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Christianity EtcRe: When People Die. Where Do They Go. I Want To Know. by SkengRay:
Dtruthspeaker:
Then tell us, as a human being are not not conscious and have no consciousness ehn?

And do you have a mind? Is your mind conscious?
Man I can tell you're not Educated. I told you go and Read about Conscious, unconscious &Subconscious mind. And also add Carl Jung's theory of Collective Unconsciousness to the list. It would be pointless explaining it to you because you find it hard to comprehend things so it's better if you read it on own and understand. So this will be your assignment then we can have a discussion. You don't just refute topics you know nothing about because they don't fit in with your Rigid Dogmas.You're making your self look like a fool.Peace out
Christianity EtcRe: When People Die. Where Do They Go. I Want To Know. by SkengRay: 2:17pm On Nov 21, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
So you as a human being are not conscious and have no consciousness ehn?

Your denial is plenty
You just also keep showing your ignorance here. Go and Read about the Conscious and Subconscious mind.
Christianity EtcRe: When People Die. Where Do They Go. I Want To Know. by SkengRay: 2:00pm On Nov 21, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
Mr denile, have you lived and died before such that you claim that your life is looping on repeat mode?
Consciousness is the Messiah son
Christianity EtcRe: When People Die. Where Do They Go. I Want To Know. by SkengRay: 9:58am On Nov 21, 2025
We are all in a loop, it's never Ends
FamilyRe: Awon Marry Virgin Crew, Do You See What Is Waiting For You? by SkengRay: 12:13pm On Nov 20, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
Tell us when did men sit down and create the law saying "agreements should be kept, every man is entitled to fair hearing, every man should respect the rights of others etc"? And who are the men who you say created morals?



How is this relevant?
Even your maths, chemistry and biology textbooks and your fake manmade laws have been reviewed and revised several times since 1960, so how is this a problem? And how does it address the issue?

You are just looking for new arguments to make
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All these are definitely off point!



You obviously think that you are talking to your mate born in 2008. I understand now, you are gen z so you no nothing other than what social media said and what your stu atheists teacher said.

Whereas if you had sense you would have seen that you too have heard about hell and yet you carry hook up, up and down just like everybody else, so how has hell controlled you?
I understand that Reasoning is Hard for the likes of People like you. But Resulting to insult in a Logical Argument is disappointing. Ok even if I was born in 2008 between the both of us right now you're the one throwing tantrums and acting like a toddler because the truth goes against everything you were spoonfed grin
FamilyRe: Awon Marry Virgin Crew, Do You See What Is Waiting For You? by SkengRay: 11:49am On Nov 20, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
Now you are moving away from the issue and trying to raise new ones since you see that you cannot counter my answer. And that is why you wish to blame it on A.i. meanwhile I have said all these several years ago in the different threads including some of my own.

Of which I did a thread on this some weeks back when I met another person like you on the Soyinka Visa thread who did not know and I schooled him. And till today, he still cannot find any valid thing to say.
https://www.nairaland.com/8556733/natural-law-vs-artificial-law#137393653

So, you both are showing how ill educated and misled you people are as you do not know history meanwhile you are thinking law started with your legislators, something that only just started here now now in 1960 which maybe to you 2006 babies sounds like 1900.

https://www.nairaland.com/8551321/visas-privileges-not-rights-us/6#137317320

Go and read up if you like and if you have any reasonable question to ask, drop it, and I'll address it as best as I can.

