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SweetVibe:
I have a quesion for the redpillers

Will being an Alpha male with great body stop your woman from cheating on you?

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Not at all. Having both money and a good body game won't stop her from cheating either.

It's not WHOLLY in your power to have the vagina gender stick to you only (except in the past where the social environment restricted women's natural tendency for hypergamy). That is why the red pill discourages oneitis in men. In this modern age, if you find a lady who does that and not henpeck you nagging while she is with you, you are extremely lucky.

Martinez39s:
As an atheist, I would say the mythical character called Jesus exhibited discipline and 100% focus in fulfilling in his mission on earth. He didn't let any pùssy or lust derail him.

Prominent simps in the bible are King Ahab, King Solomon, King David (he simped big time for a moment), Samson, and King Herod (who beheaded John the Baptist just to please a woman).

Your last paragraph described it as should be.

Most of the biblical characters had their status (money, fame and power) by inheritance or natural gift/talent of strength, and leadership. These impress men and attract women but when it came to their dealings with women, some were complete wussies played by women. Jesus Christ, at any point in time, never strayed away from his mission, never distracted by women nor other weak men he encountered. That's red pill to me.

Oyin2212:
You made a mistake bro. It's *Never place Women above your purpose*

Ohhh... Thank you.

It was a typing error. I didn't notice till you brought my attention to it. No wonder some guys got it confused. At least, most folks here know that i meant the opposite of the error in that comment.

It has been corrected.

Skepticus:
Aswear! You just have to deal with women in the opposite way of whatever way you have been raised to deal with them.

I would never advise anyone to be like the boys I described. However, there is one major thing to pick from them which is red-pilled to its core: Never place women above your purpose above even if your purpose is to be "purposeless" in life. The moment you do otherwise, you are done for, as a man, regardless of your experience or your relationship with the female gender.

These guys (purposeless dudes) revel in their "non-self improvement/depreciating lives" so much that a woman is not placed above it, making them have "success" with these ladies and passing their genes on.

NYCnextStop:
And rich guys don't masturbate, rich guys don't get rejected, rich guys don't get cheated on... mtcheew

Attraction is non negotiable. Stop confusing G.

Know when to end an argument. It's not about winning but laying your facts out in a respectable manner that makes the other man see your point, even if they don't totally agree with you.

You might just be feeding a troll which the moniker really is.

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Credit: Naija MGTOW Facebook

Martinez39s:
Even in the 1930s, we still had the prince Harry kind of simps.

The english monarchy has a rich history of men abandoning royalty just to please vaginas. Prince Harry isn't the first.

Just look at the photo. It isn't hard to tell the dominant person in their union.

DieRich5:
I dislike boys wit dis behavior, na dis kind people I nor Dy help cus I kn Dem go waste d money on top girls

I encourage men to be KIND/BENEVOLENT to boys/men like I do. From my personal experience, only boys/men will stand for you in the toughest/harshest of life experiences. Expecting that from women who are biologically-unrelated to you is like placing your feet in quick sand. You may be "extremely lucky" to meet helpful unrelated females though. Cherish them but use your head.

For the guys, use your discretion when a lady (or ladies) is/are involved. Some SIMPs don't mind throwing you under the bus to impress a worthless pussay.

Emotionss:
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Ubanja. Salvation is not meant for everyone so also not everyone can be a Redpiller not matter how hard you try to convince them.

Any man that feels without money he can't sex a Nigerian woman should please continue spending and paying for sex be it directly or indirectly....

Those who are matured, bold and experience enough to approach and successfully sex a woman without using money should continue with their Game.


BREAKING NEWS!!!!

Please oooo if your girlfriend stays at old G.R.A port harcourt and her name sounds like Mona Lisa and you just transferred 300k to her for family emergency, please note that there's a 90% possibilities (Abi na probabilities ?) That she is the one currently laying down on my bad after Our Afternoon Exercise and that 300k family emergency money you just transferred has entered voicemail ooo.

Las last we go dey alright.

