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Obaofaba:
What shall it profit you to waste your time and resources?

Allow them waste it. That's why it's democracy. Those who believe they are wasting their time shouldn't be bothered by that.

Diamond098454:
You can marry her

She's no longer a banny and won't bill you in any way

Laughs laughs laughs

You caught me with the title alone. Cramming is what is called rote learning. It is a problem with us because we don't like to be challenged, but there are some benefits to memorization 👇


https://www.tiktok.com/video/7603121085768273182

My model is that we need both. When we say we want you to think outside the box, we mean we want to see you apply that knowledge to the current situation, our current reality. Unfortunately, some teachers are also part of the problem. They don't want you to update the curriculum, they just want you to give it back to them because that was their right of honor. This is why creative students are often misunderstood. The movie three idiots tried to capture this

He carries his bag himself. That's commendable

The aircraft shown in the video is a Hawker 800XP midsize business jet.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gwdo5SVV8YM

panafrican:
They will be a campaign pretty soon to remove him. This is a must.

Furious over violent xenophobic attacks in South Africa, Ghanaian lawyer Andrew Appiah-Danquah and activist Solomon Owusu petitioned the Ghana Football Association on June 1, 2026, to force South African billionaire Patrice Motsepe out of his role as CAF President, but the push remains completely stuck because the GFA ignored the request while fighting its own local crisis to avoid a FIFA ban

Angelfrost:
Thank you.

Did you see the link I put there where you could read it online?

motymop:
A strong father figure in thie life of this girl would have change all this too much talking online.

💯
I wouldn't wish this on my enemy's daughter


https://www.tiktok.com/video/7279130985202175278

A woman of virtue derives her identity and value from her inner character, reliability, and positive impact on others. In contrast, the the other woman reduces a person's worth strictly to their physical or sexual market value.

Angelfrost:
Guy, I have been searching on and off, I never see am... I am not even looking for free. I'm ready to pay for the ebook or hardcopy.

Amazon has it


It is on udara

https://udarabooks.com/home/158-how-to-be-a-nigerian.html

Check here for now

Angelfrost:
Please, how do I get this book?!!
Thanks.

It's online if you search well
It's offline if you search well too

There are some things you bring to the plenary and some things you leave out. It is obvious Oshiomole wants that seat, that's why they have been coming for each other recently. It's not about us Nigerians but if there's any decency left, the SP should know when to say certain things and where. The current NASS has been highly trashed not by the President but by the Senate itself. They don't respect their own floor so anyone can command them to stand up and start singing on your mandate and they will do it.

Let me off my mic. You can't buy class. You can't buy decorum. If e didn't de, e didn't de

Image123:
Please provide fact and evidence. Politics is not a faith or religion. We are tired of sensational accusations and propaganda battles. This is not the only way to play opposition.

The NBA President automatically holds a seat on the National Judicial Council (NJC). The NJC is the exclusive body that recommends who gets appointed as judges, appeal court justices, and Supreme Court justices in Nigeria. By covertly backing a compliant faction within the NBA, the presidency ensures that future judicial appointments lean in favor of judges friendly to the ruling party (APC).

Tinubu's primary political base is the South-West region. Since the 2026 NBA election cycle belongs to the Western zone, there are deep allegations that state actors are putting immense financial and political pressure on the Egbe Amofin faction to produce a consensus leader who will not oppose the Tinubu administration's legal or economic policies.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rVIwZp2Aiaw


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BctpRynyEx0

I have asked the question before

SixSeven:
Do you ever wonder why organized labour, unions, student government activists, legislative pressure, trade associations, civil society organizations and many more suddenly died since 2015? Connect the dots.

Today the people are so divided that they can never unite for one cause that affects them all.

In 2015, the NBA officially amended its constitution to mandate that the national presidency must strictly rotate among these three geographical factions (Northern Zone, Eastern Zone, and Western Zone) every two years.