And do note, it is clear that you are confused as you've got a lot of stu.... & silly untidy sheet running in your mind without order and clarity. For instance anong all the rawb.ish in your mind, in the bold you say "Natural laws are the rules the universe follows by itself examples are laws of polarity, Cause and effect, Laws of Gravity e.t.c"

So, who is the universe, is it you the man and human beings and animals or is it the universe of moon, sun, stars, mercy etc? Let's see what you mind will produce
it is pointless going back and forth with you. You prove already that you're an ignoramus, my Debate is forcing you to think but you refuse to. You think you've figured it out. What a clown grin. Thinking one way won't help you to see things clearly. You can reflect on my comments maybe you might figure it out someday. Peace out.
FamilyRe: Awon Marry Virgin Crew, Do You See What Is Waiting For You? by SkengRay: 8:20am On Nov 20, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
Natural law also created what is called "self defence" and damages and restitution. And self defence, payment of damages and restitution are all good

Exodus
18 And if men strive together, and one smite another with a stone, or with his fist, and he die not, but keepeth his bed:

19 If he rise again, and walk abroad upon his staff, then shall he that smote him be quit: only he shall pay for the loss of his time, and shall cause him to be thoroughly healed.

(Exodus 22:2–3).

"If a thief be found breaking up, and be smitten that he die, there shall no blood be shed for him"

Two basic principles taught in this text are the right to own private property and the right to defend that property, even if it causes the death of the trespasser assailant.

Also self defence came to play and availed Moses when he killed the Egyptian trying to kill his Israelite brother. And that was why God still worked with him.

Black’s Law Dictionary, self-defence is protecting oneself or property against injury attempted by another

AI Overview
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Key Factors in Self-Defense Cases | Justin E. Sterling
Self-defense is the act of protecting oneself, one's family, or one's property from a physical attack, often by using force.

And none of these laws were created by men. Every man was born knowing it and acting under it which is why even right from childhood when our classmate did that chair pulling thing, we did him back.


First, is being a non virgin good?

Nairaland people have already answered that it is not good as non virgins are rejected as proven by the virgin or nothing fellas.

https://www.nairaland.com/8467761/should-marry-33-year-old-virgin-23-year-old/4#136002571

So you see non virgins are already in the Wrong area.

And remember that Deuteronomy 22:20 starts from 13/14 showing a woman who deceived the man who wanted to marry her that she is a virgin, by not telling him (a fact that till tomorrow still pains all men) where everyone is a virgin, so he naturally presumed that she is one.

13 If any man take a wife, and go in unto her, and hate her,

14 And give occasions of speech against her, and bring up an evil name upon her, and say, I took this woman, and when I came to her, I found her not a maid:

Now you see why non virgins had to run away from their lands and join a vagabond murderer or thief to go to a place where they can start their own land where fv.ki.ng fornication and adultery must be allowed. So you see where and how your supposed moral disagreement started from?

And this is where towns and cities started from as more criminals running from judgement ran to those places and those places became a haven for them. And that is why you see it is in such places you find brot.hels

And it is them who caused armed robbery, banditry, slavery, colonialism, Taxism, war as that non virgin and her murder causing vagabond husband and the people that follow them must steal and kill and destroy to be rich and to increase their riches

And that is why it is said
We do not look in great cities for our best morality. Jane Austen,

Game of thrones also shows you

Petyr "Littlefinger" Baelish
"Look around you. We're all liars here. And every one of us is better than you."
He delivers this line to Sansa Stark in Season 2, Episode 10, when Sanza stark was lying about going home.
I can see Ai written all over this you're getting this mixed up. Natural laws are the rules the universe follows by itself examples are laws of polarity, Cause and effect, Laws of Gravity e.t.c. all the Rules you are here yapping about are morals of conduct that was created by men. Man Created Religion ( God Said you should do this and that), man Created Social Rules and legal systems. The Bible you're quoting here was written by Priest, Historians and the likes and it has been alter over time. Religion originated from Culture, you can't talk about religion and not talk about culture they are imbedded with one another. Christianity originated from the Jews it Spread down to the Romans that edited , shaped and Politicized which then became a tool of colonization. A Question to you How did Christianity come by to Nigeria I bet you've never even thought of it. The major Religion ( both Christianity and Islam) were used to keep obedient. It's either you Obey or you perish in Hell that is what is used to keep in World in check. You saying every man knowing what was wrong and whats right is a blatant lie. Jean Jacques said and I quote " Humans were born Free, and everywhere he is in chains. This means we were born with a clean mind we were first taught what was wrong and right by our parents and then the society( schools, churches, mosques e.t.c) or you'd say you knew what was wrong and Right at the Age of 3? Impossible we were imprinted with these morals by society. You didn't even answer the Questions I asked as expected it was direct as as it should be. So it's pointless going back and forth on that topic. Your mind has been altered already and only you can break free from it, like Marcus Garvey said " Emancipate yourselves from mental Slavery no but over selves can free our mind. This Religion has colonized used completely telling us what is Right or Wrong saying it's ordained from God. It's has told us to reject our culture claiming it is evil but asking you lots to cling to it's culture.
FamilyRe: Awon Marry Virgin Crew, Do You See What Is Waiting For You? by SkengRay: 8:25pm On Nov 19, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
Go and check it. There is no disagreement on all the natural law precepts. Eg in every place it is agreed that fair agreements (contracts) should be kept and honoured. And it is agreed everywhere that cheating and adultery is bad. And it is agreed that it is not right to in slave anyone.

