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CelebritiesRe: Deeone Prints VeryDarkMan's Face On APC Campaign Banner (Video) by SixSeven: 9:03pm On Apr 05
Amotolongbo:
This one just dey hustle for VDM’s attention like his daily bread
They are content creators. They feed on attention.

PoliticsRe: I Love The Cooking From Kwankwaso by SixSeven: 5:43pm On Apr 05
tesseract:
But doctors, lawyers and generals are lining up behind a convicted felon. Make this make sense. Op is drunk with cheap alcohol
It's even funny that Shettima has a verifiable history that bankers know, his colleagues can point to him and say they remember when he was at Zenith etc but the number 1 does not have classmates or colleagues. They are all dead grin

PoliticsRe: I Love The Cooking From Kwankwaso by SixSeven: 5:38pm On Apr 05
A professor of Law, Yemi Osinbajo was a vice presidential candidate to General Buhari. Not just a professor, a SAN. I don't want to waste space on the whole debacle of Buhari's certificate but in all of these I am happy Buhari at least showed us his classmates when he was president.

Talk another one please.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5Tf65EGOAgo

Buhari Interracts With Classmates

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F4-Ce3Y1aKM?

FamilyRe: How Old Were You? And How Old Was Your Spouse When You Got Married? by SixSeven: 5:28pm On Apr 05
QuinQQ:
Normally yes, but not at all in this case. I don't know what I'd have done if she had left me for someone else. All I can say is, I understand people who kill their ex and kill themselves
1. If you had the opportunity to do this again, without the parents' posturing, will you do it again?

2. If your child turns 18 and does it, male or female, will you be okay with it? That is me assuming your daughter or son is not above 16/18 yet.

3. Will you say that this experience made you mature faster than your mates?
FamilyRe: How Old Were You? And How Old Was Your Spouse When You Got Married? by SixSeven: 4:41pm On Apr 05
queenbetsy:
while I understand your perspective, I’m sure we both understand that it is not applicable to everybody.

Some of us don’t seek validation on social media. Some of us don’t even live for the camera.
And when you talk about slightest inconvenience in marriage, most of our parents really put up with shit just to stay married.
IMO, everybody should know what they can compromise and what they cannot.
I agree that we don’t have to run off at the slightest inconvenience but still, we should be considerate when dealing with people.
I would not put up with a cheat just to stay married and I’d definitely not manage a man that doesn’t understand putting family first.

Marriage is a lot and it’s better to calm down before entering
I have a few questions on this. Do. You mind me asking?
FamilyRe: How Old Were You? And How Old Was Your Spouse When You Got Married? by SixSeven: 1:28pm On Apr 05
QuinQQ:
Honestly I was really IN LOVE with the girl and I'm still not sure she'd have married me if it weren't for the pregnancy
Did this experience make you a better man? Sounds dumb right? Were you ready to take it at that age since it was 1 time or you just had to accept it because it happened? I think we call that marry out of 'pity'
Christianity EtcRe: A Woman Sending Me Her Nude In This Church, Not Even Attractive - Pastor (Video) by SixSeven: 11:30am On Apr 05
Druss:
He is teaching her. This is a form of tutelage. Not every lesson will be in the form of niceties. This one needs cane.
And curses like thunder will fire herhuh
Christianity EtcRe: A Woman Sending Me Her Nude In This Church, Not Even Attractive - Pastor (Video) by SixSeven: 11:26am On Apr 05
Chucks13:
So if she is attractive you go enter ba? And some people still sit in this church as members?
I don't know why this statement by the man sounds like Dave Umahi some weeks ago. She no even fine. If to say na Senator Natasha, ehn ehn
FamilyRe: How Old Were You? And How Old Was Your Spouse When You Got Married? by SixSeven: 11:20am On Apr 05
QuinQQ:
Oh her parents are holier-than-thou pillars of the church whose children will all stay virgins till marriage. Meanwhile their very first daughter got pregnant at 16!
I've been so nosy about your affairs. Sorry about that. Last question, is my assumption correct that if it were not for the parents, you would have married that girl? (in MAGIC!'s voice wink) I sense the parents affected your relationship, otherwise it would have been something you didn't mind.

