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I need a shop of 30k worth in ibadan. can someone help me out.

That's serious.

mamaprince:
yes I have 10weeks old and are ready now about 1000

I checked your picture mamaprince and i saw eggs. Do u sell eggs? if Yes whr is your location?

Please, patiently read all::
This is another example:::

Relationship Mistakes that cause problem (Hell) in MARRIAGE. BY J.T. OMOLE

QUOTE OF THIS ARTICLE: If truly you LOVE him/her you have to let him/her go, because it is easy to Hate but Love is more powerful.

This example doesn’t really look common, but it is. Let me tell you a short story of a very wealthy family.

Wow! When you see people talk about wealth and riches, this family are not exempted. They started happily and they enjoyed every bit of their relationship stage. They were not rich when they were in relationship though. But God made all riches for them in marriage.

They were happily married, but something began when they began to have children. The sorrow begins, they were frustrated, troubled, and they began to search for the joy they had when they were in the relationship before marriage but they could not find it. They have all what they could do with riches and wealth, but could not just get the right of the wrong they never knew they made. And in this aspect, it affects the women than the men. Sleeping at night became a problem and seeing the husband around her was always like bad luck to her. Something riches cannot help with and something wealth could not just turn the sad family back to the way they were. This got worse to the point that everyone in the neighborhood began to suspect if they had not done rituals in search for their wealth (you know this our African mentality). This has made people to question their God and their belief. You could be imagining what their problem could be, because most people still believe that money solves all problems regardless of the weight and effect.

Family and friend got sick and tired of them because they run around almost every day in search of drugs/pills. And ask me; “what do they use that for?” it is used to support the strength of their children. They had two children though, but that doesn’t reinstate their joyful beginning. All they acquired were spent on the survival of these children. I could remember a time; I heard both the husband and the wife travelled down to attend to their children’s issue because they could not put them into a public higher institution but a private one. The two children were down at the same time for about three months. The parents spent nothing less than 300,000 on them just to recover. Imagine how much they could have spent so far on them. This took away the joy of the family.

Now at the point: the cause of this kind of life and style is because they refused to admit their genotype because of love at their relationship stage. When you are in love with the opposite sex and you cannot get the right from wrong, believe me honestly, you were never in love but lust/infatuation. Because if truly you know that you are not compatible in this respect, it is of a greater love when you part your way with such a person. This could be difficult most especially when you realized very late, but it is better for you now than when you will suddenly discovered that you have hatred for your husband in marriage because of the condition of your children. If truly you love him/her you need to part your way with him, because it is easy to hate but Love is more powerful.

These are the reasons why some couples refused to part their ways in this respect during courtship:

(1) Because of their belief: your belief could help you out, but it of greater chances if you could reason properly and remove the veil of love on your face. Even the pastor that will tight the knot will not support the union if but parties are not compatible in this respect (i.e if both are AS). I believe in miracle too as you may think. And I am not discouraging your belief, but he who wants the honey from the rock will not consider the axe head.

(2) Because either of them lied to the other in the name of love: this is one of the points I talked about yesterday, why on earth will you hide your genotype from your partner in the name of love. I wonder if that is what love truly means. It is advisable to tell him/her immediately you discovered that you both are not compatible genetically. It makes issue saver and easier to handle.

(3) Because of their relationship length: this is really a big issue, ask me why: could you just imagine partners discovering that they were not compatible after 4 years of courtship and 2 months to wedding? Or couples who knew after introduction? Hmmn… amidst all; the earlier the better.

I heard a story of two medical doctors that work in the same hospital now and they both schooled in the same higher institution. Way back in their school days, they were in relationship for years with joy. They’ve been known by their friends that they were together. But things turned around when they discovered that they were both AS. It was painful though, but they just have to part their ways irrespective of their attention towards friends. And now, they work in the same hospital and they are happy seeing each other daily at work because they made the right choice. Both of them are happily married now to other persons.

If you’ve never considered checking your genotype compatibility, please do now because it is of greater advantage. Your compatibilty in this respect should not be left out.