So, you can see the disagreement is always coming from the people who do not have to do the right and good thing.

It is always a Wike. Dperson who after he has in slaved a person who came to serve him that will now say "wetin concern you? Is he your servant? is he not doing my work? You are there complaining instead of you to go and do your own". Or the second circumstance of where a neighbour saw how he was doing, then said he would do his own as he too does not like honour contracts, as they say "e easy to pay salary?"

So this is how the confusion and so called disagreement started.

Meanwhile, the natural law never changed and from ancient days till tomorrow when the world ends, it is always the Law that fair contracts must be kept and honoured and cheating/adultery is bad, no matter what man may say
I agree natural laws can't be changed but The laws you listed here have nothing to do natural laws these human moral frameworks. Killing someone is Said to be Bad what if I killed someone has an act of self defense? No it isn't. In Deuteronomy 22: 20-21 it talked about stoning to death of female non virgin, my Question to you is 1. Is that Right or wrong 2. Was that Order from God?
FamilyRe: Awon Marry Virgin Crew, Do You See What Is Waiting For You? by SkengRay: 7:09pm On Nov 19, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
First, right and wrong was not laid by men. It was God Who did it through what is called Natural Law. And because of it every man is forced to confess the Truth of what is Right as different from what is wrong even when they don't want to. Any opposition here?
Interesting point, but if natural law truly forces everyone to know right from wrong, how do we explain the vast moral disagreements across cultures and history? People have justified slavery, war, and oppression were they ‘forced’ to know it was wrong? Even among deeply religious people, interpretations of right and wrong vary widely. If morality were truly innate and universal, such debates wouldn’t exist? There wouldnt be Segregation between we humans and we won't need Religion to Dictate to us what is wrong and What's Right.
FamilyRe: Awon Marry Virgin Crew, Do You See What Is Waiting For You? by SkengRay: 6:28pm On Nov 19, 2025
SkengRay:
What are the Rules Amigo I will like to learn? God Told us bro? Religion has absolutely nothing to do with God. Right and Wrong was decided by humans. You think God has anything to do with the Bible. You so called bullshit rules has no effect on the divine Order. Obeying Rules won't decide you'd have a perfect lasting marriage. And it's ironic your moniker is named truth speaker when you haven't searched for the truth, you just followed what the Society gave you
FamilyRe: Awon Marry Virgin Crew, Do You See What Is Waiting For You? by SkengRay:
Dtruthspeaker:
Of course God is above all religions, so that one is moot. But where did you see men telling you not to fornicte? When they are the ones even telling you that if you no mash that babe you fv k up.



No man can but God has already told us. And today we have all read again and again about all their ends.

And I said being a virgin is a good start, there are still other rules you still have to obey before you get a good, no great marriage.

