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RomanceRe: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by sirhot(op): 6:52am On Nov 23, 2015
Estharfabian:
Uh....Rewind...Should be Yours?undecided
Yes tongue tongue I have dogs too cheesy cheesy wink
RomanceRe: Question: Do Ladies Also Watch Porn? by sirhot(m): 11:42pm On Nov 22, 2015
ladycomfort:
Yes I watch porn a lot. One get to learn a lot of things
A honest lady! I like your type!

Check your mail! wink
RomanceRe: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by sirhot(op): 8:53pm On Nov 22, 2015
catlova:
kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss

Haters can go n lipsrsealed
angry angry angry angry angry sad angry angry angry
RomanceRe: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by sirhot(op): 8:52pm On Nov 22, 2015
misspicy:
tonguetonguetongue


catlova booey...where @thou?
angry angry angry angry angry angry
RomanceRe: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by sirhot(op): 8:37pm On Nov 22, 2015
femcruz:
lolz u've got fleeky bruv, why the hassle
This is my thread! I have the responsibility of taking care of every commenter on this thread! They all belong to me! angry angry angry

Estharfabian, misspicy and fleeky should be mine tongue tongue tongue

Ill throw you out of this thread and if you are not careful, out of nairaland grin grin grin
RomanceRe: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by sirhot(op): 6:31pm On Nov 22, 2015
Estharfabian and femcruz do not turn my thread into a dog thread, I haven't even finished my case with catlova and misspicy and then this angry angry angry angry
RomanceRe: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by sirhot(op): 3:39pm On Nov 22, 2015
catlova:
Hahahaha. I ll b representing us there. tongue need no lawyer
Are you one of these charge and bail lawyers tongue grin cheesy grin grin cheesy
RomanceRe: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by sirhot(op): 3:38pm On Nov 22, 2015
femcruz:
hehehe cheesy, guess i was faster than you, hope you went to church.

fleeky nd sirhot make una call me on ur wedding day, its about time i ate wedding rice cheesy
Will you sponsor the wedding? sad sad angry angry
RomanceRe: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by sirhot(op): 12:39pm On Nov 22, 2015
fleeky:
Loll..i also have my list of criteria..so we have our various checklists,hehehee...If u really get to know me, u'll be happy u knew me..Dats all I can say smiley
shocked shocked shocked shocked that will be very interesting...

PM sent!
RomanceRe: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by sirhot(op): 12:31pm On Nov 22, 2015
fleeky:
Hmmmm, it is well!
well that's it! I'm facing reality.
RomanceRe: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by sirhot(op): 12:27pm On Nov 22, 2015
fleeky:
Lol, I removed that stuff immediately and u already quoted it..hmmm
Hehehe... You want to be my friend? I have a long list of criteria you must fulfil ooo grin grin grin grin cheesy cheesy

Should I read it out so you know your stance cheesy cheesy
RomanceRe: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by sirhot(op): 12:25pm On Nov 22, 2015
fleeky:
I didn't want to say anything on this thread, but this ur comment sounded too hard..so i'll say u should calm down... it's never soooo serious...i understand u're hurt by ur last experience..Please take it easy..Don't allow another girl suffer for what she knows nothing about..You can still find love again and again..All girls are not the same, the good ones are still very much in existence, Ok!
my dear, it seems hard because I took women for who they are and I respect them but it sad when the one you so much love and respect turns back to hurt you.

Does it mean that we guys don't get to meet more beautiful, intelligent and nice girls but we still stick to our dates but for girls the moment tthey meet another guy who they feel is better than you at the moment, they jump ship.

Experience has taught me something and for now I've forgotten about love maybe I'll find it in marriage but not in the so called dating.
RomanceRe: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by sirhot(op): 12:18pm On Nov 22, 2015
catlova:
undecided pls go to court
Get your lawyers and meet me in court then... angry angry angry angry
RomanceRe: NIGERIAN GIRLS ARE BETTER USED AND DUMPED by sirhot(m):
Raalsalghul:
For most parts, what the op is saying is true. I've taken my time to observe some Nigerian girls and they exhibit traits that the op just typed above. But the op made a mistake of generalising.
yes, it seems he is generalising but what will you do if the percentage of bad to good girls is 98:2. In that case the 2% good ones is negligible; too little to be seen.
RomanceRe: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by sirhot(op): 10:04am On Nov 22, 2015
Monalisa185:
ohhhhh...Okies....
wink
RomanceRe: NIGERIAN GIRLS ARE BETTER USED AND DUMPED by sirhot(m): 9:23am On Nov 22, 2015
searching4l0ve:
[b] IF YOU WANT TO LIVE LONG DO NOT MARRY A NIGERIAN GIRL sad


