An2elect2:
Yea! but at the end of the day i am not settling for a man "with Focus, Goals and Ambition, Responsibility" in the world's sense. That's superficial for me. Hardworking and responsible men, i appreciate but what is foremost is that he must know The Lord that i know.

I appreciate your effort and time to put this out here for us. It only shows how concerned and well meaning you are.

I will also want to say that Christian ladies should in all our doings, not keep the focus of attraction on us but on Christ. Yes and very, important we should be neat, have good carriage, be principled, be good looking, have good dress sense,etc but if we affirm and teach in all honesty that we are only God's vessels then we should remain just that.

I am overjoyed when a guy sees Christ in me more than he sees me. LOL If all he cares for is me me me, i wouldn't want to have much dealings with him. Strange? yes to worldly women but not to Christians.

We cant get people saved by "pricing" ourselves but by pointing them to Christ if we say we are Christians and care for men's souls else, we are nothing but worldlings who are only seeking praises and glory for ourselves from men through rare means.

Just seyin

An2elect2:


Okay. I knew this already even before posting. The truth is that the biblical view will always supersede socio, educative or any other kind of views. That's the hard fact, sirr. Being a Christian, all my approach is scriptural based whether any body likes it or not. And of course people wouldn't like it that way but that's the only way they can be saved and i remain true to my God having clear conscience.

Thanks for the reply.

sirr:

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Well said an2elect2, seriously, u spoke very well, but this article was made to make the topic mild, not like a preach, but a motivational talk, its a view of "abstinence from sex" from a socio and educative point of view.
If I had written from a "Biblical/moral" perspective, you and I already know that youths won't want to listen, but a few. I therefore wish to ask, how many young ladies believe in prayeing and fasting, let alone "Seeing Christ in themselves"?? Very few, so in otherwords, writing from a biblical sense wouldn't make any meaning to many out there,
Thank God for ur belief.
Gods grace to U dear...

abbey621:
Not only is this ridiculous but I can't seem to find any scientific evidence that girls who say NO to sex are more valuable than girls who've had their fair share. Back in school, a lot of girls did nasty stuff and fast forward 7 to 8 years later, most of those girls are married. Speaking personally, when we remove religious sentiments, I can see no positive value in being in a relationship with someone without sex, not only is it biologically dangerous, it can also bring about undue tension and jealousy. Here's another shocker, did you guys know that the longer a woman stays a virgin the more health complications they risk when they finally have sex. In light of this and other reasons known to me, I actually value girls with some experience than those so called virgins or women of virtue!

whillyamz98:
No to sex just gets me pissed off! But still like them that are not loose.

An2elect2:
Yea! but at the end of the day i am not settling for a man "with Focus, Goals and Ambition, Responsibility" in the world's sense. That's superficial for me. Hardworking and responsible men, i appreciate but what is foremost is that he must know The Lord that i know.

I appreciate your effort and time to put this out here for us. It only shows how concerned and well meaning you are.

I will also want to say that Christian ladies should in all our doings, not keep the focus of attraction on us but on Christ. Yes and very, important we should be neat, have good carriage, be principled, be good looking, have good dress sense,etc but if we affirm and teach in all honesty that we are only God's vessels then we should remain just that.

I am overjoyed when a guy sees Christ in me more than he sees me. LOL If all he cares for is me me me, i wouldn't want to have much dealings with him. Strange? yes to worldly women but not to Christians.

We cant get people saved by "pricing" ourselves but by pointing them to Christ if we say we are Christians and care for men's souls else, we are nothing but worldlings who are only seeking praises and glory for ourselves from men through rare means.

Just seyin

biuti:
Pls shed more light on the bolded.

jacksparrow1207:

prettythicksme:
Sensible thread,thumb up!some ladies cant cope with a relationship without sex and dat is pure bullshit!!

IamLEGEND1:
this is all just a trailer-load of ćrap.








bleep me or i walk!!!!!!!!!!!!.......




with boko haram, ebola and everything, life is too short to die a virgin.