But for now, i am just saying that all your ways will never work even if the couples are virgins. But as I said, you people always think that you are wiser than God, so, I am here to watch the failures. And for anyone who is about to toe that same way, I am saying failure is waiting for them
What are the Rules Amigo I will like to learn? God Told us bro? Religion has absolutely nothing to do with God. Right and Wrong was decided by humans. You think God has anything to do with the Bible. You so called bullshit rules has no effect on the divine Order. Obeying Rules won't decide you'd have a perfect lasting marriage. And it's ironic your moniker is named truth speaker when you haven't searched for the truth, you just followed what the Society gave you
FamilyRe: Awon Marry Virgin Crew, Do You See What Is Waiting For You? by SkengRay: 3:56pm On Nov 19, 2025
Dtruthspeaker:
Hmmm! Dicey!!

You see, I am respecting people's choices so I am not trying to impose the Christian values which I was just lucky not to fall into.

And in as much as I did not fall into it, nevertheless, I have been studying it's patterns and ways for years especially as I really wanted to understand why God Says we should not do it.

And the more I discover why, the more I have been shouting "God thank you for saving me oo". For I see I would have died and lamented just as everyone else and complaining and strategizing on how to have a good marriage and a sweet living at the same time.

And so I have come to see in the end no matter what strategy man cooks up to evade all the bad things waiting for him, he still ends up falling into them.

And now people are changing to strategy of marrying a as virgin and always tell them that it won't still work. But as usual with God's Words, they will never believe nor listen.

So this guy's case is a public confirmation of when I say it won't work for God has made only One Way where we could have everything we want. And this starts by man knowing that God is always right and man will always be wrong.

So that is the moral.

And as I said I am not judging anybody but as God saved me from that way to the point that I now understand what is happening and what MUST happen, I am just trying to forewarn any one who might be seeing and thinking all these things and saying to themselves that they do not want to be a part of all this mess. And of course I know many won't listen but maybe 1 will.
Funny guy grin. 1. God Doesn't Exist under Any Religion and those rules you claim existed were created by Men like you. 2. No one can forecast the future Most guys clamoring to marry a virgin may not even end up with one, Some may end up not getting married. There are lots of Pastors with broken marriages even though they abided by the rules of the Bible, They are Prostitutes and damaged people (both gender)that had Solid Relationships. You can abide by rules of the Bible you will still have challenges in one Aspect of Life or Another. Now to Marriage you don't just pick a Random partner they're a lot of factors that are meant to be Carefully evaluated. Being a Virgin or not doesn't determine how strong the marriage is going to last. You partner being a Virgin means she's Sexually disciplined and has sexual purity no more no less? If one chooses a partner solely based on virginity the marriage will fail.
FamilyRe: Awon Marry Virgin Crew, Do You See What Is Waiting For You? by SkengRay: 6:40pm On Nov 18, 2025
@Dtruthspeaker I really Want to understand your moral philosophy? Are you Against marrying of Virgins or What Bruv I don't get it. Because of someone's experience you use it to make final judgement?
Nairaland GeneralRe: What Is That Privilege You Believe People Take For Granted? [picture] by SkengRay: 1:06pm On Nov 16, 2025
1. Have A good Self Esteem and confidence
2. Having Good quality Friends
3. Having a Good Background and Family Members.
4. Being Free Of any Sickness - This is Really priceless
5. Having A Good partner.
6. Being Alive and having the freedom to move anywhere you want
8. Having A Good and Stable career
9. Last Having Peace of mind - being able to sleep and wake up peacefully.
Not everyone one on this planet can have all this.
RomanceRe: This Person Looks Like Burner Boy by SkengRay: 3:28pm On Nov 14, 2025
Cocaine is one Hell of a Drug Son sad
EducationRe: Quick Biography — Lt.-a. M. Yerima by SkengRay: 2:26pm On Nov 12, 2025
This is 100% Chatgpt. This Blogger na Wereyyy grin grin
RomanceRe: God catching Cruise with Humans by SkengRay:
MikeofKd:
Thought Provoking question from the OP.

