₦airaland Forum

God1000:
Such provocative and baseless statements spread division and hatred in the society, Without concrete evidence, branding an entire community's voting or political parties as 'anti-state' or 'terrorists' goes against democratic values and is a highly irresponsible act."

SixSeven:
Death is the only constant thing in life that equals all human beings.

Tradition that feeds on fear will one day starve on truth because a home that threatens death cannot teach loyalty but fear. As much as I want to be ethical and tell you it's wrong for anyone to cheat, the reality is that life is not fair and we know who is affected the most. Some of these laws were written for inheritance, not for fairness. It's just like someone who says a man should live in his in-laws house when there are proverbs that warn against it. So if that his wife dies, what does her family do the man (widower)? Send him back? Customs and traditions protect the future first, even when the present bleeds. We all want order, that's why they had many of these things as deterrent to prevent people from the disruption of social order.

When a child is born, the mother is known but the father must be proven. Our people were not ready for confusion, no DNA so they came up with another proverb that only a mother knows the father! This is still true today if you watch paternity cases, despite DNA and advancement in tech. The elders punished where they were certain, not where guessing began because lineage fears confusion. Some of the judgment they served then is now called jungle justice. Bear in mind that we have a lot of traditional families and they didn't want a bastaaard to inherit the throne.

There is a popular case on Justice Funmi's show. You now understand why they say only a mother knows the father. If you listened to the woman alone, you would have made your own wrong conclusions and convicted the guy

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bfy9hr-zf_I

But when the guy came to give his story, you now understand the wisdom of our fathers that it's only an old foooool who judges by listening to one side alone

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pPjKmVkw-jU

I am just trying to remind women that the reality of their promiscuity is more dangerous than the reality for men. Call it unfair but that's the reality.

Have we thought of why parents focus on the girl child more than the boys? The womb is the doorway of ancestry, so it bears the heaviest lock. The best way mothers knew then was fear that's why they said if you slept with a boy you will die

What enters the house through the woman stays for generations. A man’s mistake shames him but a woman’s mistake reshapes the clan. That's why even if a man did OS, by the time he repents, he will find a virgin to marry. Same cannot be said of a woman. Call it double standards but its the reality of life. That's why I said there's ethics, there's reality of the morality and there's understanding of why we do things because....

A man’s doubt sleeps in his mind but a woman’s doubt sleeps in the child.
Everything is just to protect women from giving us children we are not sure who the father is or causing confusion by breaking social order

SixSeven:
Women don't have capacity for multiple heartbreaks or letting go of 9 other men especially if the 1 she chooses does not do well like the others.

Men do not perform well in a group interview setting. When a man realizes a woman is actively dating other men, his instinct is rarely to fight harder. Instead, he will protect his ego and steps back. He assumes the woman is not serious about him, so he stops investing emotionally.

This then creates a cycle where the woman thinks he does not care, but in reality, he is just matching her lack of exclusivity. This is why you see men wanting to know if there is someone else for you before you start dating. If he's not interested in knowing them, then he just wants to use you. Men know what they want but when they tell women, the options confuse them, that's why they keep choosing short term gains for long term grains.

Women are generally wired for emotional connection not multiple dating because it forces a woman to suppress her natural empathy and act like a manager. She has to constantly compare, analyze, and keep her guard up. This is why we also say it is difficult for women to cheat like men. It's not about competition. The nurturing nature of a woman is to care for her own. Even with children, give a woman 4 children, 1 for her , 1 from her sister and 2 from her in laws. You will see how she will treat them compared to her own child.


Treating dating like a game where the "winner is announced in church" will eventually backfires. You cannot build a deep foundation of trust while keeping nine other guys on reserve. The honest men who want a real connection will leave the game early because they dislike the drama. The only men who stay to "compete" are the players who enjoy the chase, meaning the woman usually ends up picking the most charismatic liar of the bunch. You got played sista!


