₦airaland Forum

Kukutente23:
If only he directed power to our homes as minister he wouldn't need to pull this stunt in a bid to warm himself up to the populace

thatigboman:
are u serious or joking? for common, wild, small animal

Leepeak:
When kids speak
My papa nor train me, left us since 1999
But I dey package him, listen to your mama na u sabi

If I want to give my papa, my mama nor dey know,
Life goes on! Make the old man nor go disgrace us for outside

Imagine the way I dey abort na so then abort me
God oo have mercy upon my soul

queenbetsy:
The 40s and 60s was an era when women were as good as nothing. Women did not have a say anywhere. Women learnt to follow orders without defying. Women were expected to follow instructions without question. Fathers choose husbands for the daughters and nothing will happen. Women did not have options. Even when education was first introduced, the females were not considered. Most of the women married early. Cos once you start developing breasts and seeing period, you’re mature and this is mostly between 14 and 17. At that age, you are expected to be in a man’s house and be bearing children. Back then people rely heavily on farming and they create their manual labour themselves by giving birth to a large number of children. Obviously, one woman cannot give birth to more than 4-7, hence the need for other women. It’s not like there was nothing like cheating in those days. Even those that have multiple wives at home still have affairs with other women outside. Men have been cheating from time immemorial. If I was born in those days, we’ll go with what is considered normal in those days even if it’s not convenient.


The problem is most people do not understand what companionship means. Cheating is cheating. The fact that a man is providing for his family does not give him an excuse to cheat. Providing for your family is your responsibility as the husband and father. Cheating means you do not rate them, you do not love them as much as you think you do.



In a relationship, cheating is a breach of trust involving emotional or physical intimacy with someone outside the established partnership. It centers on deception and the violation of agreed-upon boundaries. Whether through physical acts or emotional affairs, it undermines the foundation of loyalty and mutual respect.
You have chosen to be with somebody. You have decided to build a family with this person. This person is supposed to be “your person”. They trust you with everything, and there’s an agreement or covenant or promise between the two of you to be for each other alone and then you go out and betray that person. When you cheat, it means you’re not to be trusted, your words are not to be trusted and you lack common sense.



When I said back in the days, women put up with shit just to stay married, I mean…
Men knew that women had limited options. There was little or nothing they could do on their own. Is it the ones that were “gifted” to their husbands? Or the ones that married for survival? Or the ones that were full time housewives dependent on the husbands? Where would they go? How would they survive? Or better still, staying to take care of their children themselves so another woman doesn’t maltreat them if they decided to leave.
There were men that were sexual abusers, drunkards, chronic womanizers, wife beaters, some can’t even provide adequately and most of the time, the women decided to stay. They didn’t want to be labeled as single mothers.

I’m not sure that there’s any woman that doesn’t need a man. Deep down, we all want a man, our own man but not just any man. If he wants to come, he should come correct. And a correct man doesn’t necessarily mean finances. Though it’s part of it but a correct man is kind, considerate, loving, supportive, responsible, MATURED, and has sense.

If you have further questions please, let me know.

Bwon:
My fellow Romance-landers, In as much as i love to keep my relationship away from people and their advises i haven't found away to conquer my problems. I need your help and advice on this issues.

I am young dude as every guy i have lived a bad life (more so like a play boy) in the past but for years now i have turned a new live. I met this young lady that i love so much she was in a relationship at the time i met her. We got along pretty well then i got to find out that her relationship was crashing i was sad for her because at the moment she was devastated but on the on the contrary i was happy for myself at least an opportunity presented itself. Few months later the relationship crashed two months later i started making my intention know about how i feel about her and all.

She requested that i give her time to heal as she has been dating the guys for 3 years so i said okay that is fine by me. I started acting like a bf to her care buy her stuff literally foot all her bills and take her on dates. But YESTERDAY I reminder about my proposal towards her makes it 4 months now since i asked her out and she is still telling to wait.?

But now am confused How long do i have to wait I have been acting as a bf since breakup and i have waited four good months for her to heal. i have always been at her side every time she was down. but why would she want me to wait for i don't know long again? I have tried to avoid her lately but i can't the heart keeps calling back

Pls guys advise me on what to do because i am confused really and i need your help

GodHimself:
Politics has become family business

Racoon:
This is not funny @all. Building useless roads while people are dying, insecure? Why borrowing to fund projects that are of no economic value to the dying citizens of this nation? God punish whoever put Nigeria in this mess with the plagues of Buhari and Tinubu.

