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Sorry bro, I had same experience in the first six years of my marriage, my family didn't help matter at the initial stage because they believe I was stubborn. But it got to a stage the 2 families had to sit and clarify issues. My siblings had to tell my parent in-law to leave us alone. That curbed my mother in-law but my father in-law still repeated same thing and this had to get to my pastor who invited both family and advised my parent in-law to stay away from our marriage. My advise to you is to invite your family and a spiritual leader depending on your religion and pray along. May good God bless your home and restore your marriage.

This is errant nonsense from Lagos State government.

Please my brother for the sake of your child and your marriage, go and pack her things from her sister's place. It is one of the sacrifices you need to make as the head of the family. I have experienced something similar to yours in the past, but today we have 2 more children after the initial challenge and the marriage is getting stronger. May God bless your home sir.