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The NOA and NITDA should actually be taking this up and use it as an example to others. But I am sorry, that's wishful thinking. Our institutions are heavily compromised already. No one dares Wike who officially threatened to revoke the land titles of any hotel, event centre, or public building in Abuja that hosts political factions or organisations not recognized by the Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC).

Is INEC truly independent

If Wike can speak on behalf of INEC, what does that mean?

Whether Redeem likes to admit it or not, there's already a conflict because of their members in government namely, Osinbajo and Remi Tinubu. These are not just ordinary members, they are also pastors in Redeem. I'm not really bothered about Remi because she is first lady and has no official role in the government.

Pastor Adeboye Urges President Tinubu To Beg Trump For 100-Day Window

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JQ69enyFtkU

We4all:
Before the Fulanis started kidnapping, there were others who were deep into it and made lives miserable for Nigerians. At this point, it doesn't matter whether you are a Fulani kidnapper or not. Our goal is how to put an end to it.

We trivialize our matters a lot. That's our problem. During Buhari's time they made it a Fulani thing, but analysts said Yoruba are the ones kidnapping their own because a foreigner cannot know your area more than you. The more the government politicizes our security, we will never get to the root of it. I don't believe in any of these ethnic coloration, it is a big distraction. Someone will call murderers repentant and forgive them, another one will say he was deceived by the repentant militants because they swore to the Koran. Crime is crime and should be dealt with.

Front page post:

» My Dad Died Because All The Qualified Doctors Were In Church – Billionaire Keji Giwa


Is Billionaire a title

Don't listen to what a man says, watch what he does.

Mr Wike has held more media chats than all our APC presidents combined since 1999.

Iran2025:
Content wan kpai Nigerians.

Imagine Seun monetizing Nairaland. Front page posts go become sports betting.

dominique:
Unpopular opinion here. Since she has more experience and possibly better qualified, she should seek employment in another firm while her fiance stay there. I've seen this play out in real life . The couple met at the office and it was the man who had more experience and certificates had to seek employment elsewhere because of the office policy and they went on to tie the knot. Under any circumstances should the lady in the op leave her work to become a full-time housewife else sorry will be her middle name

Under any circumstances or under no circumstances?

Do not share your password with anyone

Reloadedisraelp:
Who remember that Westlife song .... Am walking away

Or Craig David you meant?

@topic People treat you the way you treat yourself

Each child is raised different from the other. You all share the same parents but they have a different experience of raising you based on your personality. What causes sibling rivalry? You came to this world alone, most of it is you but I can tell you that parents are the biggest reason for it even if I believe you are responsible for what you do as an adult... They say you can blame your parents for how they raised you but you cannot blame them for how you respond as an adult.

But childhood trauma has a large impact on many of us, that's why you see some people looking for attention or showing their trauma in marriages with another man's child. Dear parents, what you do and how you do it for your children can cause a long term disability for your child who is now an adult.

Read this case study of FRA Williams prepared using AI, it will teach you that this life ehn, rivalries can transcend generations

The legal war over the multi-billion naira estate of Chief Frederick Rotimi Alade Williams (FRA Williams) serves as a classic psychological and legal case study for intense, multi-generational sibling rivalry, showcasing how professional expertise cannot override deep-seated familial resentment. Despite being raised in an elite, monogamous household by the same mother, the conflict among the four brothers highlights how early perceptions of paternal favoritism, specifically claims that the patriarch favored his third son, Folarin, by positioning him on lucrative corporate boards while excluding the others can fuel lifelong animosity. When the legal colossus passed away at age 84 in 2005, these latent tensions exploded into a vicious, decades-long battle over an inheritance valued at roughly ₦26 billion. Because three of the four siblings were extraordinarily accomplished legal minds holding the elite title of Senior Advocate of Nigeria (SAN), they wielded the law as a weapon. The rivalry became highly weaponized, involving retaliatory frozen assets, lawsuits, and even a petition filed by the eldest brother to successfully block Folarin from becoming a SAN in 2012.

The dispute split the brothers into two rigid factions: the eldest two, Chief Oladipupo (Ladi) and Kayode, against the younger two, Folarin and Tokunbo. This warfare persisted through their senior years, completely resisting interventions from the Supreme Court of Nigeria and the country's most respected elder statesmen. The ultimate tragedy of this rivalry was cemented in October 2021 when the eldest sibling, Ladi Williams, passed away from COVID-19 complications at the age of 74. He died with the family assets still heavily locked in litigation. Today, the surviving brothers—all well into their late 60s and 70s—remain estranged, and the bitter legal battle has officially spilled over to FRA Williams' grandchildren, proving that unresolved sibling trauma can successfully pass down as a toxic family heirloom.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SCg1zQcM6bc

Wike gives more press conferences and releases than the president of the Federal Republic of Nigeria. Hmmmm


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eAADQrNfy-k

bewisemasses:
Lots of social ills in our society
Politicians looting
Young ladies gold digging
Young guys illegal hustlings
Fake Pastors fake powers/prosperity deception

The first led to the third. The third led to the second.
The first led to the fourth.

