrian(m): 9:34am On May 17, 2018 |
kiekie1:Wow. It's almost as if the batteries exploded. The way my car battery looked when the alternator failed and started outputting 17V - 21V instead of 14.3V; Did you smell Hydrogen sulphide (rotten eggs) around these batteries? |
Satellite TV Technology / Re: Solar Energy, A Complement To FTA by sinistrian(m): 4:28pm On May 14, 2018 |
Barezzi:Same potential as inverter input, yes. The live passes through the contactor while the neutral feeds directly from the inverter. Here are the contactor and SSR: https://www.aliexpress.com/item/CT1-2P-25A-1NC-1NO-220V-230V-50-60HZ-Din-rail-Household-ac-contactor/1688946996.html?spm=a2g0s.9042311.0.0.79224c4duxKkn6 https://www.aliexpress.com/item/solid-state-relay-SSR-10DA-10A-actually-3-32V-DC-TO-24-380V-AC-SSR-10DA/32606149138.html?spm=a2g0s.9042311.0.0.27424c4dpEPjPr 2 Likes
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Satellite TV Technology / Re: Solar Energy, A Complement To FTA by sinistrian(m): 3:52pm On May 14, 2018 |
NiyiOmoIyunade:I built my own LVD because I couldn't find any inverter or device that could reliably cut the power at 50% DOD. The circuit below is what I used, please forgive the lack of professional terminology as I made use of my elementary electrical knowledge since secondary school. The BMV700/702 has a means of effectively tracking DOD as Barezzi has already suggested, so it's the crucial element here. If you want to use voltage levels for your cutoff point instead of a battery monitor, a programmable inverter with dry contact terminals (like the axpert) can also work with this setup. The dry contact device (in my case, the BMV because I already had one) is connected to the battery terminals in series with a 10,000+ Ohm resistor (to reduce the energisation current, we can't be wasting precious battery power), as well as a normally-open DC-AC solid state relay (SSR). I chose a normally-open relay because I only want current passing through it when needed, as opposed to all the time. When the BMV DOD condition activates the relay, the SSR is energized and triggers the AC contactor (AC/AC) which is a normally-closed device. When the contactor is energized, the load circuit is interrupted and all output from the inverter is cut off. No matter who is watching TV at the time. Trust me, this pisses off The SWAMBO all the time but I need to save my batteries. The BMV relay only resets when the SOC rises back to a set value (this is configurable too) and then all loads are restored. 3 Likes
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Satellite TV Technology / Re: Solar Energy, A Complement To FTA by sinistrian(m): 9:17am On May 11, 2018 |
Weather has not been very favourable in the last 5 days. I've had to run my (now rusting) generator for a few hours each night to make up the charge. |
Satellite TV Technology / Re: Solar Energy, A Complement To FTA by sinistrian(m): 3:31pm On May 08, 2018 |
sharks776: Based on the looks and form factor, as well as the fact that it uses WatchPower as it's control software, I can conclude that it's a re-branded Axpert-based inverter (other rebrands are IPowerPlus, MPPSolar, GennexTech). They are very good inverters (and i can swear by them). I've used two axperts so far - I dropped the 24V model because I wanted a 48V system. The only issues I can see are: * Axperts dont deal well with loads over 50% capacity, especially where most of the load is coming from a heating device (iron, oven, water heater etc) * The hybrids manufactured before 2016 suffer from the 'premature float bug' where the inverter jumps to float after spending just a few seconds/minutes in absorb. While there's a firmware with a bug fix available on the internet for the 5kVA/48V models, I haven't seen such a fix for any of the other models. It's not a problem for me because I use an external Charge Controller. |
Satellite TV Technology / Re: Solar Energy, A Complement To FTA by sinistrian(m): 4:12pm On Apr 27, 2018 |
lexi28: In either case, the output MPPT current really depends on the controller's DC-DC conversion efficiency because your input power will still be the same no matter which controller you use. if you don't have any shading issues, go with the 3s2p. |
Satellite TV Technology / Re: Solar Energy, A Complement To FTA by sinistrian(m): 1:38pm On Apr 26, 2018 |
pranil: Well noted for subsequent posts 2 Likes |
Satellite TV Technology / Re: Solar Energy, A Complement To FTA by sinistrian(m): 11:07am On Apr 26, 2018 |
NiyiOmoIyunade:I used to overclock computer CPU's so i know how important the fan is In fact i have already ordered a 48V dc fan from aliexpress so I can connect the terminals directly to my busbars. The MorningStar heatsink temperature is currently 51°C, when it's doing the most work. But man I still can't believe the output I am seeing: 69Ah generated and it's not even 12 noon yet ... |
Satellite TV Technology / Re: Solar Energy, A Complement To FTA by sinistrian(m): 11:12pm On Apr 24, 2018 |
Oshomo12: Updated stats: Even though today started hazy and there was initially poor output, the sun came out in full force by 8:30am max power = 2,354W out of 2,700W max current = 32.64A energy generated = 186AH Charge from 49.1% at 7am to 98.8% by 2pm, even with full house load on 1 Like
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