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Dizzyyish:
Her tattoo and provocative (maybe promiscuous) nature is already a red flag (you can see my red flag list on page 769).

"People who get tattoos and weird piercings do so as a way of self-harm and as a way of corrupting their body."
"Trauma survivors tend to not know what is socially appropriate or desirable so they don't have those boundaries which means if you have trauma in your past and keep forming toxic relationships or healthy people keep trying to distance themselves away from you then you need to change your behaviour."
"If you don't pay attention to how people behave, then you are gonna end up unhealthy."
- Think Before You Sleep

Damaged people or trauma survivors tend to not be aware of their mental and/or emotional issues so they have a propensity to ruin their lifes with questionable/terrible choices, will ruin your life and the life of their child.
Because toxicity and maladaptive/unhealthy behaviours is what the child grew up knowing, they see it as normal, often with a tendency to become abusive or get into abusive relationships, they'll have a kid and they 'indoctrinate' them with their damaged ideologies, behaviours and tendencies.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=475i4OnHZS0

You'll see the daughters of single moms, becoming single moms e.g. Bernice Burgos, a instagram "model" and video vixen, being a single mom at the age of 15, her daughter doing doing the same at the age of 21. Or daughters following the path of their mothers who are/were sex workers. A 'vicious cycle' that can only be broken when one person in the family becomes aware and puts in work and effort to break and discontinue it.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dZjjjnqPYo4&t=2s
Fathers are there to teach the kids boundaries so when a woman lacks a (proper) father figure, they end up with attachment issues (daddy issues). They start seeking attention/approval/validation from men, dress provocatively, become promiscuous (possibly exploitative, using their bodies to "secure the bag" [gold digging] ), having hyper self conscious traits leading to tattoos, piercings, body mods etc., which in turn worsens their unresolved issues as well as leading to new mental/emotional traumas.

Sex workers, instagram "models", video vixens, slay queens/ runz girls or "normal" women who use their bodies and sex as a proxy for feeling loved and adored--some intuitively know this kinds of people are "broken" but may not exactly know why.
Also, 'like attracts like' so if this are the kind of people you attract then you should probably reflect on yourself because "there is never one unhealthy person in a relationship."

Kantebets:
conquering pussy is a sign of top masculinity which itself is one of the traditional qualities of real top class men
You say redpill teaches self development,in all its facets and how to launch one to become an all round top man
Testosterone is male hormone which drives ambition,strength and sex drive as well as masculinity
I wonder how a guy with high levels of testosterone can’t get a pussy it’s either he is gay or something is wrong somewhere

Martinez39s:
^^^^
@Skepticus

I see no masculinity in the boy. He seems disturbingly feminised.

MJBOLT:
https://www.nairaland.com/6718072/maternity-photoshoot-toyin-lawani-son#105138871

Kantebets:
Any redpill that isn’t getting u pussy is not worth it

Saviolamemphix:
Bro u earned my respect cus u always speak facts. U have a fan here.

ProphetJeroboam:
A slight dip in frame and a woman will not hesitate to make a fool of a man she once held in high regard. The average woman knows she is nothing special, it is a terrible sin to prove her wrong.

Martinez39s:
I don't know what is wrong with the western world. What were they expecting? It's the taliban for goodness sake. I laughed as well.

Lol. I saw her as cautious, not really submissive. In the presence of a gun and in a situation and area where any misbehaviour could result in death, both men and women would behave themselves and had that same demeanour. Even the radical feminists would shudder in fear. Am I missing something?

Till evening, bro.

Dizzyyish:
Women are very similar to children in many ways---emotionally, physically (compared to men), logically, etc. If you look at women like kids (or juvenile adults), a lot of their actions and behaviours starts to "make sense."

Kids are naturally solipsistic/egocentric.
If you give/gift a child something, it's socially frowned upon to take it back, and since women are more 'shrewd/aware' in social situations, they have the added ability of employing 'shame tactics' (not unlike some kids anyway) to get their way.
If a kid gifts you something and later wants it back for whatever reason, they won't hesitate nor contemplate "dignity" because they're "helpless" and "weak" compared to you.

"A man's facade of strength is his weakness, a woman's facade of weakness is her strength."

If you don't control or 'take charge' of a child, the child will disrespect and take advantage of you. They'll hit, slap or insult you without a second thought because "adults" will back them up if you retaliate (especially after utilising their tear ducts to show their "innocence." )
"Leave am, na pikin.."--"Leave am, she be woman."

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ndX2RFHmMNg
(55 seconds video). She how she slapped him without hesitation, was shocked that her actions have consequences and then other men rushed and beat up him up.
Also, the guy proceeded to sue the show, win, and become an actor whereas the lady's career is seemingly ruined (I'm not promoting violence but I'm not promoting being a simp/doormat either).