This will make me repost my comment this morning. This generation will suffer for trashing the marriage institution because of its bad sides. That institution was there to take care of a lot of things despite its imperfections. Those who practised it for hundreds of years knew what they were doing

Repost 👇

To my comments above, the next stage we are going to because we trashed the marriage institution is the stage the Black Americans are. You see how she called men people that don't have sense but she has a baby in the background? These are women who will give birth to the next dysfunctional children of tomorrow. These women who don't want to be under the leadership of their husbands in a marriage so they think they can do everything by themselves until that child starts to grow and s/he is out of hands. If she cannot respect a man while unmarried, think about how she would trash her man if she was a wife. That's why they tell women that marriage is a school and whether you like it or not, life is not fair. The mistakes of a woman cannot be easily erased but men can claim their own was a scar despite being a bad boy.

These women who don't want to humble themselves to marriage, their roles as mothers, and wives will end up learning when it's too late and too much damage has been done. Because their bitterness will be given to their children like bitter kola, which will give us bitter girls who hate men (the other side of feminists) and useless men who are baby fathers and cannot handle the responsibility of being a man, a provider, a protector and a leader. Women will pay for it. This is not about gender. I will stop writing because I have captured some of these thoughts in past posts and you will see them below.

I pity this generation. Una think say u wise. I say marriage has been practised for hundred of years Una no ask why. You just think say because e get bad side then it's all bad. That institution Don sabi as man go take be, as woman go take be, as pikin go take be. No worry, You gonna learn!

SixSeven:
.. Thank you, I repost my previous comment.

The bad rap single women have on this forum is for me a disgrace to men because that baby mama and baby daddy nonsense is a sign of failed family upbringing. While people can lose their loved ones or divorce due to irreconcilable differences, men who leave their wives or did not consult the elders before marrying into a family are a big disgrace to men. Give me a man that has 3 wives above useless sissies who are comfortable with their women mothering their kids alone abandoned.

You people copied the thing the government used against the Blacks in US and left your culture. Now you are telling us about single moms 🤡 Nonsense

In some cultures, the brother married off his late bro's wife because women were never treated like Street Vendors and abandoned. I blame women too because western influence has deceived them with one yeye independence and fake patriarchy that we are having more kids without dads because of some strong head women.

Where is the honor our women once had?

Who are the men getting them pregnant and leaving them?

Who are the families allowing their daughters wore about?

You can't just blame the women. Men are the biggest culprits because let's assume women are moomoo as many of you claim, who are the moomoo men planting their seeds in her 🤡 Weak men. Clowns.... It was a ticking time bomb, Nigerians copied street lifestyle of America and the 'independent' life of Europe, then abandoned their own traditions and culture about marriage, family and childbirth, here is the result....


For women, at what age will you wake up

https://www.tiktok.com/video/7553103102446931231?

Another one

SixSeven:
Death is the only constant thing in life that equals all human beings.

Tradition that feeds on fear will one day starve on truth because a home that threatens death cannot teach loyalty but fear. As much as I want to be ethical and tell you it's wrong for anyone to cheat, the reality is that life is not fair and we know who is affected the most. Some of these laws were written for inheritance, not for fairness. It's just like someone who says a man should live in his in-laws house when there are proverbs that warn against it. So if that his wife dies, what does her family do the man (widower)? Send him back? Customs and traditions protect the future first, even when the present bleeds. We all want order, that's why they had many of these things as deterrent to prevent people from the disruption of social order.

When a child is born, the mother is known but the father must be proven. Our people were not ready for confusion, no DNA so they came up with another proverb that only a mother knows the father! This is still true today if you watch paternity cases, despite DNA and advancement in tech. The elders punished where they were certain, not where guessing began because lineage fears confusion. Some of the judgment they served then is now called jungle justice. Bear in mind that we have a lot of traditional families and they didn't want a bastaaard to inherit the throne.

There is a popular case on Justice Funmi's show. You now understand why they say only a mother knows the father. If you listened to the woman alone, you would have made your own wrong conclusions and convicted the guy

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bfy9hr-zf_I

But when the guy came to give his story, you now understand the wisdom of our fathers that it's only an old foooool who judges by listening to one side alone

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pPjKmVkw-jU

I am just trying to remind women that the reality of their promiscuity is more dangerous than the reality for men. Call it unfair but that's the reality.