It's not surprising that female population are exceeding their male counterparts in this present world and due to this fact many ladies are desperate and will stop at nothing to lure gullible men into their fake love trap with the hope of trapping them with marital bondage. undecided One amazing thing is the stupidity and pride Nigerian girls exhibit when they are still in the age bracket of (22-28) by playing hard to get on potential suitors just to give an impression of been a good girl even tho the are mostly who.res and prostiutes in disguise . They waste away their early years running after men for money and material gains. Nigerian girls are mostly insatiable. They are long throats and their money hungry nature will make Oliver Twist jealous. They jump from dick to dick heartlessly, eat like glutton on a date, and the worst part is their terrible hygiene. All these factors are responsible for the teaming population of desperate ladies who will stop at nothing to get their hands on a man after their terrible past comes haunting them. Nigerian girls can never be good wives. Recent study shows that most men who married Nigerian girls end up in early graves due to facts emanating after years of marriage. Many Nigerian men are raising bastard kids in their homes courtesy of the prostitutes they call wives. undecided If you want a peaceful marriage, i advise you to look out side the shores of Africa where mentalities are entirely different from these financial pest we call women in Nigeria. A foreign lady offers you true love with out deceit, Care, support, and they understand the real meaning of been in a relationship. There are bad ladies every where but the poverty mentality Nigerian girls are raised with makes most of them turn to beast. The percentage of promiscuos and disloyal female partners in Nigeria exceeds any other part of the planet. Nigerian Girls will never love you for who you are but what you have or possess and once that thing(money) is no more, they quit you and look for the next comfort zone irrespective of the memories and number of years you spend together. A word is enough for the wise. Choose wisely undecided



#Team foreign girls cool cool[/b]
grin grin grin grin grin grin Gosh! Guy, you are funny! Just hope Nigerian girls don't catch you grin grin grin

You got me laughing so hard! grin grin grin

I can't agree more! I remember my foreign love wink

At least I've experienced love for once! sad
RomanceRe: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by sirhot(op): 9:10am On Nov 22, 2015
Catlova and misspicy what do you think you are doing? angry sad angry
RomanceRe: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by sirhot(op): 9:08am On Nov 22, 2015
Estharfabian:
You should know this...You don't choose Who You Love....lipsrsealed It doesn't work that way...

I Really have A feeling You'd find Love and You'd be helpless bout it coZ the feeling would Overwhelm You...wink

Uh...Without LoVE marriage Won't be Successful. if you'd later have kids, trust me, You don't want them knowing your marriage to their mom was arranged...It's sure gonna hurt them.

Anyways....Goodluck!
In my own case, I'll choose who I love. I won't just love anybody. There are some factors I'll look at first before 'falling' in love. Family background, social status (I have my reasons for this, I didn't use to care but now I do sorry.), academic qualifications and result etd, I won't just fall for any girl seriously! I've learnt my lesson. Remember thus is marriage not bf and gf.

grin grin grin grin I'll so surprised at myself if I fall in love just like that! angry the love has to be so strong that it makes me fall which I don't see happening anyway. I've seen ladies I'm attracted but when I get to know all the above mentioned information I just forget it.

At times I get a girls number and I don't ever call her grin grin grin No interest really!
RomanceRe: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by sirhot(op): 8:58am On Nov 22, 2015
Monalisa185:
and yeah,he didn't even understand dah piece.....so wah part of dah piece says you need to fall in love to be happy?
I did, you didn't get my point. I didn't say fall in love, I said I don't need to love whether falling in or standing in love. I just need a sensible and practical person with a focus.
RomanceRe: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by sirhot(op): 1:05am On Nov 22, 2015
Monalisa185:
must everyone fall in love? it's not even advisable... op,puhlease, do yourself a favour.... stand in love and be happy....
I don't need to love to be happy. Thanks
RomanceRe: Question: Do Ladies Also Watch Porn? by sirhot(m): 1:03am On Nov 22, 2015
Hmmm...
RomanceRe: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by sirhot(op): 11:11pm On Nov 21, 2015
Estharfabian:
Really, I'm Kinda speechless...: (

It must've hurt A Lot...Buh You shouldn't take drastic decisions coz Of The sins Of One "Hoe"....I'm positive your heart would heal...You'd find "Love" Again..it's Everywhere, It's Inevitable....
I know but that's in her own case. What about others that cheated and lied till I found out. My dear life is too sweet to hang it on imaginary things, since I decided to forgt love, I'm more at peace. I don't want to hear the word 'I love you' because it is meaning less when it matters.

Everything is strictly business now, even my marriage will be a contract. She fulfils certain obligation and I fulfil mine. I don't want to be deceived by love any more. And besides, I'm not just marrying any body, I have certain criteria of a woman I want, is either you meet it or forget about me, I don't go into business with just any body!
RomanceRe: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by sirhot(op): 10:48pm On Nov 21, 2015
Estharfabian:
Wow! that's Cruel....oMG!cry

I'm Like so sorry...I could only Imagine the pain U felt...
That was pure wickedness! I wouldn't want to go through all I did for her, the risk I took because she was my potential wife!

It dawned on me that relationships are never to be ttrusted! People can change over night so go through the headache. That singular event changed me completely.

