₦airaland Forum

Vision101:
Kwankwaso is suffering the effects of overpricing. He over priced himself. He made unrealistic demands from APC which APC rejected. Being part of APC and getting a handsome position preparatory to 2031 would have paid him better.

He got stranded as soon as Kano governor joined APC. Without thinking he joined ADC and when there was no way he ran out to deputize someone far lower than him.

A PhD holder, former minister, former senator and former state governor when Obi wasn't known is now doing boy boy to Obi and Dickson. How are the mighty fallen? They will not win and after 2027 his value will go further down.

Your last paragraph. I've read comments here that said Professor Osinbajo SAN accepted to be VP to Buhari

OMG, I'm looking at that picture again. Is Regina the girl on white? That thing they say about couples looking like each other after some time? Ned has imprinted his facials on Regina that I can't even recognize her anymore if I didn't see the title of the topic.

Is Regina the girl on white there

stuffs2002:
Because all you know is insults. I gave you facts but you replied me with insults.

Prove to me the fact that you showed me and describe the insult.

He stated that since elections are approaching, Nigerians should not only talk but also pray for Mahmood Yakubu because he was the one who sold Nigeria to the current president.

This is wrong

MMempire:
Shi shi e no go get. Very stupid record to hold.

. You would be very surprised at what the internet rewards today.

Racoon:
Same failure and disaster of the past 4 years? People can be very wicked and evil minded.

From the statement, you can see he is serving his own selfish interest.

See what he said👇

On insecurity, Nlemigbo dismissed claims that the Federal Government had failed to address the situation, maintaining that insecurity had become a global challenge.

“Insecurity is not peculiar to us as a nation. It has become a global issue. People who are greedy, do not value human lives, do not have the fear of God and are rabidly fanatical about their religion are behind most of these problems,” he added.

This one no be wetin pain me. Wetin pain me Na when I see this Asian girl de tour Nigeria and she visited Jos and I read comments like nawa o, you can visit Jos that my president could not visit. It's clear that some people just wanted power for the sake of it.

People may be missing the point that P Square is from Plateau State, a state the President couldn't visit properly due to logistics

Elzazzi:
There is no timeline for starting a family. This are the kind of advise that pushes men to give birth to children without factoring finances. A man that isn’t financially stable shouldn’t bring in kids. Things happening in this country isn’t funny anymore. Children are more of heavy responsibility than blessing!

The three don't come at the same time. Money, power and health. If you wait till you have all the money, relationships aren't waiting for you. You learn as you get the responsibility and when you think of quitting, those responsibilities will remind you of what you are here for and why you brought them here. I will not pretend not to know the danger of not being prepared for children but the way we scare people these days is alarming and if you read the example he gave, he said Okada riders or those we think are not okay enough are already taking up these responsibilities.

Life will not wait or pause for you to succeed first before having a family. Time is no one's friend my dear.

intruder15:
Very valid points you dropped here.

It's not INEC that will tell parties how to conduct their own elections.

You can part ways with people without bringing them down. That's decency and maturity. As her husband, you were the covering for the woman. You too are not without faults. Imagine her coming out to say I thank God I finally left Oga SARS.

No one knows tomorrow. If they have children already then that's absolutely a bad thing to say about the mother of your children PUBLICLY.

stuffs2002:
You have a voice yet you deserted your south east region and you are living in other regions of Nigeria

I do not engage with unintelligent comments. Sorry. But no sorry.

Sphinx419:
I go stab the mama.. and slap hell out of the pikin for doing such a disgusting stuffs... then I wait for the father..

You are now the father

dchamp234:
I'm not surprised, the bad Nigeria gets, the more money they make, the rich keeps smiling and the poor cry daily. Nigerians youths should get their PVC ready, only the youths has the power to remove this evil government milking the country, the country might be empty before the leaders of tomorrow come of age.

So we need to understand the plantation. Some people are positioning themselves to be owner of the slaves so when you see the support of bad governance, it's sometimes positioning. What's in there for them? That's how the slavery system works. It's deliberate so you have no voice of your own and you bow to them before you get rice. A hungry man cannot really think.

"Everyone claims to be democratic but not everyone is faithful to his or her word. We have governments that are democracies on paper, but not in function. They are democracies in form but not in substance. We have governments that only know democracy primarily through breaching it"

~ words on marble by Jagaban Asiwaju BAT

fattprince:
Okay, I didn't watch to be honest. I'm judging from what I read.

Thanks. From her mannerisms, there is more to what she said silently than what she said with her mouth. I understand contexts matter too because we only saw 1 min but she didn't pass the right message by establishing a bad foundation.

