Uzzyan:

@uspry
Y not the hand

Yes sure, no problem!

I will wash them clean!

i dey wash her clothes and even her pants well well,reason is because i nowant her trouble.

Can you help your partner to wash his/her clothes? If yes, why? and if no, why?

When i saw this question, my answer was YES! Despite the ego of the African man, there is really no big deal. Also, technology has solved this problem for those who cannot wash his/her partner's clothes: THE WASHING MACHINE!

Everything is on Nairaland!
HA!

What's the big deal washing your partner's clothes

Well, am a devout muslimah, let us use some religion perspective.
Partner can only do that if they av fully wedded.


I cant wash either fiance or boyfriend cloth since av not married him
This is going to be my day-to-day role; so y did I need to be hasty

Pls I want to know what the Book of the Law says concerning
playing roles between a man and woman
be it 13th century or 25th century?

I really will wash my partners clothes because I see it as part of "taking good care of him".I do not think that Beijing conference forbids that abi?

PLS YOU CAN BRING ALL YOUR CLOTHES TO MY LAUNDRY OUTFIT IT IS CALLED IMPRESSIONS DRYCLEANING-WE ARE AN OUTSTANDING WORLD CLASS DRYCLEANING OUTFIT AND WE DO ALL KINDS OF LAUNDRY.

WHY WASTE YOUR TIME DOING THE DIRTY LAUNDRY OF YOUR PARTNER WHEN IMPRESSIONS CAN DO IT FOR YOU?

JUST SEND THM OVER AND SPEND YOUR AMPLE TIME DOING SOMETHING ELSE

CHEERS!

why not? i will gladly wash my partners clothes cos whatever belongs to my partner belongs to me including his dirts too
@skintom77, you should be charged for advertisment o

yeah

Hi guys I can wash my babes cloths provided theres a genuine reason. washing machine really solves the problem dis days

Yes i can wash my husband's clothes - in the washing machine - why not.
Its part of ma wifey duties

its no big deal to help once in a while to wash ur partners dress.that doesn't mean anything.infact its builds up more love on ur part trust me. but dont turn it to an everyday job,

No big deal lyk my fellow posters said, itz fun, we both cn wash together, all na luv.

No big deal lyk my fellow posters said, itz fun, we both cn wash together, all na luv.

No big deal lyk my fellow posters said, itz fun, we both cn wash together, all na luv.

Washing the clothes for her atimes is a sign of serving and giving love which I BELIEVE IN. True can make you do all things so far they are good and legal

What kind of question is this?

Is there a designated housemaid or houseman in my household?--------------------------------NO!

Who gets the opportunity--does it on Saturdays---no exceptions please! Both parties work, so both parties take turns.  It is called "teamwork"!  You cook, I wash.  You wash, I cook!  No long talk! I can see most remaining single for life here. Or being divorced within 2 years of marriage or not earlier. If you can bicker about such simple things--then you are not ready to settle down with even a mule!!!!!!

Poor upbringing I guess!

common guys, what's the big deal?!!! i think men should learn that there's nothing wrong in helping out with house chores every now and then. Either way, there's absolutely nothing wrong with it. A woman who is respectful will respect her husband or b/friend as the case be whether he washes her clothes or not.

No big Deal in it.

there is no big deal about that.as long as she does urs then why not help with hers it's not an everyday affair.

Its no big deal. My husband washes my clothes even my undies and I do same for him when I can.

If you truly love each other its no big deal.

not bad

no long tin. as longg as there's a reasonable reason. will do it JEANS NO sorry yes gals jeans aint dat hard.

many thanks almondjoy. this is what is wrong with the Nigeria of today. people do not know the difference between rights and responsibilities. the attitude is not me gov.

life is about what you give and take but we seems to be raising up a self centered I,Me & Myself generation taking and consuming everything in sight generation. what is wrong with washing clothes for others let alone your own wife and mother of your children? not all homes in north America and Europe have washing machines they manage to survive it is not about washing machines it is about a perverted and twisted mind some people have that will never help no one not even God forbid the person having the misfortune of marrying them.

i come to Nigeria now and again. last year, i had the privilege of staying there for 2 months in one stretch. i was very careful not to say anything to most people for fear of being accused of looking down but i usually questioned my dad and some uncles about some attitudes of the young people i was observing i came out refreshed that it was not just me thinking there is something wrong and obscene in the environment.

there is a kind of non charllant attitude we have that needs to be checked. fair enough there are more cars and houses but there happiness in the environment?. anyway i got this article from a blog today and it is so true. anyway you guys read and let me see what you think

[b]BLACK PEOPLE, PLEASE, READ & HEED. POIGNANT.

