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eme40rald:
Thank you so much op for this thread. God bless you

buzanjay:
I must commend your efforts to make this world a better place... even as a guy I'm touched by by this article... wanna make a request hope I'm free to print it and emm pass it around will just do some Editting?

whoisuche:
NICE WRITE UP

Zohan:
Swerve

HermajestyQ:
Seriously saving my most esteemed self till marriage [color=#000099][/color]

whoisuche:
NICE WRITE UP

zeyney:
Nice One OP ,Stil Yet Some Ladies Wil Nt Gain Sense 4rm Dis. Dats Y Dey Wil Continue 2 Complain Of Heartbreak Nd Disappointment in A Relationship Wen Dey Are Most Likely D Reason 4 Such Undesirable Behaviour 4rm Men

biuti:
Thanks and God bless you for all these.
I just believe that when one is doing something because one fears God, nothing else should make one fear because God will always be there for one.
Please keep it up. Thanks

ziiiiiiy:
thanks 4 d courage.l love this

xamilola:
@Sirr, may God bless u for this beautiful write up and even coming from you a man has totally blown me away. Thanks for speaking the truth plain as it is and for the words of advice and encouragement, which still proves that what is not good is not good, no other way to put it. I also love the way u emphasis that abnormality is abnormality, it should not be seen as the trend or what's in vogue. Am totally in love with this I just have to share this link to my fellow female folks who needs it especially

MznAirA:
Very nice write - up.. really an eye opener! Never knew guys like this existed o! ! God pls bring pple like dis my way soon! Amen

KemiJesus:
Good one op,God bless!

Vikky014:
good one op. u r blessed

funlord:
abeg take all your "counterfeit virgin ideologies" to the "lonely feminist thread"! After going through your posts anyone would know you are a FRAUD! Spare us!

Mhizkel:
Interesting! And some people would say having sex on a first date is no biggie!
Total nonsense!
Abstinence is the best...


SAY NO TO PRE-MARITAL SEX!

Truckpusher:
Op, you no try at all o.

How una go dey make these girls dem to wise up with all the over sense wey full their body eh?

If women begin get too much sense ,e dun finish for us o.

Nellypy:
Kudos to this gentleman. I appreciate this write up.

rsleeky:
I love this post...op u deserve a big hug....I just hope we ladies take this serious cos some will still ignore this

CaptainJune:
However, I don't subscribe to the action of disrespecting a girl on the basis of morality. I give respect to wayward and sincere girls but I draw a thick invisible line of association and interaction between them. Girls with class and principles are my taste. I might be attracted to the body of a promiscuous girl but she is of no real value to me beyond her looks (a pathetic way to be seen by others) and my attraction lasts as long as smoke in the air. My definition of beauty is the one that is skin deep. Only girls with class and standard have that.

CaptainJune:
Op is sooooo on point. When I meet a girl whose standard is 'No Sex Before Marriage" I'm really really wowed! All my thoughts would be this is the Real Deal worth any price and sacrifice to be the proud owner. No right thinking guy is insane to EVER attempt to plan the rest of his life with a cheap commodity that he easily afforded for junk price and knows any other man ...their bosoms or assets in scanty dresses, promiscuous girls who love flirting, that is, girls with low standards because they only want to satisfy their greedy desires for PLEASURE, NOT LOVE. THAT ATTRACTION ALWAYS FADES INTO EXTINCTION WHEN THEY ARE ABLE TO SATISFY THEIR SEXUAL DESIRES. NO FEELINGS INVOLVED.

However, they are GENUINELY ATTRACTED to girls with high standards who make it their principle that they will not have sex until after marriage because they want to satisfy their deepest and strongest longing and desire for LOVE, NOT PLEASURE. THAT ATTRACTION GROWS STRONGER EACH DAY BEFORE AND AFTER HAVING HER AS A WIFE AND IT NEVER FADES.

Have you seen that girl who says no to premarital sex and sticks to it? SHE IS THE DREAM OF EVERY GUY.

GlorifiedTunde:
Nothing do u bro. You're so on point. You'll find one someday. But the truth is that she may not come in an physically beautiful package - speaking from experience.

It took me a while to find her, she's too much of a priceless Sundance. I just tunned her up a lil bit. Now I see God intentionally hid her beauty -oother guys are now like "how come we didn't see this beauty?"

biuti:
Pls shed more light on the bolded.

ronald4lif:
The OP was surely under the influence of some Papua New Guinea wet weed when he wrote this. Please guys pardon him.

Bibol:
One of the few sensible threads I've seen on Nairaland in recent times.

Chivee:
Well this is a platform for people of different religious backgrounds, differemt cultures &believes.
I believe the op considers that this is not a Christians call-to-conversion thread, hence for the sake of our Muslim brothers, and people of other believes, its more effective to approach this topic from a moral,ethical,psychological and otherwise point of view rather than biblical. This makes it possible for every one to effectively& more logically relate with the message. Its not as though he is shying away from biblical references. Though thankfully, both the Qur'an & Bible take the same stand on premarital sex. But we are not addressing women of just these Two believes.
I sense your strong believe and passion for Christ and i must say that it is quite admirable. But imagine a dedicated &devote Muslim for instance, who has as strong a passion for Islam as you have in Christianity. Dont you think such person would feel that the Qur'an's view supersedes any other view too? He/she has every reason& right to.
What are the chances of you making such a person believe otherwise? Rather you may risk incurring his/her resentment & the aim of the thread becomes defeated since he may percieve you as a faithful of another religion trying to undermine his,which he holds so dearly. I say this because of what you said & I quote u:
"That's the hard fact, sirr. Being a Christian, all my approach is scriptural based whether any body likes it or not."
Those lines seem to carry with them an air of bigotry. But I stand to be corrected.
I fear that this approach which you subscribe to would have far less reach & impact than the op's approach which seems to accomodate virtually any well meaning individual irrespective of his/her cultural background or religious affiliation. So if you & the op are to address a secular young female crowd with the aim of sensitizing them on the above topic, I imagine who would gain more converts.
I'm a Christian & there is no need to be hypocritical about the fact that I'm clearly less likely to go on reading an article if i notice so many quotations from the Qur'an. This is simply because of the feeling that I may not gain a good understanding of its meaning and more so, the possibilty of a contradictory teaching to my faith may discourage me as well.
As I said earlier, if the topic was "call to Christian conversion", then its a different case altogether. But this is a "Say-No-to-sex" thread for the ladies. He made very valid points & I believe that he has not just inspired a lot of religious people who's scriptural guidance further reinforces his message but most likely has also touched the lives of some agnostics & atheists...as well who only relate to plausible reasoning& logic.

Mayflowa:
It will be difficult to sell your idea. You speak like ladies indulge in sex just to please men. Like men, ladies enjoy the sex act and are inquisitive abt it from right from teen ages.

It's no one's fault the world is spoilt. Our body doesn't help us. Secondly, marriage oughtto be the ultimate end for a woman but real life experiences show marriage could be treacherous to women and the only time they may just enjoy in their lives would be their past relationship and se.x lives.

cutebebe:
@ op, u nailed it.
You just described me.
#Team Value And Virtue#