Have we thought of why parents focus on the girl child more than the boys? The womb is the doorway of ancestry, so it bears the heaviest lock. The best way mothers knew then was fear that's why they said if you slept with a boy you will die

What enters the house through the woman stays for generations. A man’s mistake shames him but a woman’s mistake reshapes the clan. That's why even if a man did OS, by the time he repents, he will find a virgin to marry. Same cannot be said of a woman. Call it double standards but its the reality of life. That's why I said there's ethics, there's reality of the morality and there's understanding of why we do things because....

A man’s doubt sleeps in his mind but a woman’s doubt sleeps in the child.
Everything is just to protect women from giving us children we are not sure who the father is or causing confusion by breaking social order

Mothers should teach their female kids that the same burden that is placed on a man to strive and succeed is the same burden that is placed on a woman too.

Biology will have to be considered in this and we will regret making our women men. Once you turn on a woman's masculine energy to provide instead of nurture, you can't have 2-in-1 as you wish but thank you for not saying they should sell their bodies or do am well like our aunty said last week because of poverty.


https://www.tiktok.com/video/7550520688411544862

Bring back the family unit, it is there to protect the girl child before and after marriage.

https://www.tiktok.com/video/7636518237135457550

brain54:
Wike and tinubu are on the same level as political strategists...


I can't think of better political strategists than both men in this political era. Both are con men who don't care how they achieve their ambitions as long as they achieve it.


Wike's politics is more dirty and perhaps more violent though.

But in essence both men are different sides of the same coin!

Exactly the case. Wike has no option than to back Tinubu is what it sounds like. Atiku is Tinubu's opponent, Wike also became Atiku's opponent. Tinubu found that my enemy's enemy could be my friend, this is why he can't let him go. Wike's relevance is tied to being a minister in Tinubu's cabinet. He is very useful for his type of politics. Buying houses for judges and trying to wet ground. That's why Aisha calls him boy boy🤡 Corruption 26

Tinubu also likes those who have something to lose so they can fight for him. If Wike wants to remain relevant, he needs Tinubu to be there. Wike has held more press conferences than the president of the country. Despite people saying Tinubu should call him to order, even the APC followers now know that Tinubu can't let him go. They need to rig Rivers in 2027 again. I just saw Wike's media chat and again, he is talking about politics. Always politics.

We want to deliberately weaken the legitimate authorities for private individuals. Corruption continua

That's why you see people demanding clemency for bandits because of what happened in Niger Delta to the militants. Continue feeding militia. One day they will create their own government. The Boko Haram terrorists already do that. Keep funding them you hear.

Gotocourt:
Baba sope dirty politricks, this is what will finally bury APC 📌

I'm telling you especially those who will see that their names have changed from winner to loser. How can you say that primaries are just mere formality? It's just sad that APC has taken us back to where we left in 2007-10 era.

I had written it before:
Until you have someone who did all the work, earned it in the primary and elections, you will only have representatives of babasopecracy consensus. Fake democracy.

"There is nothing democratic in what is referred to as consensus"


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L1Ztoev8VNs&

Some people quote me and tell me godfather helps them, they even say the likes of Fashola would not have come out without one but when I ask them why the same Fashola was not approved until the people pressured in 2011, what happened?

Nyesom Wike purchased and paid for the 2023 Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) expression of interest and nomination forms that installed Siminalayi Fubara as the Governor of Rivers State👇


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6Aga2dmra0E&t=153s

This is why he is a good man on babasopecracy's cabinet and Fubara really has no spine. They don't believe in people's choice, they believe a select few should choose who is next then they conduct a sham called election to make you think you are a party to the process.

I had written that anyone who lived in Lagos 1999-2007 knows this. Those who surprise me are those who pretend to forget. Credit must be given to Tinubu, he didn't pretend to be anyone else. For instance this NELFUND is a joke. Why? After his policies raised the prices of school fees to a high amount, they are now giving you loan to afford it. Who made it high in the first place? Is he any different now that he is giving contracts to his friends? He has not changed, na una de pray make he change

Repost👇
He is. It is in this scenario that he can never be able to match Awolowo's legacy of free education. He was the first to raise the school fees of LASU to a high fee and they claimed that education wasn't cheap. That move made education out of reach. Now the same thing is playing out, after school fees have been increased due to his policies, they then give you a Greek gift called student loans. Not grant, a loan. So you are indebted to pay what they raised so high due to their policies.

What is being done in federal is no different than what he did as a Governor. You don't teach an old dog new tricks.