Edit: I will still ask questions but not about your relationship anymore. I like people sharing experiences and I don't judge, I just want to read or learn from their experiences.
FamilyRe: How Old Were You? And How Old Was Your Spouse When You Got Married? by SixSeven: 8:59am On Apr 05
QuinQQ:
What do you mean? Of course it was my pregnancy and we "loved" each other and we only did it HALF of once
Why was it a problem that she was pregnant and trying to hide it if the unborn baby was yours? Or was she sharing it with another man and you didn't know?
PoliticsRe: Jigawa Man Cancels Daughter's Wedding Over Groom's Support For Tinubu by SixSeven: 1:30am On Apr 05
What a tale by moonlight. He didn't see his social media posts until a day to the wedding? Fantastic father.
Foreign AffairsRe: You Have To Respect The Sovereignty Of People, French President Tells US by SixSeven: 1:29am On Apr 05
Donald Trump that wants to be the sovereign leader of Iran after being the de facto leader of Venezuela for a few days? All the countries on his list better be careful. Iran, Cuba, Nigeria... "you are fired"
FamilyRe: How Old Were You? And How Old Was Your Spouse When You Got Married? by SixSeven: 11:07pm On Apr 04
QuinQQ:
Oh it was a big semi-open secret of a scandal. Her very respectable parents covered up she was already pregnant durring the wedding. Something that shouldn't be a big deal. They were trying to pass off she married as a virgin!
Wait, it wasn't your pregnancy? shocked
PoliticsRe: Exposed: How Tinubu Forced INEC Chairman Amupitan To Sign Pre-Resignation Letter by SixSeven: 10:58pm On Apr 04
Election and selection.

FamilyRe: How Old Were You? And How Old Was Your Spouse When You Got Married? by SixSeven: 9:59pm On Apr 04
Elzazzi:
In all you said you didn’t even consider finances. Or is that not important? That’s what really holding men back lately. A man who can feed himself should get married and start bringing in children?
I completely understand that. It's the duty of the parents to bring them up and support them till they are comfortable. This is why families were very interested in marriages because the man's family would have done everything to raise him, support him so he can have his own home. This thing is still common in Asia and you will see that we have similar patterns when it comes to marriage unlike the West. They train you for responsibility and they support you but today, you are on your own. About the economy, let me tell you, economy will never be better. It's not a curse. It is just how life is, those who married just last year will find it easier to marry than those who want to marry today. Yesterday is always cheaper than today.

Families are failing in raising both men and women properly today, they only care about western education and white collar jobs. The other things you are taught normally in most African traditions are
1. Sex
2. Food
3. Raising a child
4. How to be attractive to your spouse
5. Rituals

A example is the fattening room. There are similar traditions to this all over Nigeria but we don't even bother to study our culture and traditions and find a way to merge it with today's realities. We just discard everything and start doing public proposal for a girl when you are yet to approach her family.

https://www.tiktok.com/video/7475300334710164742

Sex for instance became a taboo because of religious texts and instead of children understanding it came with responsibility, they were scared with sins and they took the easy way out, condoms and preventive methods. Finance that you mentioned wasn't just having a trade that brought you money, they gave you land etc. They made sure you went through apprenticeship etc. It's not just about having money, but you were taught how to spend and where to spend. I am not living in utopia, I am realist. If parents are serious today, if they have a male child, do everything possible to support him to be a man. A responsible man. The economy is hard but would you rather your boy have baby mamas that will still be your responsibility or a father who knows what to do to fend for his family? Parents in the 70s, 80s and some still do today helped with housing, car or whathaveyou. Those things that will help you stabilize for 1-2 years. Things have changed today but we must apply sense. Did you see that post where that guy was saying that most of us today live scattered in cities and paying rent here and there when we could combine our money and stay in family houses? Everyone now wants to be independent and we all know it is easier when you combine resources than when you go alone.
RomanceRe: The Ring Didn’t Kill The Desire, Your Habits Did by SixSeven: 9:47pm On Apr 04
AI has been a menace since it was introduced. People don't even put effort anymore. They just dump AI slop on us. Pathetic.
EducationRe: Parents Turn Children's Inter-house Sports Into A Cultural Festival In Ibadan by SixSeven: 9:38pm On Apr 04
danvon:
Try to be there for your children, parental support really matters in life.

Bill Gates and Paul Allen wouldnt have become billionaires if the mothers at Lakeside school didnt agree to get a computer for the school.
Try to be there is not a licence to try to be them! Let the children breathe and play please. Don't steal their show.
FamilyRe: How Old Were You? And How Old Was Your Spouse When You Got Married? by SixSeven: 9:37pm On Apr 04
QuinQQ:
1 was 18, she was 16 and pregnant.
Divorced and happily single
Did you marry or were you forced to marry because she was pregnant?
FamilyRe: How Old Were You? And How Old Was Your Spouse When You Got Married? by SixSeven: 9:30pm On Apr 04
UnknownQueen:
If na by fear, then you no go marry at all..
Na fear go continue to hook you, you better marry, if e work fine, if e no work fond divorce go, no be by force...