The sad thing about this article is that the essence of it is true. The
truth hurts. I just hope this sets more Black people in motion towards
making real progress. Chris Rock, a Black comedian, even joked that
Blacks don't read.

Help prove them wrong! Read and pass on.

Please Note:

For those of you who heard it, this is the article Dee Lee was reading
this morning on a New York radio station. For those of you who didn't
hear it, this is very deep. This is a heavy piece and a Caucasian wrote
it.
Dee Lee, CFP Harvard Financial Educators

Dee Lee

THEY ARE STILL OUR SLAVES We can continue to reap profits from the
Blacks without the effort of physical slavery Look at the current
methods of containment that they use on themselves: IGNORANCE, GREED,
and SELFISHNESS.

Their IGNORANCE is the primary weapon of containment. A great t man once
said, "The best way to hide something from Black people is to put it in
a book." We now live in the Information Age. They have gained the
opportunity to read any book on any subject through the efforts of their
fight for freedom, yet they refuse to read. There are numerous books
readily available at Borders, Barnes & Noble, and Amazon.com, not to
mention their own Black Bookstores that provide solid blueprints to
reach economic equality (which should have been their fight all along),
but few read consistently, if at all.

GREED is another powerful weapon of containment. Blacks, since the
abolition of slavery, have had large amounts of money at their disposal.
Last year they spent 10 billion dollars during Christmas, out of their
450 billion dollars in total yearly income (2.22%).

Any of us can use them as our target market, for any business venture
we care to dream up, no matter how outlandish, they will buy into it.
Being primarily a consumer people, they function totally by greed. They
continually want more, with little thought for saving or investing.

They would rather buy some new sneaker than invest in starting a
business. Some even neglect their children to have the latest Tommy or FUBU, And
they still think that having a Mercedes, and a big house gives them
"Status" or that they have achieved their Dream.

They are fools! The vast majority of their people are still in poverty
because their greed holds them back from collectively making better
communities.

With the help of BET, and the rest of their black media that often
broadcasts destructive images into their own homes, we will continue to
see huge profits like those of Tommy and Nike. (Tommy Hilfiger has even
jeered them, saying he doesn't want their money, and look at how the
fools spend m ore with him than ever before!). They'll continue to show off to each other while we build solid communities with the profits
from our businesses that we market to them.

SELFISHNESS, ingrained in their minds through slavery, is one of the
major ways we can continue to contain them. One of their own, Dubois
said that there was an innate division in their culture. A "Talented
Tenth" he called it. He was correct in his deduction that there are
segments of their culture that has achieved some "form" of success.
However, that segment missed the fullness of his work. They didn't read
that the "Talented Tenth" was then responsible to aid The Non-Talented
Ninety Percent in achieving a better life. Instead, that segment has
created another class, a Buppie class that looks down on their people
or aids them in a condescending manner. They will never achieve what we
have. Their selfishness does not allow them to be able to work together
on any project or endeavour of substance. When they do get tog ether,
their selfishness lets their egos get in the way of their goal Their
so-called help organizations seem to only want to promote their name
without making any real change in their community.

They are content to sit in conferences and conventions in our hotels,
and talk about what they will do, while they award plaques to the best
speakers, not to the best doers. Is there no end to their selfishness?
They steadfastly refuse to see that TOGETHER EACH ACHIEVES MORE (TEAM)

They do not understand that they are no better than each other because
of what they own, as a matter of fact, most of those Buppies are but
one or two pay checks away from poverty. All of which is under the
control of our pens in our offices and our rooms.


Yes, we will continue to contain them as long as they refuse to re ad,
continue to buy anything they want, and keep thinking they are "helping"
t heir communities b y paying dues to organizations which do little other
than hold lavish conventions in our hotels. By the way, don't worry
about any of them reading this letter, remember, 'THEY DON'T READ!!!!

(Prove them wrong. Please pass this , Reading it, )

YES, sure, if the washing machine and dryer breaks down. otherwise, NO!! ^{then maybe it's becasue am still young}

no big deal in it.

Yes. Why not? This is the 21st century. If she can wash my clothes, why can't I do the same for her? That is luving! And hell yes, hand wash or machine wash , I will wash em real clean

yeah sure no big deal bout it.cnt let d western ovarule me.dosnt mata if we're married or nt.

Well guys in the house i see nothing wrong[color=#000099][/color] in washing your spouse cloth`s we are always washing pant`s and cloth`s here for our lover,anyway we used washing machine.I must give kudos to you guy`s.