Nigeria: Tinubu imposed Fees on LASU - another major attack on Education
Dele Adebole in Lagos06 June 2006
Nigeria

Back in February two Lagos students were killed by police as they protested against the recent hike in school fees. In some cases fees have been increased a hundred times over. This is making it practically impossible for poor and working class Nigerian children to get an education.
"The Lagos State university students' union in conjunction with the NANS zone D and NANS JCC Lagos Axis berate the satanic increment in LASU school fees and the killing of some students of LASU during the peaceful protest against the increment in school fees. And call for the immediate reversal of these exploitative fees as a prerequisite to let the less privilege have access to Education".

These was the first paragraph in the leaflet issued by the students' union alongside with NANS zone D and JCC Lagos in February after the students' protest against the fees, which led to the killing of two students by the police on the command of the Lagos State Government.

It will be recalled that immediately after the appointment of a new vice chancellor last year, December 2005, the Tinubu regime of Lagos State announced to Lagos residents that the government could not afford to subsidize education and that in line with the ‘reforms' in the education sector, there cannot be any free education. The university authorities were directed to increase the fees from 250 Naira for old students to 25,000 Naira, while the freshmen's old fee of 1, 000 Naira was increased to N35, 000. This increment exclude the acceptance fees N10,000 introduced earlier to the fresh students two years ago.

It is very important to note that even while the official school fees were placed at N250 earlier, an average student still pays as much as N25,000 to the university or its agents. This takes the form of handouts, registration fees, etc.

Not excluding the current attempt to deny the children of the working class education by the newly imposed post-JAMB test, according to ruling elites, it is to checkmate examination malpractice experienced during jamb exams but from reality, it has been confirmed as another conduit pipe through which money is generated and siphoned without question. This post jamb fee in LASU is N2,000. All these fees stated above do not include various expenses to be incurred while going through the registration processes.

The Tinubu administration carrying out these attacks on students is a master of deception. Towards the end of his first four years, he became one of the most hated governors in Nigeria as he committed enormous atrocities against workers, students and rendered many people homeless. The sacking of over 10,000 workers in 2001/2002 over the N7,500 minimum wage protests is still fresh in the memory of the working class despite the treachery of the labour leadership.

The process of destroying public schools did not start with LASU neither will it end with LASU. If we flash back our memory, this regime handed over schools to private individuals and missionaries four years ago.

This was a process of saying government cannot fund education and moral standards had fallen because missionaries and Muslim clerics were not allowed to teach morals and that handing over would increase the standard of education. But the current state of public primary/secondary schools nose-dived to an all time low. Where on religious bases students were not allowed to enroll in certain schools. Teachers were transferred from outside on religious sentiments. This marked the beginning of privatization of education in Lagos State under Tinubu.

The obvious implication of privatization and handing over of schools to both Muslim and Christian clerics is that this is damaging. As the children of the poor working class will be denied access to education based on affordability and religious grounds. This in turn will lead to mass illiteracy as is currently already developing in the country.

Despite the killing of Rashid Giwa during the protest and closure of LASU campus, the students' union had been campaigning against the fee in the print and electronic media.

However, students must be wary of some so-called ex-LASU students' leaders and human right activists who are trying to divide and restrict the struggle against the fee to the vice-chancellor alone but are afraid of exposing and challenging Tinubu, who as the governor gave the directive as the owner of the university, because they are also members of the Alliance for Democracy, AD, or personal assistants to AD top officials, while some of the right-wing activists are Tinubu-AD loyalists.

The way forward
It is clear that the class-conscious approach to the struggle against fees must be adapted. The LASU students must appeal to non-academic workers and lecturers for solidarity in order to defeat this regime.

All other Lagos State tertiary institutions are connected to this cause as their cause since they are under the same state, while also spreading the campaign to all other campuses throughout Nigeria for concerted effort in defeating the Obasanjo and Tinubu policy on education.

One sure way of achieving victory of the students' movement is by booting out state agents in NANS in our various institutions.

The LASU students have proved themselves once again, after many years of reaction taking over the students' union leadership, when their existence as students has been threatened by the state.

The only socio-economic system that can grantee free and quality education is a government led by workers with clear-cut socialist policies.

May 2006

I like him though, he does not pretend to be what he is not. It's those who pretend that he is malevolent that surprise me. I am sure you watched his remarks at the African CEO Conference in Kenya. He has no mercy for the poor so whenever someone shows you who they are, believe them.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SaBwOsHPUhA

bolaayenimo:
This Hashim man that is Wike’s boy

It's looking like some people were banking on the confusion of factions in every opposition party so that you will be forced to vote for the only party that looks stable without faction. That's the game plan. How many of these parties have factions now? Once there is a faction, there is disunity and you cannot gather your comrades for a united opposition force.

While you are all waiting for PSquare to comment, you are comfortable with the irresponsible government. This manipulation is strong.