You'll hear "A real man wouldn't/shouldn't..", "Aren't you ashamed?", "You be man oh", etc.
But like Esther Vilar stated-- "Any qualities in a man that a woman finds useful (in this case, gifts and money), she calls masculine, all
others, of no use to her or to anyone else for that matter, she chooses to call
effeminate."

"Once a woman realises she can get through life on her looks, her mind stops maturing."
As a man, you probably dreamt of being an astronaut, a prince or your favourite fictional character when you were younger but you grew older, became matured, and left those dreams behind.
Little girls are 'taught' to marry rich men that will take care of them. They get older but still retain this 'ideology'.
Once they acknowledge this "reality", their development is likely stunted, they put in less effort/work into their growth and retain neotenic mindsets and behaviours, which is further reinforced by society giving women child-like benefits and accountability (or lack thereof).

Martinez39s:
In other news, look at the Talibans' reaction when a CNN reporter, an American woman, asked them if they will support democracy and women's right, even the right of women to attain leadership positions. Where is DEMZEE (JESHAL) when you need him? What do you think DEMZEE? The video is 34-seconds long.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3Q0uKizAgyI

One of these days, I am looking forward to discussing women's rights with redpillers here. It would be interesting.

Saviolamemphix:
Even quavo collect him Bentley from saweti who com b me

If i gift u anything and and i notice say u no worth am ah go collect am

According to pansophist never b a gentle man to a shameless woman.

Junnior:
I finally have a lil time to spare to read the self improvement books I have accrued over the past 3 years.

How do you suggest that I go about reading them in order to get the most from them?
I don't want to be overwhelmed, but I want to make sure I properly digest them.

Any tip would be appreciated.


Skepticus, Undercover, Caveadullam martinez32 bloodysperm, et al.

Martinez39s:
Your initial post illustrated the hard truth of a particular "logic" and "ethics" which many men abide by. Also, unlike what someone is trying to insinuate, Regex never said you were wrong or that there is a problem with your write up (he admittedly had not read it before posting). It is one thing to say that there is nothing wrong in collecting your stuff back, it is another to note that one has to be cautious on how you do it. You even acknowledged this by mentioning "discretion". Caution was never a reason why many simps don't collect their stuffs back; it is ego and dignity, and we have heard this many times. That's what you were addressing.

Your concern was simply if the action itself is okay or not, and how women exploit the ego and "dignity" of men in this aspect. Don't go back and forth with that guy. Staunch regulars of the ashewo threads lack logical prowess and emotional control. Don't roll in the mud with them by taking them seriously. A bunch of them came in during that argument with Ubunja to plant mischief and they have been hovering here ever since and trying so hard to act like they are redpillers, they know game/redpill, and/or they've got it. They know themselves.

Tonnyray:
Lol. Lilke seriously?
I’ll start by saying this: a major hallmark of truly intelligent people is they NEVER downplay the intelligence of others.
If it’s not already part of the red pill I suggest we incorporate integrity as vital to the dogma. What is with throwing shades about? You said this:

Then you went ahead to say this:

And then it’s nothing personal. No insults intended. OMG.. LOL
Like Yorubas always say, “Eefin niwa” meaning human nature is like smoke.. it cannot but seep out no matter how hard they try to conceal it. It’d have been more "redpilled" to come at Tonnyray directly and not through these puerile shades. That’s what Alphas do. Not because I’m exactly ready to engage and wallow in the mire with you, as that totally defeats the essence and intended trajectory of this red pill thread but so neutral readers whose opinions are being formed understand your approach is a total low.

Saviolamemphix:
Even quavo collect him Bentley from saweti who com b me

If i gift u anything and and i notice say u no worth am ah go collect am

According to pansophist never b a gentle man to a shameless woman.

Regex:
May I add to this particular issue?

Although I didn't read completely what you wrote Skept, which I will after this, I want to state something.

Whether you will take back your stuff or you will let it go, all depends on you.

IF you would take back what you bought her you have to be very careful here's why.

A lot of men are still thirsty simps who would do anything to get into her pants (your now ex), you might in the process of getting your things have a fall out with her or she being clever might make you look horrible in the street that men would beat you up if not kill you without knowing what transpired.

Her new boyfriend in order to impress her by attacking you when you want to get your stuff. A lot of things may happen in between.

Verdict: If you want your things back, go ahead and do it, however do it discreetly.