Please, patiently read all:::
Relationship Mistakes that cause problem
(Hell) in MARRIAGE.
BY J.T. OMOLE
This is not my first article on relationship
issues but I chose to customize my
articles from now.
I want to share with you some things that
I’ve learnt, seen, and decoded from
relationships and marriages in recent
years.
For the rest of this year; I will be
releasing two articles daily. The first
article in the morning, while the other in
the evening.
QOUTE OF THIS ARTICLE: …because if
you cajole him to marry you, you cannot
cajole him to live with you happily in
marriage and If he cannot not stay to
cover you and your past in a relationship
he cannot stay to cover you, your secrets
and challenges in marriage.
Have you ever imagined why most
marriages are experiencing fire like hell is
been described and yet no one knows the
reason for that in such marriages?
Anyway, some marital problems are
visible to outsiders while most people
kept their problems within. But when you
move closer to them you will feel the
heat around them and yet they smile
when you meet with them outside.
I was getting involved in an issue of a
married couple about two months ago.
Believe me honestly, this couple got
married about two years ago and nothing
good has been said about the husband by
the households, neighbors and friends
because of the way he suddenly began to
treat his wife about two months after the
wedding.
This same man was a very spiritual
brother way back in school and was very
strong and convinced when he met this
fire brand lady. They were both spiritual
and religious. And now I was told the
man no longer allows his wife to attend
any church activities and doesn’t want to
see him with friends. To the extent that
they no longer visit their spiritual father
and pastor (Well, this is too far! As you’ve
just thought). When I got involved in this
matter, I discovered that people shifted
all blames on the man. And I said “FOR
WHAT?” (not supporting the man in
anyway either @ this point ) You don’t
just shift blames of marital problems on
any of the parties if you were yet to hear
the real cause of the problem from both
parties. And of which in this case, no one
knows the reason for their problem.
In my quiet mood I asked; Was she a
virgin before they got married? That
question sounded strange and serious to
those that were with me. And I asked; IF
NO! Did she inform her husband before
marriage? Or did she tell her husband the
truth when he asked her way back in their
relationship before marriage?
This question could be funny to you also,
but most homes that tend to look
interesting in their relationship stage and
later turned to something else in
marriage is as a result of hidden past or
not properly said and discussed before
marriage which by all means affect men
more than women.
And I also asked: were there any past and
experience you had either before or after
you met him and you denied telling him
the truth until in marriage or he heard
from outsiders?
Believe me honestly, the atmosphere
became quiet and moody. There is no
how you can experience Heaven on earth
in marriage without letting your partner
know your past and experience before
marriage. In fact, it is better to tell him
immediately he asked you, because you
not responding immediately would create
another notion.
Telling him/her when asked shows that
you are loyal to the relationship and you
can be trusted. All men tend to ask their
partners about their past and experience
in the relationship. This is not because he
wants to open your healed wound but
just to avoid being encapsulated by
psychological trauma when it is been
heard in marriage by you or from an
outsider. So let him know who you will
be in marriage as regards your past and
experience.
In my little experience in this aspect of
marital life with people, I discovered that
the basic cause of marital problem in
marriage is because of some things that
were hidden from one another before
marriage and got revealed in marriage. I
tell people that; no matter how worse
your past and experience could be, make
sure you tell your partner before
marriage. The results of issues like these
are not directly controllable in marriage,
most especially, from men to women.
Because men get easily captured and
encapsulated with psychological trauma if
heard that of his wife, either from his
wife or outsider in marriage. These are
issues that cannot be told to any family
member let alone neighbors. Ladies don’t
see fault in not telling their partners the
truth about their past and experience
before marriage because they consider
these following reasons
(1) He would not trust me any longer
(2) it means, I will expose myself and
open my shame to the man I am yet to
be married to
(3) if I told him, he could say he is no
longer interested in me
(4) I don’t want to lose him because of
my past and experience
(5) But we are now a new creature, old
things have passed away. He doesn’t
need to know because God has forgiven
me. It’s between me and God. And after
all, he received me and I received him
also.
If you are still using any of these manners
to hide those things you needed to share,
please back out now, because if you
cajole him to marry you, you cannot
cajole him to live with you happily in
marriage and If he cannot not stay to
cover you and your past in a relationship
he cannot stay to cover your secrets and
challenges in marriage. Tell him now, now
that he is committed and know if he
would stay or not. A REAL man forgives.
It takes two to TANGO. Thanks for
reading. Until evening that I will release
another example of relationship mistakes
that causes problem (hell) in marriages,
remain blessed.

Are you prepared to Join the Holy Ghost Congress today?

Many have always said that the Lord chose for them and some will end up not getting married. Do u believe in God choosing a life partner?