SixSeven:
I've just watched the video and not relied on these reports

'This Experience Will Not Repeat Itself', Tinubu Assures Victims Of Jos Killings

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t-e4yDIUsmQ


00:00
Please be seated. Eh, you have no light at the airport and I have to fly back within the next 10 minutes. To you leaders, I've had this. To the victim, there is nothing I can give you whether money in billions but console you and promise you that this experience will not repeat itself. I take uh for example Favor Roda. I know the pain. I see how on the video you head on to Ayuba and the pain and agony in your heart. But it is only God. It's only God [clears throat] who can give you joy and comfort. No amount of money can pay all of you back. Yes, as government, we will try our best to comfort you, to walk with you. The best solution is for Jos to be just the one that people like us grew up to know.


02:19
Please have your seat. I salute all of you leaders, but I've had the experience of the past. Why is the past not a source of lesson for us? I've listened to Jang. I've listened to Washington. I've listened to Nacho (omo AI Nacho ke , you need to always verify things yourself, that's why I left this bomb in the post, don't depend on people to do everything for you, trust but verify). I've listened to the governor. Governor, you and I were elected on a promise of peace and prosperity, not to comfort and create widows and widowers. To bring prosperity as a promise, to bring inclusiveness as a government, to share the hope and aspiration of everyone to lead our youths and if they are represented here, let me give this assurance. I don't want to be here commenurating and consoling.


04:41
I want to be here to establish peace. leaders who have received us, who had accommodated us politically. I brought the symbol of this cap to break the shackle. Shackle of violence, shackle of ignorance, shackle of poverty, shackle of hopelessness. We must break it together. I thank the men and women of the armed forces particularly the police for what they are doing and what they about to do. You must on earth and find the killers. I'm glad I here. I'm glad COAS is here too. Chief of Army Staff. I'm glad the minister of defense is here. Our dear leaders, I have been to Jos, I have enjoyed Jos in those days of peace.

06:30
We've had our political activities here. I'm glad you are still alive. We thank God for you and many of you. Thank you. I used to point to your house where we spend the night where the leaders both the leaders of our politics, where I was active as a young man. You accommodated us. You open your doors for us. Then why do we build a division? Our promise then was progressive development, improve standard of living for our people. Not to bury but to develop. Immediately we return to Abuja. The committee has mentioned you increased the number of leaders including Natawi, the governor and the minister of humanitarian affairs.


08:01
The minister, thank you. Come see me. Take numeric analysis. You are a data person. For the victims, let's see what we can do for their losses. We cannot replace a human beings. But whatever we do to give them minimum comfort, we will. Thank you Bosani the honorable minister for communication is here to give you assurance we are going to install immediately a network of camera >> [applause] >> That will help the law enforcement agencies to identify the troublemakers instantly. [applause] over 5,000 job network Bosun you can use time and give the assurance because the time is flying, if I keep talking, we will miss our way and you don't have accommodation for us>> [applause] [cheering]

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Do I have updated comments? Yes. The first and last part of the report is to create a sensational response. This is why I had to go listen myself just in case they were trying to bait rage even though I no send this President. I have no hope in them, renewed or otherwise.

Now to my analysis, Nigerians are sycophants. People are clapping and laughing when others just lost their lives. People are enamored by the presence of the president that they laughed. Now, these may be rented people (the clappers) or supporters but I didn't know why they clapped. It's a sober session. I have observed this pattern when people in offices talk, Nigerians clap. I call it the sycophanticlap. It's eye service and we know about it. What else? The president was in a hurry but the first and last sentence can be used against him. Jos has no accommodation for the President? I beg to differ.

His speech wasn't as bad as it was reported but I still see insensitivity in it. I don't know who his advisers were but I can see other videos of the President in Lagos, which means Lagos was more important for him to be in than Jos. I also remember Bayo Onanuga had released a statement earlier in the day that the president had to abort his trip to Ogun State for this. That one too sounded like Tinubu was doing Plateau a favor by visiting them. Post event analysts will say that he could have said things better. That closing line is not appropriate and we play too much in this country. Someone on the comment section said this was how he promised in a previous incident that never again will this happen but it will still happen again

The president was also pointing to his cap as a symbol of breaking the shackle. Omo! I have no comment.

Imagine if the president canceled his other trips to spend time with people of Jos in this period, at least for Good Friday If Jos used to welcome him in the past, what happened to the present?
"We've had our political activities here. I'm glad you are still alive. We thank God for you and many of you. Thank you. I used to point to your house where we spend the night where the leaders both the leaders of our politics, where I was active as a young man. You accommodated us. You open your doors for us. Then why do we build a division?"