Tonnyray:
Pretty skewed narrative here and it's sad.
Fortunately nobody knows Tonnyray as well as Tonnyray.
Fortunately Tonnyray does not win your love or pussy by buying you stuff. Tonnyray rewards consistent good behavior by buying you stuff.. and this is even the cheapest of his rewards Tonnyray's greatest reward is his time and attention. When he chooses to spend the time he should have used for 4 other bitches on just you, you're special.
We all have our individual philosophies in life. Man is a provider is one of mine. If I have no issues with you using your Atlas physique and 9" dick to give DJ Cuppy mindblowing orgasms and even fleece her of cash, why should you have an issue with Tonnyray buying an Access bank chick he's been fvcking steadily for over 2 months a 50k phone to replace the one presently malfunctioning or was stolen such that she's had to resort to a temporary Nokia torch phone? And yes I'm recounting real life scenarios here. The Whatsapp medium gone? At least 75% of my communication with females is via Whatsapp for crying out loud.
Tonnyray showed real life screenshots of at least 7 females he outrightly rejected any billing from but you had nothing to say about it.. such that some guy said Tonnyray wicked pass the so-called redpillers sef Meanwhile those were the ones I showed cos I was tired of having to edit their names and faces and other incriminating details out. This phone is even just about a year old. You cannot count the number on previous phones. So far Tonnyray has also given away 2 laptops in the last 3 years (each of which was used for about 2 years) to his guys who badly needed them. Simping too right? Dude stay with what and who you know.
Getting back stuff you gave unconditionally from your girl is petty and weak. I stand by my philosophy.
Everyone is entitled to his.
And like I said what I've given is gone. No emotional attachment.
What you give first of all leaves your mind, heart and consciousness before it leaves your hands.. at least so it should be.
There are some things some of us imbibed as intrinsic to manliness right from our late teens into early adulthood and beyond. Being petty is not one of such. A man can feel free to collect even the undies he bought for his ex right there in the club. It's his prerogative. In my world it's a show of weakness. I thought you guys agree a man should not overly invest emotions into relationships with these vagina people.. so what does collecting back stuff connote to you? Were you using stuff to tie the bitch down? It's as lame as a bitch hiring cultists to beat up a guy for breaking up with or cheating on her. Won't you say it's a sick emotional response? What is now wrong if I hold on to the philosophy that such emotional response is unbecoming of a man?
I don't give what I can't afford to lose. That's common sense.
I reward, I don't buy or induce or entice. That's my modus operandi.
My person and the very ambience around me does the attracting.
Her character determines how long I continue the sexual relations with her.. 3 months, a year or I dick 3 or 4 times and kick her phat ass back to the streets.

By the way luminouz is very much with us.. I got "him" figured out already.
Resting that moniker was a given after all that played out sometime back.
And it's always fun watching things play out naturally

Jessepaid:
hehehe...


Na for music production that's all...


Those p square folks don't play with money oo..


My advice to him is to let the children go else


He will lose his fortune trying to keep them...


When they are of age, they will come to him by themselves..

gameboy727:
Your 2nd paragraph weren't my words. I never insinuated that sef. However, I agree with you that a man who gets cheated on can also get his pound of flesh in whatever way he deems fit as long as no one gets physically hurt.

Martinez39s:
Imagine if a woman cheated and the husband took the kids away, used them as a bargaining chip and started fleecing her financially. Tell me people will think it's okay?

MJBOLT:

taking the kids abroad was every strategic, even if she loses the alimony case, child support will go through.

Jessepaid:
thats why she took them abroad...


To Inflate the cost of the spousal support...


I tire for woman I swear...

Martinez39s:
If a woman gets cheated on by her spouse, it is okay for her to get her pound of flesh.

When a man gets cheated on, he should move on and not get his pound of flesh even if it means collecting all he bought for her. Why? Because he is a man and has dignity.

SMH.

DissTroy:
That's why FFK would continue to be the safest politician and 'activist' in Nigeria. His 'adversaries' know he holds no substance or isn't a threat - just another hustler trying to get a meal from the national table.
He's likely the politician with the least likelihood of being assassinated that's why he freely travels from state to state and even announcing his itinerary online.

Zabiboy:
Nor be this guy quarrel with his twin bro bcz of him wife that year? Abi something like that..

Anyways, person talk say we be coward bcz we wan enjoy our lives by ourselves so this kind new nor suppose concern me
Goodluck to non-cowards abi brave men

kepstone:
Hussle oooo Money is very good. Inside life this the money some people will never make in the whole of their life time na him person carry buy metal with foams, with electrical wire and stiring. Kai Brodas Hussle oooo before the wife wey God ordain for u friend zone you because u no get money. You are convinced God said she is your wife, weytin go convince her na Mula, ego, $$, plenty naira. she nogo hear God oooo if the Mula no dey... Work hard. My ex told me i want to marry her to suffer kai, this stuff entered me and she followed Mercedes benz.
The Keyword is brodas Hussle

zinaunreal:
Russia and China have fought wars in Afghanistan. They won't dare go back. Its not about Taliban. The countrys terrain is very hard to fight battles. That country is a land of war. Theirs is a different matter . As for Nigeria, no Islamic sect can take over the South. They wouldn't even dare

CaveAdullam:
Skepticus and Martinez39s, food is ready. It was served hot with some sausage rolls today.

Lol.

Buckeyemedia1:
Then Federal Government should scrap NYSC, then make it mandatory 2 year enrollment in the armed forces for all physically fit youths under 25, Boko Haram & ISWAP will disappear in 5 years.