₦airaland Forum

NwaAmaikpe:




A well deserved win to Kidjo.
The content of her songs are out of this world. She is a mix of Maya Angelou and Miriam Makeba.

Music lovers and genuine content critics like myself would have given up on the credibility and essence of the Grammy Awards if another undeserving artiste had won this.

Sentiments aside, Nigeria is yet to replicate another Fela Kuti in the global music sphere.
Fela is the only Nigerian deserving of a Grammy.

Because music is not about dancesteps or groupie trends but about a movement, a message, reawakening a consciousness and yet the melody.
This is a reality lost on today's Nigerian artistes aside from Asa who lacks in consistency.

Till your music can be accepted by Pastors, Imams, Youths, elders, global leaders, United Nations and illiterates, then you stand a chance of being an African Album or winning a foreign award in Music.

Nigeria and Nigerians must understand that club bangers do not translate to foreign awards in global music.

Gbam!!!

Certifiedbadman:
There are certain habit people exibit after sex,which is totally bad... They are as follows.
1. Never be in a rush to pee after sex, if need be not, snuggle alittle, to avoid acidifying the spermatozoa
2. Never take plenty of food or wine after sex, it drainges down your total system function.
3. Never use any methol instrument or cream after sex, to avoid being minimizing your erectile strength.
4. NEVER Sit in a postrated position, it damages the pelvix.
thank you and be cautioned.

A big hokum......I even confirmed it from a chief medical officer in one of this federal teaching hospital that it's a pure myth....lie kee you there op....I read about this fake research a while ago. ..

BadRadio:
answer ur question

That question is directed at you...dumbfvck

BadRadio:
this is an Expo.

it's a simple strategy that works everytime.

if a man has cash to spend or throw around on women of his choice or taste he wouldnt waste precious time focusing on u. He ll just go out there and pick anyone his likes, so long he s got the money.

Smart ladies understands this trick. that broke guys are the ones who usually falls in love (that is konji love). At the end of the day he wants to use his sweet mouth to get u to fall for him with the things u hear so u can give him free sex.

You keep exposing yourself......you suppose to ask why do broke guys date broke girls......why can't broke guys date rich girls to update their status.....

vincentjk:
A yoruba man once told my dad that he can't do things(eg. business) with his fellow yoruba men because they're extremely corny lol

If you go ahead to date him don't expect him to protect you in times of danger because most of them are cowards

Stupid bigot oshi.

marttol:
she is my gf...though we just started

Very soon you oga go knack her....it's a bitter truth pill to swallow....

BadRadio:
huh?

You dey lie joor.....I asked you a question you know gree reply?

Sugarrveiii:
my friends r like u guys r very stingy n ain’t open minded towards women

That talk na lie abeg jawre.....Yoruba guys ain't stingy...person wey stingy go stingy it's not about one particular tribe .

ignis:
Please run for your life..... Afonjas are dangerous

Hate kill you there......

BadRadio:
pls help guys... what do I do?

Troll ni eh

superfitsez:
ewu

Where are you based?

Mstick:
My dear it’s funny how this “men” think they can keep eating their cakes and having it because they have a different sex organ.


After I spent over eight years in school then someone will come and tell me how I should act and feel because they’re “men”.

You must be a Dr or MSc degree holder

Whatisdis now.....rabbish ...do pm my friend.

tommyken:
Last month I discover she was cheating on me which she apologise and beg me to forgive her but I just pretend to forgive her while I search for another girlfriend. After then I demote her emotionally to my sex object.I began to have rough sex with her with anger whenever we make love which sometimes she will began to cry with tears that I should take it easy am hurting her pussy.

Yesterday afternoon as she was leaving my house after a very long and rough sex I just looked at her with pity and my conscience began to trouble me. I began to feel I should have simply left her when she cheated but then again the unforgiving demon in me will tell me I did the right thing.
Please before you condemn me remember I used to treat her well until she cheated on me.

Continue jawre she is enjoying it ooo...

omron:
I Have a girlfriend who does this too but I fight it and I reported her to her mother and family members and our church priiest and they all warned her after that she stopped the habit.
Its a very bad habit and u must take it from her ....Then for a while go and disable fingerprint and use pattern she can never break into ur phone again ....I hate that attitude die ....