Those who play politics with everything, hmmm may you not lose your loved ones like the people of Jos did. Then you will be more reasonable with your response and not careless. That laughter at the end was evil to me. Very insensitive of our people. Very very insensitive to those who were there.

Parachoko:
Is Adeboye the only pastor in Nigeria?

Or Redeem Church is the only Church we have in Nigeria?

.. He is not but she said something important.

She alleged, without providing evidence, that the decision was tied to the church’s relationship with Nigeria’s First Lady, who is reportedly an RCCG pastor.

" It was alleged that Remi Tinubu cancelled the planned protest by RCCG and Pastor EA Adeboye as regards the state of Nigeria." pic.twitter.com/TQC2LBytTe

— ÓMÒÉLÉRÍNJÁRÉ (@omoelerinjare) May 30, 2026

She has a VIP there, a very important point. She is saying that the Redeem Church cannot condemn bad governance as they should because there is one of them in government even though there is no office of first lady. This is the same to any Muslim, Igbo, Hausa Or Yoruba or however you zone it that says because my brother de there, let me take it easy. It will be difficult to condemn your own is what she is saying and once again, to both Muslims and Christians, I hope APC has humbled you. First, it was Osinbajo that was a Christian and their member, now Tinubu's wife is a member too. How does that benefit you? How has that helped you? Muslim Muslim ticket, what difference has it made to Muslims? How has it improved the lives of Muslims that from Buhari to Tinubu our lives are better? Una moomoo never do, all of you they keep using tribe and religion to divide and deceive 🤡

Ojude oba is a reminder of why Africans should not trash all their customs and traditions in the name of woke modernity. When you travel out of Nigeria, you'll know how this is very important. People there are not interested in those buildings, they want to know who you are and your story. If you start telling them story of Abraham or Mohammed or Trump or something they already know about themsleves, dem go just de look you one kain say dis one no sabi himself.

To my comments above, the next stage we are going to because we trashed the marriage institution is the stage the Black Americans are. You see how she called men people that don't have sense but she has a baby in the background? These are women who will give birth to the next dysfunctional children of tomorrow. These women who don't want to be under the leadership of their husbands in a marriage so they think they can do everything by themselves until that child starts to grow and s/he is out of hands. If she cannot respect a man while unmarried, think about how she would trash her man if she was a wife. That's why they tell women that marriage is a school and whether you like it or not, life is not fair. The mistakes of a woman cannot be easily erased but men can claim their own was a scar despite being a bad boy.

These women who don't want to humble themselves to marriage, their roles as mothers, and wives will end up learning when it's too late and too much damage has been done. Because their bitterness will be given to their children like bitter kola, which will give us bitter girls who hate men (the other side of feminists) and useless men who are baby fathers and cannot handle the responsibility of being a man, a provider, a protector and a leader. Women will pay for it. This is not about gender. I will stop writing because I have captured some of these thoughts in past posts and you will see them below.

I pity this generation. Una think say u wise. I say marriage has been practised for hundred of years Una no ask why. You just think say because e get bad side then it's all bad. That institution Don sabi as man go take be, as woman go take be, as pikin go take be. No worry, You gonna learn!

SixSeven:
.. Thank you, I repost my previous comment.

The bad rap single women have on this forum is for me a disgrace to men because that baby mama and baby daddy nonsense is a sign of failed family upbringing. While people can lose their loved ones or divorce due to irreconcilable differences, men who leave their wives or did not consult the elders before marrying into a family are a big disgrace to men. Give me a man that has 3 wives above useless sissies who are comfortable with their women mothering their kids alone abandoned.

You people copied the thing the government used against the Blacks in US and left your culture. Now you are telling us about single moms 🤡 Nonsense

In some cultures, the brother married off his late bro's wife because women were never treated like Street Vendors and abandoned. I blame women too because western influence has deceived them with one yeye independence and fake patriarchy that we are having more kids without dads because of some strong head women.

Where is the honor our women once had?

Who are the men getting them pregnant and leaving them?

Who are the families allowing their daughters wore about?

You can't just blame the women. Men are the biggest culprits because let's assume women are moomoo as many of you claim, who are the moomoo men planting their seeds in her 🤡 Weak men. Clowns.... It was a ticking time bomb, Nigerians copied street lifestyle of America and the 'independent' life of Europe, then abandoned their own traditions and culture about marriage, family and childbirth, here is the result....


For women, at what age will you wake up

https://www.tiktok.com/video/7553103102446931231?

Another one

SixSeven:
Death is the only constant thing in life that equals all human beings.

