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Re: My Wife's Family Has Ruined My Home And My Life by Nobody: 7:22pm On Jun 02, 2018 |
Sadly the op is in deep shii. I think you should threaten to send your wife back to her parents, perhaps she'll sit up. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Family Has Ruined My Home And My Life by 3free2: 7:29pm On Jun 02, 2018 |
iLegendd: If you are as smart as you claim to be, you would know that many years of courtship does not guarantee that your marriage will be successful. Anyway your opinion is appreciated. 16 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Family Has Ruined My Home And My Life by iLegendd(m): 9:38pm On Jun 02, 2018 |
3free2:Sorry, Sir. |
Re: My Wife's Family Has Ruined My Home And My Life by djunique4(m): 10:09pm On Jun 02, 2018 |
Guy u nor be Man U dey fear to tell them your mind |
Re: My Wife's Family Has Ruined My Home And My Life by Nobody: 10:19pm On Jun 02, 2018 |
You are the one that allowed them. I always tell yong men not to allow any mumu love to block their sight and shy away from managing their home the way they want. You're supposed to have stopped the rubbish during courtship. Pray to God to show you they way out and be very bold to follow the leading of holy spirit. There is nothing God can not do. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife's Family Has Ruined My Home And My Life by Newpride(m): 10:19pm On Jun 02, 2018 |
Be a man, summon courage and voice out before they finished u completely.. 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Family Has Ruined My Home And My Life by Nobody: 10:23pm On Jun 02, 2018 |
youngest85: Sometimes our comments are so harsh & inhuman, if he dies I believe u don't have anything to gain so pls let's be mature... 9 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Family Has Ruined My Home And My Life by Guyman02: 10:24pm On Jun 02, 2018 |
Change your attitude, ignore her antics and stop being scared about your kids, she will take care of them even in your absence. Make yourself happy, stop trying to please your in-laws, just be your true self. Give directives to your wife and don't repeat your words more than 2 times, if she obeys that's fine, if she disobeys just ignore her and focus on your kids when at home. Put on the music when you come home and dance with the kids happily, cook and eat with your kids joyfully. Don't call any meetings between your family and hers except it is to discuss divorce or separation. Simply ignore your in-laws and see them as irritants to be kept at bay, if you want to do any favours for them do it quietly and don't expect any appreciation, cut off frivolous communication between you and them except when you want to discuss serious isues. Tell yourself that you are the head of that home, a Lord and a Lion. With time she will get the message and decide to choose between you and them. I am talking from personal experience. 15 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Family Has Ruined My Home And My Life by noble2faith(m): 10:26pm On Jun 02, 2018 |
youngest85: Ogun, after reading your comments and those humanoids that liked it, be like "definitely, eran mi leleyi" 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Family Has Ruined My Home And My Life by luvcherish(m): 10:26pm On Jun 02, 2018 |
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Re: My Wife's Family Has Ruined My Home And My Life by lonelydora: 10:27pm On Jun 02, 2018 |
3free2: That is what led to this your mess. You needed to be loving and firm. First year of marriage for any woman is manipulating year to test how firm you are. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife's Family Has Ruined My Home And My Life by ednut1(m): 10:29pm On Jun 02, 2018 |
Marriage nowadays ehn. Fear dey catch me o 1 Like |
Re: My Wife's Family Has Ruined My Home And My Life by oshaosha2014(m): 10:31pm On Jun 02, 2018 |
OMG... you married men are going through alot. I am learning big time! Bro, your words inspire me. Pipedreams: 1 Like |
Re: My Wife's Family Has Ruined My Home And My Life by khaymhat(f): 10:31pm On Jun 02, 2018 |
youngest85:You are wicked..... Lai kin shey young John!! � 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Family Has Ruined My Home And My Life by Kobicove(m): 10:31pm On Jun 02, 2018 |
Personally I think marriage should be a contract renewable after every 10 years if the couple agrees to continue the 'journey' 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Family Has Ruined My Home And My Life by pennywys(m): 10:33pm On Jun 02, 2018 |
3free2:poor broke nigga, how I wish you have money ur wife and ur inlaw would respect you. Mind you next time don't bring this trash here |
Re: My Wife's Family Has Ruined My Home And My Life by Xisnin(m): 10:33pm On Jun 02, 2018 |