FamilyRe: How Old Were You? And How Old Was Your Spouse When You Got Married? by SixSeven: 9:20pm On Apr 04
queenbetsy:
honestly, you couldn’t have said this any better but then, it’s the situation we’ve found ourselves in
Something I should have added is that marriage teaches patience. I was listening to a man in his 100s say that people today are so quick to divorce at the slightest bang but they were brought up to weather it out. It's not to say people should suffer in silence if it is not working but it's only going to get worse in this me-centric times we live in where we put everything on the internet and we compare our filtered lives while others help us like, share and comment on what they have been shown. Everyone wants to he Mr and Mrs Right and they will always have fans even while plotting their own destruction. No one wants to compromise anymore or work to preserve the institution. Our alter ego is so big for the cameras that the ego no fit hear word again. Our lives are now a show cry
FamilyRe: How Old Were You? And How Old Was Your Spouse When You Got Married? by SixSeven: 6:48pm On Apr 04
PheelzAlmighty:
What in god's name do you need the information forhuh
Conformity: This refers to changing one’s behavior or beliefs to match the standards of a group to fit in or be accepted
FamilyRe: How Old Were You? And How Old Was Your Spouse When You Got Married? by SixSeven:
Won't tell the public but I can tell you that marrying young was never alien to Africans until the Western education confused them that they have to wait till they have PhD before they married. Meanwhile, marriage is a school of life and no amount of books can teach you. It's the only school where the certificate is given before you attend it. Some people tear theirs in the name of divorce.

Your grandparents got married in their 19s and early 20s when it was most fertile for the woman and when the men had more energy to raise families. Today, they are bombarded with fear while not afraid to be chiking each other. Parents keep deceiving themselves that their children are not ripe for marriage but their body is going through hormonal changes.
FamilyRe: “I Married My Husband Because Of Sex” — Pastor’s Wife Says by SixSeven: 4:04pm On Apr 04
BlackfireX:
carry go....

but really sex is good but responsibility no go allow nigerians enjoy it

grin
Just an observation
Then they are not ripe enough to have sex. I don't mean ripe in terms of age but their mind is not ripe. The greatest fear of sex is having a child. Why? Responsibility. What do you think?
FamilyRe: “I Married My Husband Because Of Sex” — Pastor’s Wife Says by SixSeven: 12:22pm On Apr 04
BlackfireX:
I can see you love sex... nothing wrong in it...

Carry on ...scatter the place
Unashamedly

But not to scatter the place
PoliticsRe: Did Bala Nafiu Resign As National Vice Chairman Of Adc? Letter Versus Form. by SixSeven: 12:42am On Apr 04
yarimo:
show me where he said he wrote letter of resignation in what you posted, must you post if you don't understand what you read ? Why didn't he address himself as former deputy national chairman of ADC? Why deputy national chairman of ADC?
grin grin grin
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CelebritiesRe: Olaiya Igwe Drops Bombshell On Funke Akindele’s 'behind The Scenes' Movie by SixSeven: 12:23am On Apr 04
He disclosed that Funke Akindele’s movie Behind the Scenes crossed the billion-naira mark at the box office, but the producer received less than half of the revenue after cinemas and distributors took their share.

According to him, while the public celebrates impressive figures, the actual money that goes to the producer is far smaller because exhibitors and middlemen claim a large portion.
After all the hullabaloo with Afolayan, e Don cast abi e no cast?
SixSeven:
It's what the numbers do for you that matters. Kunle made a statement that is deep there and those in showbiz or football know this. You can take in 10bn, that does not mean it all belongs to you. Sales is not equal to profit share. I was just watching TLC too talking about how they made just hundreds from the millions that was made from their art. Oliseh was also explaining the other day how football contracts work and not all the thousand pounds per week goes to the players. All we hear is contracts and deals and money but you are not there to know what the Ts&Cs are. Art and business sense must go together. Everyone also has a niche market.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AJpuLqTOTYI
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PoliticsRe: Did Bala Nafiu Resign As National Vice Chairman Of Adc? Letter Versus Form. by SixSeven: 11:28pm On Apr 03
yarimo:
The letter was Forged by criminal Mr Ralph nwosu just to get money from ATIKU and co
So his Facebook account was forged?

PoliticsRe: Old El-rufai Video Shows ADC Leaders Have Plan B, Foresaw Current Party Crisis by SixSeven: 11:24pm On Apr 03
“Many of us do not believe that a new party will be registered under the current leadership of INEC. Dr. Mahmud Yakub is not Jega and President Tinubu is not Jonathan. Those were the people in charge when the APC was registered and many were pessimistic about the prospects of registering a new party, but we said, ‘let’s try it anyway.’”

Insert the new INEC Chair.
RomanceRe: I Laughed During Sex by SixSeven: 11:21pm On Apr 03
CJStarz:
People living anyhow life
.. The last line sounds like a call girl. I picked up my things and left. Omo, women ehn. Raise your girl child in a way that she will not embarrass your lineage. Yes, I know why I chose the girl child only.
FamilyRe: My Friend Brought Back His Promiscuous Wife by SixSeven: 11:19pm On Apr 03
Your friend, his business.

Your business, your friend.
PoliticsRe: Amaechi Defeats Goodluck, Obi, Atiku, Kwankwaso, Key, Sowore With Wide Margin by SixSeven: 11:05pm On Apr 03
Total votes: 671,121...

How many people watch BTV? Nice try with your AI results
RomanceRe: She Tries To Eat Me After Giving Me Her Number by SixSeven: 10:42pm On Apr 03
What do you gain from posting a private conversation by 2 for the world to read? undecided

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