I won't argue anything with anyone again (concerning this issue) nor blame/curse Nigerian women for asking and taking the money of SIMPs. It's a waste of time. The ego of some dude(s), is "heavily bruised" in this discussion. To them, it's about competition.

Make a fortune of the ignorance of this men and play it to your advantage.

Any further "shalaye" (explanations) is useless.

Gregjo summed it all below:

GregJo:
“You have to understand , most of these people are not ready to be unplugged. And many of them are so inert, so hopelessly dependent on the system that they will fight to protect it” - Morpheus


This thread has become popular; thus attracted many guys who although dig the red pill message but still have that blue pill fantasy (the matrix)

Someone said here:



I hate to break it to you but that's just another blue pill fantasy you're trying to achieve. That's exactly what the matrix (society) wants you to do. You're basically a slave to the system.

Women, blue pilled men, everyone will tell you to go make money (and shame you if you don't) because that's exactly what you're useful for. To be a slave. Nothing else.

Money is a tool of civilization and whether you agree with me or not Civilization breeds weakness. I'd go as far as saying Civilization is completely UNNATURAL. TRP is the complete antithesis of Civilization. If everyone becomes red-pilled, society collapses.

The simple fact is you're going to find it very hard to be a Red Piller in a Blue pill world. Many of us here will try to reconcile these RP nuggets we read here, but in the real world, they simply cannot be applied completely.

Ninejaywon:
You are spot on. When I was in festac, my dick almost pulled out and I billed those women no be small. See smooth chicks giving you pussies for free. But these girls had the money. They were only after the dick game and the muscles. Neighborhood matters too. Poor neighborhood have hungry looking girls just out for the cash. But in rich neighborhood, if you as a guy have ur shit together with swag, muscles, with no cash, u will hit the spot to stupor.

Even in poor neighbourhoods, hungry-looking girls still dey dish that pussay for those yeye boys wey be like who no get future but know the "game" and still package dey bill guys wey no sabi anything outside money. Guys wey get future sef, are not left out.

I saw it all living and working in Yenagoa, Warri, Owerri and Lagos. Abuja not left out. Broke futureless boys are terrible in that Yenagoa - slaying pussays endlessly. The same girls go package go Port Harcourt and you'll see men with money and their life, organized, worshipping dem like say dem no dey shiit.

It only takes a few minutes for a girl to know if you are game-conscious. If she is money-hungry, she go avoid you (knowing that she can't manipulate a game-conscious man) but still has her eye on you. If u nor "sabi", na taxing straight.

It's shocking to see that a lot of guys don't know/see these things. I just weak.

babyfaceafrica:
This is just partly true. You can't get any woman you want without money, that's false!!.. In reality there are some ladies you can only hit with MONEY!!!!.. No Matter your game, some ladies won't give you coochie without CASH!!..

By MONEY, I want to believe that you are talking about cash that you part with, that takes a significant portion of whatever amount of money you are earning. Not the refreshments money or the small cash disposables here and there you do for benevolence (kindness).

There are ladies who won't give you coochies without CASH, no doubt. When you are dealing with these types, know you are in a PROSTITUTION deal - basic fact. Better go pay a hooker and you'll get the same deal without much stress than in a deal with a girlfriend who will give you billing (for different things) before you see her panties. This is how a lot of simps get emotionally attached to women who don't chose them (find them sexually attractive) because of their "financial investments" - plain gold digging game played on them.

And if you are bent on continuing to deal with a lady who is not posing as a hooker, but is giving you stringent conditions (a clear sign of low interest) before hitting the coochie, then you are a thirsty oneitis fool. If you have these types in rotation, then you are SIMPING PLATES - not spinning plates.

The issue in contention here is clear to me now. Most Nigerian Men are SIMPs still clouded in a blue pilled mentality. It's not a crime nor a bad thing though.

