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supersystemsng:
This lady has presented herself humbly oh..Op where are you.. Tochieee kebi ki na ??

You are sleeping when UPS has brought package for yu...na where you dey oP?

LOL..
I have been busy throughout.
Right now I'm going through comments.
I will reply appropriately.
Thanks for your inputs. You u have ve been here since day one.
I appreciate!

rOsy247:
I have a strong feeling, I know this op. @ skinni

You might be right
But the problem is that we have over 150 million Nigerians, with over 70 million men.
So there are enough people with similar issues than you might think.

alexialin:
And my dear, do you have a problem with that?

Whichever way u read, understand what i type up there is none of your buisness.

You can make yourself available to him if thats your wish.

I no hold your hands, babe.

Its a free world

We are already on front page. Brace yourself for more odd comments".

dammysel:
I wish I can have the nerves to post something like this too

There's nothing difficult about this.
If you are not comfortable with making your identity public, you can hide your ID and post your damn problem.

Nobody will kill you for stating what is bothering you.

horlumightyy:
good gals are scarce but they ar still out dere but d downside is dat u might go tru a couple of bad gals b4 eventually findin dt good gal

I just don't want to believe that good girls are scarce.
I have seen a couple of gals in relationships that seem to look good. Although I'm aware that nothing is perfect but at least.
I just believed that I don't know how to find them, that's why I asked.

Anyway, thanks for dropping by.

Blackhawk01:
Lol. Obviously, he does. He won't let me play my away match in peace.

No oooo, we wee talk about loff oooo . LOL

I'll advice you don't rush things or turn a bad boy because you need a good girl. What if you get a good girl with that but can't manage to keep up with the "acting". Just do you, use this period to improve on yourself, you'll definitely get what you deserve. We've got good girls, trust me. Let love lead one of them to you.

Goodmorning

LOL

Thanks. at least you have finally decided to say something.

Adorbs:
Please, you do not have to be bad to attract a good woman.
A truly good woman can never be interested in a bad guy unless she was never good to begin with.

Thanks..
I ve already made my stance

Lol

Blackhawk01:
Nitori olorun! Who is this enemy of progress biko? I wee cuss you oooo

LOL. Funny you
Pls don't cuss him oo.
He might have known you from somewhere.. you know!

Blackhawk01:
Pay no attention to Superpack abi what's his name...

Lerruz talk about loff

. You are not serious.
I don't want to talk abt loff.
I need ya sincere advice

Blackhawk01:
Trolling? No way! Good girls don't troll.

Been waiting for you all my life


*Runs outta thread*

Hehehe

supersystemsng:
Blackhawk isn't single...don't pay attention to her

I know she's just joking.

Skinni:
Thanks
I will.

Done

supersystemsng:
You are not desperate...DON'T LISTEN TO LIES..I employ you to use some strategies...can you pm me?

Thanks
I will.

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Vivly:
Have you tried being less desperate? It's a huge turn off and a potential relationship killer.
Relax. The right person will come when you life least expect it.

Desperate? Don't think so.
I'm introverted dear. I'm always calm.
In few relationships that I have been, I do give ladies enough space to be themselves.
Except there is another definition for Desperation.
Anyway thanks!

IamAirforce1:
Most good girls find good guys boring and won't take them serious .

They often cheat on the good guys with a bad guy they find interesting.

I get many girls wey dey relate with me berra.

Interesting! but I just don't want to believe this

Blackhawk01:
Search no more, been waiting for you.

LOL. You are trolling me right?
Be very careful oo

alexialin:
Op don't mind peeps saying u should change to a bad guy
If u are naturally a good guy, and u change to bad guy because of having a good woman, my dear u will feel empty and become entangled with your true nature and the make believe nature.
Dont change, u wil just waste precious time pretending to be who u are not. And u will look back and regret afterwards. Cause come what may, u will still end up as you are. How long will u play such role to keep a good girl that drools over a bad guy.

There are good girls out there that crave for a good loyal guy. Be patient. U will have one by your side. Just be patient and work on yourself, your dress code and communication skills. Add swags to it. But dont change to a bad guy.
It doesnt work for every guy out there.

I turned into a semi bad girl thinking it would help my love life cos deep down i cant fully become a bad gurl or slay queen, at the end I felt like a totally different person. Which end up making me feel empty and unfulfilled. So, I went back to the drawing board and retraced my steps back, cut off guys who wants a bad girl ( that tag is not for me) and focus on bn who I am,

Which is a mummy's girl ( even though shes late, am still her girl)

And I love myself die!

I just love who I am now, no apologies whatsoever.

Hate me or love me? I don't care. Its my life.

So have crossed that bridge and am better off this way and at peace inside out.


And I love good guys with sharp dress code, great goals and good communication skills..

Bad guys, I run like kilode from

Wow.. Thanks for your advice.
I appreciate your input.
Lemme keep hoping for someday - a better day like yours

MyNewJackeT:
OP try and get and interesting life and be fun to be with, don't think any girl will come and hangout with you in your boring lifestyle [\b]

[b]try hanging out with friends for a start.

Trust me I do always hangout with my friends.

HungerBAD:
Good girls on the Romance Section.

A lot of them.

Go for mostly those that have contested for Miss Nairaland there, and have their pictures posted all over the internet. Those ones are not shy, and will make a good wife.

Goodluck.

Hmm.. Thanks
I will think about this.

IamAirforce1:
Be a "bad boy" and a good girl would come drooling over you

I have heard this several times but how do I change myself?
I thought people are being advised to change from bad to good? Why should I do otherwise?
I have a very strong Christian background. I can't just give in to some things. Most of my friends have tried to force some certain lifestyle yet I hardly succumb.
I just can't

Ballmer:
Dude am assuming you ain't gonna get lucky because am not Jesus. My advice is sample enough relationships possibly without sex to avoid your judgment being clouded n determine which girl you can live with. Your context of righteous can n will only lead to ceaseless heartbreaks. Sorry am a pessimist judging from experience.

I have tried this part yet no success. I can't seem to understand why

I'm a guy of 28 years but I have a serious problem.
Throughout my life I have never been in any 'serious' relationship. Although I have had couple of relationships in the past but most of them fizzled out just like that. In fact, few girls that I have been with were never committed.

I must say that I'm introverted, so I have only been into few relationships.

But that aside, I just realised that most girls that I have wasted my time with; were nothing to write home about. And I find it very hard pretending to be in a relationship that isn't heading anywhere.

My own case is just simple, once I discover that a girl is neither truthful nor committed, I will just quit the friendship.

I'm the kind of person that can't date two ladies at the same time. This makes me to always be out of relationship for long before I could find another.

My friends do call me pastor because once in a relationship with any girl, I can never enter into another.
But my only problem now is how to know and meet a very nice lady. A lady who is sincere. A lady that is dependable. A lady that has conscience.

The last girl that I broke up with was so terrible that I am now even scared to approach any other lady. I don't want to waste another part of my life in an unserious relationship. It weighs me down.

Guys please i need advice.
How do I get to meet a good girl?
What signs should I look for? What will the body language look like?
Please I need sincere advice.