Even within the unified NBA structure, lawyers naturally group into powerful regional caucuses that act as internal political factions, especially during national elections:

1. The Northern Caucus (Arewa Lawyers Forum): Represents the collective legal interests of the 19 northern states.
2. The Eastern Bar Forum (EBF): A highly organized bloc representing lawyers from the South-East and South- South geopolitical zones.
3. The Western Bar Forum (Egbe Amofin): The influential legal caucus encompassing lawyers from the South- West region

If the Eastern Bar Forum takes a turn, the next term must go to the Western Bar Forum, followed by the Arewa (Northern) Lawyers Forum, and so on. Because of this rule, the factions hold massive leverage. When it is a specific region's turn, that faction's internal leadership meets to micro- zone or pick a single consensus candidate to represent their entire block, essentially trying to pre-determine who the next NBA President will be before the general election even starts.


The NBA is currently highly factionalized due to intense political warfare surrounding the national leadership elections. Following legal battles that saw the Court of Appeal clearing the path for the elections, the Bar's factions are currently aligned behind the main presidential candidates:

1. Aare Olumuyiwa Akinboro faction

2. Lateef Omoyemi Akangbe faction

3. Oyinkansola Badejo-Okunsanya faction

So much for our learnes fellows who are trained to respect constitutionalism and objective merit. Yet, when NBA election season arrives, they merit and vote strictly based on ethnic or regional tribalism (whether a candidate belongs to the West, East, or North) because Nigeria is highly complex. Wetin lawyers de do sef

The abductors gave him medication that eased his arthritis and allowed them to pray quietly.

THE CAF President is South African

SeeWahala:
as I read the topic of the useless poll the APC minion put up I just burst out laughing

Very absurd poll.

Poll: Why did Prince Adeyemi run a fake presidential council and smuggle a ₦1.3 billion allocation into the national budget?

Because he wants a "better" Nigeria where elites can forge presidential signatures and siphon billions without consequences

Because he knows the Tinubu government is incompetent, so he believed he could easily slip a fake agency past Aso Rock

He has no regard for the rule of law or everyday Nigerians. No wonder he is throwing wild bribery allegations at top officials after getting caught


Poll: Why is Minister Dave Umahi keeping quiet and letting state machinery block the autopsy of Mary Habila after she died in his residence?

Because he wants a "better" Nigeria where powerful politicians can hide suspicious deaths in their palatial homes without any legal consequences

Because he knows the Tinubu government is incompetent, so he believes he can use state power to silence the victim's family and escape an independent probe

He has no regard for the lives of citizens or everyday Nigerians. No wonder he aggressively targets journalists and critics who dare to demand transparency from him


Can they see that clowning makes no sense🤡

aybabz101:
We are talking about sexualization you saying Saudi Arabia ....

how does the two correlate.....we are saying we should be creative with our conversations .....must it always be about women and sex related...

can't he put a picture depicting also an academic inclined lady maybe distracted with her phone..etc.....or a guys with good CV but running late or not well dressed...?..

na sexualization everytime....

The women should actually be protesting this post but pim I no see anyone

Seunpapa65:
He has paid his dues CR7 is goated

He will play a 7th time in Portugal. Automatic qualifications since they qualified as hosts.

The religious Nigerian.

Nothing changed 50+ years later

What is this now? Why didn't you censor that picture

SixSeven:
I posted a video in my last comment. One of the reasons I don't bother arguing with women and don't give a damn about whether they think my comment is pandering or not is because with time, women eventually find out the truth. Time is a beautiful patient bride for men but an ugly tortuous truth for women. I need to copyright that. Women also don't like being told the truth, so keep telling them beautiful lies if you want to make them happy.

What happens to these women is that they have to settle. It was never a competition but the system does not favor men initially, it beats them but once you clock 30, things start to change. Men who learned from the beatings will start to look good while women who didn't know time changes yesterday will wake up to the reality of a new dawn. This is why the world always tried to raise the girl child more than the boy child because men can make many mistakes and still recover. A woman's recovery is usually hard if she makes mistakes, so man overtime knew this and wanted to raise her because they knew the future isn't nice, it can be harsh.