Trying to unplug from the blue pill is difficult even for those who claim to be red-pilled, as the dating market is oversaturated with pussay-thirsty, money-paying fools who make it seem like nigerian women are ONLY MONEY-HUNGRY and don't have inner/innate lust for men that tickle their fantasies . It's understandable. Since Nigerian women know that the average Nigerian man is an ignorant simp obsessed with impressing women with money, he bills him, even if she finds him sexually attractive as a shiit test, if the fool fails by obliging and parting a way with cash that affects his earning significantly, he may or may not get the coochie. If she doesn't deal, then she is not attracted to you anyway and a slut - discard her quickly.

babyfaceafrica, what I want you to know is that the coochie you paid 5k - 10 million naira for is (or can be potentially) fûcked for free or almost free. It's happening around you and if you are not "looking" you won't see. I've experienced it a few times.

The girl telling you to part with some money before you see her pants already sense that you are hopelessly thirsty (which is what she sees from the Nigerian men she meets who have their brains move to their dicks when they see a woman), and plays it to her advantage. If you expect the girl to tell you that she has a guy she is gobbling her semen for free while still billing you 300k to gobble yours, then you know nothing about women or how they operate.

I'm not trying to get you to believe or accept that it happens (women giving some men free what they give/or not give in manipulation to other men for cash). I'm just laying it down for you to see what is happening under your nose, not to win an argument or "entertain" feminine clowns.

In fact, I hope that a lot of men like you don't understand the deep, dark secrets of female nature because you will never trust them and when you can't trust them, you can't be manipulated easily. Also, you'll make less effort in contributing to the blue pilled system that makes men highly ignorant so that they can slave for the society and women. Anything against this, society will collapse. The illusion of happiness in the typical blue pilled modern monogamous marriages is encouraged for this reason.

Joker09:
Did you mean to write 'Never place women above your purpose no matter how "purposeless" this purpose is'?.

Yes. It is women choosing who to fûck (sexually attractive) and while some of their reasons have an evolutionary (biological and psychological) background, they make almost no sense when a man tries to look at it, "logically". This "logic" causes so much confusion for undiscerning men that they look at women as crazy. In their lack of understanding, they throw money out and get played.

At this stage of my life, I've seen it all with women and I'm not big on the sex thing again as I was when I was in my 20s and early 30s. After seeing everything, you'll find out that "pussay" is almost a needless distraction in the longer game of a purposeful life.

Despite all of that I said above I would never deny it that Ubunja and other brothers are revealing significant facts about the shiit show that the modern dating scene is now. Some of these facts have logical explanations. Some others make no sense (to a man's logical reasoning). It is what it is.

You don't have to like game nor use it. Understand it for what it is. If brothers think it is money, I'll advise them to just get a prostitute. Their transaction is more "honest" when compared to the Nigerian girls in formal relationship that typically like money.

N.A.W.A.L.T

#RedPill #Mgtow

N.A.W.A.L.T

#MGTOW

tosaino95:
Girls never ceased to surprise with their nonsense nature.

Aswear! You just have to deal with women in the opposite way of whatever way you have been raised to deal with them.

I would never advise anyone to be like the boys I described. However, there is one major thing to pick from them which is red-pilled to its core: Never place women above your purpose above even if your purpose is to be "purposeless" in life. The moment you do otherwise, you are done for, as a man, regardless of your experience or your relationship with the female gender.

These guys (purposeless dudes) revel in their "non-self improvement/depreciating lives" so much that a woman is not placed above it, making them have "success" with these ladies and passing their genes on.

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] You cannot be like "Dagger" or " Ubunja" When you're stuck in a blue pilled reality... All Redpilled to get the best out of The Red pill must aim THROUGH GAME to have realities and the mindsets of them Daggers and Ubunjas of this world especially in a society as unique as ours or else one way or another you all are f**ked. Tis what it is..[/color]

I believe you.

You can't save everyone, though!