APC made us stop calling terrorists what they are and say they are bandits. Okay na

Ibehchizzy:
my sacrifice/ illegally used above does not connotes killing a human being

Okay, what is illegal that you can do or 'sacrifice'?
Your words 👇

It is well
His father took the risk and paid the sacrifice wether legally or illegally
As I no get helping hand from mu background
I promise to take the risk and sacrifice for my future generation unborn

Ibehchizzy:
It is well
His father took the risk and paid the sacrifice wether legally or illegally
As I no get helping hand from mu background
I promise to take the risk and sacrifice for my future generation unborn

Hmmm

https://www.tiktok.com/video/7525853711445298438

Blood Money: The Vulture Men (1997)
Mike (Zack Orji) loses his job and joins a deadly secret cult called the Vultures to get rich. He accidentally sacrifices his friend's son for his initial wealth. When the cult demands a fresh sacrifice years later to keep the money flowing, Mike spirals into madness and sacrifices his own wife and mother. He spends the rest of the movie haunted by their vengeful ghosts.
If you want, I can give you a one-sentence summary of either film, or list the main actors involved.

If you were Zack Orji in the above, will you sacrifice your friend's son for your generation? Just a yes or no.

I have not bothered to respond to the OP because the first comment on AI was so hilarious but this part where she wrote

Minimal or no bodily hairs. Yeah a lot will hate me for this, just my opinion which may change or not. But those beards, chest or armpit hairs? Taah!

You want a clean shaved man with all these qualities and no beards or hairs (which is natural)? You will most likely get a retired Monk.

martinskelly:
What works for you OP might not generally work for another person, the fact that you listed what you want in man is a clear indication that some women don't actually know what they really want.

All I can see in your post is "I need a handsome tall rich black guy with six packs" hence the modification of your list.

I can bet you, let's say a young Obasanjo or Oshiomhole comes to you, you will still retract your list and fold it under your pillow.
There somethings women can't resist before love, it's money and fame.

Look at this general assertions;
1. Most beautiful women if not all uses beauty as a yardstick to enumerate what type of man they would want to spend their entire life with (the case is not always like that).

2. Why is it that when ladies are beautiful they always want to put a price tag on it compare to men.

3. Being beautiful is priceless because actually nobody really is ugly depending on what you term UGLY.

4. most men actually look beyond beauty in a woman though beauty with brain is a plus but not always the case with men.

5. Being confident and rich is what the general public termed for men as handsomeness, well this could be debated but not in this generation.

6. Most men if not all, already knows what they want in a woman in their head

7. Most women if not all, already have a paper list of the type of men they want and if nature could give them time to create a man for themselves then the materials for creation will not even be enough for them to create even the HEAD not to talk of the entire body

There's something about this beauty entitlement and it's a bitter truth. The privilege of beauty and assuming that it will cover for other deficiencies. The beautyful ones are not yet born indeed...

MisterKennedy:
I know you said no guy should send you any unsolicited messages, but I honestly love your honesty. You really took out time to explain all the features you want and admire in a man... That's cool... My curiosity drove me to check out your profile and I can tell that, not only are you a very beautiful woman, you are also a very intelligent woman. And I see it in the way you chat too. Your flow of chat and sentence structure and grammar is so on point and off the charts. If wishes were horses right now, I'd love to ask you for your number so that we could be communicating off Nairaland. You are the kind of lady I honestly want to make my friend. Would you please give me your number? Or can I give you mine instead please?

You checked her profile and didn't see her number there?

Diamond098454:
Hahaha🤣🤣🤣
You are right
Is just that while growing up my parents especially my dad was very tough and still tough on me till date
I don't have that can of freedom

Good for you. You made me remember this comment in the past about the girl child and why they were hard on her compared to the boys👇

SixSeven:
I posted a video in my last comment. One of the reasons I don't bother arguing with women and don't give a damn about whether they think my comment is pandering or not is because with time, women eventually find out the truth. Time is a beautiful patient bride for men but an ugly tortuous truth for women. I need to copyright that. Women also don't like being told the truth, so keep telling them beautiful lies if you want to make them happy.

What happens to these women is that they have to settle. It was never a competition but the system does not favor men initially, it beats them but once you clock 30, things start to change. Men who learned from the beatings will start to look good while women who didn't know time changes yesterday will wake up to the reality of a new dawn. This is why the world always tried to raise the girl child more than the boy child because men can make many mistakes and still recover. A woman's recovery is usually hard if she makes mistakes, so man overtime knew this and wanted to raise her because they knew the future isn't nice, it can be harsh.

It's often too late before women realize in their 40s that the select few men they want are either married or not interested in them because of their age. They are then susceptible to fork boys/men and younger men who are still discovering themselves and not emotionally/financially mature for them. Women know themselves, that's why it's usually difficult for mothers to accept their sons marrying an old woman say 25 yo man vs 40 yo woman. The women know themselves. Women wake up one day later in life to see they are not as beautiful as they thought and newer editions have come out. Attention has gone to the beautyful ones who are born and trending.