It's often too late before women realize in their 40s that the select few men they want are either married or not interested in them because of their age. They are then susceptible to fork boys/men and younger men who are still discovering themselves and not emotionally/financially mature for them. Women know themselves, that's why it's usually difficult for mothers to accept their sons marrying an old woman say 25 yo man vs 40 yo woman. The women know themselves. Women wake up one day later in life to see they are not as beautiful as they thought and newer editions have come out. Attention has gone to the beautyful ones who are born and trending.

A man is never ugly... Buchi Emecheta

https://www.tiktok.com/video/7553103102446931231

Elon Musk and these tech bros should demonetize their platforms or monopause it for the time.

Olatara:

Gen Z's are emotionally weak, they act all toughen but deep down.....

Something happened recently that made me realize this and I feel pity for those without parental guidance.

Where is the weakness coming from? Parental abandonment of their duty? Share your thoughts

MIKOLOWISKA:
he's a rapist not a murderer oga

Do you agree that his actions led to her death?

omenka:
No big deal. Replace the name with a Yoruba name, preferably that of a politician. Then you'd see the anger of Obidients.

While you will always want to start from tribe, our leaders are united in oppression where they show at various levels where they don't believe in the country.

President Muhammadu Buhari and his Vice President, Yemi Osinbajo, both faced heavy public backlash for sharing pictures celebrating their children's graduations from prestigious universities in the United Kingdom.

The public outrage stemmed from the contrast between the political elite educating their families abroad while Nigeria's own public university system. Additionally, Rotimi Amaechi celebrated his son's graduation at Simon Fraser University in Canada in June 2019, David Umahi attended his daughter's first-class robotics ceremony at Queen Mary University of London in July 2025, and Nyesom Wike traveled to the UK for his son's master's degree graduation at King's College London in January 2026. In stark contrast, Labor Minister Dr. Chris Ngige chose to celebrate his daughter's local medical induction from the University of Lagos (UNILAG) in September 2021.

Just like Buhari, he too has no shame. Our leaders across board don't believe in their country and it shows through their children.

I wound expect our rich people to invest in industries but what do I know? You can't tell a woman how to spend her money

LadyLegalEagle:
You addressed the women and girls but what about fathers? Do fathers warn boys on matters?
“Don't force yourself on a woman because it will cause her trauma.”
“Committing rape will land you in jail and ruin your victim’s life.”
“No means no.”

You are correct but I will advise the girls to protect themsleves first. I am not putting my girls at the risk of another man who may not have been properly trained, you get my drift?

Though anything can happen but women around the world are often endangered species, it's not just Nigeria alone

Sir, this is a very important comment you have made. Are you aware that Nigeria's poverty rate has risen significantly over the last decade, climbing from 40.1% in 2015 before the All Progressives Congress (APC) took power to 56% at the end of Muhammadu Buhari's administration, and peaking at 63% today (mid-2026) under President Bola Tinubu?

In numbers of people, based on Nigeria's rapid population growth over the last decade, the equivalent number of people living in poverty has nearly doubled, rising from 72.6 million people in 2015 to approximately 151.2 million people today in 2026.

Scenario One: The Burden of Being "The Understanding One"
The rigid cultural mandate of elder deference in Nigeria forces one of the world's youngest populations to remain patient, polite, and understanding in the face of systemic bullying and abuse from an older generation that rarely returns the respect. This lopsided dynamic forces younger Nigerians to constantly act as the only emotionally mature people in the room; when an elder screams, insults, or acts unfairly, the youth are expected to de-escalate, bow their heads, and swallow their anger. Family and society frequently witness this bullying and excuse it with phrases like "just bear it" or "he is your elder," enforcing a toxic emotional suppression that requires young people to bury genuine hurt and trauma just to maintain social peace.