The topic of this post shows that you are 100% responsible for your family problems. Whenever a person blame others for a matter that is joint responsibility, I know they are the major culprit. Since you didn't share any specific detail I believe from the onset you were trying to fight their potential influence but you lost out and now claiming victim. If your wife's parent are not jobless, there is no way they would spend all their time trying to influence your marriage, they have their own life to live. And if they are both jobless, it is your fault that you married from such a family. No, a parent advising their daughter is none of your business even though you are the husband. You don't expect your wife to cut out her parents from her life because she is now married. The way forward is to ask yourself what you really want, maybe it is absolute control or being contented and not worrying about frivolous issues. If it is the former you want, you need another wife, preferably one without a family who would be at your beck and call. A couple's problem begin the day they think they are going into marriage to fight some imaginary enemies. With such mindset, enemies will keep showing up. 7 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Wife's Family Has Ruined My Home And My Life by cenaman(m): 10:35pm On Jun 02, 2018 |
3free2:what exactly is the problem? let us knw than we can be able to advice properly 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Family Has Ruined My Home And My Life by Lexusgs430: 10:35pm On Jun 02, 2018 |
3free2: Kids that grew/grow up in broken homes, did they evaporate? Keep enjoying this bondage, hopefully none of you would be tempted to butcher the other...... 7 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Family Has Ruined My Home And My Life by Nobody: 10:39pm On Jun 02, 2018 |
Seriously, I'm not thinking of getting married. Seems 1 out of 10 marriages have it going well. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife's Family Has Ruined My Home And My Life by Nobody: 10:40pm On Jun 02, 2018 |
Every time I read of men like you, I appreciate the men in my family. Now, here's what my brother did when his wife tried to be yours with him. He came home one day with a carpenter, asked him to change the locks and threw the wife out. He let her stay with her family for a year before he took her back. It's been 7yrs, 2 kids and a woman who knows not to try to be a b!tch with him. I honestly don't get weak man. I don't. Na wa!! 32 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife's Family Has Ruined My Home And My Life by abumoney(m): 10:41pm On Jun 02, 2018 |
What is it in particular u're worried about? |
Re: My Wife's Family Has Ruined My Home And My Life by chairman00100: 10:42pm On Jun 02, 2018 |
3free2: don't be ashamed bros op,, you are not the first in this type of case, my first advice is to remind you that GOD hates divorce that is if you are a Christian. My second advice is that you have to grow up, from my point of view, you and your wife were not mentally and emotionally matured enough to get married when you did, I didn't even see you as having made a mistake, you haven't lost your marriage yet just take charge fro now, it's that simple |
Re: My Wife's Family Has Ruined My Home And My Life by Nobody: 10:44pm On Jun 02, 2018 |
3free2: Monkey |
Re: My Wife's Family Has Ruined My Home And My Life by Sivou1(m): 10:46pm On Jun 02, 2018 |
Sorry bro, I had same experience in the first six years of my marriage, my family didn't help matter at the initial stage because they believe I was stubborn. But it got to a stage the 2 families had to sit and clarify issues. My siblings had to tell my parent in-law to leave us alone. That curbed my mother in-law but my father in-law still repeated same thing and this had to get to my pastor who invited both family and advised my parent in-law to stay away from our marriage. My advise to you is to invite your family and a spiritual leader depending on your religion and pray along. May good God bless your home and restore your marriage. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Family Has Ruined My Home And My Life by Xisnin(m): 10:46pm On Jun 02, 2018 |
UBGG:If the wife was not a jobless weakling, that would have been the end of that marriage. 7 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Family Has Ruined My Home And My Life by Nobody: 10:47pm On Jun 02, 2018 |
You aren't specific on what the issue/s is/are. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife's Family Has Ruined My Home And My Life by Edemaya: 10:50pm On Jun 02, 2018 |
3free2: In cage how!! You have not stated the problem. |
Re: My Wife's Family Has Ruined My Home And My Life by Nobody: 10:52pm On Jun 02, 2018 |
Cutehector: Not just money. He pleased them so much 1 Like |
Re: My Wife's Family Has Ruined My Home And My Life by Jaideyone(m): 10:54pm On Jun 02, 2018 |
youngest85:chai guy you wicked o 1 Like |
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