A man is never ugly... Buchi Emecheta

Now, do you regret your dad's cover or you think it was overbearing and how will you raise yours differently?

fattprince:
You don't get it do you?. She's not asking them to do it, she's only telling those in it to stay focused and quickly come out of it. It's like telling your son, I don't support you having sex as a teenager but if you going to disobey and have sex anyways, please use a condom. Even if the teenage boy go on and have sex with condoms but you found out, that doesn't still stop you from punishing him for disobeying you. It's just a case of trying to protect him as far as you can.

Did you watch the video? Watch it from 0:30 mark

Aprocco:
What is the correlation of Ashawo, drinking, smoking that you decide to do with your body and CRIMES punishable under law huh?

Behaviors such as prostitution, excessive drinking, and smoking are often associated with environments where crime rates may be higher, but they are not automatically crimes in themselves in every society.

Criminology studies show that heavy alcohol use is linked to violence, impaired judgment, and disorderly conduct, while prostitution in many regions can become connected to trafficking, drug activity, exploitation, or organized crime because of the surrounding networks involved.

Smoking and drinking may also correlate with risky lifestyles or poor decision-making in some cases. However, the law primarily punishes direct criminal acts such as assault, theft, trafficking, fraud, or violence, not simply personal lifestyle choices. Therefore, the connection is usually indirect and environmental rather than proof that everyone engaging in those behaviors is inherently criminal.

You know there are platforms like OF where they may not need to be in physical touch with the customer if they choose to but it still sells their dignity and humanity. A job that exposes the women to more danger even on the internet is not safe for them.

Diamond098454:
We are not learning anything from them. That's why I choose to stay here reading news and opinions than following those ladies.

But you and I know that a lot of ladies are impressionable. You know especially since you have female friends. I don't know who you are or your background but news is not even what female gender are generally interested in and that is not a stereotype. The hosts of various news programs are always happy when a woman calls in. Even sometimes to topics that are about women, na men go de call in de discuss but when it comes to gist, don't waste your time, they will contribute before you invite them.



https://www.tiktok.com/video/7583196115223334151
Back to your comment, only a handful of women take interest in what's not entertainment and celebrity things. It's the impressionable character of women that makes men take advantage of them and every time you read the news, you ask yourself aren't these ones aware of what's happening in the world? Do they want to waste their lives? Aren't they thinking of the risks of what they just did? Before thinking it's about Nigerian women, no. The fashion industry and beauty industry knew about this for women and unlocked the code so I won't take it lightly because many girls look up to her. Their frontal lobes are yet to develop and they will make a costly decision of their lives due to bad advice. Mistakes women make are like tattoos, hard to remove. Na men be dia customers so I also know my gender, I won't advice my enemy's daughter to even try it, it will never end well, even just 1x

Some social psychology research suggests that women, on average, may be more responsive to social influence and peer approval than men in certain interpersonal settings. Studies on conformity and group dynamics, including work influenced by Solomon Asch’s experiments, found that women were sometimes more likely to adjust their expressed opinions to align with a group consensus, particularly in public or relationship-oriented situations. Researchers have linked this to social conditioning that encourages agreeableness, emotional sensitivity, and social cohesion in women from an early age.

Evidence from marketing and social media studies also shows that female consumers are often more influenced by peer recommendations, community trends, and social validation when making decisions.

https://www.tiktok.com/video/7579184324231187724

TPain but Bayo said no

Shikena:
They know nothing, it's just typical stereotyping by hypocrites.

Okay thank you. That I disagree with her comments does not mean I will say what I don't know about her.

boxypane:
What morality were we expecting from someone in the same line.

You are the second person saying something like this on this topic. I don't know her to well, I know her as a movie maker but except the interviews she has given and I've watched, I don't know about her personal life or follow gossip. Are you insinuating what I'm thinking?

AlabiKILLER2023:
Morality ain't for a hungry man

Even in extreme conditions, people still make moral choices, sometimes at real cost to themselves.

Plenty of people in extreme hardship still stick to moral limits rather than crossing certain lines. Morality becomes harder to prioritize when survival is on the line and that is a tactic of this government, although that's a subject of another day. I won't revel in poverty competition but some people are poorer than Nigerians and still did not sell their morals.

Starz825:
Ya'all be stupidddd...if you take her statement out of context...

She is not advising anyone to be ashawo..

She is talking to those who are already in the hookup business not to stay there.

I understand you are an ashawo / a runs girl...but dont remain like that.


Ya'all struggles with comprehension.

Quite obvious you didn't watch the video