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I need a man here in the US to stimulate my mind. Check profile for email addy.

Stay with him. Buy rosessta stone with his money so he can learn english.

well, since she is making plans maybe you should start making your plans so you won't be left in the cold.

The thing with money is that your less stressful and able to show love if all the bills in the home are paid for and there is food in my tummy all the time. But if I'm hungry the kids are crying cause they are hungry, i the wife have to hear them cry all day that they are hungry while your at some low paying job coming home with nothing. How can you seriously think I will be happy. So, in some way the money does work hand in hand with love.

so how does this online dating thing work? Maybe I should invest my time in one?

i'm taking email addresses,

I will wash them clean!

metro - how are things with your friend ex. are they happy?

I agree saucekid and that's why i'm asking for advice.

Thank you jkpretty! You really got my mind in gear, Thank you.

Zignor - we haven't' engaged in the act yet but, I'm ready!

ettehgate - Because this babe is ready for marriage.

The ironic thing about it all is that when he proposed to date me (lack for better words) he told me that he didn't want to be my boyfriend. He wants a wife. So ettehgate he came to me with this marriage thing. Him not even knowing I wanted to be in a committed relationship.

Yeah that’s true about the gradual thing, but what YOUR feeling should be important as well.

How is your demeanor when you’re talking about this to him? I ask because I find myself when talking to my mate about something serious I tend to be shy and be soft so he finds a way to make it a joke and blow it off and doesn’t take it serious. And when you see woman screaming and arguing about the situation to there man, it seems that both parties just gets mad and argue and He continues to do what he wants to spite the woman.

The point I’m trying to make is be firm and serious but not argumentative.

Zingor, if i tell him to do his job he will jump on me and I will not stop him. And of course after that moment or a couple days afterwards we will have to come back to the realization of the relationship and the same question will come up "does he really want to marry me"

Zignor, you make it seem so easy. You must be a man.

You should let him know how you feel about it. It seems like you do trust him so, tell him that "I trust you but I feel uneasy about all the female friends you tend to have around" and don't argue about it, in fact tell him that's all you have to say about it.

Well, ifyalways, I've known him for 7 months we've been dating for the last three. His friends are both married and single. He is financially stable for marriage and he seems mentally ready as well.

And I want this man, ifyalways! My bones want him.

I'm going to sit him down this Christmas and talk to him,

Does this man really want to marry me?

Not more than four months ago and any chance he gets this man asks me "when will we get married", "when will I get pregnant" and things like "when will I wake up next to him every night"? Well, I will do want all these things with this man I wanted them YESTERDAY. The only thing is that he need to meet my parents so things can be official, you think that would be easy! Ha! not at all.

As i am writing this now, I'm realizing that this man is not serious at all.

But he has not shown me any type of commitment. I do all those little cute things to show him how much I care for him and blah blah blah. But yet he stalling on meeting my parents but then he parades around to all his friends that I'm his Princess, I'm a good woman and how his Princess is coming to town for the holidays. He introduces me to his friends as his wife and all that cute stuff that us women love when a man show us off and I enjoy that and it blows my head up making me feel good.

He is taking this thing as a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship and I want a husband/wife relationship PERIOD.

The strong minded women out there please help me with your opinions.

Good evening!!!!!!!!!!