You must be a troll...

Microwhy:
Have you ever toast a Hausa fulani girl and fuccck her apart from those escort you will pay instantly for their service?
Hey ! I am asking you..

I dated one back then in Bida, Niger state

idoms:
If you never chook Hausa/Fulani babe. You still be virgin. Those women sabi mehnn!!!

You made me remember 2009 in Bida back then.....Meimuna wan finish me that time, fresh skin with nice boobi and ukwu, na me run for the babe.....she call tire I know pick again.

Lamanii22:
Your husband has ojukokoro.... I wouldn't exchange my car laye laye...

And to think you believe this fake story.....

elmagnifico411:
Anono why d guy still dey look for change in that ashawo he called his wife.. and him go still dey make love with her so?? Hian! Me I no fit oh.. Na another thing I go dey imagine for my head.

I dey tell you my bro...so disgusting

whatdowomenwant:
I'm getting my senses back. I'm just completely amazed that this is happening to us. You need to see us. You need to see my wife. She's an angel (Lord please). She's revered in my family.

This world is somehow sha

Please remove "us" from this your statement.....you need to started acting single because she will never stop no matter what.....she has seen you as a sissy or preferably simp...so better start planning your life without her before she kills you....

tunjilana:
Oga you are not talking like u are willing to do what is necessary...even if DNA proves her right still let her go...And if u dont wanna do that for whatever reason...do things differently this time


Firstly call her family and let them know clearly all she has done...let them knw that if it ever happens again it is the end

Tell her clearly no deleting of messages and clear access to all her phones and social media account...If she objects and says some "control" bullshit...let her go

Tell her no flirting in whatever way...not even a wink ...no association with any man she has had stuff with in the past...nothing join them

Everywhere she needs to go other than where u both knw ....then u must knw...else she is out that very day

Subject her to clear rules that help u monitor her ways...if she objects free her immediately...she's already garbage

Lastly.....start having it in your end and living like u are single...in case she fails and u have to leave...also do ur will and properly define who gets what...let family knw her ways in case she plans u


If u look at the stress involved in keeping tabs on this loose canon u will see that it is way easier to let her go.....

Gbam!!!!

whatdowomenwant:
Really? I'm not in control?

I'm getting my control no matter what. DNA going on this week. She even believes that DNA will prove her right. I'll be watching

Lord please help me

It will shock you that she will rig the DNA test if you act slow during the process....you don't know woman sha ....just dey look in 3D...

whatdowomenwant:
IS MY WIFE STILL CHEATING? (2)

After much anger and shouting and reporting to one of her sister who is a woman of God, though I told her to not tell other members of the family. I really don't want my wife disgraced.

My wife has confessed to me that she only had an affair with two men since we have been married. And that it was in 2015. That she did it to make some money to take care of herself because according to her, things were rough for us at that time. Although I find that funny because she has never done any major thing at my house since we got married. She has never paid rent, never paid school fees, never paid hospital bills, or even giving me any cash money to support myself. Yes, I know we had some challenges around 2014 and 2015 but we were still okay - compared to most families. I don't know what to believe.

About the chats, she says that she may have chatted in those ways but she didn't have an affair with them, that she was just having some chatting fun and letting the chat flow. I insisted that there was a heart connection. But she is denying it. Still, I don't know what to believe.

About the licking and sucking, she says yes, that it has happened only once, around 2016, but there was no penetration sex involved. The guy was her gym coach, and she just had that moment of temptation. What should I believe here?

About the kissings and others, she says yes, she has kissed some two or three other men, but it wasn't tongue-to-tongue kissing. Just a random fling thing. What should I believe?

About the guy she introduced to me as her cousin in 2012 and I let him free in our house, which I later found chats that showed they were not cousins, she says she didn't do anything with him, just kissing twice and nothing more.

Now that makes it three major issues. Multiple sex with Two men in the past. Sucking and licking with one man, and kissing with about three or so. Then the continued erotic and sexual chats. But honestly, what should I believe.