Ever wondered why women cheat so
easily? You may know a few reasons
behind why women cheat.
Women cheat to fill the emotional void
that’s empty after a man neglects her, or
perhaps the séxual preferences in the
marriage are just too different. But
experience has shown that women cheat
for completely different reasons.
Looking for real life reasons behind why
women cheat? Well, these 25 truthful
reasons will reveal the real truth.
1. Women get too close to others, too
fast. Women build strong emotional
connections really fast. It’s easy for them
to get close to a guy and confuse the
bond with love.
2. They love any man who can give
them emotional support. It’s true.
Want to steal a girlfriend, just give her a
shoulder to lean on. She’ll give you her
bed to sleep on.
3. Women favor the gene pool. They
instinctively want to favor the gene pool
and play their part for Mother Nature by
constantly picking other dating and mating
potentials.
4. Women fall in love fast. They fall in
love too fast with just about anyone who
shows affection. They try playing hard to
get, but almost always end up becoming
really easy to get for potential girlfriend
stealers.
5. Women are progressive. They like
sprucing men up and working on little
man projects now and then. And just
when you think you’ve been perfected by
your girlfriend, she’ll find another man to
perfect.
6. Women love drama and gossip in
their lives. It’s the truth. Women get
bored extremely easily and need constant
attention and drama in their lives. Once
the man settles down in love, the woman
starts unsettling.
7. They’re confused about their
feelings almost all the time. A girl may
love her man generally, but her mood
swings ebb and flow like the tides of the
sea. She likes her man sometimes, and
she bitches about him at other times. Add
another man into the equation and it’s a
teen sitcom.
8. Women are suckers for affection
and compliments. Women fall for
compliments and flirty touches really
easily. When another guy flirts with your
girl, she may think she’s just having fun.
But in reality, she’d be falling for him
even if he’s just having fun.
9. It’s ridiculously easy to make a girl
doubt her own boyfriend . All another
guy has to do is point a few flaws, talk
sweet, touch her in a few places, and
she’ll start to think her boyfriend ’s a loser
and the new guy is a séx god who’s in
love with her.
1.0 Women say they don’t want to
stray. But yet all they think about is
straying. Every time a guy flirts with a girl,
she temporarily forgets she has a
boyfriend already!
11. Women close their eyes while
kissing another guy. Yeah, just shut
your damn eyes and say it all happened
so fast! Women get physical and then say
it was a mistake. Men, on the other hand
try covering it up by saying it didn’t
happen. Women want pity, men forgive
them. Men get caught, become a
punching bag.
12. Women always think they’re in a
relationship crisis. When a woman’s
life’s not crackling with romantic and
séxual electricity, they always think their
relationship sucks. Women say they don’t
like vibrating, entertaining séx toys and
dildos, but yet they want men to behave
like one.
13. Women think they’re too good.
Almost all women think they’re too good
for their boyfriend. With that kind of logic,
it’s easy to stray when a “better guy”
comes along to play.
14. Women cheat for the dumbest
reasons. Men cheat because they find
someone séxy. Women cheat for the
dumbest of reasons, to prove a point, to
get back at her man, to let him know
she’s not getting enough attention, to get
something they really want and more
dumb reasons.
15. Women have cravings. That is,
chocolates and unavailable traits in men.
If her man’s not very clean and tidy, and
she meets a coworker who’s a
perfectionist when it comes to being
clean and tidy, she’ll involuntarily be
drawn to that trait. So if a guy wants to
lay a girl, all he has to do is show off a
trait her boyfriend doesn’t have and she’ll
diveboard into his bed.
16. Women get attracted to any man
who makes her feel good. Men usually
have affairs only with women who are
séxually attractive. So unless the guy is
rich or super charming, his odds are slim
to have an affair with the girl of his
dreams. But women cheat with any loser
who knows to treat her better than her
boyfriend.
17. She’s a gold digger. There’s no point
here. If you’re dating a woman who’s
more interested in your money and the
fun times you give her than she is in you,
you can’t hold on to her unless you strike
oil.
18. Women cheat when they’re
emotionally vulnerable. Men need
booze and a séxy girl to cheat. Women
just need to feel vulnerable. They’d feel
vulnerable for the smallest of reasons and
circumstances. And if another guy makes
a move at the right time, he’ll be able to
sleep with her that very night.
19. Committed women love getting the
attention of other men. And when they
don’t get the attention from a guy they
like, they try harder to get a second
glance. Why do you think girls go weak
for bad boys who treat them like crap?
20. Women don’t learn from their
mistakes. Women make moves and
mistakes, and they regret it. But they
don’t learn. They know when they’re
crossing the thin red line with another
guy, but they just don’t try to put a stop
to the guy because “they like the
attention”.
21. Women cheat when they’re
unhappy in bed. Do you have a small
weeny? Or are you suffering from
impotency or erectile dysfunction? That’s
reason enough to cheat on you, don’t you
think?
22. Her man’s charm is wearing off. If
a woman isn’t séxually attracted to her
man anymore, she’ll definitely dive head
first into any other séxually attractive
man’s pants.
23. Women are stereotyped. Most men
look at women as cute, walking talking
séx toys. Hey, women can only resist
temptation so much. If a woman’s
constantly being hit on by a million guys
everywhere she goes, it’s only a matter of
time before she succumbs to temptation,
wouldn’t you say?
24. Once bitten, never shy. A woman
may cheat and get over it after a
heartbreaking while. But a few months
later, the drama starts all over again.
Women just like the constant rush of
falling in and out of love all the time.
25. Do women really ever want to be
happy? Really, a woman could be in a
perfect long term relationship with a
perfect guy. But all she has to do is meet
another great guy who knows how to
steal a girl and she’ll do his bidding in no
time. Perhaps, women think they like
being happy when in reality, all they want
is to experience bursts of happiness and
lots of confusions all the time.

