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MikeofKd:
Thought Provoking question from the OP.

Well I believe in life everything is predestined to happen , God has written the scripts of everyone and we are just acting out various roles that has been written.
There's no freewill , we are thought to believe that theres a free will but there's no such thing as a free will , if there were free wills the world wouldn't be what the world is today. It would be filled with more greed and evil than ever cause everyone would wants to show that they have power.

Everything is presdistned to happen , every human has a role to play , everything happens for a reason and nothing is random , and that's why I don't believe in coincidences. Everything is connected to a purpose like a book that's starts in a very good way can end badly, but when you start reading it you can't tell yet.
People that commit suicide has been predestined to commit suicide , it's written , if it wasn't written then that person wouldn't commit suicide. Every action we take or we don't take is written already and we are just acting out our roles.

I believe God has created every human for a purpose , God is a master designer and has created every human with a purpose In mind , remember nothing is random. Blind , deaf , dumb people are created by God for a purpose , and everyone of them acts their purpose. Some would be rich not because they understand the principles of money but because it's written that they would be rich.

Once upon a time I had a very loyal ,gentle and loving girlfriend, she was the best thing that has happened to me but I broke her heart and when I asked myself why I did that , I couldn't find a answer , then something whispered to me that exactly how it was written , no matter how I felt bad for breaking her heart it had to happen because it was connected to the script that has been written. It doesn't necessarily makes me a bad person.
It doesn't have to make sense to you but it's written.


Ask yourself this question , why can't I get everything that I want exactly the way I want ??
Reflect deep on this question and you would realise it's simply because you don't have any freewill. People are good and people are bad not because they decide to but because it's written.

The Yoruba Divination of IFA , how do you think IFA is able to give a 90 percent correct prediction about something?
It's simple. it's because your story has already been written, and IFA is able to read your story and tell you a chapter youve not gotten to. Simply because everything and everyones story has been written.

we don't have a freewill , we don't.
And just like I said God is a designer and poet , he writes according to his own understanding and will , the ways of God are not understandble to mankind and you can't understand his ways.
He is very unpredictable.

This is my belief , everyone is entitled to theirs.

Exactly brother. Knowing my Odu and learning other Odu's in IFA changed my life forever and made me see the world clearly the Explanation you gave was so on point man. I have hurt people and I have also been hurt by people too even Family members i reflect on it so much it was like it was beyond my control. Another Example was when Jesus told Judas he was going to betray him and there was nothing Jesus or Judas could do about it from happening.

Meedon:
Well I understand now. Que sera sera

What will be must be 🤞🏾

Meedon:
And you lots enjoy it because you are not at the receiving end. You live in your mansion and enjoying life thinking it is same for others.

Lol If I wasn't on the receiving end I wouldn't be able to see life with so much clarity. There's is no one on this earth that has it all perfectly, you will only see this if you see them clearly behind the mask they put on. Everyone will struggle in one area in life or the other.

Meedon:
Too atrocities full this world, killings, maiming, rappoingg, innocent people tortured for years for the crime they don't commit, bandit, thuggery, snatching of ballots box, adultery, parents wickedness to children, children kpaing their parents for money to flex girlfriends, scamming, slave trade, burning innocent people alive, tsunami, hurricane killing thousands, humans maiming and killing animals for the fun of it, burning human at stake, terrorists bombing here and there. Many atrocities weh my eyes don see for internet and offline the make me sad always. God no just try at all for cresting this world.

And the worst part, they say after all these sufferings humans go still go hellfire to burn forever. Is this not wickedness?

They world is based on Duality: Good and bad, light and darkness, creation and destruction, death and Rebirth all of these go along with one another and there is no way you can't separate one from the other because one can exist without the other, as a matter of fact there's no human on this earth that's totally good or bad we have this Duality too. All What's you've listed here are the Darkside of life. Now make a List of the Good side of life. Human going to Hell to burn? lol That's societal conditioning to keep people obedient and put the world in order.

Meedon:
Omo that God no try at all. He no just try.

Why do you say so?

Thereedemer:
pA to God i guess or at least angel michael.