Scenario Two: Professional and Workplace Bullying
This cultural entitlement seamlessly follows young Nigerians into their careers, where older managers and CEOs often act as dictators, treating young graduates as domestic servants rather than professionals. Under the guise of "training" or "building character," young employees are routinely overworked, underpaid, and spoken to harshly, allowing ageism to take precedence over professional boundaries.


Scenario Three: The Political and National Scale
This workplace abuse perfectly mirrors the broader national and political landscape, where an aging ruling class governs a predominantly youthful population. These older politicians feel entitled to power, demanding respect and praise for doing the bare minimum or nothing at all while actively driving policies that ruin the future of the youth. When young people stand up to protest, as seen during the EndSARS movement, the ruling class weaponizes the concept of respect, shifting the blame by accusing the youth of being "disrespectful" or "ruined by internet culture."

The Double Standard of Respect
Ultimately, this creates a hypocritical double standard where respect is a dangerous one-way street. The older generation has completely broken its cultural contract to provide guidance, economic stability, and safety, yet still demands absolute submission from the youth.


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chatinent:
When people see you as an understanding person.
It's safer to stay wicked.

It's safe to say this world is a world of use and dump. Most of us humans thrive on taking advantage of others for our own benefit, it's only the method that is different.

I think understanding people are perceptive. They can see through things so eventually they attract their type but we have to understand that certain cultural expectations put the burden on people without their permission. Nigeria is a good example of the younger people being nice and understanding to the abuse and bullying of the old and respect is expected from the person who can't even show that respect. Many older people view any questioning of their authority or tone as a sign of Westernization and a collapse of moral values but it is sometimes the abuse they want peprtatred while expecting the young ones to be nice and understanding for something that does not make sense. It's growing older that some people have the confidence to say NO to certain things, even at the work place!

Anyway to the nice people, don't stop being nice and understanding, just stop being nice and understanding to the wrong people, not everyone deserves your love. Don't let people's negativity change who you are. You will find peace and calm in your profile than the calculating, mischievous AI model you will live if you change your profile. Beat me once, don't let them beat you twice. Believe people when they show you who they are.

datola:
I will vomitt all the food that day if I had eaten it!

I am sorry and this can sound insensitive but ever since that experience I no de buy anything from woman with pikin especially if na raw food like corn etc. If you take time observe, the stress of childcare and the job will often lead to one or more problems, either at the job or at the childcare. I no wan swear for people wey abandon their wives dem or government officials wey no understand wetin welfare mean for their people

I wrote it here before. I am not a Bukka person based on say I get better upbringing but one day wey I go try am with my guys dem that time, I no know wetin carry my eyes go there. I de see this woman for back, one of the cooks for this popular Bukka wey get plenty customers. Na so I begin watch her pikin wey don shit finish de waka, small time, I see as she carry that boy, take small water wash him yansh and ewwwwww she just continue her work. I wan puke dat day 🤮

I say wetin be dis Charlie. See this woman just wash her pikin bum bum like say nothing spoil come use that hand de do work for food wey Pa Adam generation go chop. Chai

Of course, the one wey cockroach go de your food, that one common and I no surprise. Most of dem no send your papa for hygiene. All die na die. You no see as dem de wash plate? Dem go wash 200 utensils for one bowl all because dem wan manage water (blame our government as we no get potable water supply), dem go de talk for food wey dem de cook, you go see sweat as those woman de pound de enter your food...some people say na all these things sef de make d food sweet but as I come get exposed, I come see say for where our Bukka de, dem de learn work from Indians

On a more serious note, food is very important to me. I no de chop anyhow, that wahala for stomach upset no be wetin I get time for. Bukka too far. People don't love you as much as you love yourself, even for people house, I de fear because my own hygiene level wan resemble OCD type for people wey dirty but dem no know. Something must kill a man