In the last three days, I have been in a hotel fasting and praying for wisdom in this matter. She visits the hotel and we would talk and talk and talk and it would become tense, then she would go back to her office.

The truth is that my wife is a good girl, very hardworking in the home, and also very godly or you could say, loves God and prays. She knows how to take care of family, children, and inlaws.

She is insisting that all these are in the past, and would never continue into her future. That she is wiser now.

About the January 16th kissing in her office, she says she really has nothing to do with the man. She was just counseling the man about his sex life with his wife and in the end, it just happened, that it wasn't really a kiss, more or less like a peck, but done in the mouth.

She is begging me and saying I should let her fulfill the plan of God for her life with me. She says that I should look deep inside her, that I would know she's a good girl. She's always saying things like, "please save my soul. Only you can do that."

Although she's always very emotional. Even in her plea she would get annoyed and shout when I shout and express my anger. She does not know how to remain remorseful. She believes that the moment she apologizes that I should just understand her and welcome her back.

Now my challenge is this:

Is there a chance those are the only men she cheated with? Can she really have those chats without the physical fulfilment? Was she just bored all those years and because of my *low communicating skill*(according to her) she decided to have some fun? Is it possible she continued past those ones she confessed to after much forcing? Is she just naive or manipulative?

The truth is I love my wife and my family. And I know she does love me (so I think). I'm willing to let everything go and move on, but I am having all kinds of emotions, moving from sadness to grief, from anger to sorrow, to regrets, to vengeance. The different pictures of the chats, those men, and everything is just playing in my head and making me annoyed. How do I get healed in this?

I'm afraid, if I let her go, it will be very disastrous for her. No father, no mother, and unsupportive brothers.

Her not remaining remorseful is another challenge I have. She believes that I should just believe her and move on.

Please everyone, should I just believe everything she has told me, and stop at this juncture and move on, or I should do something she wouldn't forget? I really don't want her to be disgraced. Am I over dragging the whole thing. I am confused but praying.

I just need a heart-to-heart talk. If not that she hates third parties, I would have taken her for counseling again. But she insists we can trash our issues

Please, everyone, counsel me.

If I should insult you they will say I don come again with my trashy insults....you are so dumb that you can't see that your wife is "animashaun" pussysharer..... She will soon fvck your siblings then jump to your dad and very soon she will head for your pastor.....God, I don't pray for this kinda woman ooo..... you better do DNA for your kids and pls send her packing ooooo. This one no be wife she can't change at all....ah!! I dey feel your pain ooooo.....if na me I won't sleep with that woman again.....her body counts go don plenty like mad....

elmagnifico411:
Me I no sabi mince words oh.. going by this your story, bros, na ASHAWO u marry!!! You can’t change this woman unless Hod decides to step in . If u want to be happy, I mean, if your happiness is what matters to u, that woman needs to pack out before she phucks your siblings. She will nack anything she finds attractive and there’s no way u can help that. If u like take her to Oyedepo, she will nack him too.

Na ashawo u marry oooooooo. Abeg run!!! Before u get infected and regret the rest of your stay on earth. Shey u be mumu ni

That man na mumu abeg.....she will never stop oooo

NaijaDonCast:
Who else did not read this nonesense to the end? So until you see your wife giving a guy mouthAction before you agree with your feeble mind tha she has not stop and will continue to cheat on you, bros ur wife dey knack another mens, if your kids dont look like you, ask her whose their Daddy or go for paternity test whether u go even get luck sef make one of those kids be ur own

I can't can ooo..... it's a long epistle...

Mymynd4u:
That babe is a mami.. She will use u not the way u think..


Use her and dump her, ur life will be ruined without no remedy


Use her and don't dump her, ur life will still ruined but with little remdey

If you no use her not dump her, ur life will still be ruined by another one..

Don't come online and start shouting, can I still make 3rd class? Can I drop out and start afresh?


Ur choice. I'm watching ooooo

fidelmarshal199:

The only thing I learnt from the post is that u have been into gold digging since when u have been 15 which is 15years ago. Your gold digging rank must have gone up from the rank of novice to professional now. You suddenly find him attractive when u heard he was travelling out.