Onewazobia:
What if they are the one that encroach into my territory?

nedu666:
Lai Muhammed as a minister under buhari said bandits are ordinary business men who are not waving flags. Today same person is saying they are criminals

brain54:
The two can be separated...

Sex is sex... help is help. I'm one of those that feel it's extremely unfair to take advantage of people genuinely in need of help.


Don't forget also that sex is not the only price tag used in exchange for help. Let's not limit it to a male and female relationship!

Love800:
I understand where you are going to.

But sometimes when you help without anything attached, that is when you get gigs coming your way.

Infotubia9ja:
In America if you catch a squirrel and do this and you get caught by the authorities you are going a minimum 40 nights in jail.

Time and again, Tinubu has proven to be a kind of person who hardly shifts his stance once his mind is made up. This played out recently in Lagos where the governor and the president were said to have reconciled after an embarrassing episode.

FriendsAndFans:
I mentioned something related to this a while back when Donald was trying to take over Greenland. They don't want people to manipulate their weather from Greenland.

They are manipulating the weather around the world and that's a new warfare other than guns.

FriendsAndFans:
I mentioned something related to this a while back when Donald was trying to take over Greenland. They don't want people to manipulate their weather from Greenland.

They are manipulating the weather around the world and that's a new warfare other than guns.

seunmsg:
Atiku is not working for Tinubu. Once two people in the coalition of confusion have minor differences, they rush to the media and accuse Tinubu of sponsoring the other person. That’s how useless, irresponsible and confused those in the opposition are. They can’t take responsibility for anything. It would be a a shame if Nigerians hand over the government of this great country to these irresponsible jesters.

queenbetsy:
please go ahead

queenbetsy:
I would not put up with a cheat just to stay married and I’d definitely not manage a man that doesn’t understand putting family first.

And when you talk about slightest inconvenience in marriage, most of our parents really put up with shit just to stay married.

SixSeven:
You have a good observation but don't forget that India has the largest population on earth. It's like someone saying don't take financial advice from Nigerians because....

Now, to the point in the passage. You know our marriages in the past were not based on love? Marriage was based on sustenance and it needed a man and woman to help us manage it and they give birth to go on and on like that. I believe there should be affection but the love nwatiti thing is not entirely ours. We believe that selecting a good family for you itself is love and you grow into it. Don't get me wrong, I am not saying that system is perfect but look at what we have today. It's why they are now saying love is blind, marriage is the eye opener.

Maybe the couple should be blind first and then open their eyes to love later

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Kingsley34:
Unrelated but I think women genuinely respect men that are sexually perverted.

Cousin9999:
People who don't think this is an issue, what happens when you have a bunch of people who don't know they're related?

ibibiofirstlady:
Great transition. The new CEO is an Engineering graduate with BSc. If it were in some country they will expect a him to possess multiple degrees, including an MBA and PhD to prove that he is competent for the role.

olioxx:
But then some men actually appreciate the physical features and would love for some emotional, social and core intelligence.

olioxx:
At the bolded you are very very very correct.

You see the Ayra Starr body type girls, they are spec anyday anytime.

Moderate in every area. Now crown it up with caramel skin and leggings style legs, that's a blast combo.

But then some men actually appreciate the physical features and would love for some emotional, social and core intelligence.

Also I dont understand women that think artificial enhancement in any form is attractive, gosh it isn't.

I love it all natural, same way I barb clean low cut and trim my stubble beard is how I want my women to be natural.

Abeg plait all back I dont mind, wear plain no branded tees, clean natural color trousers or fitted skirt. Go easy on the earrings, I prefer studs.

It's not even too much to ask



Humans tend to appreciate what they dont have, or what doesn't come easy.

In the case of bum/butt/bum bum, the female have it bigger than the male due to hormones which triggers storage of fat and omega3 in that area which in turn is helpful during pregnancy, child birth and caring for the little ones especially when backing the baby.

Also it's visible to the human eyes as well. One truth I want to spill today is other women notice their fellow women bumbum, infact they jest amongst themselves about it. Even till today I jest and compliment my female friends bout their ass, cause even they themselves love their asses big.

Cousin9999:
Here's a quote from an article on evolutionary biology and why males are attracted to big butts:



https://news.utexas.edu/2015/03/19/mens-preference-for-certain-body-types-has-evolutionary-roots/