Tradition that feeds on fear will one day starve on truth because a home that threatens death cannot teach loyalty but fear. As much as I want to be ethical and tell you it's wrong for anyone to cheat, the reality is that life is not fair and we know who is affected the most. Some of these laws were written for inheritance, not for fairness. It's just like someone who says a man should live in his in-laws house when there are proverbs that warn against it. So if that his wife dies, what does her family do the man (widower)? Send him back? Customs and traditions protect the future first, even when the present bleeds. We all want order, that's why they had many of these things as deterrent to prevent people from the disruption of social order.

When a child is born, the mother is known but the father must be proven. Our people were not ready for confusion, no DNA so they came up with another proverb that only a mother knows the father! This is still true today if you watch paternity cases, despite DNA and advancement in tech. The elders punished where they were certain, not where guessing began because lineage fears confusion. Some of the judgment they served then is now called jungle justice. Bear in mind that we have a lot of traditional families and they didn't want a bastaaard to inherit the throne.

There is a popular case on Justice Funmi's show. You now understand why they say only a mother knows the father. If you listened to the woman alone, you would have made your own wrong conclusions and convicted the guy

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bfy9hr-zf_I

But when the guy came to give his story, you now understand the wisdom of our fathers that it's only an old foooool who judges by listening to one side alone

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pPjKmVkw-jU

I am just trying to remind women that the reality of their promiscuity is more dangerous than the reality for men. Call it unfair but that's the reality.

Have we thought of why parents focus on the girl child more than the boys? The womb is the doorway of ancestry, so it bears the heaviest lock. The best way mothers knew then was fear that's why they said if you slept with a boy you will die

What enters the house through the woman stays for generations. A man’s mistake shames him but a woman’s mistake reshapes the clan. That's why even if a man did OS, by the time he repents, he will find a virgin to marry. Same cannot be said of a woman. Call it double standards but its the reality of life. That's why I said there's ethics, there's reality of the morality and there's understanding of why we do things because....

A man’s doubt sleeps in his mind but a woman’s doubt sleeps in the child.
Everything is just to protect women from giving us children we are not sure who the father is or causing confusion by breaking social order

LordIsaac:
Why would they require a man for such? They've always reiterated that they don't need men...

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Kobojunkie:
1. Wrong! The reason a particular set of women in your age group doesn't want to date you is that you are not what they want. They are not the problem. Rather, you are since you seem to be chasing after the particular women who don't want you. You should look for other women in that same age group who prefer men like you or don't mind you.

2. It seems you are late in gaining knowledge that was released this year. Men's biological clock starts ticking downwards and in a bad way from about age 30, while women.... women's clock continues running until the last egg that they were born from their mother's womb runs out. (The recent spate of women in their late 50s and even up to age 60 having babies is a result of some having egg stores that remain intact that long in some cases.) Menopause can happen as late as the 50s and right about 60 for some women.

3. There is no such thing as a biological instinct as far as women and reproduction are concerned. That whole spiel was a made-up lie. That's why more and more women are simply choosing not to have kids at all.

But I counter it with a post. This generation will suffer for trashing the marriage institution because of its bad sides. That institution was there to take care of a lot of things despite its imperfections. Those who practised it for hundreds of years knew what they were doing. Repost 👇

I posted a video in my last comment. One of the reasons I don't bother arguing with women and don't give a damn about whether they think my comment is pandering or not is because with time, women eventually find out the truth. Time is a beautiful patient bride for men but an ugly tortuous truth for women. I need to copyright that. Women also don't like being told the truth, so keep telling them beautiful lies if you want to make them happy.

What happens to these women is that they have to settle. It was never a competition but the system does not favor men initially, it beats them but once you clock 30, things start to change. Men who learned from the beatings will start to look good while women who didn't know time changes yesterday will wake up to the reality of a new dawn. This is why the world always tried to raise the girl child more than the boy child because men can make many mistakes and still recover. A woman's recovery is usually hard if she makes mistakes, so man overtime knew this and wanted to raise her because they knew the future isn't nice, it can be harsh.

It's often too late before women realize in their 40s that the select few men they want are either married or not interested in them because of their age. They are then susceptible to fork boys/men and younger men who are still discovering themselves and not emotionally/financially mature for them. Women know themselves, that's why it's usually difficult for mothers to accept their sons marrying an old woman say 25 yo man vs 40 yo woman. The women know themselves. Women wake up one day later in life to see they are not as beautiful as they thought and newer editions have come out. Attention has gone to the beautyful ones who are born and trending.

A man is never ugly... Buchi Emecheta

Sonnobax15:

The funniest thing is that I usually find it funny when I see ladies who are already in their 30's still doing shakara for men . They'll still be setting standards that must be met by men . Someone who should be hustling to get herself a man of her own cuz she's already close to signing MoU with menopause

Don't say that. Be warned👇

Kobojunkie:
Since when did scientific studies become about the internet?