Well I believe in life everything is predestined to happen , God has written the scripts of everyone and we are just acting out various roles that has been written.
There's no freewill , we are thought to believe that theres a free will but there's no such thing as a free will , if there were free wills the world wouldn't be what the world is today. It would be filled with more greed and evil than ever cause everyone would wants to show that they have power.

Everything is presdistned to happen , every human has a role to play , everything happens for a reason and nothing is random , and that's why I don't believe in coincidences. Everything is connected to a purpose like a book that's starts in a very good way can end badly, but when you start reading it you can't tell yet.
People that commit suicide has been predestined to commit suicide , it's written , if it wasn't written then that person wouldn't commit suicide. Every action we take or we don't take is written already and we are just acting out our roles.

I believe God has created every human for a purpose , God is a master designer and has created every human with a purpose In mind , remember nothing is random. Blind , deaf , dumb people are created by God for a purpose , and everyone of them acts their purpose. Some would be rich not because they understand the principles of money but because it's written that they would be rich.

Once upon a time I had a very loyal ,gentle and loving girlfriend, she was the best thing that has happened to me but I broke her heart and when I asked myself why I did that , I couldn't find a answer , then something whispered to me that exactly how it was written , no matter how I felt bad for breaking her heart it had to happen because it was connected to the script that has been written. It doesn't necessarily makes me a bad person.
It doesn't have to make sense to you but it's written.


Ask yourself this question , why can't I get everything that I want exactly the way I want ??
Reflect deep on this question and you would realise it's simply because you don't have any freewill. People are good and people are bad not because they decide to but because it's written.

The Yoruba Divination of IFA , how do you think IFA is able to give a 90 percent correct prediction about something?
It's simple. it's because your story has already been written, and IFA is able to read your story and tell you a chapter youve not gotten to. Simply because everything and everyones story has been written.

we don't have a freewill , we don't.
And just like I said God is a designer and poet , he writes according to his own understanding and will , the ways of God are not understandble to mankind and you can't understand his ways.
He is very unpredictable.

This is my belief , everyone is entitled to theirs.
Exactly brother. Knowing my Odu and learning other Odu's in IFA changed my life forever and made me see the world clearly the Explanation you gave was so on point man. I have hurt people and I have also been hurt by people too even Family members i reflect on it so much it was like it was beyond my control. Another Example was when Jesus told Judas he was going to betray him and there was nothing Jesus or Judas could do about it from happening.
RomanceRe: God catching Cruise with Humans by SkengRay: 7:33am On Nov 05, 2025
Meedon:
Well I understand now. Que sera sera
What will be must be 🤞🏾
RomanceRe: God catching Cruise with Humans by SkengRay: 12:32pm On Nov 04, 2025
Meedon:
And you lots enjoy it because you are not at the receiving end. You live in your mansion and enjoying life thinking it is same for others.
Lol If I wasn't on the receiving end I wouldn't be able to see life with so much clarity. There's is no one on this earth that has it all perfectly, you will only see this if you see them clearly behind the mask they put on. Everyone will struggle in one area in life or the other.
RomanceRe: God catching Cruise with Humans by SkengRay: 12:11pm On Nov 04, 2025
Meedon:
Too atrocities full this world, killings, maiming, rappoingg, innocent people tortured for years for the crime they don't commit, bandit, thuggery, snatching of ballots box, adultery, parents wickedness to children, children kpaing their parents for money to flex girlfriends, scamming, slave trade, burning innocent people alive, tsunami, hurricane killing thousands, humans maiming and killing animals for the fun of it, burning human at stake, terrorists bombing here and there. Many atrocities weh my eyes don see for internet and offline the make me sad always. God no just try at all for cresting this world.