these are the pictures of the calendar

Spencer63: seriously?

Yes.
I was in the room this morning and a
porter came in and said; "Because the
school will be resuming on sunday, so the
cleaners are here to clean the rooms. Do
you want your room to be cleaned?"
I said Yes. And the woman came in to
clean the room.
What we are waiting for now is for the
school to put on the light in the hostels.

HIGHLIGHTS OF PROPOSED AMENDMENT
TO THE APPROVED ACADEMIC CALENDAR
FOR RAIN SEMESTER, 2012/2013 SESSION

Rain Semester, 2012/2013 Academic
Session
*December 5, 2013 - Online Registration
for Courses for Rain Semester Commences
*December 8, 2013 - All Students Come
Into Residence for Rain Semester
*December 9, 2013 - Rain Semester
2012/2013 Academic Session Lectures
Begin
*December 17, 2013 - Faculty/Students'
Colloquium
*December 27, 2013 - End of Normal
Registration for Courses
*December 24-January 18, 2013 - Break
(Students to Vacate Halls of Residence)
*January 7, 2014 - SPECIAL SENATE
*January 8-January 18, 2014 - NUGA
Games
*January 27, 2014 - End of Late
Registration with Penalty
*January 28, 2014 - Students Come into
Residence
*February 3-February 6, 2014 - Continuous
Assessment
*January 29, 2014 - SENATE
*March 3, 2014 - Rain Semester Lectures
End
*March 7-March 14, 2014 - Lecture Free/
Revision Week
*March 17, 2014 - Rain Semester
Examinations Begin
*March 26, 2014 - SENATE
*April 7, 2014 - Rain Semester
Examinations End
*April 7, 2014 - End of 2012/2013
Academic Session

Authorities of Obafemi Awolowo
Unibversity, Ile-Ife has directed its
students to resume on Sunday.This was
contained in a statement by the Public
Relations Officer of
OAU, Mr. Biodun Olarewaju on
Wednesday.
He noted that lectures would commence
immediately after the resumption.
Students of the university narrowly
escaped not completing their Harmattan
Semester exams when the strike began in
July. It was gathered that the university
was lagging a semester compared to
other federal universities in the country.
The statement read, “The authorities of
the Obafemi Awolowo University, Ile-Ife,
have announced Sunday, 8th December,
2013 as the resumption date for the
2012/ 2013 rain semester.
“Accordingly, students of the university
are expected to come into residence on
the above date as lectures will commence
immediately.”
http://www.dailytimes.com.ng/article/ASUU-stronghold-oau-resumes-sunday#

Someone asked, Can a sister sleep in the
brother's house who is about to get
married to, since they will soon marry very
soon? And i think my reply will bless
you....
They can sleep, if purity is not their
priority...
They can sleep, if an undefiled bed in not
an issue....
They can sleep, if "we go soon marry"
equates "we are already married"....
They can sleep, if they are not concerned
about the example they set for others....
They can sleep, if the honour of the church
they represent does not matter.....
They can sleep, if fornication takes you to
heaven.....
They can sleep, if they are so sure that
"nothing will happen, I am spiritual, and
there is no blood in my veins...."
They can sleep, after all, they can confess
afterward, irrespective of the
consequences.....
They can sleep, after all, everyone is doing
it and majority carries the vote.....
They can sleep, after all, conscience has
gone on vacation and they are already
sleeping together without even moving
into his house....
They can sleep, after all, not everybody's
name should be in the book of life.....
They can sleep, after all, they may already
be having sex without her staying in his
house.....
They can sleep, after all, who will know,
even God will close his eyes...

onyxo76: rehoboth parish osun province2 region 3, yesterday was the end of the family weekend which started since thursday. Everything went well all glory to Almighty God, we are expecting mummy GO sometime 1st week in december..

wow, i attend the same church. wonderful service.

dammy1985: It was glorious at ondo province 2 in ondo township

which Parish do u attend in ondo?

Family weekend too.
Region 3 Osun province II
It was a wonderful service.