PA to God? Lol like I said we are all connected to God. God is not in some written scriptures.

RollinTNDA:
So that means we don't have freewill if everything has been pre planned for us?

We do have limited freewill. You may choose to end your current life experience by killing yourself or By Disconnecting from God. The latter won't end well for you though. We are all Assigned different roles by God in this Earth, some of us are meant to Stand out, break free from societal conditioning, some of us are meant to stay boxed in. You can't go against your design unless you disconnect from God.

Well. The thing is We are all connected to God. God's energy Flows through us all even though 99% of Humans are not conscious of this. Our lives are being programmed by God, from the Day you were born a script has Already been written,God has Preplanned everything that's is meant to happen. You see certain things happen in life you think it's luck or misfortune but it's not coincidence.

RollinTNDA:
I like sex pass anything. As a guy having regular sex gives you a solid frame in life

Why is it difficult to find a girl that love sex and will give it freely Without billings.

Must I spend before I have sex,??
No be Soo God design am

Lol. You need to Master the Art of Seduction

RollinTNDA:
No marriage no relationship?

Oh yeah you will regret this decision
Trust me

Leave am. Him Should go still come down

Interesting15:
So, I asked anyone interested in summarising what I taught them to step out...Those that did were females...I tried encouraging some of the guys, but....

You owe nobody no Rassclart explanation. You've done well by Giving back to the Society. Like the Question you asked Ask "what can I do to make things easier for the next generation?". That Right is what is making our Country Retrogressing.

ReacherSaidNoth:
The changes are welcome, but for me the colors are too much.

I co-sign this

Bendeco02:
Women are just selfish creature

A man supposed be "i don't care" or don't reason things but them (women) will never ignore little thing, easily pick offense over irrelevant things.

What a woman need from a man to tolerate from her, she will never allow her brother to take same rubbish from another lady.

Every woman need a man that spend on her, make her happy, ignore her bad attitude but will never want to take rubbish from a man. Some of them don't forgive when offended.

If a woman don't find a guy attractive, the guy irritates her. She can insult a guy for being ugly or broke but want men to be soft to them because they are weaker gender and at same time claims gender equity

I pity men that are soft to women, they will just ride you like horse

Bruv no be Chais . When some of them observe that your too Soft ehn, They would misuse the opportunity to do What they want and push boundaries. I've been in that position before I used to be nonchalant till I couldn't take it anymore, now it's my Way or the Highway

franchasng:
She is correct.

But she used the wrong words to describe such men.

Such men doesnt lack sense like she thinks, they are just easygoing, peaceloving and liberal-minded.

I am one of them.

I always wonder why men quarrel or fight with their partners, be it wife, fiance or girlfriend.


Nothing on earth can make me quarrel with a woman. The greatest sin any woman can commit in marriage is infidelity or cheating, but honestly I wouldn't quarrel over that, I will just reduce my rating and trust for you and operate more carefully for my own health, but to argue and quarrel because of that, not me.



Anything that doesn't threaten my life, health and finance, can never bother me, that's who I am, sadly



It baffles me when I hear that some men quarrel with their wives because of food, sex, untidy home, etc. Any man that quarrels over things like sex, food, untidy home, etc definitely need to look inwards

Everyone is Wired Differently thats what makes humanity unique, And also be Grateful you have a Partner that understands you and is willing to make compromises or Else you there would be Tension in your Marriage life.

Only you can decide that jefe

Mariangeles:
Astrology can be deceptive.
Don't be deceived.

It causes those into it to be judgmental and condemning of others.

Only for Those With Basic Knowledge.

Wo, the State of the Country has made Most Men repress their Libido.

That's is the Way you're wired. I'm like that to,I'm the type that love gathering Knowledge in abundance instead of Material Wealth.

Originalsly:
...Bro... we'd be all dead or seriously wounded if you all do. Said usually . And yes...some people are comfortable being friendless ...loners. The lion is happy when in a gang pride ...the jaguar is happy when alone...we all can't be the same ... socialization is in our DNA so if one doesn't like socializing...something is a bit off ... there's a problem ... up there.... something is malfunctioning...anything can happen at anytime ... so for my safety ... do I have to say the rest?