BRO WHY YOU DEY EFF UP NAW?

stonecoldcafe:
[size=18pt]LOL see them all saying yes, best thread and thank you but i bet they are the same ones doing i must test before i buy. They are the same folks screaming 'what will i gain if i dont have sex with a girlfriend?' I bet they are the same ones that must marry virgin yet are yanshing every available babe. Hypocrites![/size]

discoprophet:
Say No to sEx.

Say No to Mr Biggs. :p

Say No to Shopping.

sirr:

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Well said an2elect2, seriously, u spoke very well, but this article was made to make the topic mild, not like a preach, but a motivational talk, its a view of "abstinence from sex" from a socio and educative point of view.
If I had written from a "Biblical/moral" perspective, you and I already know that youths won't want to listen, but a few. I therefore wish to ask, how many young ladies believe in prayeing and fasting, let alone "Seeing Christ in themselves"?? Very few, so in otherwords, writing from a biblical sense wouldn't make any meaning to many out there,
Thank God for ur belief.
Gods grace to U dear...

whillyamz98:
No to sex just gets me pissed off! But still like them that are not loose.

chidyhels:
Sx has blind folded the world
I hate it more when it blind folds women.
There is more to happiness and a peaceful home than the 5mims pleasure sx offers. But these boys don't just get it and I will kep praying for them

Mayflowa:


It will be difficult to sell your idea. You speak like ladies indulge in sex just to please men. Like men, ladies enjoy the sex act and are inquisitive abt it from right from teen ages.

It's no one's fault the world is spoilt. Our body doesn't help us. Secondly, marriage oughtto be the ultimate end for a woman but real life experiences show marriage could be treacherous to women and the only time they may just enjoy in their lives would be their past relationship and se.x lives.

Chivee:

Well this is a platform for people of different religious backgrounds, differemt cultures &believes.
I believe the op considers that this is not a Christians call-to-conversion thread, hence for the sake of our Muslim brothers, and people of other believes, its more effective to approach this topic from a moral,ethical,psychological and otherwise point of view rather than biblical. This makes it possible for every one to effectively& more logically relate with the message. Its not as though he is shying away from biblical references. Though thankfully, both the Qur'an & Bible take the same stand on premarital sex. But we are not addressing women of just these Two believes.
I sense your strong believe and passion for Christ and i must say that it is quite admirable. But imagine a dedicated &devote Muslim for instance, who has as strong a passion for Islam as you have in Christianity. Dont you think such person would feel that the Qur'an's view supersedes any other view too? He/she has every reason& right to.
What are the chances of you making such a person believe otherwise? Rather you may risk incurring his/her resentment & the aim of the thread becomes defeated since he may percieve you as a faithful of another religion trying to undermine his,which he holds so dearly. I say this because of what you said & I quote u:
"That's the hard fact, sirr. Being a Christian, all my approach is scriptural based whether any body likes it or not."
Those lines seem to carry with them an air of bigotry. But I stand to be corrected.
I fear that this approach which you subscribe to would have far less reach & impact than the op's approach which seems to accomodate virtually any well meaning individual irrespective of his/her cultural background or religious affiliation. So if you & the op are to address a secular young female crowd with the aim of sensitizing them on the above topic, I imagine who would gain more converts.
I'm a Christian & there is no need to be hypocritical about the fact that I'm clearly less likely to go on reading an article if i notice so many quotations from the Qur'an. This is simply because of the feeling that I may not gain a good understanding of its meaning and more so, the possibilty of a contradictory teaching to my faith may discourage me as well.
As I said earlier, if the topic was "call to Christian conversion", then its a different case altogether. But this is a "Say-No-to-sex" thread for the ladies. He made very valid points & I believe that he has not just inspired a lot of religious people who's scriptural guidance further reinforces his message but most likely has also touched the lives of some agnostics & atheists...as well who only relate to plausible reasoning& logic.

Bibol:
One of the few sensible threads I've seen on Nairaland in recent times.

ronald4lif:
The OP was surely under the influence of some Papua New Guinea wet weed when he wrote this. Please guys pardon him.