Sapy442:
You are one of the guys in here who have an open mind to game and life like Ubunja and a very few others

Alot of guys here have a very closed mind about this Red Pill and will argue with anything that contradicts their already made up opinion of things.
Like Rollo Tomassi will always say about INTERNALIZING the red pill, it's like changing a religion. I think if you want to see the closest practice of what Ubunja preaches you'll have to move away a bit from major Nigeria cities. Go to the middle belt and a host of villages. While serving in benue I saw broke dudes with the finest gals. I saw thugs get laid line no tomorrow. It's not all like that here in the South East, where money comes first it exist though but in a different and more polite form.

In the neighborhood where I grew up, I know boys who (up to this moment) spend their entire 24 hours smoking weed, doing hard drugs. Dirty and dusty. These guys range from 17 - 33 years in age. Knowing a few of them personally, these guys are making every effort in this world not to self improve (they are not even attempting internet fraud like the other young people do), they just hang out in street corners, uncompleted buildings begging for crumbs from neighbourhood dudes, smoking all brands of weed, crack cocaine, popping pills like rohypnol etc. Almost all of them I knew had baby mamas who they met as virgins or with few body counts in their youthful prime. I may be giving off personal information here but I knew one who had 3 baby mamas different women. The guy (his nickname was "Dagger" ) is about 5'5 tall, skinny, spots dreadlocks with burnt charred lips. I met one of his fair, cute baby mamas later in the wealthiest neighborhood of the city. A girl I would rate as a 7 - 8 (very attractive), giving a rich successful bros "headache" in the city much later. In my mind, I was like if this guy knew the dirty broke nonsense guy this girl has fûcked (and probably still fûcking), he would sit down and give himself multiple hard knocks on the head for being a thirsty fool. Na mumu (which most guys are), girls dey "package" for.

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] ....Again with the GIRLS, GAME 101: All pussy are the same. You must be redpilled but methinks you're one shtick away from relapse with this your woebegone defeatist, low self esteem train of thought...To you, the match is over even before you've played the Game. Have you wondered how 'broke' pastors get followership? You talk as if Nigeria is the worse place on earth....Even in the worse places on earth MAGICAL THINGS do happen..But I must reiterate that your mindset is aligned all wrong, you must work on yourself and your self esteem else you will be like that eagle that doesn't fly but walk.....Which is a blue pillled trait.[/color]

Joker09 is making his position based on his reality and most of other Nigerian men. So far, their position is entirely true and this position is what you'll get in an environment where 99% of the men (rich or poor) are neck deep in the blue pill.

Since these are the type of men, nigerian women engage daily, they "operate" or deal with these men at the level of understanding they expect them to be. When you approach a Nigerian woman as a Nigerian man, she expects you to be ignorant of women's hidden true nature (which they expose sometimes, but men don't see as they are not "looking" ) because it what most Nigerian men are.

A country full of rich/poor tricks (money-paying magas), having the world's highest number of men raising other men's kids in paternity fraud is not one that would easily understand game on a deeper level. Understanding this will help your game in a country full of irredeemable SIMPs.

Something worthy of note is that when you are exposed to women this easy, you'll see that pussay is overrated and you'll forever be distrusting of women - Redpill 2.0

Joker09:
I never said anyone should loose guard when it comes to dealing with women when you're rich. It's what I said this;

Your own duty as a redpiller/gamer is to level up financially and get these chics for free and not spend a dime on them, but let them see signs of wealth in you.(that's only if you want to be having sex with different girls).

Broke guys living with their parents and getting girls could come from well to do homes, this is enough for most girls to offer them sex.
Most hot Nigerian girls will not date or have anything to do with broke guys in Nigeria, it's the sad reality.

We are saying the same thing.

At the bolded last paragraph, it is not entirely true from my experience (not my reality) with women in my dusty days but I would not argue against yours because it is useless trying to project individual experiences on others because there are tons of nuances/factors that affect how we view and understand things.

So far, the experiences of those who have contributed to the arguments is "educative". In the end, you pick what works for you.

Joker09:
Let's not forget that there nothing like 'love'. No girl can truly love you. You can only get high interest and low interest. We are not saying game is bad or money is everything, we are just saying the reality of things with most Nigerian girls, they're very money conscious and they always put money first. They'll rather fvck the hot rich guy than fvck the hot broke guy. Most times, the hot Nigerian girls don't even let broke guys get close at all. So it's better to get both money and game.