Ps: this is another reason for having the marriage institution. To help the woman vet who is good for her in the long run, not for her to be playing cards like casino game

epainos:
I am very confident that even the whole north decided to not vote for Tinubu, he will still win. The aftermath is what I can't predict. Or God stops him.

Also, I can confidently tell you that only a Jonathan can say "the blood of Nigerians is not worth his ambition". I cant say this for this man, and even Buhari.

My own prayer is that God in His infinite mercy should just have mercy on Nigeria.

Eriokanmi:
We jeed more sir. The givernment of the day doesn't deserve kid glove treatment

VOsimhen144:
Fela said “I no be gentleman at all oo”

Sometimes you don’t need to act like a gentleman especially when you know the kind of demons you’re dealing with.

If them throw you akpu, throw Akpu back to them
If them show you their strong yansh, show them your strong yansh too.
If them show you their iron balls, show them your iron balls too

Nobody has monopoly over violence.

Ombre:
Werey corrupt officials must have moved on to other opportunities as baba refused to lobby and give them kickbacks or whatever corrupt venture they had proposed.

I hope I am wrong and put to shame.

SixSeven:
I called Seun's attention to this blogger and how compromised his mods are. This OP's topics always hit the front page so don't worry about whether it makes sense or not. The OP is always promoting their YouTube and intentionally giving you little details so you can watch. This format has happened a lot on Nairaland with different monikers and the mod who is always willing to push their content to FP.

The coward lives long to show the brave man's children where their father was buried.

Chinua Achebe

SixSeven:
I called Seun's attention to this blogger and how compromised his mods are. This OP's topics always hit the front page so don't worry about whether it makes sense or not. The OP is always promoting their YouTube and intentionally giving you little details so you can watch. This format has happened a lot on Nairaland with different monikers and the mod who is always willing to push their content to FP.

The coward lives long to show the brave man's children where their father was buried.


Chinua Achebe

zoedew:
Leave all that for the classroom and grammar people. For now all that matters is winning the 2027 elections. The other day when Tinubu told the Political John Cardinal Onaiyekan and the Catholic Bishops that he would do all it takes to win in 2027 they misunderstood him. As things stand today even a Catholic sitting Governor will work to ensure that Tinubu wins and the Saturday following the win he will go for Confession! That's all it takes to slap a Cardinal hard in the face and get away with it!!!

DaudaTheSexyGuy:
This is one of the reasons why I don't ever send text messages to my girlfriends who are married

zoedew:
I am sure academics worldwide in the field of political science are studying Wikepolitics as we speak and it is sure to be a Coursework in universities someday soon.

SixSeven:
Wike has no option than to back Tinubu is what it sounds like. Atiku is Tinubu's opponent, Wike also became Atiku's opponent. Tinubu found that my enemy's enemy could be my friend, this is why he can't let him go. He is very useful for his type of politics. Buying houses for judges and trying to wet ground 🤡 Corruption 26

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He learned it from the so-called democratic or progressive man 🤡, his boss, Concensus. For Bola to stake his head in Rivers and declare a state of emergency but he never did in Plateau, Niger and everywhere else there has been mass killing is proof that politics is his favorite subject, not governance. Wike is proof that Bola is not a true democrat and the power he has today is for his selfish reasons. This further confirms that Tinubu did not win Rivers state so he has to use force in the state.

Tinubu's path to victory is

1. Voter apathy

2. Divided opposition

3. Force/threat (he has been using this in Lagos for long but with federal resources, he now has governors like Okpebolo, Wike, SP Akpabio who's always assuring that he will win and others to threaten people to vote him or else)

4. Money (what's your price? This is why he and Atiku are two sides of a coin. In a poor corrupt country with little morals, many are willing to sell their convictions for the highest bidder)

5. Propaganda (gaslighting, see how they celebrate the uncompleted coastal road, they will accept no responsibility but blame everyone else using religion, tribe and other distraction from the main issue). The way they counted fake millions of vote is gaslight in. Gaslighting is the manipulation by psychological means of a person (or group) which causes them to doubt themselves, their capabilities or their sense of reality.