I love the Illustration though . True Man can't exist without Socialization, There are Other Forms of Socialization apart from Friendship.

Originalsly:
I don't understand how people don't have friends.....these are the people I fear the most ... loners. These are the ones that usually go on killing sprees when they can no longer cope with society. If you went to school you should have had friends ...if you had friends at school age ...then you should know how to socialize and make new friends. Your friends have all left ... your core friends ..inner circle ...understood ... then make new ones ...go to games where people gist ,...football whatever ..it is easy to join a conversation ...introduce yourself after ... especially to those who feel are "your type" ... was fun visiting with you guys ... they call me KB ....and take it from there ..hail th m when you see them again and you take it from there.

Bros No be All of Us they go on Killing Spree. Some of Us feel at Peace being alone. I don't have to pretend just to fit in

WYZAD:
Last year I took my free medical outreach to a town called Oke-ode in kwara state.
I was fortunate to be housed by the oldest mam in Oke-ode (Professor Awoniyi) who is married to a Carribbean missionary from Jamaica over 50years ago.
The family is vegetarian and well grounded in the teachings of christ. In that house, they have over 20 children whom they adopted and train them up to d University...both Christian kids and Muslim kids.
U are allowed as a Muslim kid to observe ur regular prayers and u don't fail to participate in d daily family morning and night devotions.
U are taught to keep 10% of whatever u have...be it melon, pawpaw, pears, money, maize or whatever someone gave to u or u produce in d family garden as tithe.
Baba and mama has kids scattered all over the world.
They plant churches (seventh day adventist Church sanywhere they are opportune to. All they need to do is just send a call to any of their adopted kids anywhere in d world and money comes in for d building of churches and schools. In fact, all baba need is just to call Adeleke and a child will be given scholarship in Adeleke University.
But by today's standard, baba lives very modest lifestyle...no flamboyance, no big car, no skyscrapers...just missionary van that convey them to church or missionary outreach, house build in d form of cottages that houses missionaries and guests when there's church programme.
One day while discussing, baba said he has so many kids scattered all over d world. That if he could sum his wealth in d lives he had influenced, churches he had built for SDA church, schools he had planted, that he would have been d richest man by man's standards but that he's rich by God's standard.
For Fatoyinbo to make such unguarded statement shows his understanding especially in mortgaging d crucifix for personal gains.
Ayo Babalola of course from d same kwara state (odo-owa precisely) laid a foundation and made name that even oyedepo will envy....and Fatoyinbo will never attain.
Do u know what it means for a town to be known because a man came from there?
Do u know how many people in a year that go for pilgrimage at Babalola mountain Odo-owa, the river in ekiti, the first CAC in Iloffa?
This is a name that even d 10th generation of Fatoyinbo can't dare attain.
I support that he apologise and repent from opening d hole on his face to spit rubbish next time.

Wow Baba Is Still Alive? God Really blessed him with Good health. I attended his Secondary School. He Should be Over 100 years old now.

Solofresh2:
Avoid any female with this zodiac sign for your peace of mind if you are a earth or water sign, especially water sign.Water signs are Pisces, cancer and Scorpio.
It is very bad for a man who has lunar pisces.
Scorpio is the only water sign that can damage them completely.But if you are a pisces man she will outsmart you conveniently.
Leo July 23 to August 22 women are brutal.Especially the heartbroken ones.These women don't know what is called true love.Love to them is transactional and when you offended them they will deal with you mercilessly.They are egoistic in nature and rude, assertive by default

Beware of this as a man with a water sign especially if you are a pisces

Nah. This is Basic Generalization. There's more to just Sun & moon Signs. Yes Leo's are Egoistic in nature but not all are rude.

Deluded Fools

Manchi Na you dey do yourself. No curses are affecting you taking Responsibility for your life man. You're the only one that can fix your life.

HEAVEN4444:
all is well brother watch out for that solar eclipse tomorrow 😉

Yes sirr

HEAVEN4444:
bro wagwan trust you are doing well.

Yeah Chief I'm Good, you too?

Life Sha. Person wey them nack that year for Live TV Bbnaija. Smh

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