Recently published research indicates that a man's biological clock starts ticking from age 30. https://www.nairaland.com/8541960/men-actually-biological-clock-silent. The study also suggests that a 50-year-old pre-menopausal woman, for instance, has a greater chance of having a smooth pregnancy and birthing a healthy baby if she were to have intercourse with a young man(below age 30) than with a man older than age 30.

2. We are not even talking IVF here, but of women dating younger men if they wish to have smoother pregnancies and healthier babies.

3. Sure, the eggs every woman is born with eventually run out; that is where we get the talk of menopause setting in. However, it does not change the fact that the risks of having children with birth defects increase when trying to procreate with men aged 30 and over for men.

Omokri should face the world cup that's coming up in Mexico and leave domestic cup.

Gambling is a spirit. An evil spirit. It will control you and you will keep losing because greed is insatiable

BigYash:
Most Nigerians are political slaves,take it or leave it. They don't get what they vote, because Inec is always there to put fertilizer on figures after voting. The machines they spent billions to get during the last election, suddenly had technical issues when it was time to transmit results.. That man they call Yahooboo is the main reason for what is happening in the country today

I think we love our ow illusions than reality. Illusions will be tested at the poll, only one winner can see the reality. Maybe call us bad sportsmen. And women.

Gotocourt:
Wike is behind the scene, Atiku should forget it🤷🏿.

Wike has no option than to back Tinubu is what it sounds like. Atiku is Tinubu's opponent, Wike also became Atiku's opponent. Tinubu found that my enemy's enemy could be my friend, this is why he can't let him go. He is very useful for his type of politics. Buying houses for judges and trying to wet ground 🤡 Corruption 26

Repost

He learned it from the so-called democratic or progressive man 🤡, his boss, Concensus. For Bola to stake his head in Rivers and declare a state of emergency but he never did in Plateau, Niger and everywhere else there has been mass killing is proof that politics is his favorite subject, not governance. Wike is proof that Bola is not a true democrat and the power he has today is for his selfish reasons. This further confirms that Tinubu did not win Rivers state so he has to use force in the state.

Tinubu's path to victory is

1. Voter apathy

2. Divided opposition

3. Force/threat (he has been using this in Lagos for long but with federal resources, he now has governors like Okpebolo, Wike, SP Akpabio who's always assuring that he will win and others to threaten people to vote him or else)

4. Money (what's your price? This is why he and Atiku are two sides of a coin. In a poor corrupt country with little morals, many are willing to sell their convictions for the highest bidder)

5. Propaganda (gaslighting, see how they celebrate the uncompleted coastal road, they will accept no responsibility but blame everyone else using religion, tribe and other distraction from the main issue). The way they counted fake millions of vote is gaslight in. Gaslighting is the manipulation by psychological means of a person (or group) which causes them to doubt themselves, their capabilities or their sense of reality.

SixSeven:
Didn't they say he is a democrat? A builder of men? A visionary? That man is just a greedy old man. Who was it that said if you let Tinubu in, he will grab more than he can take? Think about being a landlord of Lagos and Rivers 🤡

The greedy can never be satisfied. What they condemned when they were in opposition, now they are doing it.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DtjpjOPjuUk

Those who wanted to rewrite his story just made me chuckle. Guy didn't want Fashola serve a second term simply because he wanted to be President. He didn't want anyone to have a record to be compared to him or outshine him. They are just lucky Fashola did not show craze like Ambode did, someone they eventually sent away under the guise of GAC. They now claimed that he made Fashola, he built Lagos, Ambode did not follow master plan. You see how their stories are not consistent. They then called Osinbajo a betrayer. These ones are lords and serfs. Those who refuse to learn history are doomed to repeat it

Amaechi's Defection To APC Is Root Of Rivers State Crisis -- Wike Pt.1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WWaYorTOuZc?si=KB-Qbb9SJ5X5AYK-

Can you now see the big picture on why Bola holds on to Wike? Lagos, Kano and Rivers are important states. The NNPP governor that went to APC and they thought they had it in the bag, the Lagos government they have been holding for years and now Rivers will still not give them the rigging they desire.

abbey621:
Yes that's why I gave you credit but overall your message was not concise, it is always up to the writer to be concise(clear) rather than fault the reader, this is what I've learned from working with very talented writers and speakers in corporate America.

You have a point there. But it's a public forum, an unlimited canvas. We usually don't want posts to distract us from the main topic. Normally, a quote would do it but I chose to repost. Now when I reposted, I put in bold the relevant part, the rest is just connected one way or the other to the topic eg primaries and fighting for your position. While the original post was from a topic related to Elliot, most of the thoughts are relevant to this current topic.

hakeemhakeem:
Point of correction Bucknor is a woman

Yes, she is.