Can you now see the big picture on why Bola holds on to Wike? Lagos, Kano and Rivers are important states. The NNPP governor that went to APC and they thought they had it in the bag, the Lagos government they have been holding for years and now Rivers will still not give them the rigging they desire.

Racoon:
Charles Soludo has been well compensated for all his tirades against Peter Obi.

Tenses:
Are race colors just white and black?

DrAda:
The risks are beyond STDs and pregnancy. She needs to be careful

Gbadugbakun:
All girls are into hookup either directly or indirectly.

Once you're dating more than one guy and you keep making demands from them, you be full blown olosho.

psalmsjob:
Just forget the photo matter even me stated it in the comment that the photo is fake but the fact of the matter is not fake.....

1. didn't Sani Abacha appointed Peter Obi to manage Port?

2. Didn't Peter Obi himself said he made enough money from that appointment to buy houses in London and displayed the house documents?

I have the video of that but just answer the 2 questions to prove ypur integrity if you have it and know what integrity means according to you.

psalmsjob:
I get una where i want una...i know you guys will focus on the already dubunked photo even in the comment and aviod the confirmed fact that Abacha appointed Peter Obi as port chairmen leaving out all his military officers at that time but appoint Peter Obi and that Peter Obi himself said he made money to buy properties in London from that appointment.....explain these facts as you don explain the photo and same goes for your other WhatsApp group members SixSeven that were attacking the photo but avioding the comment.

SixSeven:
🔼 If you think what I wrote above is not true, look at what I found recently 👇

Look at the first two photos of Obi on PM news.

AMINDA burst the fake news and showed them the original.

You can say it is politics and let's ignore it but it's more than that. If people are willing to lie against someone and put another person's picture in the name of politics, think about how Donald Duke's picture was used in this man's documentary.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-BhkypNvslQ


That's why his lawyer said go and ask him where he schooled yourself.

Seun: Does the President have evidence that he went to school, or did he homeschool for primary and secondary school?

Babatunde Ogala: The president will answer your questions when you ask him.

[Babatunde Ogala, SAN and former APC National Legal Adviser speaking on President… pic.twitter.com/ln9Ydj8bVJ

— Channels Television (@channelstv) August 6, 2026

This is the same country where Salisu Buhari's lawyer, the legendary Chief Rotimi Williams (san), advised him to drop his 500 million libel suit and confess to his crime. In 1999, the newly elected Speaker of Nigeria's House of Representatives, Salisu Buhari, was exposed by The News magazine for forging his age (claiming to be 36 when he was 29) and his academic credentials, including a fake degree from the University of Toronto. This was a country where lawyers will tell you what the right thing was.


This people are showing you who they are so I cannot blame them. If you continue to select them, then your children will learn from you and what you tolerate as standards.


Someone is talking about his biography but doesn't have his own childhood picture. You think these things don't matter? On this thread, I asked them what does he do for a living?
https://www.nairaland.com/8588390/throwback-seyi-tinubu-during-nysc#137924675

They said I will wail tire. To them, everything in this life is money. They are so poor, money is the only thought of life to them. Hmmmmm

If we crush the seed of integrity just to celebrate the chaff, what will our children eat when the famine of character arrives?

NairaMaster1:
Exactly 💯

Psychology. Why would someone accept to study Psychology in Nigeria?

itzadorable333:
You know nothing about the slave trade. If you knew, you won't equate "mirror" to the horror meted out on your ancestors who are turning in their graves as a result of your ignorance.
Those people who you regard as the "advanced" one, I don't know whether you have gone to to their lands to actually see for yourself first hand how morally decadent, hygenically wanting, spiritually empty, even nutritionally deficient and even intellectually dumb they are on the average? Well I hope you make money enough to travel around and see for yourself. But first know your roots, don't let a stranger tell you your history. Emancipate yourself from Imperialist propaganda that is packaged and tagged "education" , I'm sure that's where you got your " our ancestors sold themselves for mirror " story.