I now want a contract relationship, strictly business with terms and conditions so one doesn't wake up and move out just like that or even cheat and go scot free!
RomanceRe: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by sirhot(op): 10:28pm On Nov 21, 2015
Harbosede02:
U see falling in love as a waste of time??I don't think u need any advice..u've made ur decision already
my dear, I just didn't come to that conclusion just like that, my experience, friends experience both male and female, so what will I have to say?
RomanceRe: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by sirhot(op): 10:23pm On Nov 21, 2015
Estharfabian:
Lemme guess....She cheated??undecidedcry

Well, I Lost My Puppy...I Loved him bad...cry he died coz of cancer..sad

Can't seem to find love After that episode...cry
oh dear, I'm sorry, please accept my heartfelt condolences.

After I had proposed and she accepted, only for her to wake up one morning and say it is over! I have never been betrayed like that. We never had any issues!

She didn't even want to make amends just in case I was wrong!
RomanceRe: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by sirhot(op): 10:15pm On Nov 21, 2015
obiorathesubtle:
Dear op,


I cannot say I feel your pain, neither can I say I don't feel your pain.(Don't fÛcking try to understand that). However, pain is something we never want to feel. Sequel to the last statement, we cannot control everything that goes on in our life, some say fate takes its' course, others say chance is a stubborn bastard, you see. I don't know what I'm trying to say


Moreover, a very good friend said something to me, he said "our evolution of consciousness will bring us back home", Love is home, east or west, home is the best and whatever other phrase you wish to add concerning the importance of home. You can't stay too long outside your home, its frustrating and non_human. By the time you gain consciousness, and I sincerely hope it's sooner, you'll fly on evolution's wings back home, back to love. If you cannot feel love anymore, I understand, but love is a gear you shift into in order to live a better life. You can agree with me that you never will enjoy a ride in a car without changing gears, therefore, whichever way you have been hurt, you need to see it as an experience to be better in life, see it as a teacher. My mum bought a little book for me when I was eight, she had just come back from the market and I was expecting the conventional moi-moi, but she struck me with something different, a book titled "experience is the best teacher". A broken heart is not a disaster, but a teacher, an experience never to be sad about but to be happy about, and learn from.


You've had so many relationships, I'll say it took you a lot of girls to get here, but hey! What have you learnt from all of them? What did you do wrong? What did you do right? What did they do wrong? And of course, what did they do right? Ask yourself these questions. This is your oppurtunity to reflect on the past. Instead of trying to nail Love on the cross for nothing, build on all of this. Make yourself a better person, go out there and keep falling in Love! Life is too short to live by those philosophies.


I just typed nonsense didn't I?
well that's incisive! I think my mentality is what different from that of a conventional guy in our society. Most at times after the break up, they see that I was really real! What I mean is, we at times believe that a certain type of woman or man does not exist, when we meet one, we still do not believe, after we move away from the scene, we now see that is was indeed real.

At that point in time it is already late! I'll reflect on your comment. Thanks
RomanceRe: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by sirhot(op): 8:46pm On Nov 21, 2015
Estharfabian:
Me too...We've got the same problem...undecided
why? My breakup was terrible! It was synonymous to luring me to a dark corner and stabbing me hard. The cut is deep!
RomanceRe: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by sirhot(op): 8:37pm On Nov 21, 2015
amtaken:
www.gayalert.com
did I say I like men instead? angry
RomanceRe: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by sirhot(op): 8:36pm On Nov 21, 2015
tripplephi:
GOOD IT MEANS YOU ARE HEALED FROM THE END TIME DISEASE PLAGUES PEOPLE, KEEP PURSUING SUCCESS AND A GREAT LIFE OF INFLUENCE AND YOU WILL SOON FALL YAKATA FOR A WOMAN WHO IS DOING THE SAME THING AND WHO IS NOT EMOTIONALLY DIATRACTED. GOD IS HELPING YOU BRO SO DO NOT COMPLAIN
thanks bro
RomanceRe: Help! I Cannot Fall In Love by sirhot(op): 8:36pm On Nov 21, 2015
stupidity:
Tot u needed help?

U don turn adviser.
Not really, its just my own ideology.
RomanceHelp! I Cannot Fall In Love by sirhot(op): 8:26pm On Nov 21, 2015
Ladies and gentlemen, lately I have discovered that I do not have any emotional feeling for girls and women, some have been bold enough to tell me to my face that they love me, but I just laugh it off, I don't feel anything.

After, some break ups, I now see women as people one shouldn't take serious, just live your life when you feel like getting married just pick anyone marry and continue your life all those romantic stuffs is just fairy tales and only exist in movies and novels.

I just cannot love. I see it as waste of time!
RomanceRe: Question: Do Ladies Also Watch Porn? by sirhot(m): 5:21am On Nov 19, 2015
Matured ladies that watch porn add me let's share videos 58BE4A46. Matured babes pls. wink

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