Get the money for yourself and use the game for women.

However, broke guys who have game and her street smart (they are not much though) are equally getting their share of pussay (ladies in their youthful prime). If you have lived in the North Central part of Nigeria down to all the regions of the south (South East, South West and the South South), you'll see "average" guys between 15 and 28 (most are broke and still living with their parents) have baby mamas of girls between ages 16 and 25. Those without kids have tons of abortions. I've seen it first hand. Completely broke and useless guys who are doing everything possible not to ever self improve, getting girls in their youthful prime pregnant. These set of girls (which most guys will meet when they are on their way to improving their lives) will never let you get access to their coochies without "paying" (and other conditions) if they see you have your shiit together or have the potential of having a great future.

Do these girls like money or are attracted to "signs" of money like all Nigerian women do? - The answer is YES

Your reality about Nigerian women is right and if you throw out the money, they will go for it and see you just for that - An ATM. Always try to look deeper than what you are shown. Only a woman will tell you openly how broke and disgusting a guy is but go and fûck him right behind you and probably have a baby for him. The same chick is billing you and won't let you get down if she thinks you have money or is focused on making money.

Know your "value" to women.

Zabiboy:
Mehn.... I'm learning alot
At first, someone said stipends on pvssy is "MANLY"
Now, if the hoe you claim is your wife/babe( cz las las, anybody interested in getting married would deff marry a hoe.. But lets not go there) "MISTAKENLY HAVE SEX", its "MATURITY" to accept the child and forgive
Interesting

They always expose themselves. Lol

Stupidquestions:
Let me share a similar experience.
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It happened that for some reason for abt 3-Sundays I consistently contributed to donation being raised in church for a project. Along the line, a new babe in church had been giving me green light but I've been acting indifferent.
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Then through youth meeting, one Sunday, I decided to break the ice and gave her little attention.
Afterwards she started being nice, call and all...and when I returned her call she flatters me and talk sweetly...she also tried to push the conversation to romance side...I was aware and picking my words.
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Then one sunday evening, during that familiarizing, I called her to come see me at a bar..she said ok...then she stood me up and gave flimsy excuse not to come after first saying she was coming.......
To me, that was a red flag. I snubbed her for days...and this time she dint call too. Then like over a week, I went on a date with another babe, at a bar close to her schl....I've even forgotten abt her, then her call came in.
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...i picked it. She exchanged pleasantries, I was casual and she asked where I was, I told her when did she start asking where I was? She toned down a bit and we ended the call..
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After my date left the bar, and because It was close to her hostel, I decided to call her to say I want to stop by at her place, that I'm closeby.. she welcomed it.
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It was my first time visiting. My intention was to address her previous bad behavior and whine her..
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We seated in a classroom...there were couple of other people....so our gist became fun and interesting after the whole initial accusations and redress.
She was quite interesting and bold. She started getting sexual verbally, romantic and displayin public affection, and toiling with me...it was cold that day sha....u will tink we were lovers,...I played along..we even pecked.
To cut the story short...just before I left, she started demanding I give her money before I leave...I laughed it off and handled it with humor.. but she started getting serious abt it...that I shd treat like a sister now.
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I was getting embarrassed cos I have a rule of not accedding to a woman's financial demand at the beginning of a parole. I told her to calm down that I dint plan to come see her that it was her call that made me come...I Sha intentionally gave her N200 with shame lol..out of 1200 remaining from my earlier date.....she told me to call her when I get home...I dint but I messaged her..she dint reply.
Following morning she replied..and after greetings she asked me money that she's broke,, that this that that...
Maybe I should have sent her sth, maybe she was truly broke,...cos I felt guilt. But I told her I will send but not now..
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The conclusion is that..she stopped calling or chatting since then...I dint call too..I messaged her On Sunday to come to church.she didn't come nor reply....I've also snubbed her til now
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I'm not so bothered..I'm not sure if I handled it well or not...it's somehow Sha...I'm like so the whole love don end cos she ask me money and I din't send cos I felt it's too early to start on a billing note... u guys can add ur comment.