And the worst part, they say after all these sufferings humans go still go hellfire to burn forever. Is this not wickedness?
They world is based on Duality: Good and bad, light and darkness, creation and destruction, death and Rebirth all of these go along with one another and there is no way you can't separate one from the other because one can exist without the other, as a matter of fact there's no human on this earth that's totally good or bad we have this Duality too. All What's you've listed here are the Darkside of life. Now make a List of the Good side of life. Human going to Hell to burn? grin lol That's societal conditioning to keep people obedient and put the world in order.
RomanceRe: God catching Cruise with Humans by SkengRay: 9:48am On Nov 04, 2025
Meedon:
Omo that God no try at all. He no just try.
Why do you say so?
RomanceRe: God catching Cruise with Humans by SkengRay: 9:46am On Nov 04, 2025
Thereedemer:
pA to God i guess or at least angel michael.
PA to God? Lol grin like I said we are all connected to God. God is not in some written scriptures.
RomanceRe: God catching Cruise with Humans by SkengRay: 6:56pm On Nov 03, 2025
RollinTNDA:
So that means we don't have freewill if everything has been pre planned for us?
We do have limited freewill. You may choose to end your current life experience by killing yourself or By Disconnecting from God. The latter won't end well for you though. We are all Assigned different roles by God in this Earth, some of us are meant to Stand out, break free from societal conditioning, some of us are meant to stay boxed in. You can't go against your design unless you disconnect from God.
RomanceRe: God catching Cruise with Humans by SkengRay: 11:17am On Nov 03, 2025
Well. The thing is We are all connected to God. God's energy Flows through us all even though 99% of Humans are not conscious of this. Our lives are being programmed by God, from the Day you were born a script has Already been written,God has Preplanned everything that's is meant to happen. You see certain things happen in life you think it's luck or misfortune but it's not coincidence.
RomanceRe: Where to get Sex Free without Money by SkengRay: 10:43am On Oct 17, 2025
RollinTNDA:
I like sex pass anything. As a guy having regular sex gives you a solid frame in life

Why is it difficult to find a girl that love sex and will give it freely Without billings.

Must I spend before I have sex,??
No be Soo God design am
Lol. You need to Master the Art of Seduction cheesy
RomanceRe: For The Love Of Sex by SkengRay: 9:53am On Oct 10, 2025
RollinTNDA:
No marriage no relationship?

Oh yeah you will regret this decision grin grin
Trust me
Leave am. Him Should go still come down grin
EducationRe: I Went Back To My Former Secondary School To Do This (photos) by SkengRay: 9:27am On Oct 10, 2025
Interesting15:
So, I asked anyone interested in summarising what I taught them to step out...Those that did were females...I tried encouraging some of the guys, but....
You owe nobody no Rassclart explanation. You've done well by Giving back to the Society. Like the Question you asked Ask "what can I do to make things easier for the next generation?". That Right is what is making our Country Retrogressing.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Nairaland New Update Is Awesome (pics) by SkengRay: 4:51pm On Oct 05, 2025
ReacherSaidNoth:
The changes are welcome, but for me the colors are too much.
I co-sign this
RomanceRe: Marry “I Don’t Care” Or “men Wey No Too Get Sense” – Lady Advises Women by SkengRay: 6:54pm On Oct 04, 2025
Bendeco02:
Women are just selfish creature

A man supposed be "i don't care" or don't reason things but them (women) will never ignore little thing, easily pick offense over irrelevant things.

What a woman need from a man to tolerate from her, she will never allow her brother to take same rubbish from another lady.

Every woman need a man that spend on her, make her happy, ignore her bad attitude but will never want to take rubbish from a man. Some of them don't forgive when offended.

If a woman don't find a guy attractive, the guy irritates her. She can insult a guy for being ugly or broke but want men to be soft to them because they are weaker gender and at same time claims gender equity grin

I pity men that are soft to women, they will just ride you like horse
Bruv no be Chais grin. When some of them observe that your too Soft ehn, They would misuse the opportunity to do What they want and push boundaries. I've been in that position before I used to be nonchalant till I couldn't take it anymore, now it's my Way or the Highway

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