You didn't do bad. From what you wrote, I can see you had your 6 intact the whole time and didn't let your "sexual urge" over ride your brain. At the time she asked for some money, the sexual urge would over ride the thinking of many guys and that's when they start simping like hell. Most times, you'll never see the pants of ladies who use this "format" plus, they are notorious time wasters.

Life is short. learn to notice time wasters early and drop them off as quick as possible.

Marriage is a wonderful institution invented so that two people could solve together problems they would never had had, had they remained single.

-Mark Twain.

fattprince:
Are you intentionally writing this or you really don't know how to spell males. This the second thread I see you writing mails for males.

It's intentional. Closet and open men-hating feminists (including the nairaland ones) on the internet typically alter the spelling of the word, male to spellings that show their latent hatred for the male gender like "meils" "mails" "scum" etc.

Courtesy of MJBOLT

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[quote author=MJBOLT post=103164944][/quote]MJBOLT, permit me to put this where it's "necessary".

https://www.nairaland.com/6622807/polyandry-outcry-over-south-africas

Ubunja, it seems SA's rising matriarchy you talked about is about to be formally legalized.

King Shaka must be rolling in his grave right now.

IronGalaxy:
I as a South African does not support this decision

SA has been growing in matriarchy in recent years. The usually conservative and hyper patriarch Zulus are now lowering their standards to be "woke" and liberal. King Shaka must be rolling in his grave now.

The future would be interesting to watch.

sweet7oyin:
Women don't have the power because they are looking for or sleeping with powerful men.
That has happened since the beginning of time and men still had the power.

Men did not lose the power because they saw women for only their sexual benefits
Since the beginning of time men have seen women like that and still had the power.

Infact the more powerful a man is the more women he had for just his sexual pleasure check the bible and quran.

Men have stopped seeing themselves as the prize and have started simping more like begging girls to be with them and also by dealing with girls that have low interest in them.

Now talking about the brotherhood you are right.
But feminism is actually a negative to girls and women especially in the west(United States)

Most women about 1 in 4 women are on antidepressants
Most women are single and even reported highest rate of sadness
Infact as feminism has grown women have become less happy.


Actually a man should have his money and know that the women just come to compliment and the big part of that is sex and yes that same sex you can get it from any woman.
There is no chosen woman that would give you more than sex actually.
Cause when you start telling a woman about your problems she starts to complain in the longrun just watch acrimony.
Thats why men should be self sufficient and all.


When you get to a point that your value is evident and you don't see a woman more than sex and sometimes for feminine care.
You become very attractive to them and they don't joke with you Eg wizkid davido and the likes

In summary
Men did not lose power because they are dealing with less valuable women
They lost power because they stopped being the prize and started making women the prize.

Thanks

Valid points.

At the emboldened above, understand that women (of today) are not "single" in the way men understand and experience "singleness". Women are never "single" in the true meaning of the word. Their singleness is a big scam.

I understand what you are driving at, though.

hakym619:
At one glance, it seems that the verse is saying to eliminate all religions and establish Islam only, but that is completely contradictory to the following verses:

“Had your Lord so willed ˹O Prophet˺, all ˹people˺ on earth would have certainly believed, every single one of them! Would you then force people to become believers?” (Quran 10:99).

Therefore do remind, for you (Muhammad) are only a reminder.You are not a watcher over them; (Quran 88:21–22).

There is no compulsion in religion (Quran 2:256).

Say,... “ To you your religion, to me my religion” (Quran Chapter 109)

8:39 is saying to strive until they are not persecuted or driven away or continuously attacked and until they can practice their religion “entirely” (all 5 pillars) without fear. And this verse was applicable for the time period the prophet Muhammad was present

Your "taqqiya" is admirable but be aware that we see through it all.

Good luck to these jihadists. They are the true Muslims.